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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Serious question here. I love anal play but I've issues with taking it up the bum. Am I on my own with this and is there any ladies who've overcome this. Bit of help on this would be greatly appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

loads of lube and don't try untill your ready.. too many guys rush it.. try a butt plug first maybe while ye play..

nice and slow.. you will probably have the best orgasm you ever had.. actually if you do... let me know.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

All good things in time no good going in for the kill and ruining it for you plenty of lube and build up to it

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By *iftyfifty51Man  over a year ago

trim

You need to be gentle with your georgous bum,

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Sally, slow is the key and the more you tense the less you will enjoy. Took me time but now I love it but genuinly does need to start slow and work from their

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By *LICK IF U DAREWoman  over a year ago

good girl gone bad!!!!!!


"Sally, slow is the key and the more you tense the less you will enjoy. Took me time but now I love it but genuinly does need to start slow and work from their "
The more you tense the more it hurts

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By *andydevineMan  over a year ago

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By *andydevineMan  over a year ago

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By *andydevineMan  over a year ago

sligo

Try poppers or even if your that way inclined.

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By *hocko87Man  over a year ago

dublin

Sally don't take poppers . Just relax and enjoy it very slowLey . And don't rush into it on the first time slowely build it up . That's why a regular friend is best .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Sally, slow is the key and the more you tense the less you will enjoy. Took me time but now I love it but genuinly does need to start slow and work from their The more you tense the more it hurts "

This, relax and some lick, fingers, lube and some play to get you extra horny and wanting it badly, then your will be ready

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By *orguyMan  over a year ago

Tuam


"Sally, slow is the key and the more you tense the less you will enjoy. Took me time but now I love it but genuinly does need to start slow and work from their "

I'm nice and gentle Fee

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Serious question here. I love anal play but I've issues with taking it up the bum. Am I on my own with this and is there any ladies who've overcome this. Bit of help on this would be greatly appreciated "

Sally I'm an ass virgin tried so many times number one the cock wont go in lol number two when it does hurts like hell and thats only the tip of the cock in..

It's like child birth i couldn't manage that either lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Sally, slow is the key and the more you tense the less you will enjoy. Took me time but now I love it but genuinly does need to start slow and work from their The more you tense the more it hurts

This, relax and some lick, fingers, lube and some play to get you extra horny and wanting it badly, then your will be ready "

Build up, can't beat it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"loads of lube and don't try untill your ready.. too many guys rush it.. try a butt plug first maybe while ye play..

nice and slow.. you will probably have the best orgasm you ever had.. actually if you do... let me know. "

Ok I will......lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Coconut oil and go easy xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Serious question here. I love anal play but I've issues with taking it up the bum. Am I on my own with this and is there any ladies who've overcome this. Bit of help on this would be greatly appreciated

Sally I'm an ass virgin tried so many times number one the cock wont go in lol number two when it does hurts like hell and thats only the tip of the cock in..

It's like child birth i couldn't manage that either lol

"

This is the issue ... I'm not trying poppers but I just need to take it slow and easy. I've tried a few times now without proper success

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By *ellboy101Man  over a year ago

cavan


"Sally, slow is the key and the more you tense the less you will enjoy. Took me time but now I love it but genuinly does need to start slow and work from their The more you tense the more it hurts

This, relax and some lick, fingers, lube and some play to get you extra horny and wanting it badly, then your will be ready "

Mmm sounds like your ready

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Sally, slow is the key and the more you tense the less you will enjoy. Took me time but now I love it but genuinly does need to start slow and work from their The more you tense the more it hurts

This, relax and some lick, fingers, lube and some play to get you extra horny and wanting it badly, then your will be ready

Mmm sounds like your ready"

Always

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By *ellboy101Man  over a year ago

cavan


"Sally, slow is the key and the more you tense the less you will enjoy. Took me time but now I love it but genuinly does need to start slow and work from their The more you tense the more it hurts

This, relax and some lick, fingers, lube and some play to get you extra horny and wanting it badly, then your will be ready

Mmm sounds like your ready

Always "

I like your style,ready for pleasure might have to put that to test sometime

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By *oserMan  over a year ago

where the wild roses grow


"Serious question here. I love anal play but I've issues with taking it up the bum. Am I on my own with this and is there any ladies who've overcome this. Bit of help on this would be greatly appreciated

Sally I'm an ass virgin tried so many times number one the cock wont go in lol number two when it does hurts like hell and thats only the tip of the cock in..

