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Are Swingers Considered an Easy Lay?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Are swingers considered an easy avenue for those who are not getting what they need/desire at home?
Lets face it, any guy or girl can have a one night stand or even multiples by just spending an evening in their local pub. This would seem to solve the immediate problem however the abundance of those that seek coupled swingers out give me the impression that they are unable to get the sex for merely gratification. Are we considered safer, because we adhere to certain health standards? Is it because they think we are sexually easy? Does the internet entertain an idea of easiness about swingers? Are we considered cheaper and less hassle than seeking out a prostitute? Any thoughts? |
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I'm sure there are many people who join swinging sites thinking it's dial a ride, in my opinion if they think that, (for the want of a better phrase) they shouldn't label themselves swingers. Most people in this lifestyle know, acknowledge and want everything else that goes with the sex. There is a massive social aspect to the lifestyle, parties, socials group holidays and life long friendships that evolve from it. So for the ones that think a swing site is for an easy lay or dial a ride, well they will quickly find that most people who take the lifestyle seriously will spot them a mile off and block hence there are so many Messer's here years without a meet due to their attitude and small minded sex only view of swingers  |
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"I'm sure there are many people who join swinging sites thinking it's dial a ride, in my opinion if they think that, (for the want of a better phrase) they shouldn't label themselves swingers. Most people in this lifestyle know, acknowledge and want everything else that goes with the sex. There is a massive social aspect to the lifestyle, parties, socials group holidays and life long friendships that evolve from it. So for the ones that think a swing site is for an easy lay or dial a ride, well they will quickly find that most people who take the lifestyle seriously will spot them a mile off and block hence there are so many Messer's here years without a meet due to their attitude and small minded sex only view of swingers "
not ment in a bad way but your post is everything I'm not. I'm not a true swinger, I mist certainly don't take here seriously and id go as far as saying I'd say the vast majority of single men on here are only here to get their leg over and no extras like parties holidays etc |
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By *ohnandGemCouple
over a year ago
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"I'm sure there are many people who join swinging sites thinking it's dial a ride, in my opinion if they think that, (for the want of a better phrase) they shouldn't label themselves swingers. Most people in this lifestyle know, acknowledge and want everything else that goes with the sex. There is a massive social aspect to the lifestyle, parties, socials group holidays and life long friendships that evolve from it. So for the ones that think a swing site is for an easy lay or dial a ride, well they will quickly find that most people who take the lifestyle seriously will spot them a mile off and block hence there are so many Messer's here years without a meet due to their attitude and small minded sex only view of swingers "
And between the dial a riders and the social butterflies are the ones who fly under the radar, quietly do their swinging, pop out for the odd social, go networking and then quietly arrange their meets.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm sure there are many people who join swinging sites thinking it's dial a ride, in my opinion if they think that, (for the want of a better phrase) they shouldn't label themselves swingers. Most people in this lifestyle know, acknowledge and want everything else that goes with the sex. There is a massive social aspect to the lifestyle, parties, socials group holidays and life long friendships that evolve from it. So for the ones that think a swing site is for an easy lay or dial a ride, well they will quickly find that most people who take the lifestyle seriously will spot them a mile off and block hence there are so many Messer's here years without a meet due to their attitude and small minded sex only view of swingers
And between the dial a riders and the social butterflies are the ones who fly under the radar, quietly do their swinging, pop out for the odd social, go networking and then quietly arrange their meets.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are we considered safer, because we adhere to certain health standards?"
Where have you gotten that from? Is there some kind of empirical evidence backing this up??
