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I'm guessing this is the wrong place to be asking this type of question, but you lot may surprise us.
I've read up that asbstaining (for men anyway) increases quality of life, mood, productivity and intercourse itself. Have any of yous tried or are currently trying this.
I (mr RN) am currently on day 3 and I'm climbing the walls already, like a junkie needing a fix. But it has shown me that even though I'm in a healthy relationship sex wise, I do masturbate a lot.
Also like to hear what the females think about it from their perspective.
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over a year ago
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I don't think I will be surprising you guys, I think its important to keep bashing away, I use it as a mindfulness technique to reduce stress  I'm quite a visual guy, so erotic or pornographic material feeds into my fantasies, and sometimes there best kept to myself. I do wonder if abstinence might free up more time to clean my house |
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"I don't think I will be surprising you guys, I think its important to keep bashing away, I use it as a mindfulness technique to reduce stress I'm quite a visual guy, so erotic or pornographic material feeds into my fantasies, and sometimes there best kept to myself. I do wonder if abstinence might free up more time to clean my house "
Yah - just another excuse not to do your dishes |
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From a woman's view, I like to abstain for maybe 5-7 days before a party or arranged meet I think it heightens the build up and definitely adds to an already healthy sexual appetite  |
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From a woman's view, I like to abstain for maybe 5-7 days before a party or arranged meet I think it heightens the build up and definitely adds to an already healthy sexual appetite |
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"From a woman's view, I like to abstain for maybe 5-7 days before a party or arranged meet I think it heightens the build up and definitely adds to an already healthy sexual appetite "
God help them next Saturday night  |
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"I don't think I will be surprising you guys, I think its important to keep bashing away, I use it as a mindfulness technique to reduce stress I'm quite a visual guy, so erotic or pornographic material feeds into my fantasies, and sometimes there best kept to myself. I do wonder if abstinence might free up more time to clean my house
Yah - just another excuse not to do your dishes"
Im de-stressing at the moment looking at your pictures |
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"From a woman's view, I like to abstain for maybe 5-7 days before a party or arranged meet I think it heightens the build up and definitely adds to an already healthy sexual appetite
God help them next Saturday night "
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"I don't think I will be surprising you guys, I think its important to keep bashing away, I use it as a mindfulness technique to reduce stress I'm quite a visual guy, so erotic or pornographic material feeds into my fantasies, and sometimes there best kept to myself. I do wonder if abstinence might free up more time to clean my house
Yah - just another excuse not to do your dishes
Im de-stressing at the moment looking at your pictures "
Too much info  |
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"From a woman's view, I like to abstain for maybe 5-7 days before a party or arranged meet I think it heightens the build up and definitely adds to an already healthy sexual appetite "
pre party abstinence is a good idea actually. |
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"From a woman's view, I like to abstain for maybe 5-7 days before a party or arranged meet I think it heightens the build up and definitely adds to an already healthy sexual appetite pre party abstinence is a good idea actually. "
Works for me lol probably too well |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love to wank or have my gf wank me off. Its the only thing in life these days I dont have pay for .. So no, im not going to stop, im going to keep on yanking it. ???? |
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over a year ago
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I imagine it gets very hard after a while ..
Gandhi used to do this, so you're in good company op .. mind you, he used to sleep naked with his 18 year-old grandniece, so maybe better not to follow his lead too closely |
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"I'm interested to know if any of the guys have tried "cages" to assist with the abstinence?"
Aw hells no, they look wrong. Sheer willpower is the way forward. |
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"I imagine it gets very hard after a while ..
Gandhi used to do this, so you're in good company op .. mind you, he used to sleep naked with his 18 year-old grandniece, so maybe better not to follow his lead too closely "
Haha, the 18 year old part sounds great, but no thanks on the niece part.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I cant abstain as there does be a sperm build up and it actually hurts .I do abstain when Im in a relationship or when I know Im gonna meet somebody as it helps for heavier cumming and greater pleasure . Harry |
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By *K430Man
over a year ago
Tipperary |
"I'm guessing this is the wrong place to be asking this type of question, but you lot may surprise us.
I've read up that asbstaining (for men anyway) increases quality of life, mood, productivity and intercourse itself. Have any of yous tried or are currently trying this.
I (mr RN) am currently on day 3 and I'm climbing the walls already, like a junkie needing a fix. But it has shown me that even though I'm in a healthy relationship sex wise, I do masturbate a lot.
Also like to hear what the females think about it from their perspective.
Are we all just a bunch of major wankers? "
Firstly ,we are all a bunch of wankers  , secondly will we actually live longer by giving up wanking , or will it just seem longer |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
on the hill NordWest of |
I just go with the flow. I never experimented with abstinence, unless it happens naturally. When I'm busy there's less play unless I'm stressed then there's more. Meets don't influence my self play, when I meet I'm full on no matter what. |
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By *imTam691Man
over a year ago
Dublin/Kildare/Meath |
I tried to abstain for a week one of time just to see if I could. And I know a week isn't a long time but you've got to start somewhere.....Palm and her 5 friends paid a visit on the 4th or 5th day so that went out the window pretty quick! |
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"I tried to abstain for a week one of time just to see if I could. And I know a week isn't a long time but you've got to start somewhere.....Palm and her 5 friends paid a visit on the 4th or 5th day so that went out the window pretty quick! "
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What went out the window exactly buddy? |
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"I tried to abstain for a week one of time just to see if I could. And I know a week isn't a long time but you've got to start somewhere.....Palm and her 5 friends paid a visit on the 4th or 5th day so that went out the window pretty quick!
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What went out the window exactly buddy?"
Probably spunk. The force was strong with that one after 5 days so likely broke the glass |
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"I tried to abstain for a week one of time just to see if I could. And I know a week isn't a long time but you've got to start somewhere.....Palm and her 5 friends paid a visit on the 4th or 5th day so that went out the window pretty quick!
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What went out the window exactly buddy?
Probably spunk. The force was strong with that one after 5 days so likely broke the glass "
And let that be a lesson to all you abstainers. Do not deny yourself, unless you have installed double/triple glazing. It's not just about the heat, it's a safety issue |
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"I'm interested to know if any of the guys have tried "cages" to assist with the abstinence?"
Have done 8 days abstinence as an experiment. Thinking about getting a cage and giving the key to a lady, to decide how long it stays on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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An wankholic me lol . I find it weird if I do it to often my sexual appetite for going out and picking up a lady doesn't seem to happen I become lazy I don't know is that just me or not  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you're a male and you are not having sex on a regular basis then its important for your health to masterbate regularly. Good prostate health is important as men get older so clearing the pipes is part of maintaining that health. So if possible don't abstain
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