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over a year ago
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"Well I went against my better instincts and gave her the benefit of the doubt but of course turn into a no show. How does everyone else out the time Waisters."
Personally myself i just block them and move on.they not worth another thought if they didnt contact you to cancel. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well I went against my better instincts and gave her the benefit of the doubt but of course turn into a no show. How does everyone else out the time Waisters."
Ahh sorry to hear that, move on plenty more fish in the sea esp in the midlands  |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"Well I went against my better instincts and gave her the benefit of the doubt but of course turn into a no show. How does everyone else out the time Waisters.
Ahh sorry to hear that, move on plenty more fish in the sea esp in the midlands "
Is there a sea in the Midlands   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a single man I feel you. I wish I could name and shame. It's just par for the course hence i have quit a few times. There is a ton of easier places to get the ride without the bs you get on this site. |
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Plenty of wankers on here dude and let nobody say the males are worse than the females. Plenty of times I've been stood up and found out I was a "just in case" block her ass and remember that she probably wouldn't warrant second glance on the street anyway. Probably better off on POF anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a single man I feel you. I wish I could name and shame. It's just par for the course hence i have quit a few times. There is a ton of easier places to get the ride without the bs you get on this site."
Really, what's the secret of an easy ride ?? |
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"Well I went against my better instincts and gave her the benefit of the doubt but of course turn into a no show. How does everyone else out the time Waisters."
It's not funny at all what happened but to see a single male say he went against his better instincts and gave a woman the benefit of the doubt on a meet is a first for me
Normally it's lads given out about not getting meets. It's a change |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only happened to me once, was supposed to meet another woman, stood up but subsequently found out it was a man. Very creepy as I'm pretty sure he was probably somewhere nearby watching me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well I went against my better instincts and gave her the benefit of the doubt but of course turn into a no show. How does everyone else out the time Waisters."
There's an option on every profile to report for time wasting. I'd give the benefit of the doubt once, but after that I'd block and report. It's definitely her loss anyway, she missed out on a fun time with a handsome interesting man. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well I went against my better instincts and gave her the benefit of the doubt but of course turn into a no show. How does everyone else out the time Waisters."
Has happened me a few times in the past op
Ur not on ur own |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Gave up on fab because of it...still run into the odd eejit who pretends to like you for a night then blanks you next night..move on..find another venue..  "
If someone pretends to like you for a night, then doesn't contact you (or blanks you). Maybe it's you that is the issue ?
If it happened once you could say it's just them/her/him but if it happens on a more regular basis i would be looking at myself tbh. |
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"Gave up on fab because of it...still run into the odd eejit who pretends to like you for a night then blanks you next night..move on..find another venue..
If someone pretends to like you for a night, then doesn't contact you (or blanks you). Maybe it's you that is the issue ?
If it happened once you could say it's just them/her/him but if it happens on a more regular basis i would be looking at myself tbh. "
..yeah..im nuts i guess...  |
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"Gave up on fab because of it...still run into the odd eejit who pretends to like you for a night then blanks you next night..move on..find another venue..
If someone pretends to like you for a night, then doesn't contact you (or blanks you). Maybe it's you that is the issue ?
If it happened once you could say it's just them/her/him but if it happens on a more regular basis i would be looking at myself tbh.
..yeah..im nuts i guess... "
Na girls like guys who are nuts.
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What these no show merchants fail to realise is that this is a small community and your name gets around fast either as a dick or a nice person...
So, yes there's just a few sad people here ...but thankfully loads of nice, classy, sexy people here too 
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"I got stood up 3 times over 3 consecutive days ... don’t sweat it ... fuck em.
If u were in limk I ld meet you for a pint ... cheers ?? "
Well, definitely not fuck em after that record 
3 times in 3 days? Are you sure you weren't logged in to Blindswingers by mistake? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What these no show merchants fail to realise is that this is a small community and your name gets around fast either as a dick or a nice person...
So, yes there's just a few sad people here ...but thankfully loads of nice, classy, sexy people here too
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I haven't stood anyone up. And I have had super fun with some sweet sexy hot ladies. But this has got me think.
Has I have being chatting with some lovely women. Then out of the blue sorry not meeting or chatting with u has u are married. I have clearly said this on my profile.
Mmmmmm |
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"What these no show merchants fail to realise is that this is a small community and your name gets around fast either as a dick or a nice person...
So, yes there's just a few sad people here ...but thankfully loads of nice, classy, sexy people here too
I haven't stood anyone up. And I have had super fun with some sweet sexy hot ladies. But this has got me think.
Has I have being chatting with some lovely women. Then out of the blue sorry not meeting or chatting with u has u are married. I have clearly said this on my profile.
Mmmmmm "
The same can be said when someone contacts a person that states on their profile that they won't meet married/attached... but yet still receive messages from both..
Or..perhaps the person you were messaging overlooked that married bit by mistake and then when they saw it so decided to leave it there?
