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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Would it stop me meeting someone for sex,if all they wanted was sex and we met through a swingers site???
Let me think about that one 
No,it wouldn't stop me
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over a year ago
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"meeting a person if all they wanted from here was sex? this is not a thread having a go at tom dick or Harry. just come in and give your truthful response and why. 
Surely the outcome of all contact on here is sex or am I missing something  "
Precisely
I'm confused
All i want is sex
Did i take a wrong turn |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"meeting a person if all they wanted from here was sex? this is not a thread having a go at tom dick or Harry. just come in and give your truthful response and why.
Surely the outcome of all contact on here is sex or am I missing something
Precisely
I'm confused
All i want is sex
Did i take a wrong turn"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"sex with somebody who has no interest in anything else which supposedly the swinging world has on offer "
Do you mean some people swing but don't have sex ? |
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"sex with somebody who has no interest in anything else which supposedly the swinging world has on offer
What else is on offer?  "
parties meet and greets etc. I'm always told there is more to swinging then just sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"sex with somebody who has no interest in anything else which supposedly the swinging world has on offer
What else is on offer? parties meet and greets etc. I'm always told there is more to swinging then just sex. "
They are just a conduit |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"sex with somebody who has no interest in anything else which supposedly the swinging world has on offer
What else is on offer? parties meet and greets etc. I'm always told there is more to swinging then just sex. "
The swinging lifestyle yes has more than just meeting someone,fuck them and leave. This is for some people for some it's not, horses for courses. Like many of your threads on the same topic, for others they love the social aspect, flirting chatting, going to private parties etc where they can build up some chemistry and the have sex. For some it's purely social and may not physically want to have sex...Whatever anyone is into good luck to them we all have our tastes, preference and different ways of how we enjoy the lifestyle. One shoe does not fit all thankfully |
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"sex with somebody who has no interest in anything else which supposedly the swinging world has on offer
What else is on offer? parties meet and greets etc. I'm always told there is more to swinging then just sex.
They are just a conduit"
so if a person on here just said they wanted casual sex and nothing else you're fine with that? |
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"sex with somebody who has no interest in anything else which supposedly the swinging world has on offer
What else is on offer? parties meet and greets etc. I'm always told there is more to swinging then just sex.
The swinging lifestyle yes has more than just meeting someone,fuck them and leave. This is for some people for some it's not, horses for courses. Like many of your threads on the same topic, for others they love the social aspect, flirting chatting, going to private parties etc where they can build up some chemistry and the have sex. For some it's purely social and may not physically want to have sex...Whatever anyone is into good luck to them we all have our tastes, preference and different ways of how we enjoy the lifestyle. One shoe does not fit all thankfully "
that's exactly my question in the OP. I was told before and just today that if you only want sex some true swingers might be put off. just wanted people's opinions on it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"sex with somebody who has no interest in anything else which supposedly the swinging world has on offer
What else is on offer? parties meet and greets etc. I'm always told there is more to swinging then just sex.
They are just a conduitso if a person on here just said they wanted casual sex and nothing else you're fine with that?"
Absolutely
There are some i meet for a quick fuck
I don't want anything else from them
Others I'm happy to see at socials/parties/clubs
But I'll still be looking for a quick fuck during the night
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By (user no longer on site)
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"sex with somebody who has no interest in anything else which supposedly the swinging world has on offer
What else is on offer? parties meet and greets etc. I'm always told there is more to swinging then just sex.
The swinging lifestyle yes has more than just meeting someone,fuck them and leave. This is for some people for some it's not, horses for courses. Like many of your threads on the same topic, for others they love the social aspect, flirting chatting, going to private parties etc where they can build up some chemistry and the have sex. For some it's purely social and may not physically want to have sex...Whatever anyone is into good luck to them we all have our tastes, preference and different ways of how we enjoy the lifestyle. One shoe does not fit all thankfully that's exactly my question in the OP. I was told before and just today that if you only want sex some true swingers might be put off. just wanted people's opinions on it "
What defines a true swinger ? |
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"sex with somebody who has no interest in anything else which supposedly the swinging world has on offer
What else is on offer? parties meet and greets etc. I'm always told there is more to swinging then just sex.
They are just a conduitso if a person on here just said they wanted casual sex and nothing else you're fine with that?
Absolutely
There are some i meet for a quick fuck
I don't want anything else from them
Others I'm happy to see at socials/parties/clubs
But I'll still be looking for a quick fuck during the night
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"sex with somebody who has no interest in anything else which supposedly the swinging world has on offer
What else is on offer? parties meet and greets etc. I'm always told there is more to swinging then just sex.
