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It takes just a quick glance maybe 3 seconds for someone to evaluate you when you meet for the first time. What catches your attention in those 3 seconds?
And secondly, your profile picture is the first thing anyone sees, and the impression you make on others, whether conscious or unconscious, start with it. What are you portraying to others with your pictures? |
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It takes just a quick glance maybe 3 seconds for someone to evaluate you when you meet for the first time. What catches your attention in those 3 seconds?
And secondly, your profile picture is the first thing anyone sees, and the impression you make on others, whether conscious or unconscious, start with it. What are you portraying to others with your pictures?"
Their shoes, says a lot about a person. Their eyes and their appearance( neat and clean). That's what I always look at.
As for me ... I don't know if my profile pic gives a true impression of me but I hope it shows that I'm a curvy woman and I'm sensual. |
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It takes just a quick glance maybe 3 seconds for someone to evaluate you when you meet for the first time. What catches your attention in those 3 seconds?
And secondly, your profile picture is the first thing anyone sees, and the impression you make on others, whether conscious or unconscious, start with it. What are you portraying to others with your pictures?
Their shoes, says a lot about a person. Their eyes and their appearance( neat and clean). That's what I always look at.
As for me ... I don't know if my profile pic gives a true impression of me but I hope it shows that I'm a curvy woman and I'm sensual."
 shoes and eyes here too funnily enough |
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It takes just a quick glance maybe 3 seconds for someone to evaluate you when you meet for the first time. What catches your attention in those 3 seconds?
And secondly, your profile picture is the first thing anyone sees, and the impression you make on others, whether conscious or unconscious, start with it. What are you portraying to others with your pictures?
Their shoes, says a lot about a person. Their eyes and their appearance( neat and clean). That's what I always look at.
As for me ... I don't know if my profile pic gives a true impression of me but I hope it shows that I'm a curvy woman and I'm sensual.
shoes and eyes here too funnily enough"
Says a huge amount about a person |
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It takes just a quick glance maybe 3 seconds for someone to evaluate you when you meet for the first time. What catches your attention in those 3 seconds?
And secondly, your profile picture is the first thing anyone sees, and the impression you make on others, whether conscious or unconscious, start with it. What are you portraying to others with your pictures?
Their shoes, says a lot about a person. Their eyes and their appearance( neat and clean). That's what I always look at.
As for me ... I don't know if my profile pic gives a true impression of me but I hope it shows that I'm a curvy woman and I'm sensual.
shoes and eyes here too funnily enough
Says a huge amount about a person "
What does it say? |
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It takes just a quick glance maybe 3 seconds for someone to evaluate you when you meet for the first time. What catches your attention in those 3 seconds?
And secondly, your profile picture is the first thing anyone sees, and the impression you make on others, whether conscious or unconscious, start with it. What are you portraying to others with your pictures?
Their shoes, says a lot about a person. Their eyes and their appearance( neat and clean). That's what I always look at.
As for me ... I don't know if my profile pic gives a true impression of me but I hope it shows that I'm a curvy woman and I'm sensual.
shoes and eyes here too funnily enough
Says a huge amount about a person
What does it say? "
That they wear shoes and actually HAVE eyes?? Unless they wear sandals ...... and if coupled with white socks then regardless of what they look like - RUN!!! |
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It takes just a quick glance maybe 3 seconds for someone to evaluate you when you meet for the first time. What catches your attention in those 3 seconds?
And secondly, your profile picture is the first thing anyone sees, and the impression you make on others, whether conscious or unconscious, start with it. What are you portraying to others with your pictures?
Their shoes, says a lot about a person. Their eyes and their appearance( neat and clean). That's what I always look at.
As for me ... I don't know if my profile pic gives a true impression of me but I hope it shows that I'm a curvy woman and I'm sensual.
shoes and eyes here too funnily enough
Says a huge amount about a person
What does it say? "
Good shoes that are clean and decent looking show someone that takes pride in themselves. If you arrive to a date/ meet in runners or tatty shoes it's not attractive.
Eyes BGF well eyes tell it all really. Someone that laughs and smiles alot they're eyes will show it, someone with no joy you'll see it in their eyes too  |
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It takes just a quick glance maybe 3 seconds for someone to evaluate you when you meet for the first time. What catches your attention in those 3 seconds?
And secondly, your profile picture is the first thing anyone sees, and the impression you make on others, whether conscious or unconscious, start with it. What are you portraying to others with your pictures?
Their shoes, says a lot about a person. Their eyes and their appearance( neat and clean). That's what I always look at.
