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Single Guys. What Turns you on Having Sex with a Couple?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Bearing in mind that most couples are looking for other couples to play with, why do guys persist in seeking out the elusive couple. Why do single guys enjoy having sex with a couple? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Judging from a lot of the messages we get, quite a few have barely registered that there is a another man already involved  "
Maybe there are some who would enjoy giving the lady the best pounding she ever had. Memorable for all parties involved, I'm sure  |
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"Bearing in mind that most couples are looking for other couples to play with, why do guys persist in seeking out the elusive couple. Why do single guys enjoy having sex with a couple?"
I’m not sure the premise of your question is correct. Many couples want other couples, sure, but there are plenty who are keen to have guys join them too.
Personally I love to be part of an MMF. I’m straight - so it’s just the two guys pleasuring (and being pleasured by!) the lady. But always good fun, eg in a spit roast.
Had a couple over to my flat just this week and we enjoyed that scenario very much....
I just love to see a woman getting double the attention. That’s a turn on for me too. Seeing her being fucked or licked as she sucks my dick, or seeing her suck her fella while I’m fucking her..... so horny!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Judging from a lot of the messages we get, quite a few have barely registered that there is a another man already involved
Maybe there are some who would enjoy giving the lady the best pounding she ever had. Memorable for all parties involved, I'm sure "
Right, because that's what every woman is looking for |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Bearing in mind that most couples are looking for other couples to play with, why do guys persist in seeking out the elusive couple. Why do single guys enjoy having sex with a couple?
I’m not sure the premise of your question is correct. Many couples want other couples, sure, but there are plenty who are keen to have guys join them too.
Personally I love to be part of an MMF. I’m straight - so it’s just the two guys pleasuring (and being pleasured by!) the lady. But always good fun, eg in a spit roast.
Had a couple over to my flat just this week and we enjoyed that scenario very much....
I just love to see a woman getting double the attention. That’s a turn on for me too. Seeing her being fucked or licked as she sucks my dick, or seeing her suck her fella while I’m fucking her..... so horny!
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I would imagine that is the ideal scenario for all involved, if I can ask, what do you find works for you in getting to that stage with a couple.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It a big turn on for me meeting the right couple either with the other guy watching or if he joins in a 3some see the lady take us both on doing a DP is great fun ??"
I'm curious with this, I couldn't imagine a couple seeking out DP, or any other letters of the alphabet at the initial stages of meeting, I could be wrong in this though..or maybe its just more opportunistic I dont know.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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For me personally, I love watching how horny it makes the couple involved. It's important to realise that as the single guy, you a just the bit part player in a couples fantasy.. once you get your head around that and relax into it, its a pretty phenomenal experience |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It a big turn on for me meeting the right couple either with the other guy watching or if he joins in a 3some see the lady take us both on doing a DP is great fun ??
I'm curious with this, I couldn't imagine a couple seeking out DP, or any other letters of the alphabet at the initial stages of meeting, I could be wrong in this though..or maybe its just more opportunistic I dont know.."
See, there's where you're wrong, if we're comfortable with him, we're pretty much up for anything, if we're not comfortable, there won't be any play at all. We take the time to get to know someone first, our relationship is paramount to us and anyone who doesn't recognise that is a non-runner in our book. |
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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago
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"Bearing in mind that most couples are looking for other couples to play with, why do guys persist in seeking out the elusive couple. Why do single guys enjoy having sex with a couple?
I’m not sure the premise of your question is correct. Many couples want other couples, sure, but there are plenty who are keen to have guys join them too.
Personally I love to be part of an MMF. I’m straight - so it’s just the two guys pleasuring (and being pleasured by!) the lady. But always good fun, eg in a spit roast.
Had a couple over to my flat just this week and we enjoyed that scenario very much....
I just love to see a woman getting double the attention. That’s a turn on for me too. Seeing her being fucked or licked as she sucks my dick, or seeing her suck her fella while I’m fucking her..... so horny!