But to me it's worse when someone sees that you won't meet married/attached and deliberately ignores it an messages anyway regardless but gets shirty when they are called out on it...
Over to you.... |
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over a year ago
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"What these no show merchants fail to realise is that this is a small community and your name gets around fast either as a dick or a nice person...
So, yes there's just a few sad people here ...but thankfully loads of nice, classy, sexy people here too
I haven't stood anyone up. And I have had super fun with some sweet sexy hot ladies. But this has got me think.
Has I have being chatting with some lovely women. Then out of the blue sorry not meeting or chatting with u has u are married. I have clearly said this on my profile.
Mmmmmm
The same can be said when someone contacts a person that states on their profile that they won't meet married/attached... but yet still receive messages from both..
Or..perhaps the person you were messaging overlooked that married bit by mistake and then when they saw it so decided to leave it there?
But to me it's worse when someone sees that you won't meet married/attached and deliberately ignores it an messages anyway regardless but gets shirty when they are called out on it...
Over to you.... "
Not talking about me anyway there cos I don't do scarily. It's people's choice what they want to do.
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"What these no show merchants fail to realise is that this is a small community and your name gets around fast either as a dick or a nice person...
So, yes there's just a few sad people here ...but thankfully loads of nice, classy, sexy people here too
I haven't stood anyone up. And I have had super fun with some sweet sexy hot ladies. But this has got me think.
Has I have being chatting with some lovely women. Then out of the blue sorry not meeting or chatting with u has u are married. I have clearly said this on my profile.
Mmmmmm
The same can be said when someone contacts a person that states on their profile that they won't meet married/attached... but yet still receive messages from both..
Or..perhaps the person you were messaging overlooked that married bit by mistake and then when they saw it so decided to leave it there?
But to me it's worse when someone sees that you won't meet married/attached and deliberately ignores it an messages anyway regardless but gets shirty when they are called out on it...
Over to you....
Not talking about me anyway there cos I don't do scarily. It's people's choice what they want to do.
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Exactly it's people's choice so you shouldn't really get baffled when it happens.. anyway this has nothing to do with the OP topic |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What these no show merchants fail to realise is that this is a small community and your name gets around fast either as a dick or a nice person...
So, yes there's just a few sad people here ...but thankfully loads of nice, classy, sexy people here too
I haven't stood anyone up. And I have had super fun with some sweet sexy hot ladies. But this has got me think.
Has I have being chatting with some lovely women. Then out of the blue sorry not meeting or chatting with u has u are married. I have clearly said this on my profile.
Mmmmmm
The same can be said when someone contacts a person that states on their profile that they won't meet married/attached... but yet still receive messages from both..
Or..perhaps the person you were messaging overlooked that married bit by mistake and then when they saw it so decided to leave it there?
But to me it's worse when someone sees that you won't meet married/attached and deliberately ignores it an messages anyway regardless but gets shirty when they are called out on it...
Over to you....
Not talking about me anyway there cos I don't do scarily. It's people's choice what they want to do.
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Don't you know the ladies are always right even when wrong. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What these no show merchants fail to realise is that this is a small community and your name gets around fast either as a dick or a nice person...
So, yes there's just a few sad people here ...but thankfully loads of nice, classy, sexy people here too
I haven't stood anyone up. And I have had super fun with some sweet sexy hot ladies. But this has got me think.
Has I have being chatting with some lovely women. Then out of the blue sorry not meeting or chatting with u has u are married. I have clearly said this on my profile.
Mmmmmm
The same can be said when someone contacts a person that states on their profile that they won't meet married/attached... but yet still receive messages from both..
Or..perhaps the person you were messaging overlooked that married bit by mistake and then when they saw it so decided to leave it there?
But to me it's worse when someone sees that you won't meet married/attached and deliberately ignores it an messages anyway regardless but gets shirty when they are called out on it...
Over to you....
Not talking about me anyway there cos I don't do scarily. It's people's choice what they want to do.
Don't you know the ladies are always right even when wrong."
  pmsl.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm lucky to have not had this experience yet but I can't imagine it feels. I honestly make sure that everything is arranged before I go ahead but things do happen at short notice too, keep the head up is all I can say |
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"What these no show merchants fail to realise is that this is a small community and your name gets around fast either as a dick or a nice person...
So, yes there's just a few sad people here ...but thankfully loads of nice, classy, sexy people here too
I haven't stood anyone up. And I have had super fun with some sweet sexy hot ladies. But this has got me think.
Has I have being chatting with some lovely women. Then out of the blue sorry not meeting or chatting with u has u are married. I have clearly said this on my profile.
Mmmmmm
The same can be said when someone contacts a person that states on their profile that they won't meet married/attached... but yet still receive messages from both..
Or..perhaps the person you were messaging overlooked that married bit by mistake and then when they saw it so decided to leave it there?
But to me it's worse when someone sees that you won't meet married/attached and deliberately ignores it an messages anyway regardless but gets shirty when they are called out on it...
Over to you.... "
I couldn’t have put this better myself |
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