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"You have been here two weeks? Give it time talk to people use the forums or chat. "
Even to get a reply at times can be hard enough so much time wasters on this I'm guessing ruining it for the genuine ones |
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My advise is to absolutely avoid forums. Just send reasonable messages explaining how meeting you will be of benefit to people. Everybody can fuck so why would some make you do it over another lad? |
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"My advise is to absolutely avoid forums. Just send reasonable messages explaining how meeting you will be of benefit to people. Everybody can fuck so why would some make you do it over another lad?"
Thanks for the advice anybody else have any? |
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Take it slow u have lots of time on your hands would love to be your age again lol try and not be negative in your posts and texts it will happen for u it took me over 5 weeks before i got my first reply and a lady who did not answer my first text is now one of my best fab friends best of luck  |
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I've been invited to a social that I found a thread about on the forum. Hoping from there I can branch out!
I guess patience and a realistic sense of expectation is important. It's like real life, things won't just fall into your lap because you want them to. |
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"I've been invited to a social that I found a thread about on the forum. Hoping from there I can branch out!
I guess patience and a realistic sense of expectation is important. It's like real life, things won't just fall into your lap because you want them to. "
Best of luck with it, thanks for the message |
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"My advise is to absolutely avoid forums. Just send reasonable messages explaining how meeting you will be of benefit to people. Everybody can fuck so why would some make you do it over another lad?
Thanks for the advice anybody else have any? "
A six pack and a big cock wouldn't go a miss  |
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Not all verifications are genuine too - just to give you a heads up. Had been chatting to what appeared to be a female on here ..... a twice verified one at that ..... only to find out was yet another sad ass guy posing as a girl.
Yes, there are a LOT of idiots out there that can ruin it for the genuine people. |
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You seem fairly eloquent and sensible so do stick at it. Read profiles, if it says verified only dont contact them, if it says no single guys don’t contact them and if it says no cock pics... you get the idea.
I can’t even guess how many times a msg to us starts of with, “I know your profile says you are not looking for xxx but I just thought...”. They usually get a sarky msg and blocked.
Be yourself, keep at it and be prepared to get blocked just because people are bored with you. Feel free to msg us. |
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"Not all verifications are genuine too - just to give you a heads up. Had been chatting to what appeared to be a female on here ..... a twice verified one at that ..... only to find out was yet another sad ass guy posing as a girl.
Yes, there are a LOT of idiots out there that can ruin it for the genuine people."
There is a guy here that verifies people without meeting them. Creates loads of fake accounts and cross verified them etc etc etc... He seems very well verified as most of them are just fake favors received from other wankers. |
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"Not all verifications are genuine too - just to give you a heads up. Had been chatting to what appeared to be a female on here ..... a twice verified one at that ..... only to find out was yet another sad ass guy posing as a girl.
Yes, there are a LOT of idiots out there that can ruin it for the genuine people.
There is a guy here that verifies people without meeting them. Creates loads of fake accounts and cross verified them etc etc etc... He seems very well verified as most of them are just fake favors received from other wankers. "
This ........ I am aware that there is a policy of not being allowed to name and shame but is there no way these idiots can be dealt with? They go out of their way to try to ruin things for genuine people on here. |
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This ........ I am aware that there is a policy of not being allowed to name and shame but is there no way these idiots can be dealt with? They go out of their way to try to ruin things for genuine people on here."
There is one guy like this. He’s the biggest wankers of them all. Had been reported and nothing was done.... he even doesn’t ask others if they want his veri. He just sends one... couples also accept them it seems... I used to call him the perfume guy, now I call him his kingidiot (none are his account names before anyone asks). Really have no idea how he is allowed to do that despite being reported few times.. |
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This ........ I am aware that there is a policy of not being allowed to name and shame but is there no way these idiots can be dealt with? They go out of their way to try to ruin things for genuine people on here.
There is one guy like this. He’s the biggest wankers of them all. Had been reported and nothing was done.... he even doesn’t ask others if they want his veri. He just sends one... couples also accept them it seems... I used to call him the perfume guy, now I call him his kingidiot (none are his account names before anyone asks). Really have no idea how he is allowed to do that despite being reported few times.."
There is some women who does it also! And some even for money. Sad! |
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This ........ I am aware that there is a policy of not being allowed to name and shame but is there no way these idiots can be dealt with? They go out of their way to try to ruin things for genuine people on here.
There is one guy like this. He’s the biggest wankers of them all. Had been reported and nothing was done.... he even doesn’t ask others if they want his veri. He just sends one... couples also accept them it seems... I used to call him the perfume guy, now I call him his kingidiot (none are his account names before anyone asks). Really have no idea how he is allowed to do that despite being reported few times..
There is some women who does it also! And some even for money. Sad! "
Some people are just needy of reconfirming themselves that way... they should be all reported and admins dealing with it. |
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"You have been here two weeks? Give it time talk to people use the forums or chat.