The swinging lifestyle yes has more than just meeting someone,fuck them and leave. This is for some people for some it's not, horses for courses. Like many of your threads on the same topic, for others they love the social aspect, flirting chatting, going to private parties etc where they can build up some chemistry and the have sex. For some it's purely social and may not physically want to have sex...Whatever anyone is into good luck to them we all have our tastes, preference and different ways of how we enjoy the lifestyle. One shoe does not fit all thankfully that's exactly my question in the OP. I was told before and just today that if you only want sex some true swingers might be put off. just wanted people's opinions on it
What defines a true swinger ? "
people that are interested in everything swinging has on offer. as i already stated swinging clubs, parties meets and greets in groups etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"sex with somebody who has no interest in anything else which supposedly the swinging world has on offer
What else is on offer? parties meet and greets etc. I'm always told there is more to swinging then just sex.
The swinging lifestyle yes has more than just meeting someone,fuck them and leave. This is for some people for some it's not, horses for courses. Like many of your threads on the same topic, for others they love the social aspect, flirting chatting, going to private parties etc where they can build up some chemistry and the have sex. For some it's purely social and may not physically want to have sex...Whatever anyone is into good luck to them we all have our tastes, preference and different ways of how we enjoy the lifestyle. One shoe does not fit all thankfully that's exactly my question in the OP. I was told before and just today that if you only want sex some true swingers might be put off. just wanted people's opinions on it
What defines a true swinger ? people that are interested in everything swinging has on offer. as i already stated swinging clubs, parties meets and greets in groups etc "
Says who I'm lost |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"sex with somebody who has no interest in anything else which supposedly the swinging world has on offer
What else is on offer? parties meet and greets etc. I'm always told there is more to swinging then just sex.
The swinging lifestyle yes has more than just meeting someone,fuck them and leave. This is for some people for some it's not, horses for courses. Like many of your threads on the same topic, for others they love the social aspect, flirting chatting, going to private parties etc where they can build up some chemistry and the have sex. For some it's purely social and may not physically want to have sex...Whatever anyone is into good luck to them we all have our tastes, preference and different ways of how we enjoy the lifestyle. One shoe does not fit all thankfully that's exactly my question in the OP. I was told before and just today that if you only want sex some true swingers might be put off. just wanted people's opinions on it
What defines a true swinger ? people that are interested in everything swinging has on offer. as i already stated swinging clubs, parties meets and greets in groups etc
Says who I'm lost "
 s'alright jills
You're a swinger, I'm a swinger
Let's skip off into the sunset together |
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"sex with somebody who has no interest in anything else which supposedly the swinging world has on offer
What else is on offer? parties meet and greets etc. I'm always told there is more to swinging then just sex.
The swinging lifestyle yes has more than just meeting someone,fuck them and leave. This is for some people for some it's not, horses for courses. Like many of your threads on the same topic, for others they love the social aspect, flirting chatting, going to private parties etc where they can build up some chemistry and the have sex. For some it's purely social and may not physically want to have sex...Whatever anyone is into good luck to them we all have our tastes, preference and different ways of how we enjoy the lifestyle. One shoe does not fit all thankfully that's exactly my question in the OP. I was told before and just today that if you only want sex some true swingers might be put off. just wanted people's opinions on it
What defines a true swinger ? people that are interested in everything swinging has on offer. as i already stated swinging clubs, parties meets and greets in groups etc
Says who I'm lost "
says who? do you mean who said it puts people off if you only want no strings sex? people in the past have openly said it to me on threads |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"sex with somebody who has no interest in anything else which supposedly the swinging world has on offer
What else is on offer? parties meet and greets etc. I'm always told there is more to swinging then just sex.
The swinging lifestyle yes has more than just meeting someone,fuck them and leave. This is for some people for some it's not, horses for courses. Like many of your threads on the same topic, for others they love the social aspect, flirting chatting, going to private parties etc where they can build up some chemistry and the have sex. For some it's purely social and may not physically want to have sex...Whatever anyone is into good luck to them we all have our tastes, preference and different ways of how we enjoy the lifestyle. One shoe does not fit all thankfully that's exactly my question in the OP. I was told before and just today that if you only want sex some true swingers might be put off. just wanted people's opinions on it
What defines a true swinger ? people that are interested in everything swinging has on offer. as i already stated swinging clubs, parties meets and greets in groups etc
Says who I'm lost s'alright jills
You're a swinger, I'm a swinger
Let's skip off into the sunset together "
Off we go I've the toys, champers you bring the swing |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I generally need to build a bit of rapport and chemistry before having sex. Doesn’t mean it takes forever.
