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I find a lot of black men write to me on here,but I'm not interested in black men but they continue to send me messages,I'm very polite and not rude,I'm sure they very nice guys,but they not for me should I put it on my profile,I like white men is that wrong of me ??? |
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"I find a lot of black men write to me on here,but I'm not interested in black men but they continue to send me messages,I'm very polite and not rude,I'm sure they very nice guys,but they not for me should I put it on my profile,I like white men is that wrong of me ???"
No its not hun.. everyone here is entitled to their own preferences so you can state that on your profile if you so wish.. Not that anyone will take heed of it sure lol xx |
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"Dont think so but they write and still write would it be fair to just block them xx"
You do what feels right for you.. if youve already so `no thanx` and they still keep messaging you, then yes I would x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's called preference.. if your not into men as a man does that make you homophobic? Or a woman into women, does that make you sexist? No! Each to there own.
People are way to "caring" of others feelings nowadays.. or is it afraid to be labelled as a this or that? |
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"It's called preference.. if your not into men as a man does that make you homophobic? Or a woman into women, does that make you sexist? No! Each to there own.
People are way to "caring" of others feelings nowadays.. or is it afraid to be labelled as a this or that?"
Exactly people are too easily offended nowadays. It’s almost like it’s fashionable to be discriminated against and everyone is looking a reason to complain |
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I find most of them come in with the old BBC comment..
I’m more interested in what’s attached to said C, regardless of it or it’s owners skin colour. I’d equally not be interested if a white/Asian guy waded in with “Ive a big cock you must fuck me. “ kinda stuff. |
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Your quite entitled to a preference and don't need to explain yourself for that.I agree many may play the BBC card but also there is a compliment in there that they are mailing you.As long as it's nice and respectful.But if your finding too many are mailing then put up a preference on your profile.Alot or people on this site only want BBC and have it plastered across their profiles not to mail them if you aren't the colour of their choice.I think it works both ways so you'd be quite entitled to put up your preference and probably in a nicer way than many of the one who I refer on the BBC.As for the racist element,anyone who tries to turn it into anything other than a preference is an instant block for me.People get too caught up on wanting to be PC on everything these days. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find a lot of black men write to me on here,but I'm not interested in black men but they continue to send me messages,I'm very polite and not rude,I'm sure they very nice guys,but they not for me should I put it on my profile,I like white men is that wrong of me ???"
... nothing wrong at all hun .. im the same .. i just delete the msgs
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just mail them and say there not your cup of tea and that you are pretty sure that there is plenty of others on fab who's tea they would be. As for being racist it is the world that has gone so PC they are forcing people to become racist |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are profiles in here that state exclusively they only meet with BBC, therefore if you put on your profile you only meet white guys or local guys can't be seen as racist. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are profiles in here that state exclusively they only meet with BBC, therefore if you put on your profile you only meet white guys or local guys can't be seen as racist."
I second that.
Plenty of girls only want black, so turned on its head it shouldn't offend.
I'm sure you'll get people offended by it but sure thats what your block button was invented for.
Its your profile do as you like.
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It's your preference. We have our preferences, although we find it's good to broaden our horizons by widening our criteria. Usually the best, and most interesting experiences come from where you don't expect.
Anyhow, I see you've updated your profile to explicitly mention no "black men".
I would suggest that maybe you try to make your profile more concise. Or at least put your list of DON'T/WON'Ts at the top of your profile. Guys can be lazy and just glance/skin over profiles as they go through so many. As guy and as part of a couple, I've got an idea of both sides of the coin. Men and Women's use and experiences on dating sites are very different, it's hard to understand the other side.
Another practice that you can do at the end of your profile is to tell people to write something in the subject line of their messages to you. E.g. "If you've managed to read and understand all of my profile, and are interested, send a message with the subject line 6969.". Then you just delete or ignore the messages that don't have this in the subject line.
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"I find a lot of black men write to me on here,but I'm not interested in black men but they continue to send me messages,I'm very polite and not rude,I'm sure they very nice guys,but they not for me should I put it on my profile,I like white men is that wrong of me ???"
You don't come across as racist at all. We all have our own tastes and preferences. People have age limits, height limits, physical types they like and ofcourse couples or no single guys so this is just your choice. The fact you are worried about how it looks if you put it on your profile says enough about you. People have to respect others choices. Keep smiling and enjoy what you want |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Send them our way.. 
What they said!  
Well should organise a get together and invite a few BBC
So am I coming to downtown or naughty lane? "
Somewhere in between |
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By *inale.xMan
over a year ago
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I def find it easiest when there is a clear description on people's profiles that tell you what they want.
As a non white (but non black) person on here I would never be offended if someone had written something like 'Caucasian only' or that you are not attracted to a specific skin tone. |
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"I find a lot of black men write to me on here,but I'm not interested in black men but they continue to send me messages,I'm very polite and not rude,I'm sure they very nice guys,but they not for me should I put it on my profile,I like white men is that wrong of me ???"
no of course not and as normal it’s lazy guys who can’t be asked to look at peoples profiles  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People are 2 worried now about the hole racist thing u dont like black men! not racist! Big fucking deal!!! "
It is a big deal when you say sorry I'm not interest and they them accuse you of being racist. The abuse I have gotten from black guys just because I have said sorry but no thanks is horrible. I am far from racist and have in the past played with black guys so drives me mad when they use the racist card. |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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There aren't that many on fab Ireland that it's even worth considering putting that up. Believe me I know how many there are, you're lucky you find approx 20 of them.