Even to get a reply at times can be hard enough so much time wasters on this I'm guessing ruining it for the genuine ones "
Don't fall into the timewaster/genuine cliche it puts a lot of people off |
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"You have been here two weeks? Give it time talk to people use the forums or chat.
Even to get a reply at times can be hard enough so much time wasters on this I'm guessing ruining it for the genuine ones "
Timewasters?
Genuine ones?
You sure you only been here a couple of weeks?  |
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"You seem fairly eloquent and sensible so do stick at it. Read profiles, if it says verified only dont contact them, if it says no single guys don’t contact them and if it says no cock pics... you get the idea.
I can’t even guess how many times a msg to us starts of with, “I know your profile says you are not looking for xxx but I just thought...”. They usually get a sarky msg and blocked.
Be yourself, keep at it and be prepared to get blocked just because people are bored with you. Feel free to msg us."
Good advice. 
See if you can find an M&G to go to if you're comfortable with that setting, not everyone is. If you are It'll help people see the real you which is sometimes difficult behind a screen. |
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"Why is it seeming to prove so difficult to get the first verification, the catch being how can you meet anyone when most people won't meet anyone meet verified? "
I am meeting someone on tuesday who not meet verified either. Its how u speak to people and how your profile is too. |
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"You have been here two weeks? Give it time talk to people use the forums or chat.
Even to get a reply at times can be hard enough so much time wasters on this I'm guessing ruining it for the genuine ones
Timewasters?
Genuine ones?
You sure you only been here a couple of weeks? "
Well we offered to meet him and surprise surprise he is working |
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Guy on the forums 2 weeks ago had a few veris but never being to a party and was saying never given a chance to attend one invited him to my last party texted him at 6 pm on evening of party everything ok never showed up hid his profile |
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"Guy on the forums 2 weeks ago had a few veris but never being to a party and was saying never given a chance to attend one invited him to my last party texted him at 6 pm on evening of party everything ok never showed up hid his profile "
Have seen at least a dozen profiles on here whinging saying they cant get a meet we have offered to meet them and every one of them had to work that night , we reckon we have helped the economy make a comeback with all these lads getting work |
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"Guy on the forums 2 weeks ago had a few veris but never being to a party and was saying never given a chance to attend one invited him to my last party texted him at 6 pm on evening of party everything ok never showed up hid his profile
Have seen at least a dozen profiles on here whinging saying they cant get a meet we have offered to meet them and every one of them had to work that night , we reckon we have helped the economy make a comeback with all these lads getting work "
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"Guy on the forums 2 weeks ago had a few veris but never being to a party and was saying never given a chance to attend one invited him to my last party texted him at 6 pm on evening of party everything ok never showed up hid his profile
Have seen at least a dozen profiles on here whinging saying they cant get a meet we have offered to meet them and every one of them had to work that night , we reckon we have helped the economy make a comeback with all these lads getting work "
This is brilliant!
I think guys often are just too shy and get cold feet. Loads of crap is poured on us, single gents on forums, which doesn’t encourage lads to make the step up and actually meet for coffee. And I also reckon, there’s loads of guys that aren’t into group fun but would only want 1:1 with a girl.
Who is raising them that they lack self confidence? |
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"Guy on the forums 2 weeks ago had a few veris but never being to a party and was saying never given a chance to attend one invited him to my last party texted him at 6 pm on evening of party everything ok never showed up hid his profile
Have seen at least a dozen profiles on here whinging saying they cant get a meet we have offered to meet them and every one of them had to work that night , we reckon we have helped the economy make a comeback with all these lads getting work "
Good job you guys are thick skinned or u might think they do not want to meet you |
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"Surprise surprise there are more jobs than Monday to Friday 9 to 5 I did say I was off Monday and Tuesday "
Well if it was me ( Mr C ) I would just ring in sick or swap shifts if I was serious about meeting |
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"Surprise surprise there are more jobs than Monday to Friday 9 to 5 I did say I was off Monday and Tuesday
Well if it was me ( Mr C ) I would just ring in sick or swap shifts if I was serious about meeting"
That's a bit unfair to say ..... and puts needless pressure on somebody. You are not aware of this guy's work situation and as much as he would LOVE to get that first meet and ensuing verification, it simply may not be practical and possible for him at that time. I think if EVERYBODY on here was a bit more understandable then the fab community would benefit and be all the better for it........ just my tuppence worth. |
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"Surprise surprise there are more jobs than Monday to Friday 9 to 5 I did say I was off Monday and Tuesday
Well if it was me ( Mr C ) I would just ring in sick or swap shifts if I was serious about meeting
That's a bit unfair to say ..... and puts needless pressure on somebody. You are not aware of this guy's work situation and as much as he would LOVE to get that first meet and ensuing verification, it simply may not be practical and possible for him at that time. I think if EVERYBODY on here was a bit more understandable then the fab community would benefit and be all the better for it........ just my tuppence worth."