But have made exception to it. This was lead by me though. If the guy shows the kind of “let’s meet now it’s a sex site not dating site” attitude, I find that very off putting |
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"I generally need to build a bit of rapport and chemistry before having sex. Doesn’t mean it takes forever.
But have made exception to it. This was lead by me though. If the guy shows the kind of “let’s meet now it’s a sex site not dating site” attitude, I find that very off putting "
I have no issue getting to know somebody. I'm a firm believer you can only get to know somebody so much through a screen. then u have a woman who talks then stops after a few mails, then ignores you the next day, then might talk for a few mails again a week or so later. how are you really ment to get to know somebody?? I can see more and more why location is so important when u don't attend meet and greets |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"UK no.1 fabed pic at the moment has a status update. "Only here for the crack not for sex am more classy than that" "
Should probably read only here for attention.
Personally speaking. I'd be more likely to not want to meet somebody if they wanted a whole lot more than sex.
It's not a dating site. Not looking for a relationship with anyone here.
As for somebody telling you what a "true swinger" is/does/wants, that sounds like somebody who thinks they're above everyone else.
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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago
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As for somebody telling you what a "true swinger" is/does/wants, that sounds like somebody who thinks they're above everyone else.
Mr S."
This is frequently implied and that individuals that are seeking NSA really have no place being on the site. Well put. |
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I'll ignore the histrionics attacking the OP but people need to tackle the ball not the person.
No, I would not meet someone only interested in sex.
It's the old NSA vs Swinging debate. Some only want sex, and some want to invite a new person that they get to know into their sex life, and are happy to just be social friends with some till they find the right people.
The "anything, anywhere" people vs the "social meet and see how it goes" people.
I'm in the group where I want social meets first and am not interested in people who want to meet anyone, anytime for sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"meeting a person if all they wanted from here was sex? this is not a thread having a go at tom dick or Harry. just come in and give your truthful response and why. "
No it wouldn't stop me sometimes that's all that's needed |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"meeting a person if all they wanted from here was sex? this is not a thread having a go at tom dick or Harry. just come in and give your truthful response and why. "
It all depends on the mindset, it's not if or how many socials or parties you've attended. It would put me off if I get the impression that it's just a quick and/or free leg over they're looking for. Nothing wrong with sex only but the attitude has to be right. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I find this a tricky one. Yes I want sex but I can get sex other ways, on a night out or d*unk flirting on fb whatever. What I hope to find on here is better sex. And that generally means getting to know people a bit, see if we have the same desires and if we might click. So yeah, last minute fuck meets don't really do it for me. Times I have done that left me feeling disappointed. I enjoy going to a club or party to socialise but with a view to playing. At the same time I think others are there to socialise and look good and will probably only play if Tom Hardy turns up! But thats OK too. Just do what's right for you. |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"Confused.com
Have I joined a dating site?
It’s a sex site ain’t that what you’re suppose to do have sex!  be careful calling it a sex site. you'll be put on the nawty step "
Well well op you phrased the question cleverly that most will give you the answer you want to hear. |
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"Confused.com
Have I joined a dating site?
It’s a sex site ain’t that what you’re suppose to do have sex! be careful calling it a sex site. you'll be put on the nawty step
Well well op you phrased the question cleverly that most will give you the answer you want to hear. "
if you want honesty there was no thought given whatsoever. i asked for other people's opinions. i firmly believe it's a sex site because it's a site where (most) people sign up hoping to get sex. what i find funny is if somebody won't consider meeting another person because all they want is sex and fuck all interest in the other areas of swinging. |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"Confused.com
Have I joined a dating site?
It’s a sex site ain’t that what you’re suppose to do have sex! be careful calling it a sex site. you'll be put on the nawty step
Well well op you phrased the question cleverly that most will give you the answer you want to hear. if you want honesty there was no thought given whatsoever. i asked for other people's opinions. i firmly believe it's a sex site because it's a site where (most) people sign up hoping to get sex. what i find funny is if somebody won't consider meeting another person because all they want is sex and fuck all interest in the other areas of swinging. "
I don't do socials either. I don't even do coffee meets and yes all I look for on this site is sex, no dating no relationship but I like my meets in the right setting and with the same mindset. |
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"Confused.com
Have I joined a dating site?
It’s a sex site ain’t that what you’re suppose to do have sex! be careful calling it a sex site. you'll be put on the nawty step
Well well op you phrased the question cleverly that most will give you the answer you want to hear. if you want honesty there was no thought given whatsoever. i asked for other people's opinions. i firmly believe it's a sex site because it's a site where (most) people sign up hoping to get sex. what i find funny is if somebody won't consider meeting another person because all they want is sex and fuck all interest in the other areas of swinging.