It's like child birth i couldn't manage that either lol

This is the issue ... I'm not trying poppers but I just need to take it slow and easy. I've tried a few times now without proper success "

Sure we can try again

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Serious question here. I love anal play but I've issues with taking it up the bum. Am I on my own with this and is there any ladies who've overcome this. Bit of help on this would be greatly appreciated

Sally I'm an ass virgin tried so many times number one the cock wont go in lol number two when it does hurts like hell and thats only the tip of the cock in..

It's like child birth i couldn't manage that either lol

This is the issue ... I'm not trying poppers but I just need to take it slow and easy. I've tried a few times now without proper success

Sure we can try again "

lucky you sally lol

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By *HandDNCouple  over a year ago

Dublin

A lot of men claim to know what they're doing but sadly don't. Key thing ia to take it slow, inch by inch dare I say. You enjoy ass play so try beads, small dildo, butt plug etc until you're comfortable trying something a little bigger and as already mentioned plenty of lube along the way.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Plenty of lube and a nice smooth butt plug, plus a person who will go at your pace and follow your lead. Once you push back you're ready

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan  over a year ago

Tipperary

trust is huge with anal sex

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By *irtypair00Couple  over a year ago

Dublin


"Serious question here. I love anal play but I've issues with taking it up the bum. Am I on my own with this and is there any ladies who've overcome this. Bit of help on this would be greatly appreciated

Sally I'm an ass virgin tried so many times number one the cock wont go in lol number two when it does hurts like hell and thats only the tip of the cock in..

It's like child birth i couldn't manage that either lol

This is the issue ... I'm not trying poppers but I just need to take it slow and easy. I've tried a few times now without proper success "

They key is to take it at your own pace and pleny of lube At the end of the day it's a muscle that need to be trained to let things in not just out lol .

Dont bother with poppers anyone taking them isn't ready and could be doing damage .

I'd suggest play or using a but plug for a while or keep it in for a bit in the house . And when you feel like trying it again with someone, you take control and push back not them push in to fast

Hope some of that helps .

Mr dirty xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

good advise alround..

douche before ..

also helps relax..

lube well..

try some d.i.y with some butt plugs or a neat dildo..

relax....work on breathing techniques too

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Or try finding a tiny cock sally, come on lads put ur names forward lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"good advise alround..

douche before ..

also helps relax..

lube well..

try some d.i.y with some butt plugs or a neat dildo..

relax....work on breathing techniques too"

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"thrust is huge with anal sex "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Or try finding a tiny cock sally, come on lads put ur names forward lol "

It's a dirty job but someone has to do it

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By *evil_u_knowMan  over a year ago

city

I dunno why women are like "oh only with someone I trust", and "oh he has to be gentle"

While at the same time saying "men can't take pain".

Cause tbh, loads of lads out there let you just fuck them in the ass as rough as you like.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

They say squats tighten up the arse cheeks

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By *oghunter33Woman  over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Key is to relax, try with someone you've met before. Go on top, then you're in control of the penetration act. It will/does hurt a bit but with every time dipping in a bit further the muscle relaxes and pain diminishes. If you're tense and afraid of the pain, you're making it worse and you never get there.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"trust is huge with anal sex "

Yes and relaxing. Hate lube though usually if you work up a want for it. Rimming and forplay should be enough. Enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"trust is huge with anal sex

Yes and relaxing. Hate lube though usually if you work up a want for it. Rimming and forplay should be enough. Enjoy "

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Serious question here. I love anal play but I've issues with taking it up the bum. Am I on my own with this and is there any ladies who've overcome this. Bit of help on this would be greatly appreciated

Sally I'm an ass virgin tried so many times number one the cock wont go in lol number two when it does hurts like hell and thats only the tip of the cock in..