As for me ... I don't know if my profile pic gives a true impression of me but I hope it shows that I'm a curvy woman and I'm sensual.
shoes and eyes here too funnily enough
Says a huge amount about a person
What does it say?
That they wear shoes and actually HAVE eyes?? Unless they wear sandals ...... and if coupled with white socks then regardless of what they look like - RUN!!! "
Oh god ... that made me sick  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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It takes just a quick glance maybe 3 seconds for someone to evaluate you when you meet for the first time. What catches your attention in those 3 seconds?
And secondly, your profile picture is the first thing anyone sees, and the impression you make on others, whether conscious or unconscious, start with it. What are you portraying to others with your pictures?
Their shoes, says a lot about a person. Their eyes and their appearance( neat and clean). That's what I always look at.
As for me ... I don't know if my profile pic gives a true impression of me but I hope it shows that I'm a curvy woman and I'm sensual.
shoes and eyes here too funnily enough
Says a huge amount about a person
What does it say?
That they wear shoes and actually HAVE eyes?? Unless they wear sandals ...... and if coupled with white socks then regardless of what they look like - RUN!!! "
Im just waiting for someone to say cock, im not taking pictures of me fucking shoes |
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It takes just a quick glance maybe 3 seconds for someone to evaluate you when you meet for the first time. What catches your attention in those 3 seconds?
And secondly, your profile picture is the first thing anyone sees, and the impression you make on others, whether conscious or unconscious, start with it. What are you portraying to others with your pictures?
Their shoes, says a lot about a person. Their eyes and their appearance( neat and clean). That's what I always look at.
As for me ... I don't know if my profile pic gives a true impression of me but I hope it shows that I'm a curvy woman and I'm sensual.
shoes and eyes here too funnily enough
Says a huge amount about a person
What does it say? "
Never trust a person who won't make eye contact with you
I'm equally suspicious of someone who doesn't look after their footwear...odd, I know, but now I know I'm not the only one  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It takes just a quick glance maybe 3 seconds for someone to evaluate you when you meet for the first time. What catches your attention in those 3 seconds?
And secondly, your profile picture is the first thing anyone sees, and the impression you make on others, whether conscious or unconscious, start with it. What are you portraying to others with your pictures?
Their shoes, says a lot about a person. Their eyes and their appearance( neat and clean). That's what I always look at.
As for me ... I don't know if my profile pic gives a true impression of me but I hope it shows that I'm a curvy woman and I'm sensual.
shoes and eyes here too funnily enough
Says a huge amount about a person
What does it say?
That they wear shoes and actually HAVE eyes?? Unless they wear sandals ...... and if coupled with white socks then regardless of what they look like - RUN!!!
Im just waiting for someone to say cock, im not taking pictures of me fucking shoes "
I just want to clarify ..... that was white SOCKS thst I said ..... not COCKS!!! |
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I've never cared about people's shoes. If people's shoes are too clean or their runners are I just imagine they move very little on their feet. Eyes and face it is for me. You can tell most peoples lifestyles from their face. You can see if they're friendly, grumpy, healthy, drink too much etc...to me shoes mean very little. Could just mean someone has loads of money or little money |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It takes just a quick glance maybe 3 seconds for someone to evaluate you when you meet for the first time. What catches your attention in those 3 seconds?
And secondly, your profile picture is the first thing anyone sees, and the impression you make on others, whether conscious or unconscious, start with it. What are you portraying to others with your pictures?
Their shoes, says a lot about a person. Their eyes and their appearance( neat and clean). That's what I always look at.
As for me ... I don't know if my profile pic gives a true impression of me but I hope it shows that I'm a curvy woman and I'm sensual.
shoes and eyes here too funnily enough
Says a huge amount about a person
What does it say?
Good shoes that are clean and decent looking show someone that takes pride in themselves. If you arrive to a date/ meet in runners or tatty shoes it's not attractive.
Eyes BGF well eyes tell it all really. Someone that laughs and smiles alot they're eyes will show it, someone with no joy you'll see it in their eyes too "
You put it better sal  |
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"I agree Sean, a smile tells me alot and also how a person dresses....neat and clean "
Absolutely someone who cares how they dress and a pleasant grin nothing worse then someone with a sour face lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It takes just a quick glance maybe 3 seconds for someone to evaluate you when you meet for the first time. What catches your attention in those 3 seconds?
And secondly, your profile picture is the first thing anyone sees, and the impression you make on others, whether conscious or unconscious, start with it. What are you portraying to others with your pictures?
Their shoes, says a lot about a person. Their eyes and their appearance( neat and clean). That's what I always look at.