Also, yes people can meet in a bar, but who wants to spend a Tuesday night having to try nd pull someone in a bar? Most people don't have the time or money for that. A site like this means they can do it whilst sat on the toilet bowl at home. That's the obvious, and only reason |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm sure there are many people who join swinging sites thinking it's dial a ride, in my opinion if they think that, (for the want of a better phrase) they shouldn't label themselves swingers. Most people in this lifestyle know, acknowledge and want everything else that goes with the sex. There is a massive social aspect to the lifestyle, parties, socials group holidays and life long friendships that evolve from it. So for the ones that think a swing site is for an easy lay or dial a ride, well they will quickly find that most people who take the lifestyle seriously will spot them a mile off and block hence there are so many Messer's here years without a meet due to their attitude and small minded sex only view of swingers not ment in a bad way but your post is everything I'm not. I'm not a true swinger, I mist certainly don't take here seriously and id go as far as saying I'd say the vast majority of single men on here are only here to get their leg over and no extras like parties holidays etc
That's your prerogative, would you say you are a swinger then ?  no I'm not"
At least Ur honest |
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"I'm sure there are many people who join swinging sites thinking it's dial a ride, in my opinion if they think that, (for the want of a better phrase) they shouldn't label themselves swingers. Most people in this lifestyle know, acknowledge and want everything else that goes with the sex. There is a massive social aspect to the lifestyle, parties, socials group holidays and life long friendships that evolve from it. So for the ones that think a swing site is for an easy lay or dial a ride, well they will quickly find that most people who take the lifestyle seriously will spot them a mile off and block hence there are so many Messer's here years without a meet due to their attitude and small minded sex only view of swingers not ment in a bad way but your post is everything I'm not. I'm not a true swinger, I mist certainly don't take here seriously and id go as far as saying I'd say the vast majority of single men on here are only here to get their leg over and no extras like parties holidays etc
That's your prerogative, would you say you are a swinger then ? no I'm not
At least Ur honest "
no point lying. lovely pics by the way |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's your prerogative, would you say you are a swinger then ? no I'm not
At least Ur honest no point lying. lovely pics by the way "
Your own ain't bad either, georgous cock  ..Jilly |
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"Nothing grinds our gears more than when this is referred to a "Sex Site"
Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr  "
end of the day you ask the vast majoeoty of people why they first signed up here. you know what the answer will be ... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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""any guy or girl can have a one night stand or even multiples by just spending an evening in their local pub"
Bit of a generalisation there Op. Have you met some of my mates???!  "
Are they on here too  |
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""any guy or girl can have a one night stand or even multiples by just spending an evening in their local pub"
Bit of a generalisation there Op. Have you met some of my mates???!
Are they on here too "
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One of them is actually...
but doesn't know I'm on here too!!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Are we considered safer, because we adhere to certain health standards?
Where have you gotten that from? Is there some kind of empirical evidence backing this up??
Also, yes people can meet in a bar, but who wants to spend a Tuesday night having to try nd pull someone in a bar? Most people don't have the time or money for that. A site like this means they can do it whilst sat on the toilet bowl at home. That's the obvious, and only reason"
Swinging its self is not a high risk behaviour, they are relatively knowledgeable about STIs and more likely to seek prompt medical treatment
I do recall reading an article that suggested swingers have lower rates of STIs than the general population. But generally its my observation. |
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If you have *no* problems getting sex offline. Then on here will be harder for you.
If you *have* problems getting sex offline, then on here will be much easier for you.
You can be unemployed, or a low job like a servant, cleaner, bin man, waiter (all good jobs) and be very popular on here. Hell you can even be totally out of shape and a total creep and do okay. But the way pubs/clubs are you need a good job, pair of shoes, money for their drinks, to be handsome, to be charming off the bat, or you wont get much further past "hello", with any sort of decent girl in the place.
Its a plus, that people on here are less judgemental, but it would, for sure be easier for a lot of people on here. |
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By *oserMan
over a year ago
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"If you have *no* problems getting sex offline. Then on here will be harder for you.
If you *have* problems getting sex offline, then on here will be much easier for you.
You can be unemployed, or a low job like a servant, cleaner, bin man, waiter (all good jobs) and be very popular on here. Hell you can even be totally out of shape and a total creep and do okay. But the way pubs/clubs are you need a good job, pair of shoes, money for their drinks, to be handsome, to be charming off the bat, or you wont get much further past "hello", with any sort of decent girl in the place.
Its a plus, that people on here are less judgemental, but it would, for sure be easier for a lot of people on here."
Fook fook fook ...its the fecking shoes !  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm sure there are many people who join swinging sites thinking it's dial a ride, in my opinion if they think that, (for the want of a better phrase) they shouldn't label themselves swingers. Most people in this lifestyle know, acknowledge and want everything else that goes with the sex. There is a massive social aspect to the lifestyle, parties, socials group holidays and life long friendships that evolve from it. So for the ones that think a swing site is for an easy lay or dial a ride, well they will quickly find that most people who take the lifestyle seriously will spot them a mile off and block hence there are so many Messer's here years without a meet due to their attitude and small minded sex only view of swingers
And between the dial a riders and the social butterflies are the ones who fly under the radar, quietly do their swinging, pop out for the odd social, go networking and then quietly arrange their meets.
