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over a year ago
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"A person who is very openminded and consistant . Has good qualitys about them trust,respect,honesty, experienced in alot of areas i suppose . "
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"Is it just me or is it difficult to find regular quality meets x"
Yes but easier when you get offers. As a women on here you need to filter a lot of rubbish being thrown at you. As a guy you would have trouble trying to get through said filters to get to the meets.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it just me or is it difficult to find regular quality meets x"
You've written that you can neither accommodate nor travel, so that may hamper your efforts a little. Having said that, you've had meets in your time here, would you not do repeat meets with the ones you consider to be quality or are you more in favour of meeting new people? I've personally found a few that I want to meet often and am consequently not looking for new meets. So I guess in my case, quality is not so hard to find, though I appreciate that the word works differently from person to person. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I agree with the OP, too many guys not willing to put in a little time and effort to reap the rewards.
It seems to be a “fuck now” kinda mentality of late. "
I would have no problem putting in the time if it was worth it no point doing it if your going to be stood up  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Think the problem
I find the problem is finding quality you don’t really know if they are or not till after you’ve tested them (so to speak). Plus the sweet shop mentality works well here for both men and women. It’s human nature to always be on the look out for better. Just my opinion |
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By (user no longer on site)
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No problem putting in a big effort as u get out of it what u put in i accomodate love all nighters and next morning and ladys go home with a smile on their face after breakfast and banter most i would consider good friends and we all meet up for partys every few months its up to the ladys to look at our veris and give a guy a chance so the ball is in your court ladys |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have to say that making a connection and meeting regularly to learn what makes each other tick leads to incredible fun... and is ultimately far more desirable.. |
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"I agree with the OP, too many guys not willing to put in a little time and effort to reap the rewards.
It seems to be a “fuck now” kinda mentality of late.
I would have no problem putting in the time if it was worth it no point doing it if your going to be stood up "
I’d just like to clarify I’ve never stood anyone up. |
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I have to agree the "meet now" mentality has taken over. The only guy I'm meeting last minute is one I know and have met before.
You arrange social coffees and people cancel etc. The joys.
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By *ease_EMan
over a year ago
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"A person who is very openminded and consistant . Has good qualitys about them trust,respect,honesty, experienced in alot of areas i suppose . "
Honest,,,,?
You are looking for a person, who is not single, and can accommodate...
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I find there's A FEW women here who'll talk incessantly and chat the bloody hind legs off your pet to boot ...but when it comes even to a coffee meet, something always comes up 
Luckily, there are some fantastic women here too deserving of total respect, attention and lot's of repeat meets too ...so let's be having more of you girls!  |
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I find there's A FEW women here who'll talk incessantly and chat the bloody hind legs off your pet to boot ...but when it comes even to a coffee meet, something always comes up
Luckily, there are some fantastic women here too deserving of total respect, attention and lot's of repeat meets too ...so let's be having more of you girls! "
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I find there's A FEW women here who'll talk incessantly and chat the bloody hind legs off your pet to boot ...but when it comes even to a coffee meet, something always comes up
Luckily, there are some fantastic women here too deserving of total respect, attention and lot's of repeat meets too ...so let's be having more of you girls!
I'm still waiting for my first one "
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I've only chatted to you briefly in person...
& reckon there's not much/any firsts still on your list!  |
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"IMO There's a fair amount of good quality meets. I can't complain, I have a good larder I'm going back to to have a repeat feast. "
Ok, but I wonder if that highlights a subtle point about original post: due to the Imbalance in Quantity of men:women, is it not more likely that women will have had lots of potential/actual meet opportunities and so can be much more selective (thus raising quality for them) whereas the same is much less likely for guys...?
Sheer weight of numbers of guys on here skews the debate somewhat... |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"IMO There's a fair amount of good quality meets. I can't complain, I have a good larder I'm going back to to have a repeat feast.
Ok, but I wonder if that highlights a subtle point about original post: due to the Imbalance in Quantity of men:women, is it not more likely that women will have had lots of potential/actual meet opportunities and so can be much more selective (thus raising quality for them) whereas the same is much less likely for guys...?
Sheer weight of numbers of guys on here skews the debate somewhat..."
That might be so but the thread was put up by a woman and I just answer from a woman's perspective. Having much choice comes with drawbacks too, it makes it harder to find the hidden treasures. |
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"IMO There's a fair amount of good quality meets. I can't complain, I have a good larder I'm going back to to have a repeat feast.
Ok, but I wonder if that highlights a subtle point about original post: due to the Imbalance in Quantity of men:women, is it not more likely that women will have had lots of potential/actual meet opportunities and so can be much more selective (thus raising quality for them) whereas the same is much less likely for guys...?