Totally agree with what you've said.... |
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"Surprise surprise there are more jobs than Monday to Friday 9 to 5 I did say I was off Monday and Tuesday
Well if it was me ( Mr C ) I would just ring in sick or swap shifts if I was serious about meeting
That's a bit unfair to say ..... and puts needless pressure on somebody. You are not aware of this guy's work situation and as much as he would LOVE to get that first meet and ensuing verification, it simply may not be practical and possible for him at that time. I think if EVERYBODY on here was a bit more understandable then the fab community would benefit and be all the better for it........ just my tuppence worth.
Totally agree with what you've said.... "
Thank you ...... oh and that should be written "if people were more understanding" ...... I blame the copious amount of gin that I have imbibed tonight for my poor writing |
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"Surprise surprise there are more jobs than Monday to Friday 9 to 5 I did say I was off Monday and Tuesday
Well if it was me ( Mr C ) I would just ring in sick or swap shifts if I was serious about meeting
That's a bit unfair to say ..... and puts needless pressure on somebody. You are not aware of this guy's work situation and as much as he would LOVE to get that first meet and ensuing verification, it simply may not be practical and possible for him at that time. I think if EVERYBODY on here was a bit more understandable then the fab community would benefit and be all the better for it........ just my tuppence worth.
Totally agree with what you've said....
Thank you ...... oh and that should be written "if people were more understanding" ...... I blame the copious amount of gin that I have imbibed tonight for my poor writing "
For someone that's on the gin you did extremely well |
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"Surprise surprise there are more jobs than Monday to Friday 9 to 5 I did say I was off Monday and Tuesday
Well if it was me ( Mr C ) I would just ring in sick or swap shifts if I was serious about meeting
That's a bit unfair to say ..... and puts needless pressure on somebody. You are not aware of this guy's work situation and as much as he would LOVE to get that first meet and ensuing verification, it simply may not be practical and possible for him at that time. I think if EVERYBODY on here was a bit more understandable then the fab community would benefit and be all the better for it........ just my tuppence worth.
Totally agree with what you've said....
Thank you ...... oh and that should be written "if people were more understanding" ...... I blame the copious amount of gin that I have imbibed tonight for my poor writing
For someone that's on the gin you did extremely well "
Thank you kind lady. All these new gins are impossible to say no to..... in my defence!! Had Mór gin for first time tonight .....and it tastes Móreish lol. |
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"Surprise surprise there are more jobs than Monday to Friday 9 to 5 I did say I was off Monday and Tuesday
Well if it was me ( Mr C ) I would just ring in sick or swap shifts if I was serious about meeting
That's a bit unfair to say ..... and puts needless pressure on somebody. You are not aware of this guy's work situation and as much as he would LOVE to get that first meet and ensuing verification, it simply may not be practical and possible for him at that time. I think if EVERYBODY on here was a bit more understandable then the fab community would benefit and be all the better for it........ just my tuppence worth.
Totally agree with what you've said....
Thank you ...... oh and that should be written "if people were more understanding" ...... I blame the copious amount of gin that I have imbibed tonight for my poor writing
For someone that's on the gin you did extremely well
Thank you kind lady. All these new gins are impossible to say no to..... in my defence!! Had Mór gin for first time tonight .....and it tastes Móreish lol."
Go for it so... there's no one stopping you |
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"Surprise surprise there are more jobs than Monday to Friday 9 to 5 I did say I was off Monday and Tuesday
Well if it was me ( Mr C ) I would just ring in sick or swap shifts if I was serious about meeting
That's a bit unfair to say ..... and puts needless pressure on somebody. You are not aware of this guy's work situation and as much as he would LOVE to get that first meet and ensuing verification, it simply may not be practical and possible for him at that time. I think if EVERYBODY on here was a bit more understandable then the fab community would benefit and be all the better for it........ just my tuppence worth.
Totally agree with what you've said....
Thank you ...... oh and that should be written "if people were more understanding" ...... I blame the copious amount of gin that I have imbibed tonight for my poor writing
For someone that's on the gin you did extremely well
Thank you kind lady. All these new gins are impossible to say no to..... in my defence!! Had Mór gin for first time tonight .....and it tastes Móreish lol.
Go for it so... there's no one stopping you "
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"Guy on the forums 2 weeks ago had a few veris but never being to a party and was saying never given a chance to attend one invited him to my last party texted him at 6 pm on evening of party everything ok never showed up hid his profile
Have seen at least a dozen profiles on here whinging saying they cant get a meet we have offered to meet them and every one of them had to work that night , we reckon we have helped the economy make a comeback with all these lads getting work
This is brilliant!
I think guys often are just too shy and get cold feet. Loads of crap is poured on us, single gents on forums, which doesn’t encourage lads to make the step up and actually meet for coffee. And I also reckon, there’s loads of guys that aren’t into group fun but would only want 1:1 with a girl.
Who is raising them that they lack self confidence?"