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"I'm sure there are many people who join swinging sites thinking it's dial a ride, in my opinion if they think that, (for the want of a better phrase) they shouldn't label themselves swingers. Most people in this lifestyle know, acknowledge and want everything else that goes with the sex. There is a massive social aspect to the lifestyle, parties, socials group holidays and life long friendships that evolve from it. So for the ones that think a swing site is for an easy lay or dial a ride, well they will quickly find that most people who take the lifestyle seriously will spot them a mile off and block hence there are so many Messer's here years without a meet due to their attitude and small minded sex only view of swingers
And between the dial a riders and the social butterflies are the ones who fly under the radar, quietly do their swinging, pop out for the odd social, go networking and then quietly arrange their meets.
This!!!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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There is a perception by some that swingers are very promiscuous and that we are all uncontrollable nymphos that will fuck anybody, anytime anywhere. And that swinging is seen by some as a good avenue for cheap, fast easy sex. As an added bonus we wont care that some are cheating or we would be going against our openminded ideals, Right? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A fair amount of people here join up thinking swingers will fuck anything throw out a few vile pics of a cock and shout about it being a sex site then get abusive and bitter when no one entertains them suddenly we are all fat sluts who couldn’t get the tide to take us out  |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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Who decides who's a swinger and who's not. In some cases it might be obvious, in other it isn't. Yes I'd say swingers are sexually easy but that doesn't mean they've no standards and morals.
It isn't that easy to pull two guys for a DP in the pub, then again I've never tried it. Imagine the conversation ! "Do you guys have any cock pics on your phone so that I know what I'm getting?"
Anyhow the problem with pulling in the pub/club it's very random and normally there's too much alcohol involved.
Finally I don't know where you have that from regarding health and stds, I think that's nonsense. If anything a swinger would be clearly in a higher risk group. Ok sure there are some that take the issue very seriously, but how many do already perform oral with no protection at all and finally there's more bare backing going than you would believe. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Who decides who's a swinger and who's not. In some cases it might be obvious, in other it isn't. Yes I'd say swingers are sexually easy but that doesn't mean they've no standards and morals.
It isn't that easy to pull two guys for a DP in the pub, then again I've never tried it. Imagine the conversation ! "Do you guys have any cock pics on your phone so that I know what I'm getting?"
Anyhow the problem with pulling in the pub/club it's very random and normally there's too much alcohol involved.
Finally I don't know where you have that from regarding health and stds, I think that's nonsense. If anything a swinger would be clearly in a higher risk group. Ok sure there are some that take the issue very seriously, but how many do already perform oral with no protection at all and finally there's more bare backing going than you would believe."
Swinging couples would seem to have entered the lifestyle while already in secure relationships, and that would give them plenty of motivation to avoid excessive sexual health risks. Its by no means a risk free environment, and some on the scene are particularly known for not using protection, I don't believe this is condoned by the majority of swingers. There's no doubt that there is a seedy sub culture to swinging, which comes back to the point, who decides who is a swinger? Im sure there are as many different interpretations, as to what swinging means, as there is reasons to why people are here, obviously each individual needs to make that call themselves like the poster above did. Are STIs as bad as most people believe/fear, obviously nobody wants to contract HIV, Chlymadia, Ghonnorea etc, but for most people they get treated and do well long term, I think part of the issue is the fear and culture around sex and STIs are used as a means of trying to control sexual behaviour, while that's understandable, I don't think it really reflects the danger present in swinging if reasonable precautions are used ( condoms, not sharing toys etc).. |
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That's your prerogative, would you say you are a swinger then ? no I'm not
At least Ur honest no point lying. lovely pics by the way
Your own ain't bad either, georgous cock ..Jilly thanks  "
Huh???.....she says you have a gorgeous cock and all you can say is..'thanks'?? Jaysus man, get your A game going here! ... |
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That's your prerogative, would you say you are a swinger then ? no I'm not
At least Ur honest no point lying. lovely pics by the way
Your own ain't bad either, georgous cock ..Jilly thanks
Huh???.....she says you have a gorgeous cock and all you can say is..'thanks'?? Jaysus man, get your A game going here! ... "
no more then a thanks needed. she's not interested in single males and i can't mail her. end of story |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's your prerogative, would you say you are a swinger then ? no I'm not
At least Ur honest no point lying. lovely pics by the way
Your own ain't bad either, georgous cock ..Jilly thanks
Huh???.....she says you have a gorgeous cock and all you can say is..'thanks'?? Jaysus man, get your A game going here! ... "
Don't be put off I do like singles but hunt my own |
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That's your prerogative, would you say you are a swinger then ? no I'm not
At least Ur honest no point lying. lovely pics by the way
Your own ain't bad either, georgous cock ..Jilly thanks
Huh???.....she says you have a gorgeous cock and all you can say is..'thanks'?? Jaysus man, get your A game going here! ...
