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Very easily turned off !
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok so for me reasons for being so fussy. I know if i don't like some thing, i mean it because i get turned off easily.Does this make sense, are others like this or do you continue to let persons just use you etc ?? |
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"Ok so for me reasons for being so fussy. I know if i don't like some thing, i mean it because i get turned off easily.Does this make sense, are others like this or do you continue to let persons just use you etc ?? "
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You've a set of standards and you know what floats your boat and what sinks it ...and that seems normal
There's no point in doing something ...unless both bods are cozy, consensual and above board with everything   |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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What's the context here? chatting on fab or at a meet? In general I won't let anyone use me but also I won't just run away if not everything is perfect. Certainly would try and communicate first..... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What's the context here? chatting on fab or at a meet? In general I won't let anyone use me but also I won't just run away if not everything is perfect. Certainly would try and communicate first....."
Yes i do communicate but so many dishonest about stuff then you give them a chance. Then end up just stopping and thinking am wasting my time here . Oh well such as life i suppose . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"No never let any one use me...my body my choice "
I don't let anyone use me i make sure i am satisfied first . But i think so many out there used to just using it's unreal . I use in the way of fun but equally pleased is two people happy . |
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"What's the context here? chatting on fab or at a meet? In general I won't let anyone use me but also I won't just run away if not everything is perfect. Certainly would try and communicate first.....
Yes i do communicate but so many dishonest about stuff then you give them a chance. Then end up just stopping and thinking am wasting my time here . Oh well such as life i suppose ."
If you aren't feeling good about what is happening, communicate, and guide them, and if you don't like it then communicate so and stop. Don't do things you don't like to please someone you don't know.
If it's because they said they are experienced at something and then prove to have lied, then better vetting before the meet required! But sometimes you have to try new stuff to know if you enjoy it. And if you don't enjoy it, maybe it's the person you're with!
Be safe, be choosy and have a great time |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What's the context here? chatting on fab or at a meet? In general I won't let anyone use me but also I won't just run away if not everything is perfect. Certainly would try and communicate first.....
Yes i do communicate but so many dishonest about stuff then you give them a chance. Then end up just stopping and thinking am wasting my time here . Oh well such as life i suppose .
If you aren't feeling good about what is happening, communicate, and guide them, and if you don't like it then communicate so and stop. Don't do things you don't like to please someone you don't know.
If it's because they said they are experienced at something and then prove to have lied, then better vetting before the meet required! But sometimes you have to try new stuff to know if you enjoy it. And if you don't enjoy it, maybe it's the person you're with!
Be safe, be choosy and have a great time"
Yes proved to have lied even after vetting process lol |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"What's the context here? chatting on fab or at a meet? In general I won't let anyone use me but also I won't just run away if not everything is perfect. Certainly would try and communicate first.....
Yes i do communicate but so many dishonest about stuff then you give them a chance. Then end up just stopping and thinking am wasting my time here . Oh well such as life i suppose ."
Always follow your gut feeling, if you're not fully convinced, don't meet - at least that's what I learned from a two or three situations like that. 'Analysing' them I noticed there's normally tell tell signs beforehand and it's important to spot them and abandon the mission. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Perhaps you need to consider exactly what it is you are looking for here, personally I don't see how someone can complain about feeling used for consensual sex unless they have a different agenda. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No never let any one use me...my body my choice
I don't let anyone use me i make sure i am satisfied first . But i think so many out there used to just using it's unreal . I use in the way of fun but equally pleased is two people happy ."
Im confused op, you don't allow people to use you, then in what way do you feel people are trying to use you, or is it that they talk the talk when it comes to sex, but cant deliver, what exactly would you be allowing people to continue with? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Perhaps you need to consider exactly what it is you are looking for here, personally I don't see how someone can complain about feeling used for consensual sex unless they have a different agenda."
I mean used just to satify one in the meet and not the second party.As in say a meet happens and the guy just want to please himself and not please the women . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Perhaps you need to consider exactly what it is you are looking for here, personally I don't see how someone can complain about feeling used for consensual sex unless they have a different agenda.
I mean used just to satify one in the meet and not the second party.As in say a meet happens and the guy just want to please himself and not please the women ."
Ah right, well, that's just a dickhead, with practice they're not that difficult to spot. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"No never let any one use me...my body my choice
I don't let anyone use me i make sure i am satisfied first . But i think so many out there used to just using it's unreal . I use in the way of fun but equally pleased is two people happy .
Im confused op, you don't allow people to use you, then in what way do you feel people are trying to use you, or is it that they talk the talk when it comes to sex, but cant deliver, what exactly would you be allowing people to continue with?"
Not continuing to let people talk the talk and not being able to deliver lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Perhaps you need to consider exactly what it is you are looking for here, personally I don't see how someone can complain about feeling used for consensual sex unless they have a different agenda.