I'm biting my tongue with your last comment  |
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Doesn’t mean ppl who’s verified and been on here long enough are genuine either. Chatted with a guy for almost a year and I Travelled all the way and got a hotel only to be cancelled last minute. That’s fab for ya  |
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"Surprise surprise there are more jobs than Monday to Friday 9 to 5 I did say I was off Monday and Tuesday
Well if it was me ( Mr C ) I would just ring in sick or swap shifts if I was serious about meeting
That's a bit unfair to say ..... and puts needless pressure on somebody. You are not aware of this guy's work situation and as much as he would LOVE to get that first meet and ensuing verification, it simply may not be practical and possible for him at that time. I think if EVERYBODY on here was a bit more understandable then the fab community would benefit and be all the better for it........ just my tuppence worth."
Here's my tuppence worth........
Everyone of these posts we have seen and offered to meet them they all come up with some excuse now im not implying this lad is not genuine but if I was seriously interested in getting verified I would cancel work. Unless work is more exciting than fab. lol |
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"Surprise surprise there are more jobs than Monday to Friday 9 to 5 I did say I was off Monday and Tuesday
Well if it was me ( Mr C ) I would just ring in sick or swap shifts if I was serious about meeting"
that's one of the most ridiculous comments i ever heard |
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"Surprise surprise there are more jobs than Monday to Friday 9 to 5 I did say I was off Monday and Tuesday
Well if it was me ( Mr C ) I would just ring in sick or swap shifts if I was serious about meetingthat's one of the most ridiculous comments i ever heard "
you just meet when you're off, not cancel work over a fab situation |
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"Doesn’t mean ppl who’s verified and been on here long enough are genuine either. Chatted with a guy for almost a year and I Travelled all the way and got a hotel only to be cancelled last minute. That’s fab for ya "
oh believe me, I know that feeling, been their, done that wore the T shirt scenario, and they were very well verified, |
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"Doesn’t mean ppl who’s verified and been on here long enough are genuine either. Chatted with a guy for almost a year and I Travelled all the way and got a hotel only to be cancelled last minute. That’s fab for ya oh believe me, I know that feeling, been their, done that wore the T shirt scenario, and they were very well verified, "
Yeah same here Hun. Don’t know what kick do ppl get out of it |
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"Doesn’t mean ppl who’s verified and been on here long enough are genuine either. Chatted with a guy for almost a year and I Travelled all the way and got a hotel only to be cancelled last minute. That’s fab for ya oh believe me, I know that feeling, been their, done that wore the T shirt scenario, and they were very well verified,
Yeah same here Hun. Don’t know what kick do ppl get out of it "
yah since then I think twice about meeting in any hotel, I'm not saying all are like that, but makes it very difficult too trust others, which isn't fair because of one gobaloon. |
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"Surprise surprise there are more jobs than Monday to Friday 9 to 5 I did say I was off Monday and Tuesday
Well if it was me ( Mr C ) I would just ring in sick or swap shifts if I was serious about meeting
That's a bit unfair to say ..... and puts needless pressure on somebody. You are not aware of this guy's work situation and as much as he would LOVE to get that first meet and ensuing verification, it simply may not be practical and possible for him at that time. I think if EVERYBODY on here was a bit more understandable then the fab community would benefit and be all the better for it........ just my tuppence worth.
Here's my tuppence worth........
Everyone of these posts we have seen and offered to meet them they all come up with some excuse now im not implying this lad is not genuine but if I was seriously interested in getting verified I would cancel work. Unless work is more exciting than fab. lol "
......jeeeezzzzzz mister you are simply NOT getting the point are you? That, or your sense of priorities are just a smidgen messed up! Maybe YOU place more of an importance on getting a simple verification over something as important as work. Work is what enables us to have the ability to go on a date, a meet, book a hotel, pay for a meal or drinks. Not ALL of us might be in the enviable position to be able to just drop work at a moment's notice just like that.
You may very well be a well known and verified person/couple on here but your comments are insensitive and put undue and wholly unnecessary pressure on someone who is finding it tough enough on here already!
From what I read, the OP has said he cannot meet at the time YOU suggested but had offered up an alternative..... seeing as you can just drop your plans in a heartbeat why don't you do so and meet him at the time HE suggested?????
Come on - take a breath next time before you feel like having a pop maybe, yeah?!
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"Doesn’t mean ppl who’s verified and been on here long enough are genuine either. Chatted with a guy for almost a year and I Travelled all the way and got a hotel only to be cancelled last minute. That’s fab for ya oh believe me, I know that feeling, been their, done that wore the T shirt scenario, and they were very well verified,
Yeah same here Hun. Don’t know what kick do ppl get out of it yah since then I think twice about meeting in any hotel, I'm not saying all are like that, but makes it very difficult too trust others, which isn't fair because of one gobaloon. "
Agree not all are like that. Met loads of genuine ppl on this. But hey life goes on I guess and we live n learn |
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"Surprise surprise there are more jobs than Monday to Friday 9 to 5 I did say I was off Monday and Tuesday
Well if it was me ( Mr C ) I would just ring in sick or swap shifts if I was serious about meeting
That's a bit unfair to say ..... and puts needless pressure on somebody. You are not aware of this guy's work situation and as much as he would LOVE to get that first meet and ensuing verification, it simply may not be practical and possible for him at that time. I think if EVERYBODY on here was a bit more understandable then the fab community would benefit and be all the better for it........ just my tuppence worth.