As for me ... I don't know if my profile pic gives a true impression of me but I hope it shows that I'm a curvy woman and I'm sensual.
shoes and eyes here too funnily enough
Says a huge amount about a person
What does it say?
Never trust a person who won't make eye contact with you
I'm equally suspicious of someone who doesn't look after their footwear...odd, I know, but now I know I'm not the only one "
Heya Geordie - so if someone showed up wearing a decent pair of runners .... just scuffed the right amount? (Bought a nice pair of k-swiss recently and cons too that needed to be scuffed up a bit) |
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"I've never cared about people's shoes. If people's shoes are too clean or their runners are I just imagine they move very little on their feet. Eyes and face it is for me. You can tell most peoples lifestyles from their face. You can see if they're friendly, grumpy, healthy, drink too much etc...to me shoes mean very little. Could just mean someone has loads of money or little money "
It's not about money it's about first impressions. .. did he cate enough about himself to look his best for me. If a man arrives and looks sloppy he must not think to much of me so therefore I'm not interested |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It takes just a quick glance maybe 3 seconds for someone to evaluate you when you meet for the first time. What catches your attention in those 3 seconds?
And secondly, your profile picture is the first thing anyone sees, and the impression you make on others, whether conscious or unconscious, start with it. What are you portraying to others with your pictures?
Their shoes, says a lot about a person. Their eyes and their appearance( neat and clean). That's what I always look at.
As for me ... I don't know if my profile pic gives a true impression of me but I hope it shows that I'm a curvy woman and I'm sensual.
shoes and eyes here too funnily enough
Says a huge amount about a person
What does it say?
Good shoes that are clean and decent looking show someone that takes pride in themselves. If you arrive to a date/ meet in runners or tatty shoes it's not attractive.
Eyes BGF well eyes tell it all really. Someone that laughs and smiles alot they're eyes will show it, someone with no joy you'll see it in their eyes too
You put it better sal "
Disagree runners can suit a lot of outfits! Clean fashionable runners I have no issue with not Just an old pair now lol |
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"I've never cared about people's shoes. If people's shoes are too clean or their runners are I just imagine they move very little on their feet. Eyes and face it is for me. You can tell most peoples lifestyles from their face. You can see if they're friendly, grumpy, healthy, drink too much etc...to me shoes mean very little. Could just mean someone has loads of money or little money
It's not about money it's about first impressions. .. did he cate enough about himself to look his best for me. If a man arrives and looks sloppy he must not think to much of me so therefore I'm not interested "
I'm talking in general, like not a date. Like I'm talking if I see a male or female for the first time outside the fab world I wouldn't look at their shoes unless they were a funky colour or falling to pieces. Date wise I don't think many people would show up scruffy, I could be wrong but haven't experienced it. |
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"I've never cared about people's shoes. If people's shoes are too clean or their runners are I just imagine they move very little on their feet. Eyes and face it is for me. You can tell most peoples lifestyles from their face. You can see if they're friendly, grumpy, healthy, drink too much etc...to me shoes mean very little. Could just mean someone has loads of money or little money
It's not about money it's about first impressions. .. did he cate enough about himself to look his best for me. If a man arrives and looks sloppy he must not think to much of me so therefore I'm not interested "
I wouldn't go to look my best - that woyld mean suited and booted and reserve the right to wear those generally at weddings, funerals, interviews and VERY special occasions. But I would look neat and presentable - clean, freshly showered with smellies etc., etc. |
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"I've never cared about people's shoes. If people's shoes are too clean or their runners are I just imagine they move very little on their feet. Eyes and face it is for me. You can tell most peoples lifestyles from their face. You can see if they're friendly, grumpy, healthy, drink too much etc...to me shoes mean very little. Could just mean someone has loads of money or little money
It's not about money it's about first impressions. .. did he cate enough about himself to look his best for me. If a man arrives and looks sloppy he must not think to much of me so therefore I'm not interested
I wouldn't go to look my best - that woyld mean suited and booted and reserve the right to wear those generally at weddings, funerals, interviews and VERY special occasions. But I would look neat and presentable - clean, freshly showered with smellies etc., etc. "
I don't expect suits but I do expect effort .. the same level of effort I put in. I'd never arrive to meet anyone scruffy. I'd always be neat clean and presentable and wearing lovely shoes |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It takes just a quick glance maybe 3 seconds for someone to evaluate you when you meet for the first time. What catches your attention in those 3 seconds?
And secondly, your profile picture is the first thing anyone sees, and the impression you make on others, whether conscious or unconscious, start with it. What are you portraying to others with your pictures?