As for the abuse, I always experienced them as the most polite non pushy men on here.  |
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"People are 2 worried now about the hole racist thing u dont like black men! not racist! Big fucking deal!!!
It is a big deal when you say sorry I'm not interest and they them accuse you of being racist. The abuse I have gotten from black guys just because I have said sorry but no thanks is horrible. I am far from racist and have in the past played with black guys so drives me mad when they use the racist card."
Same |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The Generalization is a bit ridiculous. So there are some black guys that can’t take No for an answer as there are also non black guys, girls and couples that also can’t take No for an answer.
Saying all black men here gets abusive because you say No to them is Far fetched from the truth.
I’m not everyone’s cup of tea and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The Generalization is a bit ridiculous. So there are some black guys that can’t take No for an answer as there are also non black guys, girls and couples that also can’t take No for an answer.
Saying all black men here gets abusive because you say No to them is Far fetched from the truth.
I’m not everyone’s cup of tea and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that "
I couldn't agree more.
I know a lot of white guys who don't take no for answer.
We all have preferences if someone doesn't like it and causes an issue then their just a plain asshole |
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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago
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Our block list is made up of 95% white single males.. just saying... but yea i know most single males on here are white..
We generally block the ones that think having a 8 inch cock is some sort of treasure that cant be turned down.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find a lot of black men write to me on here,but I'm not interested in black men but they continue to send me messages,I'm very polite and not rude,I'm sure they very nice guys,but they not for me should I put it on my profile,I like white men is that wrong of me ???"
It's a personal preference and it's your profile.
If some can put up wanting to meet BBC etc, you can do the opposite.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is absolutely nothing wrong with blocking someone that keeps bugging after you tell them you are not interesting.
I do the same regardless of their race |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The Generalization is a bit ridiculous. So there are some black guys that can’t take No for an answer as there are also non black guys, girls and couples that also can’t take No for an answer.
Saying all black men here gets abusive because you say No to them is Far fetched from the truth.
I’m not everyone’s cup of tea and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that "
Well said!!!
I don't see the need to highlight the race of those that keep mailing you. |
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"The Generalization is a bit ridiculous. So there are some black guys that can’t take No for an answer as there are also non black guys, girls and couples that also can’t take No for an answer.
Saying all black men here gets abusive because you say No to them is Far fetched from the truth.
I’m not everyone’s cup of tea and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that
Well said!!!
I don't see the need to highlight the race of those that keep mailing you. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The Generalization is a bit ridiculous. So there are some black guys that can’t take No for an answer as there are also non black guys, girls and couples that also can’t take No for an answer.
Saying all black men here gets abusive because you say No to them is Far fetched from the truth.
I’m not everyone’s cup of tea and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that "
This. Some of the comments in this thread making black men out to be sex hungry animals is ridiculous. A vast majority of men on this site are white. |
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It's more racist to be with someone cause they have a black cock. Most of them dont even have big cocks.
I get asked by black lads to fuck them a lot.
The whole thing is a turn off for me though. I'd rather meet someone and have sex with them, and they just happen to be black than to seek a black person out. I avoid it and everyone into it really. |
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"I can see why the mixed guys could get confused here  "
Is that in reference to me?
It's ok, as far as sex and the dating world goes we tend to just fall in the Black category. Which I've got no problem with whatsoever . It's always a surprise when women pull down my pants to discover I have... a micropenis.
On a serious note, what I've learned is that you can never please everyone. So don't get offended if someone doesn't want to meet you because of your race, skin colour, ethnic background, class, age, wealth. It doesn't mean there's something wrong with you. Look for something else.
I want to be an astronaut, but NASA won't take me, that's fine, I won't cry about it, I'll just shove my cock somewhere else. Never liked Uranus anyway.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Very interesting topic.
A female porn actress topped herself earlier this year because she was bullied online regarding her preference not to perform with male actors that shag men and women as part of their profession. She took the stance on health grounds, however people said she was a homofobe.
Very sad |
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There is lots of ladies that don't like black men and there are ladies who only want black men . You are not being racist it's you preference for white guys and just block black guys from mailing you . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There is lots of ladies that don't like black men and there are ladies who only want black men . You are not being racist it's you preference for white guys and just block black guys from mailing you . "
I'm pretty sure you can't filter by colour... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't even bother replying. My profile says I'm looking for black men or couples. When I recieve a message from anyone who is none of the above I don't even read it. I just delete and block. |
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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago
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This is about your personal choice/preference and not being listened to. If I mailed you weekly and ignored you saying that you are not into women, I would not be surprised at being blocked. Block people who blatantly disregard your choices regardless of their outer layer and enjoy fabbing your way op |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I find a lot of black men write to me on here,but I'm not interested in black men but they continue to send me messages,I'm very polite and not rude,I'm sure they very nice guys,but they not for me should I put it on my profile,I like white men is that wrong of me ???"
can see all Asians messaging ye then lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I prefer black guys and mentioned that in profile but it made no difference I still get loads of messages from white guys
X"
I have the same issue. I'm pretty quick with ye old block button though.
Nice name btw ! |
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"I find a lot of black men write to me on here,but I'm not interested in black men but they continue to send me messages,I'm very polite and not rude,I'm sure they very nice guys,but they not for me should I put it on my profile,I like white men is that wrong of me ???"
I'm not sure Black Guys in isolation are your problem: If anyone reads your profile and the type of guys you're NOT into, you've taken out a fair proportion of the male population...!! |
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