Don't be put off I do like singles but hunt my own "
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That's your prerogative, would you say you are a swinger then ? no I'm not
At least Ur honest no point lying. lovely pics by the way
Your own ain't bad either, georgous cock ..Jilly thanks
Huh???.....she says you have a gorgeous cock and all you can say is..'thanks'?? Jaysus man, get your A game going here! ...
Don't be put off I do like singles but hunt my own a huntress "
you owe me man...you owe me!
Right, I'm opening a Fab matchmaking service. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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That's your prerogative, would you say you are a swinger then ? no I'm not
At least Ur honest no point lying. lovely pics by the way
Your own ain't bad either, georgous cock ..Jilly thanks
Huh???.....she says you have a gorgeous cock and all you can say is..'thanks'?? Jaysus man, get your A game going here! ...
Don't be put off I do like singles but hunt my own a huntress "
Yes and I always get my prey |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's your prerogative, would you say you are a swinger then ? no I'm not
At least Ur honest no point lying. lovely pics by the way
Your own ain't bad either, georgous cock ..Jilly thanks
Huh???.....she says you have a gorgeous cock and all you can say is..'thanks'?? Jaysus man, get your A game going here! ...
Don't be put off I do like singles but hunt my own a huntress
you owe me man...you owe me!
Right, I'm opening a Fab matchmaking service."
Haha I could hunting you  |
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That's your prerogative, would you say you are a swinger then ? no I'm not
At least Ur honest no point lying. lovely pics by the way
Your own ain't bad either, georgous cock ..Jilly thanks
Huh???.....she says you have a gorgeous cock and all you can say is..'thanks'?? Jaysus man, get your A game going here! ...
Don't be put off I do like singles but hunt my own a huntress
you owe me man...you owe me!
Right, I'm opening a Fab matchmaking service.
Haha I could hunting you "
Jaysus
Should I let myself be caught? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's your prerogative, would you say you are a swinger then ? no I'm not
At least Ur honest no point lying. lovely pics by the way
Your own ain't bad either, georgous cock ..Jilly thanks
Huh???.....she says you have a gorgeous cock and all you can say is..'thanks'?? Jaysus man, get your A game going here! ...
Don't be put off I do like singles but hunt my own a huntress
you owe me man...you owe me!
Right, I'm opening a Fab matchmaking service.
Haha I could hunting you
Jaysus
Should I let myself be caught? "
I will cast my net see if u slip through it or not |
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That's your prerogative, would you say you are a swinger then ? no I'm not
At least Ur honest no point lying. lovely pics by the way
Your own ain't bad either, georgous cock ..Jilly thanks
Huh???.....she says you have a gorgeous cock and all you can say is..'thanks'?? Jaysus man, get your A game going here! ...
Don't be put off I do like singles but hunt my own a huntress
you owe me man...you owe me!
Right, I'm opening a Fab matchmaking service.
Haha I could hunting you
Jaysus
Should I let myself be caught?
I will cast my net see if u slip through it or not "
Ya know...thats a pretty hot image.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm sure there are many people who join swinging sites thinking it's dial a ride, in my opinion if they think that, (for the want of a better phrase) they shouldn't label themselves swingers. Most people in this lifestyle know, acknowledge and want everything else that goes with the sex. There is a massive social aspect to the lifestyle, parties, socials group holidays and life long friendships that evolve from it. So for the ones that think a swing site is for an easy lay or dial a ride, well they will quickly find that most people who take the lifestyle seriously will spot them a mile off and block hence there are so many Messer's here years without a meet due to their attitude and small minded sex only view of swingers not ment in a bad way but your post is everything I'm not. I'm not a true swinger, I mist certainly don't take here seriously and id go as far as saying I'd say the vast majority of single men on here are only here to get their leg over and no extras like parties holidays etc
That's your prerogative, would you say you are a swinger then ? no I'm not
At least Ur honest "
in fairness he said that in his first response...2nd sentence.