Their shoes, says a lot about a person. Their eyes and their appearance( neat and clean). That's what I always look at.
As for me ... I don't know if my profile pic gives a true impression of me but I hope it shows that I'm a curvy woman and I'm sensual.
shoes and eyes here too funnily enough"
Second that |
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"I've never cared about people's shoes. If people's shoes are too clean or their runners are I just imagine they move very little on their feet. Eyes and face it is for me. You can tell most peoples lifestyles from their face. You can see if they're friendly, grumpy, healthy, drink too much etc...to me shoes mean very little. Could just mean someone has loads of money or little money
It's not about money it's about first impressions. .. did he cate enough about himself to look his best for me. If a man arrives and looks sloppy he must not think to much of me so therefore I'm not interested
I'm talking in general, like not a date. Like I'm talking if I see a male or female for the first time outside the fab world I wouldn't look at their shoes unless they were a funky colour or falling to pieces. Date wise I don't think many people would show up scruffy, I could be wrong but haven't experienced it. "
Mmm you'd be surprised what people define as acceptable. I genuinely always gravitate to people's feet and what's on them in everyday life as well |
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It takes just a quick glance maybe 3 seconds for someone to evaluate you when you meet for the first time. What catches your attention in those 3 seconds?
And secondly, your profile picture is the first thing anyone sees, and the impression you make on others, whether conscious or unconscious, start with it. What are you portraying to others with your pictures?
Their shoes, says a lot about a person. Their eyes and their appearance( neat and clean). That's what I always look at.
As for me ... I don't know if my profile pic gives a true impression of me but I hope it shows that I'm a curvy woman and I'm sensual.
shoes and eyes here too funnily enough
Says a huge amount about a person
What does it say?
Good shoes that are clean and decent looking show someone that takes pride in themselves. If you arrive to a date/ meet in runners or tatty shoes it's not attractive.
Eyes BGF well eyes tell it all really. Someone that laughs and smiles alot they're eyes will show it, someone with no joy you'll see it in their eyes too
You put it better sal
Disagree runners can suit a lot of outfits! Clean fashionable runners I have no issue with not Just an old pair now lol"
Nope no to runners except for working out |
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Has to be eyes and smiles for that first few seconds when I meet someone for the first time.
My profile pics capture a moment in time. Everyone will see something different. But all I can portray is simply me, when I am having fun or just being me. What you see is what you get
lilred |
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"I've never cared about people's shoes. If people's shoes are too clean or their runners are I just imagine they move very little on their feet. Eyes and face it is for me. You can tell most peoples lifestyles from their face. You can see if they're friendly, grumpy, healthy, drink too much etc...to me shoes mean very little. Could just mean someone has loads of money or little money
It's not about money it's about first impressions. .. did he cate enough about himself to look his best for me. If a man arrives and looks sloppy he must not think to much of me so therefore I'm not interested
I wouldn't go to look my best - that woyld mean suited and booted and reserve the right to wear those generally at weddings, funerals, interviews and VERY special occasions. But I would look neat and presentable - clean, freshly showered with smellies etc., etc.
I don't expect suits but I do expect effort .. the same level of effort I put in. I'd never arrive to meet anyone scruffy. I'd always be neat clean and presentable and wearing lovely shoes "
Yeah I just don't get this thing that people seem to almost get hung up on re shoes....... For me - when meeting someone for the first time it is about eye contact. How they hold themself - looking past any obvious nervousness to the person underneath. They should be clean and have taken pride about their PERSONAL appearance but I can honestly say that I have never looked at a person's clothes (footwear included) and made a judgement based on that. |
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"I've never cared about people's shoes. If people's shoes are too clean or their runners are I just imagine they move very little on their feet. Eyes and face it is for me. You can tell most peoples lifestyles from their face. You can see if they're friendly, grumpy, healthy, drink too much etc...to me shoes mean very little. Could just mean someone has loads of money or little money
It's not about money it's about first impressions. .. did he cate enough about himself to look his best for me. If a man arrives and looks sloppy he must not think to much of me so therefore I'm not interested
I'm talking in general, like not a date. Like I'm talking if I see a male or female for the first time outside the fab world I wouldn't look at their shoes unless they were a funky colour or falling to pieces. Date wise I don't think many people would show up scruffy, I could be wrong but haven't experienced it.
Mmm you'd be surprised what people define as acceptable. I genuinely always gravitate to people's feet and what's on them in everyday life as well "
I don't, I know scumbags that have the best of everything including shoes and I know young teachers with maths degrees that wear jeans, runners and hoodies daily and even on a date with me haha. I feel I can tell more from a face and eyes than clothes. Always felt like I can tell a dodgy character in seconds and a nice person in seconds from their face |
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"Has to be eyes and smiles for that first few seconds when I meet someone for the first time.
