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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

What are the main mistakes that kill a conversation on fab.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Cock pics

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Haha ya I've coped to that. Not the nicest thing to start with or without the request.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Talking about her x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Haha ya I've coped to that. Not the nicest thing to start with or without the request. "

But then again talking about the weather doesn't work .. damed if you do damed if you don't

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

"How's use"?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Haha ya I've coped to that. Not the nicest thing to start with or without the request.

But then again talking about the weather doesn't work .. damed if you do damed if you don't "

Can we talk about the weather Sally? Weather I come to you or you come to me?

That works much better when spoken

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Haha ya I've coped to that. Not the nicest thing to start with or without the request.

But then again talking about the weather doesn't work .. damed if you do damed if you don't

Can we talk about the weather Sally? Weather I come to you or you come to me?

That works much better when spoken "

Yes I said it out loud three times .... my hospitality is fabulous you know

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By *j47Man  over a year ago

limerick

Usually kill a conversation by opening my mouth

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By *umpsMan  over a year ago

city

Thanks for the picture but I know you..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

me.. me.. me...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

U having much luck on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Usually kill a conversation by opening my mouth "

U and me both haha.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan  over a year ago

Lucan

Mentioning the convictions is never helpful

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

When they say when suits to meet? (Making an assumption?) when we haven't even said we would like to meet.

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By *adame BWoman  over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

The messages which just say “Any fun?”

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

“Any fun lately?”

G’luck!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

One word reply's

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By *z2goTV/TS  over a year ago

london

Can you accommodate after 2 minutes of chat

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Asking personal questions i.e. you got kids? live alone? etc.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Wat u into

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

“I’m attached”

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

"Do you want me to bring condoms. I don't mind long as ur clean "

Actual first message received by a friend from a guy id recommended

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By *ichael McCarthyMan  over a year ago

Lucan

ASL?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"ASL? "

American sign language. .. I use sign, signs definitely not a conversation killer

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

How much?

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By *oggoneMan  over a year ago

Derry


"One word reply's"

kk

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By *ichael McCarthyMan  over a year ago

Lucan


"ASL?

American sign language. .. I use sign, signs definitely not a conversation killer "

Age?

Sex?

Location?

It used to be common on some sites back in the day. You knew you had a professional when that was the first thing they asked.

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman  over a year ago

My town

Im in your area fancy a meet

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By *oghunter33Woman  over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"ASL?

American sign language. .. I use sign, signs definitely not a conversation killer

Age?

Sex?

Location?

It used to be common on some sites back in the day. You knew you had a professional when that was the first thing they asked. "

What tells us that about you?

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By *arry and AnnCouple  over a year ago

Louth

Any one word reply, grinds my gears

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"ASL?

American sign language. .. I use sign, signs definitely not a conversation killer

Age?

Sex?

Location?

It used to be common on some sites back in the day. You knew you had a professional when that was the first thing they asked. "

Ahhh and here in my innocence I thought you'd issues with sign language . Lol

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By *ingerrrrWoman  over a year ago

Meath

Ahhh the old ASL question...

Not heard that in ages.

Questions I won’t reply to include,

Many meets?

Where do you usually fuck?

What are you in to?

Would you send a message to (insert female profile name) for me she has me blocked...

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple  over a year ago

Chester

Message addressing the female half of couple as if shes a single, unreal

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman  over a year ago

middle of nowhere

Do you have a strap on.

You'd soon know if I did!!

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By *ichael McCarthyMan  over a year ago

Lucan


"Ahhh the old ASL question...

Not heard that in ages.

Questions I won’t reply to include,

Many meets?

Where do you usually fuck?

What are you in to?

Would you send a message to (insert female profile name) for me she has me blocked... "

So what answers do you normally give to those questions?

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By *ingerrrrWoman  over a year ago

Meath

Shruup you!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Dick pics ... How is fab treating you

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By *adame BWoman  over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir


"Message addressing the female half of couple as if shes a single, unreal "

We get this too!