Swinging also has different meanings to different people. I wouldn't call myself a swinger, I have attended clubs and a social. The original concept was about couples mixing and matching, but as a single who doesn't play with with other men and hense couples I wouldn't see myself as a swinger. Yes,The social side is paramount for me but that doesn't make one a swinger. Lots of couples date (thats a social side) before engaging in non monogamous sex, some NSA, some with a few social strings.
I don't think there is any longer a clear definition of swinger. Like most labels we as,a society a blurred all the traditional lines of definitions.
In two generations we will have gender neutral babies born, no midwives, no women/men, manly and feminine will have little if any meaning just to give a few suggestions.
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By (user no longer on site)
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That's your prerogative, would you say you are a swinger then ? no I'm not
At least Ur honest no point lying. lovely pics by the way
Your own ain't bad either, georgous cock ..Jilly thanks
Huh???.....she says you have a gorgeous cock and all you can say is..'thanks'?? Jaysus man, get your A game going here! ...
Don't be put off I do like singles but hunt my own a huntress
you owe me man...you owe me!
Right, I'm opening a Fab matchmaking service."
Haha ...
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some people, this is there social circle for me it's not. if someone said to me will u attend a social and it clashed with a night out with lifelong pals, there is only one winner that's how it is for me |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"I'm sure there are many people who join swinging sites thinking it's dial a ride, in my opinion if they think that, (for the want of a better phrase) they shouldn't label themselves swingers. Most people in this lifestyle know, acknowledge and want everything else that goes with the sex. There is a massive social aspect to the lifestyle, parties, socials group holidays and life long friendships that evolve from it. So for the ones that think a swing site is for an easy lay or dial a ride, well they will quickly find that most people who take the lifestyle seriously will spot them a mile off and block hence there are so many Messer's here years without a meet due to their attitude and small minded sex only view of swingers not ment in a bad way but your post is everything I'm not. I'm not a true swinger, I mist certainly don't take here seriously and id go as far as saying I'd say the vast majority of single men on here are only here to get their leg over and no extras like parties holidays etc
That's your prerogative, would you say you are a swinger then ? no I'm not
At least Ur honest
in fairness he said that in his first response...2nd sentence.
Swinging also has different meanings to different people. I wouldn't call myself a swinger, I have attended clubs and a social. The original concept was about couples mixing and matching, but as a single who doesn't play with with other men and hense couples I wouldn't see myself as a swinger. Yes,The social side is paramount for me but that doesn't make one a swinger. Lots of couples date (thats a social side) before engaging in non monogamous sex, some NSA, some with a few social strings.
I don't think there is any longer a clear definition of swinger. Like most labels we as,a society a blurred all the traditional lines of definitions.
In two generations we will have gender neutral babies born, no midwives, no women/men, manly and feminine will have little if any meaning just to give a few suggestions.
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As with loads of 'movements' it evolves and I can't see anything negative about that and that single people and even attached single people seek the same sexual liberation as couples enjoy. Boundaries are there to be pushed as you know. Or simply ask yourself could/would you go suddenly go vanilla (again) when falling in love? |
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"I'm sure there are many people who join swinging sites thinking it's dial a ride, in my opinion if they think that, (for the want of a better phrase) they shouldn't label themselves swingers. Most people in this lifestyle know, acknowledge and want everything else that goes with the sex. There is a massive social aspect to the lifestyle, parties, socials group holidays and life long friendships that evolve from it. So for the ones that think a swing site is for an easy lay or dial a ride, well they will quickly find that most people who take the lifestyle seriously will spot them a mile off and block hence there are so many Messer's here years without a meet due to their attitude and small minded sex only view of swingers not ment in a bad way but your post is everything I'm not. I'm not a true swinger, I mist certainly don't take here seriously and id go as far as saying I'd say the vast majority of single men on here are only here to get their leg over and no extras like parties holidays etc
That's your prerogative, would you say you are a swinger then ? no I'm not
At least Ur honest
in fairness he said that in his first response...2nd sentence.
