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Think it’s time to call it a day
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"God forbid some women may have high standards?
What are they thinking?
Bitches  "
Well they can have high standards but come on how u meant to get a meet vertification when no one will even reply to u does every guy in here 6ft and ribbed willing to fuck every girl in here I no that am not every girls cup of tea but really  |
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Ok OP, a couple of pointers:
1) the ratio of single guys to ladies is around 15:1, like most adult sites. Therefore it’s going to take time.
2) This is a swinger site that also facilitates
Couples to hook up - but it’s more a lifestyle thing than Tinder.
3) competition is fierce and if you want to get laid, you need to relax a little. The ladies get overwhelmed by attention from guys, so you need to settle a little and cut them some slack. Why not just have fun on the forums and let people see you are cool and normal?
4) After you have been on the forums for a while, why not PM someone to see if they will meet to verify, as then you’re not an unknown? Or look for an event to go and hang out with some people from here..?
5) Look at other guys profiles who have lots of meets and verifys. They must be doing something right, so compare their profile with yours and look for the things that make sense. Also message guys and ask for tips if you need.
6) Finally, don’t approach this as looking for sex straight off - look at it as having some harmless fun to build up your profile and then see where that takes you - desperation for sex is as easy to see on here as it is in a bar or nightclub  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"God forbid some women may have high standards?
What are they thinking?
Bitches
Well they can have high standards but come on how u meant to get a meet vertification when no one will even reply to u does every guy in here 6ft and ribbed willing to fuck every girl in here I no that am not every girls cup of tea but really "
Your right,it's not you,it's them.
bitches.
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"and women have to high of standards"
If that were true, then I would have lots of meets.
I'd think their standards are for the average looking guy, and you shouldn't think that average is that far out of your grasp x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Think it’s time to give up on this to many fakes and women have to high of standards seems impossible to get a meet  "
Its a hard circuit alright, all the best  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ok OP, a couple of pointers:
1) the ratio of single guys to ladies is around 15:1, like most adult sites. Therefore it’s going to take time.
2) This is a swinger site that also facilitates
Couples to hook up - but it’s more a lifestyle thing than Tinder.
3) competition is fierce and if you want to get laid, you need to relax a little. The ladies get overwhelmed by attention from guys, so you need to settle a little and cut them some slack. Why not just have fun on the forums and let people see you are cool and normal?
4) After you have been on the forums for a while, why not PM someone to see if they will meet to verify, as then you’re not an unknown? Or look for an event to go and hang out with some people from here..?
5) Look at other guys profiles who have lots of meets and verifys. They must be doing something right, so compare their profile with yours and look for the things that make sense. Also message guys and ask for tips if you need.
6) Finally, don’t approach this as looking for sex straight off - look at it as having some harmless fun to build up your profile and then see where that takes you - desperation for sex is as easy to see on here as it is in a bar or nightclub "
Yeah good advice there I no am happy to meet for coffee and a chat I don’t expect sex straight away u have to work for that lol there has to be some sort of attraction but it gets abit frustrating at times |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"God forbid some women may have high standards?
What are they thinking?
Bitches
Well they can have high standards but come on how u meant to get a meet vertification when no one will even reply to u does every guy in here 6ft and ribbed willing to fuck every girl in here I no that am not every girls cup of tea but really
Your right,it's not you,it's them.
bitches.
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glad ur on my side  |
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By *orguyMan
over a year ago
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"and women have to high of standards
If that were true, then I would have lots of meets.
I'd think their standards are for the average looking guy, and you shouldn't think that average is that far out of your grasp x"
Some are now posting a warning that's it's safer to approach from the back... because the front is obviously very scary |
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"and women have to high of standards
If that were true, then I would have lots of meets.
I'd think their standards are for the average looking guy, and you shouldn't think that average is that far out of your grasp x
Some are now posting a warning that's it's safer to approach from the back... because the front is obviously very scary "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok OP, a couple of pointers:
1) the ratio of single guys to ladies is around 15:1, like most adult sites. Therefore it’s going to take time.
2) This is a swinger site that also facilitates
Couples to hook up - but it’s more a lifestyle thing than Tinder.
3) competition is fierce and if you want to get laid, you need to relax a little. The ladies get overwhelmed by attention from guys, so you need to settle a little and cut them some slack. Why not just have fun on the forums and let people see you are cool and normal?