Here's my tuppence worth........
Everyone of these posts we have seen and offered to meet them they all come up with some excuse now im not implying this lad is not genuine but if I was seriously interested in getting verified I would cancel work. Unless work is more exciting than fab. lol
......jeeeezzzzzz mister you are simply NOT getting the point are you? That, or your sense of priorities are just a smidgen messed up! Maybe YOU place more of an importance on getting a simple verification over something as important as work. Work is what enables us to have the ability to go on a date, a meet, book a hotel, pay for a meal or drinks. Not ALL of us might be in the enviable position to be able to just drop work at a moment's notice just like that.
You may very well be a well known and verified person/couple on here but your comments are insensitive and put undue and wholly unnecessary pressure on someone who is finding it tough enough on here already!
From what I read, the OP has said he cannot meet at the time YOU suggested but had offered up an alternative..... seeing as you can just drop your plans in a heartbeat why don't you do so and meet him at the time HE suggested?????
Come on - take a breath next time before you feel like having a pop maybe, yeah?!
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I wish i could just take time of work, only thing is if I do take it off I'm not paid, obviously work is less enjoyable but has to be done |
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"Surprise surprise there are more jobs than Monday to Friday 9 to 5 I did say I was off Monday and Tuesday
Well if it was me ( Mr C ) I would just ring in sick or swap shifts if I was serious about meeting
That's a bit unfair to say ..... and puts needless pressure on somebody. You are not aware of this guy's work situation and as much as he would LOVE to get that first meet and ensuing verification, it simply may not be practical and possible for him at that time. I think if EVERYBODY on here was a bit more understandable then the fab community would benefit and be all the better for it........ just my tuppence worth.
Here's my tuppence worth........
Everyone of these posts we have seen and offered to meet them they all come up with some excuse now im not implying this lad is not genuine but if I was seriously interested in getting verified I would cancel work. Unless work is more exciting than fab. lol
......jeeeezzzzzz mister you are simply NOT getting the point are you? That, or your sense of priorities are just a smidgen messed up! Maybe YOU place more of an importance on getting a simple verification over something as important as work. Work is what enables us to have the ability to go on a date, a meet, book a hotel, pay for a meal or drinks. Not ALL of us might be in the enviable position to be able to just drop work at a moment's notice just like that.
You may very well be a well known and verified person/couple on here but your comments are insensitive and put undue and wholly unnecessary pressure on someone who is finding it tough enough on here already!
From what I read, the OP has said he cannot meet at the time YOU suggested but had offered up an alternative..... seeing as you can just drop your plans in a heartbeat why don't you do so and meet him at the time HE suggested?????
Come on - take a breath next time before you feel like having a pop maybe, yeah?!
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That gin is serious stuff, and you still make perfect sense while drinking it |
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"Surprise surprise there are more jobs than Monday to Friday 9 to 5 I did say I was off Monday and Tuesday
Well if it was me ( Mr C ) I would just ring in sick or swap shifts if I was serious about meeting
That's a bit unfair to say ..... and puts needless pressure on somebody. You are not aware of this guy's work situation and as much as he would LOVE to get that first meet and ensuing verification, it simply may not be practical and possible for him at that time. I think if EVERYBODY on here was a bit more understandable then the fab community would benefit and be all the better for it........ just my tuppence worth.
Here's my tuppence worth........
Everyone of these posts we have seen and offered to meet them they all come up with some excuse now im not implying this lad is not genuine but if I was seriously interested in getting verified I would cancel work. Unless work is more exciting than fab. lol
......jeeeezzzzzz mister you are simply NOT getting the point are you? That, or your sense of priorities are just a smidgen messed up! Maybe YOU place more of an importance on getting a simple verification over something as important as work. Work is what enables us to have the ability to go on a date, a meet, book a hotel, pay for a meal or drinks. Not ALL of us might be in the enviable position to be able to just drop work at a moment's notice just like that.
You may very well be a well known and verified person/couple on here but your comments are insensitive and put undue and wholly unnecessary pressure on someone who is finding it tough enough on here already!
From what I read, the OP has said he cannot meet at the time YOU suggested but had offered up an alternative..... seeing as you can just drop your plans in a heartbeat why don't you do so and meet him at the time HE suggested?????
Come on - take a breath next time before you feel like having a pop maybe, yeah?!
That gin is serious stuff, and you still make perfect sense while drinking it "
Gin obviously suits him Sally
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By *oserMan
over a year ago
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"Surprise surprise there are more jobs than Monday to Friday 9 to 5 I did say I was off Monday and Tuesday
Well if it was me ( Mr C ) I would just ring in sick or swap shifts if I was serious about meeting
That's a bit unfair to say ..... and puts needless pressure on somebody. You are not aware of this guy's work situation and as much as he would LOVE to get that first meet and ensuing verification, it simply may not be practical and possible for him at that time. I think if EVERYBODY on here was a bit more understandable then the fab community would benefit and be all the better for it........ just my tuppence worth.