Annoying and usually gets deleted, but sometimes when they send a cock pic they get one back (that works a treat)

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

"No thanks" or just deleted mails. Shuts things down pretty quickly

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Message addressing the female half of couple as if shes a single, unreal "

Yep, this really annoys me. Lack of common courtesy. (M)

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By *allnhungMan  over a year ago

Cork

I've a load of dirty dishes to be sorted out fancy it!

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By *uciyassMan  over a year ago

Leeds

Someone telling me they are straight but want to f the arse off me lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Do you have a strap on.

You'd soon know if I did!! "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Got one from a guy i met from another site ..you know i wouldnt be here if i was getting at home..

Wasnt sure to cry or kick him in the nuts

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple  over a year ago

Chester


"Message addressing the female half of couple as if shes a single, unreal

We get this too!

Annoying and usually gets deleted, but sometimes when they send a cock pic they get one back (that works a treat) "

Yes - but will do cock pic says it all no words needed lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Message addressing the female half of couple as if shes a single, unreal

We get this too!

Annoying and usually gets deleted, but sometimes when they send a cock pic they get one back (that works a treat)

Yes - but will do cock pic says it all no words needed lol xx"

That is a brilliant response!

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple  over a year ago

Chester


"Message addressing the female half of couple as if shes a single, unreal

We get this too!

Annoying and usually gets deleted, but sometimes when they send a cock pic they get one back (that works a treat)

Yes - but will do cock pic says it all no words needed lol xx

That is a brilliant response! "

Awesome eh

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


""How's use"?"

Yes! Completely agree! Drives me mad.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Message addressing the female half of couple as if shes a single, unreal "

Oh yes. This will lose the person major brownie points.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Message addressing the female half of couple as if shes a single, unreal

We get this too!

Annoying and usually gets deleted, but sometimes when they send a cock pic they get one back (that works a treat) "

^^^

Classic

Also "what do you like?"

Put some effort into finding out

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Message addressing the female half of couple as if shes a single, unreal

We get this too!

Annoying and usually gets deleted, but sometimes when they send a cock pic they get one back (that works a treat)

^^^

Classic

Also "what do you like?"

Put some effort into finding out "

I know it must be a terrible burden on a couple to be asked what do you like.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I think there's a men's college sending all their newly qualified massage therapist here for work experience. The place is overrun with them.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think there's a men's college sending all their newly qualified massage therapist here for work experience. The place is overrun with them. "
hardys hot stone masseuse parlor now open fiver a rub

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple  over a year ago

Chester


"Message addressing the female half of couple as if shes a single, unreal

We get this too!

Annoying and usually gets deleted, but sometimes when they send a cock pic they get one back (that works a treat)

^^^

Classic

Also "what do you like?"

Put some effort into finding out I know it must be a terrible burden on a couple to be asked what do you like."

When questions are clearly detailed in profile then yes it is! Obvious just looked at pics and not read

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By *aiseanagusspraoiMan  over a year ago

city

Haha great forum

I am an expert in killing conversations

Yet I dont think ive done any of the above lol

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By *aiseanagusspraoiMan  over a year ago

city

You see ..it happened again haha

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Message addressing the female half of couple as if shes a single, unreal

We get this too!

Annoying and usually gets deleted, but sometimes when they send a cock pic they get one back (that works a treat)

^^^

Classic

Also "what do you like?"

Put some effort into finding out I know it must be a terrible burden on a couple to be asked what do you like.

When questions are clearly detailed in profile then yes it is! Obvious just looked at pics and not read "

Yes, this is what annoys us too. When all the info is in our profile but they don't bother to read it. Instead they just look at the pics and message us. Then if we say anything they go into a rant as if we aren't allowed to be annoyed. Some of them have a seriously warped sense of entitlement.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Message addressing the female half of couple as if shes a single, unreal

Oh yes. This will lose the person major brownie points. "

Yep, this bothers me too. Total lack of common courtesy.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

"Any naughty fun planned???"

Why do I have to tell people about my plans after one mail?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Haha ya I've coped to that. Not the nicest thing to start with or without the request.

But then again talking about the weather doesn't work .. damed if you do damed if you don't

Can we talk about the weather Sally? Weather I come to you or you come to me?

That works much better when spoken

Yes I said it out loud three times .... my hospitality is fabulous you know "

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By *oggoneMan  over a year ago

Derry

The 2am special on kik

'u up?'