Swinging also has different meanings to different people. I wouldn't call myself a swinger, I have attended clubs and a social. The original concept was about couples mixing and matching, but as a single who doesn't play with with other men and hense couples I wouldn't see myself as a swinger. Yes,The social side is paramount for me but that doesn't make one a swinger. Lots of couples date (thats a social side) before engaging in non monogamous sex, some NSA, some with a few social strings.
I don't think there is any longer a clear definition of swinger. Like most labels we as,a society a blurred all the traditional lines of definitions.
In two generations we will have gender neutral babies born, no midwives, no women/men, manly and feminine will have little if any meaning just to give a few suggestions.
As with loads of 'movements' it evolves and I can't see anything negative about that and that single people and even attached single people seek the same sexual liberation as couples enjoy. Boundaries are there to be pushed as you know. Or simply ask yourself could/would you go suddenly go vanilla (again) when falling in love?"
does vanilla mean a regular normal relationship where it's just you plus your partner |
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"I'm sure there are many people who join swinging sites thinking it's dial a ride, in my opinion if they think that, (for the want of a better phrase) they shouldn't label themselves swingers. Most people in this lifestyle know, acknowledge and want everything else that goes with the sex. There is a massive social aspect to the lifestyle, parties, socials group holidays and life long friendships that evolve from it. So for the ones that think a swing site is for an easy lay or dial a ride, well they will quickly find that most people who take the lifestyle seriously will spot them a mile off and block hence there are so many Messer's here years without a meet due to their attitude and small minded sex only view of swingers not ment in a bad way but your post is everything I'm not. I'm not a true swinger, I mist certainly don't take here seriously and id go as far as saying I'd say the vast majority of single men on here are only here to get their leg over and no extras like parties holidays etc
That's your prerogative, would you say you are a swinger then ? no I'm not
At least Ur honest
in fairness he said that in his first response...2nd sentence.
Swinging also has different meanings to different people. I wouldn't call myself a swinger, I have attended clubs and a social. The original concept was about couples mixing and matching, but as a single who doesn't play with with other men and hense couples I wouldn't see myself as a swinger. Yes,The social side is paramount for me but that doesn't make one a swinger. Lots of couples date (thats a social side) before engaging in non monogamous sex, some NSA, some with a few social strings.
I don't think there is any longer a clear definition of swinger. Like most labels we as,a society a blurred all the traditional lines of definitions.
In two generations we will have gender neutral babies born, no midwives, no women/men, manly and feminine will have little if any meaning just to give a few suggestions.
As with loads of 'movements' it evolves and I can't see anything negative about that and that single people and even attached single people seek the same sexual liberation as couples enjoy. Boundaries are there to be pushed as you know. Or simply ask yourself could/would you go suddenly go vanilla (again) when falling in love?does vanilla mean a regular normal relationship where it's just you plus your partner "
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"I'm sure there are many people who join swinging sites thinking it's dial a ride, in my opinion if they think that, (for the want of a better phrase) they shouldn't label themselves swingers. Most people in this lifestyle know, acknowledge and want everything else that goes with the sex. There is a massive social aspect to the lifestyle, parties, socials group holidays and life long friendships that evolve from it. So for the ones that think a swing site is for an easy lay or dial a ride, well they will quickly find that most people who take the lifestyle seriously will spot them a mile off and block hence there are so many Messer's here years without a meet due to their attitude and small minded sex only view of swingers not ment in a bad way but your post is everything I'm not. I'm not a true swinger, I mist certainly don't take here seriously and id go as far as saying I'd say the vast majority of single men on here are only here to get their leg over and no extras like parties holidays etc
That's your prerogative, would you say you are a swinger then ? no I'm not
At least Ur honest
in fairness he said that in his first response...2nd sentence.
Swinging also has different meanings to different people. I wouldn't call myself a swinger, I have attended clubs and a social. The original concept was about couples mixing and matching, but as a single who doesn't play with with other men and hense couples I wouldn't see myself as a swinger. Yes,The social side is paramount for me but that doesn't make one a swinger. Lots of couples date (thats a social side) before engaging in non monogamous sex, some NSA, some with a few social strings.
I don't think there is any longer a clear definition of swinger. Like most labels we as,a society a blurred all the traditional lines of definitions.
In two generations we will have gender neutral babies born, no midwives, no women/men, manly and feminine will have little if any meaning just to give a few suggestions.