4) After you have been on the forums for a while, why not PM someone to see if they will meet to verify, as then you’re not an unknown? Or look for an event to go and hang out with some people from here..?
5) Look at other guys profiles who have lots of meets and verifys. They must be doing something right, so compare their profile with yours and look for the things that make sense. Also message guys and ask for tips if you need.
6) Finally, don’t approach this as looking for sex straight off - look at it as having some harmless fun to build up your profile and then see where that takes you - desperation for sex is as easy to see on here as it is in a bar or nightclub "
Good and sensible advise |
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Think of Fab as one big nightclub...
The lads gagging for sex usually put too much pressure on themselves, get frustrated and end up empty handed ...
The lads who chat, have the craic and fun are the one's who get the ball rolling and good things happen ...
Also, forget about sex and just make your goal of meeting as many woman as possible for coffee  or go to the social...
Am sure you've game, so get yourself out buddy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok OP, a couple of pointers:
1) the ratio of single guys to ladies is around 15:1, like most adult sites. Therefore it’s going to take time.
2) This is a swinger site that also facilitates
Couples to hook up - but it’s more a lifestyle thing than Tinder.
3) competition is fierce and if you want to get laid, you need to relax a little. The ladies get overwhelmed by attention from guys, so you need to settle a little and cut them some slack. Why not just have fun on the forums and let people see you are cool and normal?
4) After you have been on the forums for a while, why not PM someone to see if they will meet to verify, as then you’re not an unknown? Or look for an event to go and hang out with some people from here..?
5) Look at other guys profiles who have lots of meets and verifys. They must be doing something right, so compare their profile with yours and look for the things that make sense. Also message guys and ask for tips if you need.
6) Finally, don’t approach this as looking for sex straight off - look at it as having some harmless fun to build up your profile and then see where that takes you - desperation for sex is as easy to see on here as it is in a bar or nightclub "
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"Think it’s time to give up on this to many fakes and women have to high of standards seems impossible to get a meet "
Open a profile on PoF, so much more happening there for single lads, you just need a 'little patter' |
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By *orguyMan
over a year ago
Tuam |
"Think it’s time to give up on this to many fakes and women have to high of standards seems impossible to get a meet
Open a profile on PoF, so much more happening there for single lads, you just need a 'little patter' "
Or pretend you're from a different country and you will get all the shallow women |
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"Think it’s time to give up on this to many fakes and women have to high of standards seems impossible to get a meet
Open a profile on PoF, so much more happening there for single lads, you just need a 'little patter'
Or pretend you're from a different country and you will get all the shallow women "
Meowwwwww.... feeling left out are you? Lol |
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By *orguyMan
over a year ago
Tuam |
"Think it’s time to give up on this to many fakes and women have to high of standards seems impossible to get a meet
Open a profile on PoF, so much more happening there for single lads, you just need a 'little patter'
Or pretend you're from a different country and you will get all the shallow women
Meowwwwww.... feeling left out are you? Lol"
LMAO most certainly not dear. I do very well for myself and you never see me complain. |
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It's not impossible to get a meet at all. I've had plenty of success withy single profile on here before I got in a relationship.
Patience is a virtue and tact is a strength.
It's not about being a model or how good looking you are etc. Peak a woman's interest by being the guy who sees the woman for the person she is and not just an object. Make her laugh and smile and you're half way there.
Show the woman the real you and not the guy who is sexually frustrated and only wanting to get laid. Sex is not just a physical thing, there is so much more to it and especially in the mind of a woman. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's not impossible to get a meet at all. I've had plenty of success withy single profile on here before I got in a relationship.
Patience is a virtue and tact is a strength.
It's not about being a model or how good looking you are etc. Peak a woman's interest by being the guy who sees the woman for the person she is and not just an object. Make her laugh and smile and you're half way there.
Show the woman the real you and not the guy who is sexually frustrated and only wanting to get laid. Sex is not just a physical thing, there is so much more to it and especially in the mind of a woman."
Well said fellow manbeast. Harry |
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Don't stress too much OP and ignore the cuntish comments from the usual suspects on here,they tend to be on their time of the month a lot.I find that I had a fair bit of success on here but it has changed a bit over the last year or so,there are other sites that it's much easier to get a hook up on so try some of those and use this site to annoy the holier than thou muppets in the forums like I tend to do |
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