My profile pics capture a moment in time. Everyone will see something different. But all I can portray is simply me, when I am having fun or just being me. What you see is what you get
lilred "
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I was stopped at a traffic lights this morning. A smartly dressed fella was waiting to cross the road. I couldn't believe my eyes! He was in his bare feet! It was about -2 degrees at the time. He strolled off with confidence and I'd say nobody noticed 
Sorry that hasn't much to do with this thread but I just remembered it |
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"I've never cared about people's shoes. If people's shoes are too clean or their runners are I just imagine they move very little on their feet. Eyes and face it is for me. You can tell most peoples lifestyles from their face. You can see if they're friendly, grumpy, healthy, drink too much etc...to me shoes mean very little. Could just mean someone has loads of money or little money
It's not about money it's about first impressions. .. did he cate enough about himself to look his best for me. If a man arrives and looks sloppy he must not think to much of me so therefore I'm not interested
I wouldn't go to look my best - that woyld mean suited and booted and reserve the right to wear those generally at weddings, funerals, interviews and VERY special occasions. But I would look neat and presentable - clean, freshly showered with smellies etc., etc.
I don't expect suits but I do expect effort .. the same level of effort I put in. I'd never arrive to meet anyone scruffy. I'd always be neat clean and presentable and wearing lovely shoes
Yeah I just don't get this thing that people seem to almost get hung up on re shoes....... For me - when meeting someone for the first time it is about eye contact. How they hold themself - looking past any obvious nervousness to the person underneath. They should be clean and have taken pride about their PERSONAL appearance but I can honestly say that I have never looked at a person's clothes (footwear included) and made a judgement based on that."
It's all entwined your saying the same as me. Whether it be smiles or eyes or shoes you make a judgement on someone very soon after meeting them ..if that judgment is favorable then it's about the person underneath but first impressions count and are important and are individual. |
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"I was stopped at a traffic lights this morning. A smartly dressed fella was waiting to cross the road. I couldn't believe my eyes! He was in his bare feet! It was about -2 degrees at the time. He strolled off with confidence and I'd say nobody noticed
Sorry that hasn't much to do with this thread but I just remembered it "
See - you were checking out his shoes too... except he wasn't wearing any |
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"I was stopped at a traffic lights this morning. A smartly dressed fella was waiting to cross the road. I couldn't believe my eyes! He was in his bare feet! It was about -2 degrees at the time. He strolled off with confidence and I'd say nobody noticed
Sorry that hasn't much to do with this thread but I just remembered it
See - you were checking out his shoes too... except he wasn't wearing any "
This can't be true ... blue toes  |
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"I've never cared about people's shoes. If people's shoes are too clean or their runners are I just imagine they move very little on their feet. Eyes and face it is for me. You can tell most peoples lifestyles from their face. You can see if they're friendly, grumpy, healthy, drink too much etc...to me shoes mean very little. Could just mean someone has loads of money or little money
It's not about money it's about first impressions. .. did he cate enough about himself to look his best for me. If a man arrives and looks sloppy he must not think to much of me so therefore I'm not interested
I wouldn't go to look my best - that woyld mean suited and booted and reserve the right to wear those generally at weddings, funerals, interviews and VERY special occasions. But I would look neat and presentable - clean, freshly showered with smellies etc., etc.
I don't expect suits but I do expect effort .. the same level of effort I put in. I'd never arrive to meet anyone scruffy. I'd always be neat clean and presentable and wearing lovely shoes
Yeah I just don't get this thing that people seem to almost get hung up on re shoes....... For me - when meeting someone for the first time it is about eye contact. How they hold themself - looking past any obvious nervousness to the person underneath. They should be clean and have taken pride about their PERSONAL appearance but I can honestly say that I have never looked at a person's clothes (footwear included) and made a judgement based on that."
I totally agree with you on this. Good direct eye contact, a cheeky glint in the eye and a proper firm handshake are far more important to me than what someone is wearing. I don't tend to think people are dressing for me anyway, I don't usually dress for other people. I don't put much stock in what I wear as long as it's comfortable and clean, and I feel ok in it, and I sure as hell don't judge people based on things I don't judge myself on. |
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"I've never cared about people's shoes. If people's shoes are too clean or their runners are I just imagine they move very little on their feet. Eyes and face it is for me. You can tell most peoples lifestyles from their face. You can see if they're friendly, grumpy, healthy, drink too much etc...to me shoes mean very little. Could just mean someone has loads of money or little money
It's not about money it's about first impressions. .. did he cate enough about himself to look his best for me. If a man arrives and looks sloppy he must not think to much of me so therefore I'm not interested
I wouldn't go to look my best - that woyld mean suited and booted and reserve the right to wear those generally at weddings, funerals, interviews and VERY special occasions. But I would look neat and presentable - clean, freshly showered with smellies etc., etc.
