Have you ever cheated or being on the receiving end? I was cheated on by an ex over the course of our marriage, found out through facebook when he left his page open. I ended up cheating on him with his brother in law. Finding out was the hardest thing ever, like a physical pain, being on the other side wasn't so hard though, physical pain turned into pleasure and the look on his gave when he found out...priceless  |
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"Have you ever cheated or being on the receiving end? I was cheated on by an ex over the course of our marriage, found out through facebook when he left his page open. I ended up cheating on him with his brother in law. Finding out was the hardest thing ever, like a physical pain, being on the other side wasn't so hard though, physical pain turned into pleasure and the look on his gave when he found out...priceless "
Did the brother in laws wife not mind? |
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"Have you ever cheated or being on the receiving end? I was cheated on by an ex over the course of our marriage, found out through facebook when he left his page open. I ended up cheating on him with his brother in law. Finding out was the hardest thing ever, like a physical pain, being on the other side wasn't so hard though, physical pain turned into pleasure and the look on his gave when he found out...priceless
Did the brother in laws wife not mind?"
she'd had her own dabbles with a married man so I just gave her a taste of her own medicine  |
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Oh yah really hurts, u try too move on and end up looking over your shoulder, if u met another guy, Ur constantly analyzing him. Coz of it. I know u can't paint all guys with the same brush, but nonetheless it's very hard too trust again  |
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"Have you ever cheated or being on the receiving end? I was cheated on by an ex over the course of our marriage, found out through facebook when he left his page open. I ended up cheating on him with his brother in law. Finding out was the hardest thing ever, like a physical pain, being on the other side wasn't so hard though, physical pain turned into pleasure and the look on his gave when he found out...priceless
Did the brother in laws wife not mind?she'd had her own dabbles with a married man so I just gave her a taste of her own medicine "
revenge was sweet so?I take it |
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"Oh yah really hurts, u try too move on and end up looking over your shoulder, if u met another guy, Ur constantly analyzing him. Coz of it. I know u can't paint all guys with the same brush, but nonetheless it's very hard too trust again "
I agree, your never the same again, you loose a bit of yourself in every relationship, you can never give 100% again x |
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"Have you ever cheated or being on the receiving end? I was cheated on by an ex over the course of our marriage, found out through facebook when he left his page open. I ended up cheating on him with his brother in law. Finding out was the hardest thing ever, like a physical pain, being on the other side wasn't so hard though, physical pain turned into pleasure and the look on his gave when he found out...priceless
Did the brother in laws wife not mind?she'd had her own dabbles with a married man so I just gave her a taste of her own medicine "
You all sound like lovely people. Real salt of the earth folk... |
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"Have you ever cheated or being on the receiving end? I was cheated on by an ex over the course of our marriage, found out through facebook when he left his page open. I ended up cheating on him with his brother in law. Finding out was the hardest thing ever, like a physical pain, being on the other side wasn't so hard though, physical pain turned into pleasure and the look on his gave when he found out...priceless
Did the brother in laws wife not mind?she'd had her own dabbles with a married man so I just gave her a taste of her own medicine
You all sound like lovely people. Real salt of the earth folk..."
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it was ruined already,she was seeing a married man, I just pulled the rest of the plaster off, amazing how people judge so much on a swingers site, you must be so socially perfect |
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"Have you ever cheated or being on the receiving end? I was cheated on by an ex over the course of our marriage, found out through facebook when he left his page open. I ended up cheating on him with his brother in law. Finding out was the hardest thing ever, like a physical pain, being on the other side wasn't so hard though, physical pain turned into pleasure and the look on his gave when he found out...priceless "
so you find him cheating and instead leaving him decide cheat on him very mature that  |
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"Have you ever cheated or being on the receiving end? I was cheated on by an ex over the course of our marriage, found out through facebook when he left his page open. I ended up cheating on him with his brother in law. Finding out was the hardest thing ever, like a physical pain, being on the other side wasn't so hard though, physical pain turned into pleasure and the look on his gave when he found out...priceless so you find him cheating and instead leaving him decide cheat on him very mature that "
Your trying to insult someones maturity  |
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"Have you ever cheated or being on the receiving end? I was cheated on by an ex over the course of our marriage, found out through facebook when he left his page open. I ended up cheating on him with his brother in law. Finding out was the hardest thing ever, like a physical pain, being on the other side wasn't so hard though, physical pain turned into pleasure and the look on his gave when he found out...priceless so you find him cheating and instead leaving him decide cheat on him very mature that
Your trying to insult someones maturity "
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"An eye for an eye the whole world goes blind."