I don't do socials either. I don't even do coffee meets and yes all I look for on this site is sex, no dating no relationship but I like my meets in the right setting and with the same mindset. "
same mindset? |
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"Confused.com
Have I joined a dating site?
It’s a sex site ain’t that what you’re suppose to do have sex! be careful calling it a sex site. you'll be put on the nawty step
Well well op you phrased the question cleverly that most will give you the answer you want to hear. if you want honesty there was no thought given whatsoever. i asked for other people's opinions. i firmly believe it's a sex site because it's a site where (most) people sign up hoping to get sex. what i find funny is if somebody won't consider meeting another person because all they want is sex and fuck all interest in the other areas of swinging.
I don't do socials either. I don't even do coffee meets and yes all I look for on this site is sex, no dating no relationship but I like my meets in the right setting and with the same mindset. "
Ah well, if there's not even coffee on offer! I mean holy God! How could anyone go for sex without coffee?? That's just not the Fab way  |
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Everyone has their on idea of what a swingers site is ... yes everyone on it ends up having sex.... well id say 99% of the users do .... some use it for a quick shag and some use it for what it is a swingers site ... dosent matter how many times you ask the same question (or how many different ways you ask the same question) your always going to get the same different answers |
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"Everyone has their on idea of what a swingers site is ... yes everyone on it ends up having sex.... well id say 99% of the users do .... some use it for a quick shag and some use it for what it is a swingers site ... dosent matter how many times you ask the same question (or how many different ways you ask the same question) your always going to get the same different answers "
you're right because a single guy and girl on here meeting and having sex is nothing to do with swinging. me personally I don't think I could do mmf. |
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"Everyone has their on idea of what a swingers site is ... yes everyone on it ends up having sex.... well id say 99% of the users do .... some use it for a quick shag and some use it for what it is a swingers site ... dosent matter how many times you ask the same question (or how many different ways you ask the same question) your always going to get the same different answers "
Though I do try and vary my answers to some of the same threads, just to confuse myself |
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"Everyone has their on idea of what a swingers site is ... yes everyone on it ends up having sex.... well id say 99% of the users do .... some use it for a quick shag and some use it for what it is a swingers site ... dosent matter how many times you ask the same question (or how many different ways you ask the same question) your always going to get the same different answers you're right because a single guy and girl on here meeting and having sex is nothing to do with swinging. me personally I don't think I could do mmf. "
I bet you'd jump at a FMF though.
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"Everyone has their on idea of what a swingers site is ... yes everyone on it ends up having sex.... well id say 99% of the users do .... some use it for a quick shag and some use it for what it is a swingers site ... dosent matter how many times you ask the same question (or how many different ways you ask the same question) your always going to get the same different answers you're right because a single guy and girl on here meeting and having sex is nothing to do with swinging. me personally I don't think I could do mmf.
I bet you'd jump at a FMF though.
I would "
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"Everyone has their on idea of what a swingers site is ... yes everyone on it ends up having sex.... well id say 99% of the users do .... some use it for a quick shag and some use it for what it is a swingers site ... dosent matter how many times you ask the same question (or how many different ways you ask the same question) your always going to get the same different answers you're right because a single guy and girl on here meeting and having sex is nothing to do with swinging. me personally I don't think I could do mmf.
I bet you'd jump at a FMF though.
I would most certainly "
Yeah, the tickles from both sides always make me jump |
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"Everyone has their on idea of what a swingers site is ... yes everyone on it ends up having sex.... well id say 99% of the users do .... some use it for a quick shag and some use it for what it is a swingers site ... dosent matter how many times you ask the same question (or how many different ways you ask the same question) your always going to get the same different answers you're right because a single guy and girl on here meeting and having sex is nothing to do with swinging. me personally I don't think I could do mmf.
I bet you'd jump at a FMF though.
I would most certainly
Yeah, the tickles from both sides always make me jump "
2 hot sisters. perfection. one young one slightly older |
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"Everyone has their on idea of what a swingers site is ... yes everyone on it ends up having sex.... well id say 99% of the users do .... some use it for a quick shag and some use it for what it is a swingers site ... dosent matter how many times you ask the same question (or how many different ways you ask the same question) your always going to get the same different answers you're right because a single guy and girl on here meeting and having sex is nothing to do with swinging. me personally I don't think I could do mmf.
I bet you'd jump at a FMF though.
I would most certainly
Yeah, the tickles from both sides always make me jump 2 hot sisters. perfection. one young one slightly older "
Or a MILF and daughter |
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