As with loads of 'movements' it evolves and I can't see anything negative about that and that single people and even attached single people seek the same sexual liberation as couples enjoy. Boundaries are there to be pushed as you know. Or simply ask yourself could/would you go suddenly go vanilla (again) when falling in love?does vanilla mean a regular normal relationship where it's just you plus your partner
Yup your right ."
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"I'm sure there are many people who join swinging sites thinking it's dial a ride, in my opinion if they think that, (for the want of a better phrase) they shouldn't label themselves swingers. Most people in this lifestyle know, acknowledge and want everything else that goes with the sex. There is a massive social aspect to the lifestyle, parties, socials group holidays and life long friendships that evolve from it. So for the ones that think a swing site is for an easy lay or dial a ride, well they will quickly find that most people who take the lifestyle seriously will spot them a mile off and block hence there are so many Messer's here years without a meet due to their attitude and small minded sex only view of swingers not ment in a bad way but your post is everything I'm not. I'm not a true swinger, I mist certainly don't take here seriously and id go as far as saying I'd say the vast majority of single men on here are only here to get their leg over and no extras like parties holidays etc
That's your prerogative, would you say you are a swinger then ? no I'm not
At least Ur honest
in fairness he said that in his first response...2nd sentence.
Swinging also has different meanings to different people. I wouldn't call myself a swinger, I have attended clubs and a social. The original concept was about couples mixing and matching, but as a single who doesn't play with with other men and hense couples I wouldn't see myself as a swinger. Yes,The social side is paramount for me but that doesn't make one a swinger. Lots of couples date (thats a social side) before engaging in non monogamous sex, some NSA, some with a few social strings.
I don't think there is any longer a clear definition of swinger. Like most labels we as,a society a blurred all the traditional lines of definitions.
In two generations we will have gender neutral babies born, no midwives, no women/men, manly and feminine will have little if any meaning just to give a few suggestions.
As with loads of 'movements' it evolves and I can't see anything negative about that and that single people and even attached single people seek the same sexual liberation as couples enjoy. Boundaries are there to be pushed as you know. Or simply ask yourself could/would you go suddenly go vanilla (again) when falling in love?does vanilla mean a regular normal relationship where it's just you plus your partner
Yup your right .that's where I see my future "
And nothing wrong with that. I've been there I've done that and I'm enjoying myself too much to go back there. |
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"I'm sure there are many people who join swinging sites thinking it's dial a ride, in my opinion if they think that, (for the want of a better phrase) they shouldn't label themselves swingers. Most people in this lifestyle know, acknowledge and want everything else that goes with the sex. There is a massive social aspect to the lifestyle, parties, socials group holidays and life long friendships that evolve from it. So for the ones that think a swing site is for an easy lay or dial a ride, well they will quickly find that most people who take the lifestyle seriously will spot them a mile off and block hence there are so many Messer's here years without a meet due to their attitude and small minded sex only view of swingers not ment in a bad way but your post is everything I'm not. I'm not a true swinger, I mist certainly don't take here seriously and id go as far as saying I'd say the vast majority of single men on here are only here to get their leg over and no extras like parties holidays etc
That's your prerogative, would you say you are a swinger then ? no I'm not
At least Ur honest
in fairness he said that in his first response...2nd sentence.
Swinging also has different meanings to different people. I wouldn't call myself a swinger, I have attended clubs and a social. The original concept was about couples mixing and matching, but as a single who doesn't play with with other men and hense couples I wouldn't see myself as a swinger. Yes,The social side is paramount for me but that doesn't make one a swinger. Lots of couples date (thats a social side) before engaging in non monogamous sex, some NSA, some with a few social strings.
I don't think there is any longer a clear definition of swinger. Like most labels we as,a society a blurred all the traditional lines of definitions.
In two generations we will have gender neutral babies born, no midwives, no women/men, manly and feminine will have little if any meaning just to give a few suggestions.