It's like child birth i couldn't manage that either lol

This is the issue ... I'm not trying poppers but I just need to take it slow and easy. I've tried a few times now without proper success

Sure we can try again "

Oh yos your almost perfect ... I'm a lucky lady

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"A lot of men claim to know what they're doing but sadly don't. Key thing ia to take it slow, inch by inch dare I say. You enjoy ass play so try beads, small dildo, butt plug etc until you're comfortable trying something a little bigger and as already mentioned plenty of lube along the way. "

Thank you ... good advise there. Some new year treats for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Plenty of lube and a nice smooth butt plug, plus a person who will go at your pace and follow your lead. Once you push back you're ready "

Thanks sally ... I'm ready for the right guy

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Serious question here. I love anal play but I've issues with taking it up the bum. Am I on my own with this and is there any ladies who've overcome this. Bit of help on this would be greatly appreciated

Sally I'm an ass virgin tried so many times number one the cock wont go in lol number two when it does hurts like hell and thats only the tip of the cock in..

It's like child birth i couldn't manage that either lol

This is the issue ... I'm not trying poppers but I just need to take it slow and easy. I've tried a few times now without proper success

They key is to take it at your own pace and pleny of lube At the end of the day it's a muscle that need to be trained to let things in not just out lol .

Dont bother with poppers anyone taking them isn't ready and could be doing damage .

I'd suggest play or using a but plug for a while or keep it in for a bit in the house . And when you feel like trying it again with someone, you take control and push back not them push in to fast

Hope some of that helps .

Mr dirty xx "

Thank you Mr Dirty ... it us sound advise

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I wonder how how many guys who are imparting their wisdom, have actually taken it up the arse, mmmmm, one or two seem to know what their talking about

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Or try finding a tiny cock sally, come on lads put ur names forward lol "

If all men with tiny cocks could sign up here

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"good advise alround..

douche before ..

also helps relax..

lube well..

try some d.i.y with some butt plugs or a neat dildo..

relax....work on breathing techniques too"

Thank you for that

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"trust is huge with anal sex "

It is

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Or try finding a tiny cock sally, come on lads put ur names forward lol

It's a dirty job but someone has to do it "

Oh grey ..you not on this list

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"They say squats tighten up the arse cheeks "

Need to loosen that area up

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I tried this for so long so can relate! Admittedly I still find it a bit ouchie going in but love it now. For me, plenty of lube, and a little clit vibrator on my button on full blast. It’s kinda like pinching yourself elsewhere when you have a blood test to distract you. Haha.

Once it’s in, I’m always the one that starts the build up/moving until it’s starts to feel really good. Definitely all about the vibrator and taking it at my pace (for me). Helps to have a patient guy or girl too.

Worth persevering though because the first anal/clit orgasm It almost blew my head off!

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Key is to relax, try with someone you've met before. Go on top, then you're in control of the penetration act. It will/does hurt a bit but with every time dipping in a bit further the muscle relaxes and pain diminishes. If you're tense and afraid of the pain, you're making it worse and you never get there. "

I think your advise is sound and I will follow it. I've got that someone I trust, now I just need to relax

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I wonder how how many guys who are imparting their wisdom, have actually taken it up the arse, mmmmm, one or two seem to know what their talking about "

Well I'm taking notes here so if you've knowledge to impart please share

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Plenty of lube and a nice smooth butt plug, plus a person who will go at your pace and follow your lead. Once you push back you're ready

Thanks sally ... I'm ready for the right guy "

As someone else said too, focus on your breathing. Slow everything down, relax and move with it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I tried this for so long so can relate! Admittedly I still find it a bit ouchie going in but love it now. For me, plenty of lube, and a little clit vibrator on my button on full blast. It’s kinda like pinching yourself elsewhere when you have a blood test to distract you. Haha.

Once it’s in, I’m always the one that starts the build up/moving until it’s starts to feel really good. Definitely all about the vibrator and taking it at my pace (for me). Helps to have a patient guy or girl too.

Worth persevering though because the first anal/clit orgasm It almost blew my head off!

Good luck!"