Here's my tuppence worth........
Everyone of these posts we have seen and offered to meet them they all come up with some excuse now im not implying this lad is not genuine but if I was seriously interested in getting verified I would cancel work. Unless work is more exciting than fab. lol
......jeeeezzzzzz mister you are simply NOT getting the point are you? That, or your sense of priorities are just a smidgen messed up! Maybe YOU place more of an importance on getting a simple verification over something as important as work. Work is what enables us to have the ability to go on a date, a meet, book a hotel, pay for a meal or drinks. Not ALL of us might be in the enviable position to be able to just drop work at a moment's notice just like that.
You may very well be a well known and verified person/couple on here but your comments are insensitive and put undue and wholly unnecessary pressure on someone who is finding it tough enough on here already!
From what I read, the OP has said he cannot meet at the time YOU suggested but had offered up an alternative..... seeing as you can just drop your plans in a heartbeat why don't you do so and meet him at the time HE suggested?????
Come on - take a breath next time before you feel like having a pop maybe, yeah?!
That gin is serious stuff, and you still make perfect sense while drinking it
Gin obviously suits him Sally
Whole heartedly agree. People need to think back to when they first started out besides being condescending about it. "
Yea !!!
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"Surprise surprise there are more jobs than Monday to Friday 9 to 5 I did say I was off Monday and Tuesday
Well if it was me ( Mr C ) I would just ring in sick or swap shifts if I was serious about meeting
That's a bit unfair to say ..... and puts needless pressure on somebody. You are not aware of this guy's work situation and as much as he would LOVE to get that first meet and ensuing verification, it simply may not be practical and possible for him at that time. I think if EVERYBODY on here was a bit more understandable then the fab community would benefit and be all the better for it........ just my tuppence worth.
Here's my tuppence worth........
Everyone of these posts we have seen and offered to meet them they all come up with some excuse now im not implying this lad is not genuine but if I was seriously interested in getting verified I would cancel work. Unless work is more exciting than fab. lol
......jeeeezzzzzz mister you are simply NOT getting the point are you? That, or your sense of priorities are just a smidgen messed up! Maybe YOU place more of an importance on getting a simple verification over something as important as work. Work is what enables us to have the ability to go on a date, a meet, book a hotel, pay for a meal or drinks. Not ALL of us might be in the enviable position to be able to just drop work at a moment's notice just like that.
You may very well be a well known and verified person/couple on here but your comments are insensitive and put undue and wholly unnecessary pressure on someone who is finding it tough enough on here already!
From what I read, the OP has said he cannot meet at the time YOU suggested but had offered up an alternative..... seeing as you can just drop your plans in a heartbeat why don't you do so and meet him at the time HE suggested?????
Come on - take a breath next time before you feel like having a pop maybe, yeah?!
I wish i could just take time of work, only thing is if I do take it off I'm not paid, obviously work is less enjoyable but has to be done"
Thats grand but dont whinge if after joining 2 weeks ago if you have a busy work schedule |
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"Surprise surprise there are more jobs than Monday to Friday 9 to 5 I did say I was off Monday and Tuesday
Well if it was me ( Mr C ) I would just ring in sick or swap shifts if I was serious about meeting
That's a bit unfair to say ..... and puts needless pressure on somebody. You are not aware of this guy's work situation and as much as he would LOVE to get that first meet and ensuing verification, it simply may not be practical and possible for him at that time. I think if EVERYBODY on here was a bit more understandable then the fab community would benefit and be all the better for it........ just my tuppence worth.
Here's my tuppence worth........
Everyone of these posts we have seen and offered to meet them they all come up with some excuse now im not implying this lad is not genuine but if I was seriously interested in getting verified I would cancel work. Unless work is more exciting than fab. lol
......jeeeezzzzzz mister you are simply NOT getting the point are you? That, or your sense of priorities are just a smidgen messed up! Maybe YOU place more of an importance on getting a simple verification over something as important as work. Work is what enables us to have the ability to go on a date, a meet, book a hotel, pay for a meal or drinks. Not ALL of us might be in the enviable position to be able to just drop work at a moment's notice just like that.
You may very well be a well known and verified person/couple on here but your comments are insensitive and put undue and wholly unnecessary pressure on someone who is finding it tough enough on here already!
From what I read, the OP has said he cannot meet at the time YOU suggested but had offered up an alternative..... seeing as you can just drop your plans in a heartbeat why don't you do so and meet him at the time HE suggested?????
Come on - take a breath next time before you feel like having a pop maybe, yeah?!