I don't expect suits but I do expect effort .. the same level of effort I put in. I'd never arrive to meet anyone scruffy. I'd always be neat clean and presentable and wearing lovely shoes
Yeah I just don't get this thing that people seem to almost get hung up on re shoes....... For me - when meeting someone for the first time it is about eye contact. How they hold themself - looking past any obvious nervousness to the person underneath. They should be clean and have taken pride about their PERSONAL appearance but I can honestly say that I have never looked at a person's clothes (footwear included) and made a judgement based on that.
I totally agree with you on this. Good direct eye contact, a cheeky glint in the eye and a proper firm handshake are far more important to me than what someone is wearing. I don't tend to think people are dressing for me anyway, I don't usually dress for other people. I don't put much stock in what I wear as long as it's comfortable and clean, and I feel ok in it, and I sure as hell don't judge people based on things I don't judge myself on. "
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See - you were checking out his shoes too... except he wasn't wearing any
This can't be true ... blue toes "
I suppose you are right I was checking his shoes
I even took a picture because nobody would believe me. The footpath was even frozen |
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See - you were checking out his shoes too... except he wasn't wearing any
This can't be true ... blue toes
I suppose you are right I was checking his shoes
I even took a picture because nobody would believe me. The footpath was even frozen"
Now I want to know the story behind it |
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All depending on the situation. First impressions of a a non sexual meeting for business etc, it's the handshake and how that person holds themselves in conversation eye contact isn't important but body language is.
A potential sexual partner, eye contact and body language is key. Also how a person speaks about friends or family can tell a lot of that person.
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See - you were checking out his shoes too... except he wasn't wearing any
This can't be true ... blue toes
I suppose you are right I was checking his shoes
I even took a picture because nobody would believe me. The footpath was even frozen"
Oh wow ... poor guy. Everyone should have shoes |
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See - you were checking out his shoes too... except he wasn't wearing any
This can't be true ... blue toes
I suppose you are right I was checking his shoes
I even took a picture because nobody would believe me. The footpath was even frozen
Oh wow ... poor guy. Everyone should have shoes "
He didn't strike me as not being able to afford shoes at all. I think he was just a bit mad. |
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It takes just a quick glance maybe 3 seconds for someone to evaluate you when you meet for the first time. What catches your attention in those 3 seconds?
And secondly, your profile picture is the first thing anyone sees, and the impression you make on others, whether conscious or unconscious, start with it. What are you portraying to others with your pictures?
Their shoes, says a lot about a person. Their eyes and their appearance( neat and clean). That's what I always look at.
As for me ... I don't know if my profile pic gives a true impression of me but I hope it shows that I'm a curvy woman and I'm sensual."
That was a very honest appraisal Sally |
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See - you were checking out his shoes too... except he wasn't wearing any
This can't be true ... blue toes
I suppose you are right I was checking his shoes
I even took a picture because nobody would believe me. The footpath was even frozen
Oh wow ... poor guy. Everyone should have shoes
He didn't strike me as not being able to afford shoes at all. I think he was just a bit mad. "
Poor guy though .. he'll end up in pain and ill |
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It takes just a quick glance maybe 3 seconds for someone to evaluate you when you meet for the first time. What catches your attention in those 3 seconds?
And secondly, your profile picture is the first thing anyone sees, and the impression you make on others, whether conscious or unconscious, start with it. What are you portraying to others with your pictures?
Their shoes, says a lot about a person. Their eyes and their appearance( neat and clean). That's what I always look at.
As for me ... I don't know if my profile pic gives a true impression of me but I hope it shows that I'm a curvy woman and I'm sensual.
That was a very honest appraisal Sally "
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It takes just a quick glance maybe 3 seconds for someone to evaluate you when you meet for the first time. What catches your attention in those 3 seconds?
And secondly, your profile picture is the first thing anyone sees, and the impression you make on others, whether conscious or unconscious, start with it. What are you portraying to others with your pictures?"
Def Their smile - teeth
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"Has to be eyes and smiles for that first few seconds when I meet someone for the first time.