I'm going to use the vibe .. brilliant idea

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By *j47Man  over a year ago

limerick

Brace urself is the best advice ull get

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I wonder how how many guys who are imparting their wisdom, have actually taken it up the arse, mmmmm, one or two seem to know what their talking about

Well I'm taking notes here so if you've knowledge to impart please share "

Well there's not really much left to say, unless you want an anaesthetic for your arse

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Plenty of lube and a nice smooth butt plug, plus a person who will go at your pace and follow your lead. Once you push back you're ready

Thanks sally ... I'm ready for the right guy

As someone else said too, focus on your breathing. Slow everything down, relax and move with it. "

Like a dance

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I wonder how how many guys who are imparting their wisdom, have actually taken it up the arse, mmmmm, one or two seem to know what their talking about

Well I'm taking notes here so if you've knowledge to impart please share

Well there's not really much left to say, unless you want an anaesthetic for your arse "

Maybe .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Plenty of lube and a nice smooth butt plug, plus a person who will go at your pace and follow your lead. Once you push back you're ready

Thanks sally ... I'm ready for the right guy

As someone else said too, focus on your breathing. Slow everything down, relax and move with it.

Like a dance "

Just like a dance

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By *owdyboy 890Man  over a year ago

Country West


"Serious question here. I love anal play but I've issues with taking it up the bum. Am I on my own with this and is there any ladies who've overcome this. Bit of help on this would be greatly appreciated "

Come to me and we can practice on it

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Serious question here. I love anal play but I've issues with taking it up the bum. Am I on my own with this and is there any ladies who've overcome this. Bit of help on this would be greatly appreciated

Come to me and we can practice on it "

Kerry here I cum

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By *ohndunboyneMan  over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"I wonder how how many guys who are imparting their wisdom, have actually taken it up the arse, mmmmm, one or two seem to know what their talking about

Well I'm taking notes here so if you've knowledge to impart please share

Well there's not really much left to say, unless you want an anaesthetic for your arse

Maybe . "

I think there are lines for anal that slightly numb the area, initially at least. Think I saw them on Lovehoney but if I did, then I'm sure they must be available on your face sex shop site also

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By *ohndunboyneMan  over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Lines-lubes

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By *addubMan  over a year ago

dublin. 12

Try it with someone that is not too big in the trouser dept first. if that works you can build from there. I'm volunteering Sally to be your first.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Serious question here. I love anal play but I've issues with taking it up the bum. Am I on my own with this and is there any ladies who've overcome this. Bit of help on this would be greatly appreciated "

Pick the man very carefully and go very slow

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Get a butt plug training kit in ann summers and go at ur own pace

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Patience, lube, lube and a bit more lube

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I wonder how how many guys who are imparting their wisdom, have actually taken it up the arse, mmmmm, one or two seem to know what their talking about

Well I'm taking notes here so if you've knowledge to impart please share "

Insert ben wa balls into your pussy 2.5 hours before your planned play session. Prepare yourself for anal sex by first evacuating your bowels, then thoroughly douching in the shower with an enema kit. Assume the doggie position with your knees at the side of the bed, apply lube to ass and cock, have appropriate condoms. Insert cock slowly, then stop, you push back on the cock and set the pace. Once you can take it all in, hold a wand vibe to your clit, the ben wa balls should be touching your gspot, you might want to squirt, and finally listen to the jingle bells of multiple orgasms

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I wonder how how many guys who are imparting their wisdom, have actually taken it up the arse, mmmmm, one or two seem to know what their talking about

Well I'm taking notes here so if you've knowledge to impart please share

Insert ben wa balls into your pussy 2.5 hours before your planned play session. Prepare yourself for anal sex by first evacuating your bowels, then thoroughly douching in the shower with an enema kit. Assume the doggie position with your knees at the side of the bed, apply lube to ass and cock, have appropriate condoms. Insert cock slowly, then stop, you push back on the cock and set the pace. Once you can take it all in, hold a wand vibe to your clit, the ben wa balls should be touching your gspot, you might want to squirt, and finally listen to the jingle bells of multiple orgasms "

That's good knowledge

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Plenty of lube and a nice smooth butt plug, plus a person who will go at your pace and follow your lead. Once you push back you're ready "

Listen to Sally O’Brien she knows these things.