As with loads of 'movements' it evolves and I can't see anything negative about that and that single people and even attached single people seek the same sexual liberation as couples enjoy. Boundaries are there to be pushed as you know. Or simply ask yourself could/would you go suddenly go vanilla (again) when falling in love?does vanilla mean a regular normal relationship where it's just you plus your partner
Yup your right .that's where I see my future
And nothing wrong with that. I've been there I've done that and I'm enjoying myself too much to go back there. "
I'll get bored probably of just ridin eventually |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
on the hill NordWest of |
"I'm sure there are many people who join swinging sites thinking it's dial a ride, in my opinion if they think that, (for the want of a better phrase) they shouldn't label themselves swingers. Most people in this lifestyle know, acknowledge and want everything else that goes with the sex. There is a massive social aspect to the lifestyle, parties, socials group holidays and life long friendships that evolve from it. So for the ones that think a swing site is for an easy lay or dial a ride, well they will quickly find that most people who take the lifestyle seriously will spot them a mile off and block hence there are so many Messer's here years without a meet due to their attitude and small minded sex only view of swingers not ment in a bad way but your post is everything I'm not. I'm not a true swinger, I mist certainly don't take here seriously and id go as far as saying I'd say the vast majority of single men on here are only here to get their leg over and no extras like parties holidays etc
That's your prerogative, would you say you are a swinger then ? no I'm not
At least Ur honest
in fairness he said that in his first response...2nd sentence.
Swinging also has different meanings to different people. I wouldn't call myself a swinger, I have attended clubs and a social. The original concept was about couples mixing and matching, but as a single who doesn't play with with other men and hense couples I wouldn't see myself as a swinger. Yes,The social side is paramount for me but that doesn't make one a swinger. Lots of couples date (thats a social side) before engaging in non monogamous sex, some NSA, some with a few social strings.
I don't think there is any longer a clear definition of swinger. Like most labels we as,a society a blurred all the traditional lines of definitions.
In two generations we will have gender neutral babies born, no midwives, no women/men, manly and feminine will have little if any meaning just to give a few suggestions.
As with loads of 'movements' it evolves and I can't see anything negative about that and that single people and even attached single people seek the same sexual liberation as couples enjoy. Boundaries are there to be pushed as you know. Or simply ask yourself could/would you go suddenly go vanilla (again) when falling in love?does vanilla mean a regular normal relationship where it's just you plus your partner
Yup your right .that's where I see my future
And nothing wrong with that. I've been there I've done that and I'm enjoying myself too much to go back there. I'll get bored probably of just ridin eventually "
you're in your early thirties, there there's still the option of sex for procreation and recreation |
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"I'm sure there are many people who join swinging sites thinking it's dial a ride, in my opinion if they think that, (for the want of a better phrase) they shouldn't label themselves swingers. Most people in this lifestyle know, acknowledge and want everything else that goes with the sex. There is a massive social aspect to the lifestyle, parties, socials group holidays and life long friendships that evolve from it. So for the ones that think a swing site is for an easy lay or dial a ride, well they will quickly find that most people who take the lifestyle seriously will spot them a mile off and block hence there are so many Messer's here years without a meet due to their attitude and small minded sex only view of swingers not ment in a bad way but your post is everything I'm not. I'm not a true swinger, I mist certainly don't take here seriously and id go as far as saying I'd say the vast majority of single men on here are only here to get their leg over and no extras like parties holidays etc
That's your prerogative, would you say you are a swinger then ? no I'm not
At least Ur honest
in fairness he said that in his first response...2nd sentence.
Swinging also has different meanings to different people. I wouldn't call myself a swinger, I have attended clubs and a social. The original concept was about couples mixing and matching, but as a single who doesn't play with with other men and hense couples I wouldn't see myself as a swinger. Yes,The social side is paramount for me but that doesn't make one a swinger. Lots of couples date (thats a social side) before engaging in non monogamous sex, some NSA, some with a few social strings.
I don't think there is any longer a clear definition of swinger. Like most labels we as,a society a blurred all the traditional lines of definitions.
In two generations we will have gender neutral babies born, no midwives, no women/men, manly and feminine will have little if any meaning just to give a few suggestions.
As with loads of 'movements' it evolves and I can't see anything negative about that and that single people and even attached single people seek the same sexual liberation as couples enjoy. Boundaries are there to be pushed as you know. Or simply ask yourself could/would you go suddenly go vanilla (again) when falling in love?does vanilla mean a regular normal relationship where it's just you plus your partner
Yup your right .that's where I see my future
And nothing wrong with that. I've been there I've done that and I'm enjoying myself too much to go back there. I'll get bored probably of just ridin eventually
you're in your early thirties, there there's still the option of sex for procreation and recreation "
making babies. i don't think so. i have a job looking after myself |
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