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Nailed it. |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"It a big turn on for me meeting the right couple either with the other guy watching or if he joins in a 3some see the lady take us both on doing a DP is great fun ??
I'm curious with this, I couldn't imagine a couple seeking out DP, or any other letters of the alphabet at the initial stages of meeting, I could be wrong in this though..or maybe its just more opportunistic I dont know..
See, there's where you're wrong, if we're comfortable with him, we're pretty much up for anything, if we're not comfortable, there won't be any play at all. We take the time to get to know someone first, our relationship is paramount to us and anyone who doesn't recognise that is a non-runner in our book."
That makes sense, you have each other's backup so why not venture for whatever you fancy.
In comparison a single woman might want to build up some trust over a few meets before she takes on some more adventurous play. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It a big turn on for me meeting the right couple either with the other guy watching or if he joins in a 3some see the lady take us both on doing a DP is great fun ??
I'm curious with this, I couldn't imagine a couple seeking out DP, or any other letters of the alphabet at the initial stages of meeting, I could be wrong in this though..or maybe its just more opportunistic I dont know..
See, there's where you're wrong, if we're comfortable with him, we're pretty much up for anything, if we're not comfortable, there won't be any play at all. We take the time to get to know someone first, our relationship is paramount to us and anyone who doesn't recognise that is a non-runner in our book."
You guys obviously put a lot of planning into your potential meets, building a rapport, mutual attraction, boundaries etc, and id imagine you reap the rewards from that strategy, let me ask you, with such a large pool of single guys here, and if you were to discount those guys that don't show the respect of chatting to you both, are you still not spoilt for choice with guys here? |
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"It a big turn on for me meeting the right couple either with the other guy watching or if he joins in a 3some see the lady take us both on doing a DP is great fun ??
I'm curious with this, I couldn't imagine a couple seeking out DP, or any other letters of the alphabet at the initial stages of meeting, I could be wrong in this though..or maybe its just more opportunistic I dont know..
See, there's where you're wrong, if we're comfortable with him, we're pretty much up for anything, if we're not comfortable, there won't be any play at all. We take the time to get to know someone first, our relationship is paramount to us and anyone who doesn't recognise that is a non-runner in our book."
I’m very comfortable with a couple I meet regularly doing a DP the lady loves it and both myself and her hubby have great fun it definitely a big turn on for all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why do you assume couples usually want to play with other couples only? There's plenty of MF that are into double penetration fun, smaller and bigger gangbangs etc. Swinging is not only about giving the bisexual lady opportunity to play with another gal in a threesome or foursome situation. People have variety of amazing fantasies they want to live through.
I am very passionate about MMF meets. What turns me on the most, is to see how the lady enjoys being spoilt by two or more men.
DVP is especially horny. That anticipation on her face when her man is already in her pussy and I am positioning myself to get there too, is just amazing. I love watching her face when I am gently pushing my cock into her. The gasp she's making, the facial expression of pure ecstasy and the overall intimacy of this very kinky moment is sensational and does it for me every time. These are emotions you don't see on a woman's face in a 1:1 situation and that is what I am after. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It a big turn on for me meeting the right couple either with the other guy watching or if he joins in a 3some see the lady take us both on doing a DP is great fun ??
I'm curious with this, I couldn't imagine a couple seeking out DP, or any other letters of the alphabet at the initial stages of meeting, I could be wrong in this though..or maybe its just more opportunistic I dont know..
See, there's where you're wrong, if we're comfortable with him, we're pretty much up for anything, if we're not comfortable, there won't be any play at all. We take the time to get to know someone first, our relationship is paramount to us and anyone who doesn't recognise that is a non-runner in our book.
You guys obviously put a lot of planning into your potential meets, building a rapport, mutual attraction, boundaries etc, and id imagine you reap the rewards from that strategy, let me ask you, with such a large pool of single guys here, and if you were to discount those guys that don't show the respect of chatting to you both, are you still not spoilt for choice with guys here? "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Let's not forget that there also has to be attraction (on both sides) yea it’s very important that all are very comfortable and respect each other on how far to go too."