I think it also helps for the first few times is take control yourself be on top or do the pushing and be able to allow yourself to control pressure maneuver a bit to get the best angles. The type of lube makes a big difference too.

Also if you douche before playing give yourself an hour or more so what little natural lubrication you have back there is built up. If it’s still wet from douching it can reduce the effectiveness or water based lubes.

Another good technique which may seem counter intuitive is to push a little bit as if you were going to the toilet. That makes it go in more easily. It makes a big difference.

Good luck and have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Plenty of lube and a nice smooth butt plug, plus a person who will go at your pace and follow your lead. Once you push back you're ready

Listen to Sally O’Brien she knows these things.

I think it also helps for the first few times is take control yourself be on top or do the pushing and be able to allow yourself to control pressure maneuver a bit to get the best angles. The type of lube makes a big difference too.

Also if you douche before playing give yourself an hour or more so what little natural lubrication you have back there is built up. If it’s still wet from douching it can reduce the effectiveness or water based lubes.

Another good technique which may seem counter intuitive is to push a little bit as if you were going to the toilet. That makes it go in more easily. It makes a big difference.

Good luck and have fun. "

SallyOBrien had a good teacher

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

SallyOBrien had a good teacher "

And I never even got an Apple once

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

SallyOBrien had a good teacher

And I never even got an Apple once "

You got a cherry, what more did you want

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Sexy Sally,

As the founding and only member of the Fermanagh Tiny Tage club ( the smaller the better) I should like to offer our help in your quest in having your "Bum" bashed lol ..I my self have experience in this matter, lovely!! Time and a patience and small cocks is what we offer hope to hear from you soon.

Tiny Tim chairman ( )

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By *oghunter33Woman  over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Lube is a great placebo.

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By *unnitoesWoman  over a year ago

Belfast


"I wonder how how many guys who are imparting their wisdom, have actually taken it up the arse, mmmmm, one or two seem to know what their talking about

Well I'm taking notes here so if you've knowledge to impart please share

Insert ben wa balls into your pussy 2.5 hours before your planned play session. Prepare yourself for anal sex by first evacuating your bowels, then thoroughly douching in the shower with an enema kit. Assume the doggie position with your knees at the side of the bed, apply lube to ass and cock, have appropriate condoms. Insert cock slowly, then stop, you push back on the cock and set the pace. Once you can take it all in, hold a wand vibe to your clit, the ben wa balls should be touching your gspot, you might want to squirt, and finally listen to the jingle bells of multiple orgasms

That's good knowledge "

Noooo not doggy for your first time! I'd advise to lie on your side like spooning, then allow him slow entrance that way, you'll know when it's in

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

In my experience size is not all important... I had a not that big guy and because he was not into anal.. He just did it few times because I wanted, I experienced some pain and not that enjoyable, but had a partner bigger size that was into anal as much as me and no pain... Preparation, relax, horniness is the key

So shally, don't be afraid of big cocks for anal.. Go for it girl lol

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By *adame BWoman  over a year ago

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Just go for the plunge Sally!

Add a knob of margarine to help it on its way.... You’ll never believe it’s not butter

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By *adame BWoman  over a year ago

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"Just go for the plunge Sally!

Add a knob of margarine to help it on its way.... You’ll never believe it’s not butter

"

You’re welcome,

Fooey

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just go for the plunge Sally!

Add a knob of margarine to help it on its way.... You’ll never believe it’s not butter

You’re welcome,

Fooey "

Poor Madam B. My butt cheeks clench for you.

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By *adame BWoman  over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir


"Just go for the plunge Sally!

Add a knob of margarine to help it on its way.... You’ll never believe it’s not butter

You’re welcome,

Fooey

Poor Madam B. My butt cheeks clench for you. "

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By *adame BWoman  over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir


"Just go for the plunge Sally!

Add a knob of margarine to help it on its way.... You’ll never believe it’s not butter

You’re welcome,

Fooey

Poor Madam B. My butt cheeks clench for you. "

It’s called the Foo method....