Sheer weight of numbers of guys on here skews the debate somewhat...
That might be so but the thread was put up by a woman and I just answer from a woman's perspective. Having much choice comes with drawbacks too, it makes it harder to find the hidden treasures. "
Take the guesswork out of it: get Dublin Corporation to put it out to tender.. |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"IMO There's a fair amount of good quality meets. I can't complain, I have a good larder I'm going back to to have a repeat feast.
Ok, but I wonder if that highlights a subtle point about original post: due to the Imbalance in Quantity of men:women, is it not more likely that women will have had lots of potential/actual meet opportunities and so can be much more selective (thus raising quality for them) whereas the same is much less likely for guys...?
Sheer weight of numbers of guys on here skews the debate somewhat...
That might be so but the thread was put up by a woman and I just answer from a woman's perspective. Having much choice comes with drawbacks too, it makes it harder to find the hidden treasures.
Take the guesswork out of it: get Dublin Corporation to put it out to tender.. "
Ah jaysos no! you'll only end up either with meets going home 5pm sharp no matter if the works done or not and battles with unions or some Denis O'Brian related fabbers, who install water meters for squirting and you are left with the bill. No no I've enough experience myself to get the selection process done. |
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That might be so but the thread was put up by a woman and I just answer from a woman's perspective. Having much choice comes with drawbacks too, it makes it harder to find the hidden treasures.
Take the guesswork out of it: get Dublin Corporation to put it out to tender..
Ah jaysos no! you'll only end up either with meets going home 5pm sharp no matter if the works done or not and battles with unions or some Denis O'Brian related fabbers, who install water meters for squirting and you are left with the bill. No no I've enough experience myself to get the selection process done."
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"IMO There's a fair amount of good quality meets. I can't complain, I have a good larder I'm going back to to have a repeat feast.
Ok, but I wonder if that highlights a subtle point about original post: due to the Imbalance in Quantity of men:women, is it not more likely that women will have had lots of potential/actual meet opportunities and so can be much more selective (thus raising quality for them) whereas the same is much less likely for guys...?
Sheer weight of numbers of guys on here skews the debate somewhat...
That might be so but the thread was put up by a woman and I just answer from a woman's perspective. Having much choice comes with drawbacks too, it makes it harder to find the hidden treasures.
Take the guesswork out of it: get Dublin Corporation to put it out to tender..
Ah jaysos no! you'll only end up either with meets going home 5pm sharp no matter if the works done or not and battles with unions or some Denis O'Brian related fabbers, who install water meters for squirting and you are left with the bill. No no I've enough experience myself to get the selection process done."
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People whinging about lack of quality you check them out and they have "blocked everyone of your sex" or they usually have very strict criteria in their filters which takes out about 90% of the guys on fab then they make forum posts bemoaning the lack of quality hypocritically forgetting they may have blocked the quality meets they desire with their pettiness. Red Tom is in the house. |
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"IMO There's a fair amount of good quality meets. I can't complain, I have a good larder I'm going back to to have a repeat feast.
Ok, but I wonder if that highlights a subtle point about original post: due to the Imbalance in Quantity of men:women, is it not more likely that women will have had lots of potential/actual meet opportunities and so can be much more selective (thus raising quality for them) whereas the same is much less likely for guys...?
Sheer weight of numbers of guys on here skews the debate somewhat..."
so what you're saying is there's a lack of quality xx's on here,you may be correct |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is it just me or is it difficult to find regular quality meets x
You've written that you can neither accommodate nor travel, so that may hamper your efforts a little. Having said that, you've had meets in your time here, would you not do repeat meets with the ones you consider to be quality or are you more in favour of meeting new people? I've personally found a few that I want to meet often and am consequently not looking for new meets. So I guess in my case, quality is not so hard to find, though I appreciate that the word works differently from person to person. "
I do one or two repeat meets but are not available all that much . I don't travel long distances so i guess i am restricted that way.I have had lots of socials as well and i come away thinking god they are not into half what i am lol.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"People whinging about lack of quality you check them out and they have "blocked everyone of your sex" or they usually have very strict criteria in their filters which takes out about 90% of the guys on fab then they make forum posts bemoaning the lack of quality hypocritically forgetting they may have blocked the quality meets they desire with their pettiness. Red Tom is in the house."
This is true but i have to have restrictions to stop random meets and presious time. Believe me had way to many of wasted meets due to inexperience or complete turn offs over my criteria lol.That is me ain't gonna change any time soon. Hence my post on Quality .I have filters set for good reasons |
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