My profile pics capture a moment in time. Everyone will see something different. But all I can portray is simply me, when I am having fun or just being me. What you see is what you get
lilred "
Some lovely pictures, the majority are ass pics, was that deliberate? |
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"Has to be eyes and smiles for that first few seconds when I meet someone for the first time.
My profile pics capture a moment in time. Everyone will see something different. But all I can portray is simply me, when I am having fun or just being me. What you see is what you get
lilred
Some lovely pictures, the majority are ass pics, was that deliberate?"
Thank you for the compliment. Just checked and exactly half are ass pics so my front and backside are all represented for completeness |
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"I've never cared about people's shoes. If people's shoes are too clean or their runners are I just imagine they move very little on their feet. Eyes and face it is for me. You can tell most peoples lifestyles from their face. You can see if they're friendly, grumpy, healthy, drink too much etc...to me shoes mean very little. Could just mean someone has loads of money or little money
It's not about money it's about first impressions. .. did he cate enough about himself to look his best for me. If a man arrives and looks sloppy he must not think to much of me so therefore I'm not interested
I wouldn't go to look my best - that woyld mean suited and booted and reserve the right to wear those generally at weddings, funerals, interviews and VERY special occasions. But I would look neat and presentable - clean, freshly showered with smellies etc., etc.
I don't expect suits but I do expect effort .. the same level of effort I put in. I'd never arrive to meet anyone scruffy. I'd always be neat clean and presentable and wearing lovely shoes "
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"I've never cared about people's shoes. If people's shoes are too clean or their runners are I just imagine they move very little on their feet. Eyes and face it is for me. You can tell most peoples lifestyles from their face. You can see if they're friendly, grumpy, healthy, drink too much etc...to me shoes mean very little. Could just mean someone has loads of money or little money
It's not about money it's about first impressions. .. did he cate enough about himself to look his best for me. If a man arrives and looks sloppy he must not think to much of me so therefore I'm not interested
I wouldn't go to look my best - that woyld mean suited and booted and reserve the right to wear those generally at weddings, funerals, interviews and VERY special occasions. But I would look neat and presentable - clean, freshly showered with smellies etc., etc.
I don't expect suits but I do expect effort .. the same level of effort I put in. I'd never arrive to meet anyone scruffy. I'd always be neat clean and presentable and wearing lovely shoes
Not always "
Mmmm sometimes muck is good ..this is true |
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Too much aftershave is not great if I'm honest. It's nice when people make an effort in how they dress I guess. It's the welcome you get that's important. The first few moments can definitely make the right kind of impression that lasts.
Of course I swear too much and fuck thing's right up early on |
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"Too much aftershave is not great if I'm honest. It's nice when people make an effort in how they dress I guess. It's the welcome you get that's important. The first few moments can definitely make the right kind of impression that lasts.
Of course I swear too much and fuck thing's right up early on "
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"Too much aftershave is not great if I'm honest. It's nice when people make an effort in how they dress I guess. It's the welcome you get that's important. The first few moments can definitely make the right kind of impression that lasts.
Of course I swear too much and fuck thing's right up early on "
haha and you were doing so well |
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"Too much aftershave is not great if I'm honest. It's nice when people make an effort in how they dress I guess. It's the welcome you get that's important. The first few moments can definitely make the right kind of impression that lasts.
Of course I swear too much and fuck thing's right up early on
But your smile let's you get away with anything "
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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I couldn't be bothered what someone's wearing unless it's a suit, it just screams boredom.
It's the glint in the eyes and a cheeky smile. Other than that I'm a hands person, hands tell you a lot about a person. |
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"I couldn't be bothered what someone's wearing unless it's a suit, it just screams boredom.
It's the glint in the eyes and a cheeky smile. Other than that I'm a hands person, hands tell you a lot about a person. "
What could hands possibly tell you, or is where he puts them.. |
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"I couldn't be bothered what someone's wearing unless it's a suit, it just screams boredom.
It's the glint in the eyes and a cheeky smile. Other than that I'm a hands person, hands tell you a lot about a person. "
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Am curious, is it size of hands, condition of hands, what he does with them work wise or something else that reveals so much? |
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The first things I notice in a meet are definitely the eyes and the smile. You can generally tell from the eyes if the person is pleased with their decision to meet u.
More importantly for me than anything I see in those first few mins is how welcomed I feel and how warm my reception is. Nothing worse than meetin someone and feeling like they aren’t happy with there decision to meet |
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By *oghunter33Woman
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"I couldn't be bothered what someone's wearing unless it's a suit, it just screams boredom.