60% of the time it works everytime

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By *ease_EMan  over a year ago

DDD12


"Serious question here. I love anal play but I've issues with taking it up the bum. Am I on my own with this and is there any ladies who've overcome this. Bit of help on this would be greatly appreciated "

And,

What a Gorgeous Ass you have,

And you can push back As Slowly As You Like,.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Plenty of lube and a nice smooth butt plug, plus a person who will go at your pace and follow your lead. Once you push back you're ready

Listen to Sally O’Brien she knows these things.

I think it also helps for the first few times is take control yourself be on top or do the pushing and be able to allow yourself to control pressure maneuver a bit to get the best angles. The type of lube makes a big difference too.

Also if you douche before playing give yourself an hour or more so what little natural lubrication you have back there is built up. If it’s still wet from douching it can reduce the effectiveness or water based lubes.

Another good technique which may seem counter intuitive is to push a little bit as if you were going to the toilet. That makes it go in more easily. It makes a big difference.

Good luck and have fun.

SallyOBrien had a good teacher "

Sally O Brian is a wise and might I say lucky woman

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"In my experience size is not all important... I had a not that big guy and because he was not into anal.. He just did it few times because I wanted, I experienced some pain and not that enjoyable, but had a partner bigger size that was into anal as much as me and no pain... Preparation, relax, horniness is the key

So shally, don't be afraid of big cocks for anal.. Go for it girl lol"

Lol .... himself will be pleased with that statement

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Just go for the plunge Sally!

Add a knob of margarine to help it on its way.... You’ll never believe it’s not butter

"

Bahaha. ... oh I'm a real butter girl

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By *oghunter33Woman  over a year ago

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Jaysos Sally, you got so much advice, you better start cracking and stop hanging on the forum or Santi won't cum at all

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Jaysos Sally, you got so much advice, you better start cracking and stop hanging on the forum or Santi won't cum at all "

Oh Friday treats when I start my hols ... I'm prepared

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By *oghunter33Woman  over a year ago

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"Jaysos Sally, you got so much advice, you better start cracking and stop hanging on the forum or Santi won't cum at all

Oh Friday treats when I start my hols ... I'm prepared "

Lucky you! I've to wait with my fab explosion until after Christmas but it will be a feast.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Jaysos Sally, you got so much advice, you better start cracking and stop hanging on the forum or Santi won't cum at all

Oh Friday treats when I start my hols ... I'm prepared

Lucky you! I've to wait with my fab explosion until after Christmas but it will be a feast. "

This will be a very merry Christmas. .. enjoy your calm, get rest

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By *oghunter33Woman  over a year ago

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"Jaysos Sally, you got so much advice, you better start cracking and stop hanging on the forum or Santi won't cum at all

Oh Friday treats when I start my hols ... I'm prepared

Lucky you! I've to wait with my fab explosion until after Christmas but it will be a feast.

This will be a very merry Christmas. .. enjoy your calm, get rest "

The calm before the storm

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Jaysos Sally, you got so much advice, you better start cracking and stop hanging on the forum or Santi won't cum at all

Oh Friday treats when I start my hols ... I'm prepared

Lucky you! I've to wait with my fab explosion until after

Christmas but it will be a feast.

This will be a very merry Christmas. .. enjoy your calm, get rest "

Well if u need ant help wuth the job i can get into my sleigh and visit

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Jaysos Sally, you got so much advice, you better start cracking and stop hanging on the forum or Santi won't cum at all

Oh Friday treats when I start my hols ... I'm prepared

Lucky you! I've to wait with my fab explosion until after Christmas but it will be a feast.

This will be a very merry Christmas. .. enjoy your calm, get rest

The calm before the storm "

Seen lucky you

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Well Sally, do much advice, methods ... " Last tango in Paris" with the marg interesting lol so what's it to be nice and slow or Marg/ Real butter .... ????

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By *r_mrs_studmuffinCouple  over a year ago

narnia

Take your time but also find a partner that you trust and lots of foreplay ... well worth it once you master it

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Well Sally, do much advice, methods ... " Last tango in Paris" with the marg interesting lol so what's it to be nice and slow or Marg/ Real butter .... ????"

Real butter

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Douche first sally with luke warm water Plenty lube and try relax lol it opens up after awhile start with a small toy and work your way up

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