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By *bout us OP Couple
over a year ago
dungannon |
We are an English couple recently arrived to this area
We have made a couple of errors already . Any tips as to chat room, forum and good meet venues
We have a fair bit of experience but are new to fab  |
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over a year ago
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"We are an English couple recently arrived to this area
We have made a couple of errors already . Any tips as to chat room, forum and good meet venues
We have a fair bit of experience but are new to fab "
Hope you both settle in soon. It's hard to get used to living somewhere new. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"New to Ireland? ? You've upset the natives already ?? Shur there's years of history of that Sally   
Ahhh where do we start
Well it was 1649 and.... lets not mention potatoes! "
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"New to Ireland? ? You've upset the natives already ?? Shur there's years of history of that Sally
Ahhh where do we start
Well it was 1649 and.... lets not mention potatoes!
Its just light hearted... have we not come far enough to not enjoy a bit of a laugh. No offence is intended or expressed!!!
Is there any need for this? "
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"New to Ireland? ? You've upset the natives already ?? Shur there's years of history of that Sally
Ahhh where do we start
Well it was 1649 and.... lets not mention potatoes!
Its just light hearted... have we not come far enough to not enjoy a bit of a laugh. No offence is intended or expressed!!!
Is there any need for this? "
Its just light hearted... have we not come far enough to not enjoy a bit of a laugh. No offence is intended or expressed!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"New to Ireland? ? You've upset the natives already ?? Shur there's years of history of that Sally
Ahhh where do we start
Well it was 1649 and.... lets not mention potatoes!
Its just light hearted... have we not come far enough to not enjoy a bit of a laugh. No offence is intended or expressed!!!
Is there any need for this?
Its just light hearted... have we not come far enough to not enjoy a bit of a laugh. No offence is intended or expressed!!!"
Maybe you've come far enough, but that doesn't mean everybody has, and it's not, in my opinion, a very welcoming type of post to people who have expressed that it's hard to settle somewhere else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"New to Ireland? ? You've upset the natives already ?? Shur there's years of history of that Sally
Ahhh where do we start
Well it was 1649 and.... lets not mention potatoes!
Is there any need for this? "
Sally in fairness it was a bit of banter. Nothing nasty was intended. I think you can trust most adults to self regulate.
To the couple we were pulling your leg and I'm not to far from you if you need advise pm me  |
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By *bout us OP Couple
over a year ago
dungannon |
"New to Ireland? ? You've upset the natives already ?? Shur there's years of history of that Sally
Ahhh where do we start
Well it was 1649 and.... lets not mention potatoes!
Is there any need for this?
Sally in fairness it was a bit of banter. Nothing nasty was intended. I think you can trust most adults to self regulate.
To the couple we were pulling your leg and I'm not to far from you if you need advise pm me "
We have thick skin...lol
Where are you Time wise from moira ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"New to Ireland? ? You've upset the natives already ?? Shur there's years of history of that Sally
Ahhh where do we start
Well it was 1649 and.... lets not mention potatoes!
Is there any need for this?
Sally in fairness it was a bit of banter. Nothing nasty was intended. I think you can trust most adults to self regulate.
To the couple we were pulling your leg and I'm not to far from you if you need advise pm me
We have thick skin...lol
Where are you Time wise from moira ?"
Glad for the thick skin I'll tell you privately if you don't mind. I don't give personal details here. Just give people time once the locals see you as can genuine nice couple things will settle. Get involved gradually with your community  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have thick skin...lol"
Glad to hear it, you're going to need it. I don't usually get offended on other people's behalf, I just thought the comments were unnecessary. I'll shut up now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"New to Ireland? ? You've upset the natives already ?? Shur there's years of history of that Sally
Ahhh where do we start
Well it was 1649 and.... lets not mention potatoes!
Its just light hearted... have we not come far enough to not enjoy a bit of a laugh. No offence is intended or expressed!!!
Is there any need for this?
Its just light hearted... have we not come far enough to not enjoy a bit of a laugh. No offence is intended or expressed!!!"
It's just a bit old. |
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By *bout us OP Couple
over a year ago
dungannon |
"We have thick skin...lol
Glad to hear it, you're going to need it. I don't usually get offended on other people's behalf, I just thought the comments were unnecessary. I'll shut up now "
Please don’t shut up |
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"New to Ireland? ? You've upset the natives already ?? Shur there's years of history of that Sally
Ahhh where do we start
Well it was 1649 and.... lets not mention potatoes!
Its just light hearted... have we not come far enough to not enjoy a bit of a laugh. No offence is intended or expressed!!!