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Message addressing the female half of couple as if shes a single, unreal

We get this too!

Annoying and usually gets deleted, but sometimes when they send a cock pic they get one back (that works a treat)

^^^

Classic

Also "what do you like?"

Put some effort into finding out I know it must be a terrible burden on a couple to be asked what do you like.

When questions are clearly detailed in profile then yes it is! Obvious just looked at pics and not read

Yes, this is what annoys us too. When all the info is in our profile but they don't bother to read it. Instead they just look at the pics and message us. Then if we say anything they go into a rant as if we aren't allowed to be annoyed. Some of them have a seriously warped sense of entitlement."

^^^

Exactly...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


""How's use"?"

Hahaha so true!!

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By *londie8399Couple  over a year ago

blackpool

Only addressing one part of the couple and jump in straight away with sexual conversation annoys us both

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By *adame BWoman  over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

Most recent one was yesterday when some strange guy says on the forum “Les PM me”....

Why? He wasn’t even restricted. He just couldn’t be bothered making any effort and wanted us to initiate! (Laziness)

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple  over a year ago

Chester


"Message addressing the female half of couple as if shes a single, unreal

We get this too!

Annoying and usually gets deleted, but sometimes when they send a cock pic they get one back (that works a treat)

^^^

Classic

Also "what do you like?"

Put some effort into finding out I know it must be a terrible burden on a couple to be asked what do you like.

When questions are clearly detailed in profile then yes it is! Obvious just looked at pics and not read

Yes, this is what annoys us too. When all the info is in our profile but they don't bother to read it. Instead they just look at the pics and message us. Then if we say anything they go into a rant as if we aren't allowed to be annoyed. Some of them have a seriously warped sense of entitlement.

^^^

Exactly...

"

Seems to be a regular annoyance

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Hit me up on kik

I’ll hit u alright grrrrrrrr

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Just got " great tits" that's it nothing else

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just got " great tits" that's it nothing else "
I'm afraid I'm guilty of that sally I guess I'm checking to see if the lady has any interest but point taken x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Your photographs give me butterflies

420 friendly

Both giant no nos

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just got " great tits" that's it nothing else I'm afraid I'm guilty of that sally I guess I'm checking to see if the lady has any interest but point taken x"

Try a proper conversation starter .. that message is now languishing

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just got " great tits" that's it nothing else I'm afraid I'm guilty of that sally I guess I'm checking to see if the lady has any interest but point taken x

Try a proper conversation starter .. that message is now languishing "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"“I’m attached”"

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By *aid backMan  over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out


"Wat u into

"

We all know what your into it's beer, Bitches and being bold

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By *evil_u_knowMan  over a year ago

city

Closed responses.

Hi, how are you?

open response: I'm good, and you?

closed response: good.

If you give me a closed response, I have to open the conversation back up again. But 99 times out of 100, I just wont bother.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Wat u into

We all know what your into it's beer, Bitches and being bold "

You know me so well

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Closed responses.

Hi, how are you?

open response: I'm good, and you?

closed response: good.

If you give me a closed response, I have to open the conversation back up again. But 99 times out of 100, I just wont bother."

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

My photo

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By *arveygirthycockMan  over a year ago

town


""How's use"?"

OMG this is the worst. Grinds my gears bigtime. If anyone uses the ‘use’ word instead of how are you etc etc its immediate block. Simples.

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By *arveygirthycockMan  over a year ago

town

A close second for ‘me’ is when a couples profile messages me and the whole message is: Face pic?

No hi, no nothing, just a demand!

Like really? Oh you have a gf or wife? Your better than me? Your doing me the favour? Ive never been married x3 or had a GF... or capable of going down the pub and pulling because of my 2 heads?!!

Im a single working (nightshift) father paying 2 mortgages own car all my own teeth all round decent fella who likes a fuck in between working and childcare and cant really be bothered with gangovers anymore...NOT FUCKING DESPERATE!!

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By *arveygirthycockMan  over a year ago

town

*hangovers

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By *iftyfifty51Man  over a year ago

trim

That is very rude

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Lack of reply usually kills the conversation

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