I wish i could just take time of work, only thing is if I do take it off I'm not paid, obviously work is less enjoyable but has to be done
Thats grand but dont whinge if after joining 2 weeks ago if you have a busy work schedule "
I'm not complaining but non the less thank you for the offer, |
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"Surprise surprise there are more jobs than Monday to Friday 9 to 5 I did say I was off Monday and Tuesday
Well if it was me ( Mr C ) I would just ring in sick or swap shifts if I was serious about meeting
That's a bit unfair to say ..... and puts needless pressure on somebody. You are not aware of this guy's work situation and as much as he would LOVE to get that first meet and ensuing verification, it simply may not be practical and possible for him at that time. I think if EVERYBODY on here was a bit more understandable then the fab community would benefit and be all the better for it........ just my tuppence worth.
Here's my tuppence worth........
Everyone of these posts we have seen and offered to meet them they all come up with some excuse now im not implying this lad is not genuine but if I was seriously interested in getting verified I would cancel work. Unless work is more exciting than fab. lol "
Really
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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago
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"Surprise surprise there are more jobs than Monday to Friday 9 to 5 I did say I was off Monday and Tuesday
Well if it was me ( Mr C ) I would just ring in sick or swap shifts if I was serious about meeting
That's a bit unfair to say ..... and puts needless pressure on somebody. You are not aware of this guy's work situation and as much as he would LOVE to get that first meet and ensuing verification, it simply may not be practical and possible for him at that time. I think if EVERYBODY on here was a bit more understandable then the fab community would benefit and be all the better for it........ just my tuppence worth.
Here's my tuppence worth........
Everyone of these posts we have seen and offered to meet them they all come up with some excuse now im not implying this lad is not genuine but if I was seriously interested in getting verified I would cancel work. Unless work is more exciting than fab. lol
......jeeeezzzzzz mister you are simply NOT getting the point are you? That, or your sense of priorities are just a smidgen messed up! Maybe YOU place more of an importance on getting a simple verification over something as important as work. Work is what enables us to have the ability to go on a date, a meet, book a hotel, pay for a meal or drinks. Not ALL of us might be in the enviable position to be able to just drop work at a moment's notice just like that.
You may very well be a well known and verified person/couple on here but your comments are insensitive and put undue and wholly unnecessary pressure on someone who is finding it tough enough on here already!
From what I read, the OP has said he cannot meet at the time YOU suggested but had offered up an alternative..... seeing as you can just drop your plans in a heartbeat why don't you do so and meet him at the time HE suggested?????
Come on - take a breath next time before you feel like having a pop maybe, yeah?!
That gin is serious stuff, and you still make perfect sense while drinking it
Gin obviously suits him Sally
Whole heartedly agree. People need to think back to when they first started out besides being condescending about it. "
Condescending means talking down to someone....
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"Surprise surprise there are more jobs than Monday to Friday 9 to 5 I did say I was off Monday and Tuesday
Well if it was me ( Mr C ) I would just ring in sick or swap shifts if I was serious about meeting
That's a bit unfair to say ..... and puts needless pressure on somebody. You are not aware of this guy's work situation and as much as he would LOVE to get that first meet and ensuing verification, it simply may not be practical and possible for him at that time. I think if EVERYBODY on here was a bit more understandable then the fab community would benefit and be all the better for it........ just my tuppence worth.
Here's my tuppence worth........
Everyone of these posts we have seen and offered to meet them they all come up with some excuse now im not implying this lad is not genuine but if I was seriously interested in getting verified I would cancel work. Unless work is more exciting than fab. lol
......jeeeezzzzzz mister you are simply NOT getting the point are you? That, or your sense of priorities are just a smidgen messed up! Maybe YOU place more of an importance on getting a simple verification over something as important as work. Work is what enables us to have the ability to go on a date, a meet, book a hotel, pay for a meal or drinks. Not ALL of us might be in the enviable position to be able to just drop work at a moment's notice just like that.
You may very well be a well known and verified person/couple on here but your comments are insensitive and put undue and wholly unnecessary pressure on someone who is finding it tough enough on here already!
From what I read, the OP has said he cannot meet at the time YOU suggested but had offered up an alternative..... seeing as you can just drop your plans in a heartbeat why don't you do so and meet him at the time HE suggested?????
Come on - take a breath next time before you feel like having a pop maybe, yeah?!
That gin is serious stuff, and you still make perfect sense while drinking it "
Thank you - yes I remain in possession of all of my faculties even when under the influence of gin ...... sweet, lovely, delicious gin!!! |
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over a year ago
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"Surprise surprise there are more jobs than Monday to Friday 9 to 5 I did say I was off Monday and Tuesday
Well if it was me ( Mr C ) I would just ring in sick or swap shifts if I was serious about meeting
That's a bit unfair to say ..... and puts needless pressure on somebody. You are not aware of this guy's work situation and as much as he would LOVE to get that first meet and ensuing verification, it simply may not be practical and possible for him at that time. I think if EVERYBODY on here was a bit more understandable then the fab community would benefit and be all the better for it........ just my tuppence worth.
Here's my tuppence worth........