Is there any need for this?
Its just light hearted... have we not come far enough to not enjoy a bit of a laugh. No offence is intended or expressed!!!
It's just a bit old."
..368 years old..
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.humour has once again departed fabland i see.. |
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"New to Ireland? ? You've upset the natives already ?? Shur there's years of history of that Sally
Ahhh where do we start
Well it was 1649 and.... lets not mention potatoes!
Its just light hearted... have we not come far enough to not enjoy a bit of a laugh. No offence is intended or expressed!!!
Is there any need for this?
Its just light hearted... have we not come far enough to not enjoy a bit of a laugh. No offence is intended or expressed!!!
It's just a bit old.
..368 years old..
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.humour has once again departed fabland i see.. "
Haha exactly  |
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"Lighten up folks
We are not offended by any of the comments here . I can see both sides of above conversation but hey it’s a swinger site ..lol
Make love not war
Maria "
Thanks Maria... i only mean to have a laugh and a light hearted banter... we are all grown up here after all (some would argue this fact occasionally) It actually proves my point from my first reply... it very much depends on the people you guys are dealing with. Its not always you thats making errors... it can be how things are perceved or taken out of context or even just your unfortunate to meet someone on an off day and you get the sharp end of their ignorance! Hope you guys have lots of good memories not just on here but in you new area |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have thick skin...lol
Glad to hear it, you're going to need it. I don't usually get offended on other people's behalf, I just thought the comments were unnecessary. I'll shut up now "
I don't find it offensive, I just find the 'banter' insufferably annoying. Instant hijacking of a thread |
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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago
Derry |
"We have thick skin...lol
Glad to hear it, you're going to need it. I don't usually get offended on other people's behalf, I just thought the comments were unnecessary. I'll shut up now
I don't find it offensive, I just find the 'banter' insufferably annoying. Instant hijacking of a thread"
Don't ever change Bananaman, not for anyone. |
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"We are an English couple recently arrived to this area
We have made a couple of errors already . Any tips as to chat room, forum and good meet venues
We have a fair bit of experience but are new to fab "
Well the forums are minefield so its easy to feel like putting a foot wrong. Mostly a few groups or 'clicks' who band together frim thread to thread. Just be yourself... but be prepared to be ignored or put down at their discretion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have thick skin...lol
Glad to hear it, you're going to need it. I don't usually get offended on other people's behalf, I just thought the comments were unnecessary. I'll shut up now
I don't find it offensive, I just find the 'banter' insufferably annoying. Instant hijacking of a thread
Don't ever change Bananaman, not for anyone."
A change is as good as a rest. |
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By *bout us OP Couple
over a year ago
dungannon |
"We are an English couple recently arrived to this area
We have made a couple of errors already . Any tips as to chat room, forum and good meet venues
We have a fair bit of experience but are new to fab
Well the forums are minefield so its easy to feel like putting a foot wrong. Mostly a few groups or 'clicks' who band together frim thread to thread. Just be yourself... but be prepared to be ignored or put down at their discretion."
This is not our first rodeo and we see the cliques and groups . We have watched the forum and chat rooms for a few weeks now . We seek quality not quantity and have pin pointed a lady to meet with a friend she has . They are both under the radar and that’s what we seek ... |
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"We are an English couple recently arrived to this area
We have made a couple of errors already . Any tips as to chat room, forum and good meet venues
We have a fair bit of experience but are new to fab
Well the forums are minefield so its easy to feel like putting a foot wrong. Mostly a few groups or 'clicks' who band together frim thread to thread. Just be yourself... but be prepared to be ignored or put down at their discretion.
This is not our first rodeo and we see the cliques and groups . We have watched the forum and chat rooms for a few weeks now . We seek quality not quantity and have pin pointed a lady to meet with a friend she has . They are both under the radar and that’s what we seek ..."
One word... Result
That's how i like it too... as the saying goes 'its the quiet ones you have to watch' |
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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago
Derry |
"We are an English couple recently arrived to this area
We have made a couple of errors already . Any tips as to chat room, forum and good meet venues
We have a fair bit of experience but are new to fab
Well the forums are minefield so its easy to feel like putting a foot wrong. Mostly a few groups or 'clicks' who band together frim thread to thread. Just be yourself... but be prepared to be ignored or put down at their discretion.
This is not our first rodeo and we see the cliques and groups . We have watched the forum and chat rooms for a few weeks now . We seek quality not quantity and have pin pointed a lady to meet with a friend she has . They are both under the radar and that’s what we seek ..."