True, we don't see a single male as dial-a-cock either. |
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"Let's not forget that there also has to be attraction (on both sides) yea it’s very important that all are very comfortable and respect each other on how far to go too.
True, we don't see a single male as dial-a-cock either."
I wouldn’t be into a quick bang either the more you meet the fun gets better too and more relaxing |
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"Bearing in mind that most couples are looking for other couples to play with, why do guys persist in seeking out the elusive couple. Why do single guys enjoy having sex with a couple?"
I suggest on try meeting a couple yourself, that way you will know personally and you won't have to be asking others.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Bearing in mind that most couples are looking for other couples to play with, why do guys persist in seeking out the elusive couple. Why do single guys enjoy having sex with a couple?
I suggest on try meeting a couple yourself, that way you will know personally and you won't have to be asking others. "
I have, and as part of a couple I've met singles. Im merely having a discussion. |
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"Let's not forget that there also has to be attraction (on both sides) yea it’s very important that all are very comfortable and respect each other on how far to go too.
True, we don't see a single male as dial-a-cock either.
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Disappointed!!! |
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By *ocvix17Couple
over a year ago
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When we started in lifestyle it was all about FFM - the unicorn.
We had some nice girl on girl kissing moments at parties but never any more.
We then had full swap with a couple and it was great, followed by few more some good, some different- every experience has helped us swing better.
But some of best moments in the couples was when my Vix was been satisfied by me and the other hubby.
This led us to trying the MMF - something I never thought I’d be up for - and it was sexy and hot as Fuck.
A lot depends on the single guy - he has to be respectful and still able to perform the job - they are hard to find but there our there !
3 guys is our next step  |
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Most of my fab journey has been single meets with either single ladies or just the female half of couples. But recently the idea of playing with a couple has taken hold in my mind, I mean it was always there but for a lot of the reasons described by posters above it has come back stronger than ever.
Now as to why I would enjoy playing with a couple, rather then organising a meet and adding a single fella? Well there's just something about an already established dynamic between two people, especially sexually, that's kinda intriguing. I feel like joining a couple could be a lot more intense (sometimes) than 3 singles who haven't got as much established history. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd be interested in knowing what turns single women on about playing with a couple actually."
Ffm is my favourite, but sadly difficult to find a couple where I feel attracted to both
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By *ocvix17Couple
over a year ago
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"I'd be interested in knowing what turns single women on about playing with a couple actually.
Ffm is my favourite, but sadly difficult to find a couple where I feel attracted to both
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Pick us pick us !!!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Let's not forget that there also has to be attraction (on both sides) yea it’s very important that all are very comfortable and respect each other on how far to go too.
True, we don't see a single male as dial-a-cock either.
Disappointed!!!"
Unless he insists!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd be interested in knowing what turns single women on about playing with a couple actually.
Ffm is my favourite, but sadly difficult to find a couple where I feel attracted to both
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Me too unfortunately. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd be interested in knowing what turns single women on about playing with a couple actually.
Ffm is my favourite, but sadly difficult to find a couple where I feel attracted to both
Pick us pick us !!!
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Well that can be arranged  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd be interested in knowing what turns single women on about playing with a couple actually.
Ffm is my favourite, but sadly difficult to find a couple where I feel attracted to both
Me too unfortunately."
So far only one couple in my radar  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Being the other partner in a mmf. I find that the more you know the couple the better it is as we all know what turns the other on without overstepping the mark. DP is great. but DVP is for me the ultimate . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bearing in mind that most couples are looking for other couples to play with, why do guys persist in seeking out the elusive couple. Why do single guys enjoy having sex with a couple?
I’m not sure the premise of your question is correct. Many couples want other couples, sure, but there are plenty who are keen to have guys join them too.