I mean used just to satify one in the meet and not the second party.As in say a meet happens and the guy just want to please himself and not please the women ."
Ah sure, get yourself one of them things there always going on about here, a vibrator! You don't seem to me, to be someone left wanting |
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Arent we all using each other here? The one common factor everybody wants is sex. Maybe if youre feeling used or put off after a meet, then the person you were with at that time wasnt right for you? Sometimes experiencing that used feeling can be an advantage in learning what you dont want. Use it as a learning curve to find what you do want. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No never let any one use me...my body my choice
I don't let anyone use me i make sure i am satisfied first . But i think so many out there used to just using it's unreal . I use in the way of fun but equally pleased is two people happy ."
Yes true and can only speak for myself but I'm the same...i don't let anyone use me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Perhaps you need to consider exactly what it is you are looking for here, personally I don't see how someone can complain about feeling used for consensual sex unless they have a different agenda.
I mean used just to satify one in the meet and not the second party.As in say a meet happens and the guy just want to please himself and not please the women .
Ah sure, get yourself one of them things there always going on about here, a vibrator! You don't seem to me, to be someone left wanting"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Perhaps you need to consider exactly what it is you are looking for here, personally I don't see how someone can complain about feeling used for consensual sex unless they have a different agenda.
I mean used just to satify one in the meet and not the second party.As in say a meet happens and the guy just want to please himself and not please the women .
Ah sure, get yourself one of them things there always going on about here, a vibrator! You don't seem to me, to be someone left wanting"
I have two vibrators not the same as the real deal . I have been left wanting due to bad choices having to go home and please myself .So am upping the interview process now lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Arent we all using each other here? The one common factor everybody wants is sex. Maybe if youre feeling used or put off after a meet, then the person you were with at that time wasnt right for you? Sometimes experiencing that used feeling can be an advantage in learning what you dont want. Use it as a learning curve to find what you do want. "
Very true, i have done this of course. I have stopped pleasure for the guy who just wants to please himself for sure. Then yes put a stop to it full stop now even though it has only happened a few times.But i just see so much of it but maybe some like letting guys use them in this manner . Not me |
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"Perhaps you need to consider exactly what it is you are looking for here, personally I don't see how someone can complain about feeling used for consensual sex unless they have a different agenda.
I mean used just to satify one in the meet and not the second party.As in say a meet happens and the guy just want to please himself and not please the women .
Ah sure, get yourself one of them things there always going on about here, a vibrator! You don't seem to me, to be someone left wanting
I have two vibrators not the same as the real deal . I have been left wanting due to bad choices having to go home and please myself .So am upping the interview process now lol "
Guys that not only know how to please women, but also want to, are plentiful I'm sure. If you struggle to find one though, we can make an instructional video together. Just for educational purposes of course! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Perhaps you need to consider exactly what it is you are looking for here, personally I don't see how someone can complain about feeling used for consensual sex unless they have a different agenda.
I mean used just to satify one in the meet and not the second party.As in say a meet happens and the guy just want to please himself and not please the women .
Ah sure, get yourself one of them things there always going on about here, a vibrator! You don't seem to me, to be someone left wanting
I have two vibrators not the same as the real deal . I have been left wanting due to bad choices having to go home and please myself .So am upping the interview process now lol
Guys that not only know how to please women, but also want to, are plentiful I'm sure. If you struggle to find one though, we can make an instructional video together. Just for educational purposes of course! "
Now there is an offer lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think there is a certain amount of using each other on this site. Most people are looking for the same thing after all.
Mostly it comes down, to me, to respect and and making sure you both get what you want out of it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Perhaps you need to consider exactly what it is you are looking for here, personally I don't see how someone can complain about feeling used for consensual sex unless they have a different agenda.
I mean used just to satify one in the meet and not the second party.As in say a meet happens and the guy just want to please himself and not please the women .
Ah sure, get yourself one of them things there always going on about here, a vibrator! You don't seem to me, to be someone left wanting
I have two vibrators not the same as the real deal . I have been left wanting due to bad choices having to go home and please myself .So am upping the interview process now lol "
Your really just defining the domme role for yourself, humiliation could work for some I suppose. Just out of curiosity, this interview process would need to be hands on id imagine, would you care to share some of the tasks, that you'd insist on from a potential play partner |
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By (user no longer on site)
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O p here’s the thing fellas here mostly are after a ride where they get to cum and mostly can’t be arsed about your pleasure , choose your meets better , easy to spot those just out to empty their balls in you . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"O p here’s the thing fellas here mostly are after a ride where they get to cum and mostly can’t be arsed about your pleasure , choose your meets better , easy to spot those just out to empty their balls in you . "
Oh i am choosing better but just explaining why criteria etc is a must for me . Emptying balls into a condom x |
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