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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I got involved in swinging mainly to share my girlfriend with other men. A question for the single guys; if and when you get into a relationship, would you like to continue swinging with your partner? And, would you envisage any difficulties with a decision to swing with your partner? |
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I'd imagine if you came across any difficulties while pondering the swinging world, it's best left alone. Couples swinging in a relationship need to be honest and not do anything that could potentially damage the relationship. |
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"I'd imagine if you came across any difficulties while pondering the swinging world, it's best left alone. Couples swinging in a relationship need to be honest and not do anything that could potentially damage the relationship. "
Sure, then there's another side to it, how many guys would run a mile at the prospect of sharing their lady  |
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For most couples swinging comes after a long relationship an total trust an comfort with each other an no jealousy or bad feeling after meets .im not sure swinging in the early stages of a relationship could build that sort of trust . I’m sure we. All meet that couple who was a bit awkward an uncomfortable seeing their partner with someone else an then you find out there not that long together |
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"For most couples swinging comes after a long relationship an total trust an comfort with each other an no jealousy or bad feeling after meets .im not sure swinging in the early stages of a relationship could build that sort of trust . I’m sure we. All meet that couple who was a bit awkward an uncomfortable seeing their partner with someone else an then you find out there not that long together "
Im not sure I buy into that, I take your point. There is a stereotypical view of swinger couples, married x amount of years, who are just looking to enhance their already amazing sex life, I do hope that's changing  |
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Before joining here, yeah I would have.
After, no.
I have already introduced 2 girls and neither talk to me anymore.
I'm the type of guy that gets taken for granted. I like my girlfriend to be free to do whatever she wants. Basically this nearly always ends up with them thinking I don't care and I have to watch them do riskier and riskier stuff and ignore me more and more. They confuse it for being able to take me for granted, and think it means they can use me as a doormat. But eventually it hits a point where I just leave them to it, to what makes them happy.
Not into girls who need to be forced not to cheat, or need me to point out that the guy has bareback pics on his profile and maybe its risky etc.
Ah well, pretty sure I will be single for ages so does not matter, fingers crossed when I do settle down its with someone who is happy in her skin and wants to spend some time with me and wants to know what i think about stuff even though I'll leave it up to her. |
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