Personally I love to be part of an MMF. I’m straight - so it’s just the two guys pleasuring (and being pleasured by!) the lady. But always good fun, eg in a spit roast.
Had a couple over to my flat just this week and we enjoyed that scenario very much....
I just love to see a woman getting double the attention. That’s a turn on for me too. Seeing her being fucked or licked as she sucks my dick, or seeing her suck her fella while I’m fucking her..... so horny!
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^^ this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me it depends on the situation.
I'm fairly dominant(at times)
So I get a Dom kick out of a cuckold couple.
I'm also a pleaser so love seeing a woman having all the pleasure she can handle.
I'm also bi so if the guy is bi it's even better.
It's also kinky and I've always found the dirtier something is the more it turns me on.
Guess it's my way of rebelling against society's norms lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I love the energy that being the invited guy brings. It's a real buzz for me and I hope for the couple too. It depends on the couple of course, like everyone, I've had bad meets as well as great ones. Being invited to partake in a few hours of someone's relationship is a privilege and great great fun. |
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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago
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Threesomes with an extra M or F are our favourite as they are more intimate but have been very lucky in fulfilling lot's of different scenarios which were great.
Still a few different things that rev me up that I haven't tried yet but there is no rush, it's nice to have fantasies also
Madame B |
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By (user no longer on site)
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What's not to love about it really. Nothing turns me on more than having someone watch me as I'm with there partner and me watching them also It's. It too often it happens especially with the number of single males only wanting to meet the female side of the couple alone ruins it for the genuine men on here. |
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"Threesomes with an extra M or F are our favourite as they are more intimate but have been very lucky in fulfilling lot's of different scenarios which were great.
Still a few different things that rev me up that I haven't tried yet but there is no rush, it's nice to have fantasies also
Madame B"
What about with an extra J |
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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago
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"Threesomes with an extra M or F are our favourite as they are more intimate but have been very lucky in fulfilling lot's of different scenarios which were great.
Still a few different things that rev me up that I haven't tried yet but there is no rush, it's nice to have fantasies also
Madame B
What about with an extra J "
Speaking of fantasies
An MFJ sounds great but let me play around with that idea and I will get back to you with the results of my erm research
Madame B |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The couples I’ve played with were as down to earth and relaxed as much as I was, sometimes the male half would join in and sometimes just stay away altogether, it’s what everybody feels comforable with at the end of the day |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Personally, I haven’t had the opportunity to play with a couple but for me been straight, the idea of a man sharing his other half to give her ultimate pleasure just turns me on.
Knowing that you can have sex with another mans better half be it with him involved or with him just present is satisfying in itself.
I suppose there’s multiple answers to this question depending on where the single is coming from, other singles might just get off assuming the female half is sex crazy and can’t get enough.
For me just the thought of it drives me crazy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Being watched and watching is a huge turn on, have had a few meetings with cpls where the guy has liked to direct the action, which was hot, not just going for it but performing for him and her, and having to restrain yourself when all you want is to keep going lol |
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By *ease_EMan
over a year ago
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"Bearing in mind that most couples are looking for other couples to play with, why do guys persist in seeking out the elusive couple. Why do single guys enjoy having sex with a couple?
I’m not sure the premise of your question is correct. Many couples want other couples, sure, but there are plenty who are keen to have guys join them too.
Personally I love to be part of an MMF. I’m straight - so it’s just the two guys pleasuring (and being pleasured by!) the lady. But always good fun, eg in a spit roast.
Had a couple over to my flat just this week and we enjoyed that scenario very much....
I just love to see a woman getting double the attention. That’s a turn on for me too. Seeing her being fucked or licked as she sucks my dick, or seeing her suck her fella while I’m fucking her..... so horny!
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This is what I would like, as a meet with a couple, and would not mind, just being the Top Half of the Split Roast after foreplay......
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. We have been lucky in who we have met so far though and find its getting easier to figure out early on who is really game for some naughty fun 