Welcome and yes it can be volatile here . Things can kick off over very little. All bloodsports are fully legal here. There's no shortage of passive aggression either. That said, the craic can be good at times if you can hold your own. Some good conversations and whole lot of shite to go with it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We are an English couple recently arrived to this area
We have made a couple of errors already . Any tips as to chat room, forum and good meet venues
We have a fair bit of experience but are new to fab
Well the forums are minefield so its easy to feel like putting a foot wrong. Mostly a few groups or 'clicks' who band together frim thread to thread. Just be yourself... but be prepared to be ignored or put down at their discretion.
This is not our first rodeo and we see the cliques and groups . We have watched the forum and chat rooms for a few weeks now . We seek quality not quantity and have pin pointed a lady to meet with a friend she has . They are both under the radar and that’s what we seek ..."
Would you mind me asking if the cliques and groups as you put it, are any worse or less, in your experience, across the pond? |
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By *bout us OP Couple
over a year ago
dungannon |
"We are an English couple recently arrived to this area
We have made a couple of errors already . Any tips as to chat room, forum and good meet venues
We have a fair bit of experience but are new to fab
Well the forums are minefield so its easy to feel like putting a foot wrong. Mostly a few groups or 'clicks' who band together frim thread to thread. Just be yourself... but be prepared to be ignored or put down at their discretion.
This is not our first rodeo and we see the cliques and groups . We have watched the forum and chat rooms for a few weeks now . We seek quality not quantity and have pin pointed a lady to meet with a friend she has . They are both under the radar and that’s what we seek ...
Would you mind me asking if the cliques and groups as you put it, are any worse or less, in your experience, across the pond?"
The smaller the pond the more aggressive the fish ....England is a large pond so fish can move to another shoal as often as they like . There is not that luxury here I feel . Fall out of favour and pickings are poor . We will cherry pick and see how we get on . We will return home 5 or 6 times per year and will prob seek out old friends when there if we don’t find the fun here  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We are an English couple recently arrived to this area
We have made a couple of errors already . Any tips as to chat room, forum and good meet venues
We have a fair bit of experience but are new to fab
Well the forums are minefield so its easy to feel like putting a foot wrong. Mostly a few groups or 'clicks' who band together frim thread to thread. Just be yourself... but be prepared to be ignored or put down at their discretion.
This is not our first rodeo and we see the cliques and groups . We have watched the forum and chat rooms for a few weeks now . We seek quality not quantity and have pin pointed a lady to meet with a friend she has . They are both under the radar and that’s what we seek ...
Would you mind me asking if the cliques and groups as you put it, are any worse or less, in your experience, across the pond?
The smaller the pond the more aggressive the fish ....England is a large pond so fish can move to another shoal as often as they like . There is not that luxury here I feel . Fall out of favour and pickings are poor . We will cherry pick and see how we get on . We will return home 5 or 6 times per year and will prob seek out old friends when there if we don’t find the fun here "
I'm not so sure about that, I take your analogy, I'm sure we will get the opportunity to converse more about the topic. And welcome by the way |
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By *bout us OP Couple
over a year ago
dungannon |
Hello biguy and maybe we will take part in the odd debate here
I enjoy an intelligent conversation .
To add another item to the above... as this is a smaller area and less fabbers hygiene and discretion must be paramount . |
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"Hello biguy and maybe we will take part in the odd debate here
I enjoy an intelligent conversation .
To add another item to the above... as this is a smaller area and less fabbers hygiene and discretion must be paramount . "
Indeed, but as a starting point we must compare like with like... I'm quite sure you guys can smell the bull coming around the corner as for intelligent conversation, have you not seen my contribution here  |
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"Lighten up folks
We are not offended by any of the comments here . I can see both sides of above conversation but hey it’s a swinger site ..lol
Make love not war
Maria
Welcome to Fab and uhhh.....Ireland
Sugar x
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By *bout us OP Couple
over a year ago
dungannon |
"Lighten up folks
We are not offended by any of the comments here . I can see both sides of above conversation but hey it’s a swinger site ..lol
Make love not war
Maria
Welcome to Fab and uhhh.....Ireland
Sugar x
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Thank you spice |
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"New to Ireland? ? You've upset the natives already ?? Shur there's years of history of that Sally
Ahhh where do we start
Well it was 1649 and.... lets not mention potatoes!
Its just light hearted... have we not come far enough to not enjoy a bit of a laugh. No offence is intended or expressed!!!
Is there any need for this?
Its just light hearted... have we not come far enough to not enjoy a bit of a laugh. No offence is intended or expressed!!!"
never saw humour genocide myself |
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