It's the glint in the eyes and a cheeky smile. Other than that I'm a hands person, hands tell you a lot about a person.
What could hands possibly tell you, or is where he puts them.."
Without my permission they don't go anywhere.
Strong hands, small hands, groomed hands, rough hands, sweaty hands, chewed fingernails, sucked fingers, sausage fingers etc they all give you little hints... |
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"I couldn't be bothered what someone's wearing unless it's a suit, it just screams boredom.
It's the glint in the eyes and a cheeky smile. Other than that I'm a hands person, hands tell you a lot about a person.
What could hands possibly tell you, or is where he puts them..
Without my permission they don't go anywhere.
Strong hands, small hands, groomed hands, rough hands, sweaty hands, chewed fingernails, sucked fingers, sausage fingers etc they all give you little hints..."
Its interesting no one mentioned breasts, hands and feet ok, but im sure you wear socks hunter |
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By *oghunter33Woman
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"I couldn't be bothered what someone's wearing unless it's a suit, it just screams boredom.
It's the glint in the eyes and a cheeky smile. Other than that I'm a hands person, hands tell you a lot about a person.
What could hands possibly tell you, or is where he puts them..
Without my permission they don't go anywhere.
Strong hands, small hands, groomed hands, rough hands, sweaty hands, chewed fingernails, sucked fingers, sausage fingers etc they all give you little hints...
Its interesting no one mentioned breasts, hands and feet ok, but im sure you wear socks hunter "
I hate socks tbh, and I'm only wearing socks when it's cold, like now. |
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"I couldn't be bothered what someone's wearing unless it's a suit, it just screams boredom.
It's the glint in the eyes and a cheeky smile. Other than that I'm a hands person, hands tell you a lot about a person.
What could hands possibly tell you, or is where he puts them..
Without my permission they don't go anywhere.
Strong hands, small hands, groomed hands, rough hands, sweaty hands, chewed fingernails, sucked fingers, sausage fingers etc they all give you little hints...
Its interesting no one mentioned breasts, hands and feet ok, but im sure you wear socks hunter
I hate socks tbh, and I'm only wearing socks when it's cold, like now. "
If I describe my hands hunter, will you give me a reading.. |
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"I couldn't be bothered what someone's wearing unless it's a suit, it just screams boredom.
It's the glint in the eyes and a cheeky smile. Other than that I'm a hands person, hands tell you a lot about a person.
What could hands possibly tell you, or is where he puts them..
Without my permission they don't go anywhere.
Strong hands, small hands, groomed hands, rough hands, sweaty hands, chewed fingernails, sucked fingers, sausage fingers etc they all give you little hints...
Its interesting no one mentioned breasts, hands and feet ok, but im sure you wear socks hunter
I hate socks tbh, and I'm only wearing socks when it's cold, like now.
If I describe my hands hunter, will you give me a reading.."
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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago
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"I've never cared about people's shoes. If people's shoes are too clean or their runners are I just imagine they move very little on their feet. Eyes and face it is for me. You can tell most peoples lifestyles from their face. You can see if they're friendly, grumpy, healthy, drink too much etc...to me shoes mean very little. Could just mean someone has loads of money or little money
It's not about money it's about first impressions. .. did he cate enough about himself to look his best for me. If a man arrives and looks sloppy he must not think to much of me so therefore I'm not interested
I wouldn't go to look my best - that woyld mean suited and booted and reserve the right to wear those generally at weddings, funerals, interviews and VERY special occasions. But I would look neat and presentable - clean, freshly showered with smellies etc., etc.
I don't expect suits but I do expect effort .. the same level of effort I put in. I'd never arrive to meet anyone scruffy. I'd always be neat clean and presentable and wearing lovely shoes
Yeah I just don't get this thing that people seem to almost get hung up on re shoes....... For me - when meeting someone for the first time it is about eye contact. How they hold themself - looking past any obvious nervousness to the person underneath. They should be clean and have taken pride about their PERSONAL appearance but I can honestly say that I have never looked at a person's clothes (footwear included) and made a judgement based on that.
I totally agree with you on this. Good direct eye contact, a cheeky glint in the eye and a proper firm handshake are far more important to me than what someone is wearing. I don't tend to think people are dressing for me anyway, I don't usually dress for other people. I don't put much stock in what I wear as long as it's comfortable and clean, and I feel ok in it, and I sure as hell don't judge people based on things I don't judge myself on. "
Well said to both of you. I dress for myself. Fooey was wearing shorts and runners the first time I met him and I only noticed because he pointed it out.
I didn't make it past his eyes and smile...well I did but that's a whole different thread
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