Everyone of these posts we have seen and offered to meet them they all come up with some excuse now im not implying this lad is not genuine but if I was seriously interested in getting verified I would cancel work. Unless work is more exciting than fab. lol
......jeeeezzzzzz mister you are simply NOT getting the point are you? That, or your sense of priorities are just a smidgen messed up! Maybe YOU place more of an importance on getting a simple verification over something as important as work. Work is what enables us to have the ability to go on a date, a meet, book a hotel, pay for a meal or drinks. Not ALL of us might be in the enviable position to be able to just drop work at a moment's notice just like that.
You may very well be a well known and verified person/couple on here but your comments are insensitive and put undue and wholly unnecessary pressure on someone who is finding it tough enough on here already!
From what I read, the OP has said he cannot meet at the time YOU suggested but had offered up an alternative..... seeing as you can just drop your plans in a heartbeat why don't you do so and meet him at the time HE suggested?????
Come on - take a breath next time before you feel like having a pop maybe, yeah?!
That gin is serious stuff, and you still make perfect sense while drinking it
Gin obviously suits him Sally
Whole heartedly agree. People need to think back to when they first started out besides being condescending about it. "
I like a few different alcoholic refreshments but at the moment am on a real gin buzz ...... seems like I am drinking my way around Ireland with the various different gins around ..... and some of them are bloody tasty to say the least!!! |
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"Surprise surprise there are more jobs than Monday to Friday 9 to 5 I did say I was off Monday and Tuesday
Well if it was me ( Mr C ) I would just ring in sick or swap shifts if I was serious about meeting
That's a bit unfair to say ..... and puts needless pressure on somebody. You are not aware of this guy's work situation and as much as he would LOVE to get that first meet and ensuing verification, it simply may not be practical and possible for him at that time. I think if EVERYBODY on here was a bit more understandable then the fab community would benefit and be all the better for it........ just my tuppence worth.
Here's my tuppence worth........
Everyone of these posts we have seen and offered to meet them they all come up with some excuse now im not implying this lad is not genuine but if I was seriously interested in getting verified I would cancel work. Unless work is more exciting than fab. lol
......jeeeezzzzzz mister you are simply NOT getting the point are you? That, or your sense of priorities are just a smidgen messed up! Maybe YOU place more of an importance on getting a simple verification over something as important as work. Work is what enables us to have the ability to go on a date, a meet, book a hotel, pay for a meal or drinks. Not ALL of us might be in the enviable position to be able to just drop work at a moment's notice just like that.
You may very well be a well known and verified person/couple on here but your comments are insensitive and put undue and wholly unnecessary pressure on someone who is finding it tough enough on here already!
From what I read, the OP has said he cannot meet at the time YOU suggested but had offered up an alternative..... seeing as you can just drop your plans in a heartbeat why don't you do so and meet him at the time HE suggested?????
Come on - take a breath next time before you feel like having a pop maybe, yeah?!
That gin is serious stuff, and you still make perfect sense while drinking it
Gin obviously suits him Sally
Whole heartedly agree. People need to think back to when they first started out besides being condescending about it.
Yea !!!
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"Gin obviously suits him Sally
Whole heartedly agree. People need to think back to when they first started out besides being condescending about it.
I like a few different alcoholic refreshments but at the moment am on a real gin buzz ...... seems like I am drinking my way around Ireland with the various different gins around ..... and some of them are bloody tasty to say the least!!! "
It certainly does suit him, Madame Boo x
Have you tried the drumshanbo gunpowder gin, and did you know Donegal has a recently launched gin of its own? |
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"Gin obviously suits him Sally
Whole heartedly agree. People need to think back to when they first started out besides being condescending about it.
I like a few different alcoholic refreshments but at the moment am on a real gin buzz ...... seems like I am drinking my way around Ireland with the various different gins around ..... and some of them are bloody tasty to say the least!!!
It certainly does suit him, Madame Boo x
Have you tried the drumshanbo gunpowder gin, and did you know Donegal has a recently launched gin of its own? "
Blackwater has a barrys tea gin its fab |
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"Gin obviously suits him Sally
Whole heartedly agree. People need to think back to when they first started out besides being condescending about it.
I like a few different alcoholic refreshments but at the moment am on a real gin buzz ...... seems like I am drinking my way around Ireland with the various different gins around ..... and some of them are bloody tasty to say the least!!!
It certainly does suit him, Madame Boo x
Have you tried the drumshanbo gunpowder gin, and did you know Donegal has a recently launched gin of its own? "
Yes the gunpowder is VERY nice as is Dingle and Thin gin. And I think I made reference to Mór gin too ..... they are all nice - that's the problem lol |
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Gissa job
What skills do you have?  "
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This!
Gissa job
What skills do you have?
Non fab related - IT and management. Fab related - yet to be properly tested "
It skills could come in handy
Fab skills......need someone to test them on  |
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This!
Gissa job
What skills do you have?
Non fab related - IT and management. Fab related - yet to be properly tested
It skills could come in handy
Fab skills......need someone to test them on "
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