This 
I’ve never cheated, but have been cheated on.
Horrible. Just horrible.
There’s no excuse for cheating, shitty circumstances or not! |
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"[Removed by poster at 08/11/17 19:28:23]it was ruined already,she was seeing a married man, I just pulled the rest of the plaster off, amazing how people judge so much on a swingers site, you must be so socially perfect "
With all due respect, whatever way people behave is their choice, and not my business. That is unless their is something posted on the forum, this then gives me a right to comment. I don't condone cheating, and the fact im on a swingers site is all the more reason that I state I don't condone cheating. |
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"[Removed by poster at 08/11/17 19:28:23]it was ruined already,she was seeing a married man, I just pulled the rest of the plaster off, amazing how people judge so much on a swingers site, you must be so socially perfect
With all due respect, whatever way people behave is their choice, and not my business. That is unless their is something posted on the forum, this then gives me a right to comment. I don't condone cheating, and the fact im on a swingers site is all the more reason that I state I don't condone cheating. "
Shea basically looking for validation and with most people,obviously, not giving it to her it's annoying her. She probably still regrets her actions by the impression I'm getting and is desperately seeking this validation |
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"An eye for an eye the whole world goes blind.
This
I’ve never cheated, but have been cheated on.
Horrible. Just horrible.
There’s no excuse for cheating, shitty circumstances or not!"
finding out u have been cheated on must be brilliant if you're trying to get out of a relationship. some excuse.... |
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"[Removed by poster at 08/11/17 19:28:23]it was ruined already,she was seeing a married man, I just pulled the rest of the plaster off, amazing how people judge so much on a swingers site, you must be so socially perfect
With all due respect, whatever way people behave is their choice, and not my business. That is unless their is something posted on the forum, this then gives me a right to comment. I don't condone cheating, and the fact im on a swingers site is all the more reason that I state I don't condone cheating.
Shea basically looking for validation and with most people,obviously, not giving it to her it's annoying her. She probably still regrets her actions by the impression I'm getting and is desperately seeking this validation"
more then likely  |
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"An eye for an eye the whole world goes blind.
This
I’ve never cheated, but have been cheated on.
Horrible. Just horrible.
There’s no excuse for cheating, shitty circumstances or not!"
it is and I agree, it's the worst feeling when you find out and you can't help but blame yourself, you feel like your not enough, I got close to my brother in law because we were both in the same boat, and I have not one regret because he helped me rediscover what had been chipped away over the years. I made a choice and I stick by it because it was right for me at the time. My only regret is my ex not catching him going down on me...he could've used a few tips |
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"[Removed by poster at 08/11/17 19:28:23]it was ruined already,she was seeing a married man, I just pulled the rest of the plaster off, amazing how people judge so much on a swingers site, you must be so socially perfect
With all due respect, whatever way people behave is their choice, and not my business. That is unless their is something posted on the forum, this then gives me a right to comment. I don't condone cheating, and the fact im on a swingers site is all the more reason that I state I don't condone cheating.
Shea basically looking for validation and with most people,obviously, not giving it to her it's annoying her. She probably still regrets her actions by the impression I'm getting and is desperately seeking this validation more then likely "
lol it's like your in my mind... |
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"[Removed by poster at 08/11/17 19:28:23]it was ruined already,she was seeing a married man, I just pulled the rest of the plaster off, amazing how people judge so much on a swingers site, you must be so socially perfect
With all due respect, whatever way people behave is their choice, and not my business. That is unless their is something posted on the forum, this then gives me a right to comment. I don't condone cheating, and the fact im on a swingers site is all the more reason that I state I don't condone cheating.
Shea basically looking for validation and with most people,obviously, not giving it to her it's annoying her. She probably still regrets her actions by the impression I'm getting and is desperately seeking this validation more then likely lol it's like your in my mind... "
Well it's either that or you're a genuinely horrible person for bragging about it.
And we would never assume such a thing like that of course |
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"[Removed by poster at 08/11/17 19:28:23]it was ruined already,she was seeing a married man, I just pulled the rest of the plaster off, amazing how people judge so much on a swingers site, you must be so socially perfect
With all due respect, whatever way people behave is their choice, and not my business. That is unless their is something posted on the forum, this then gives me a right to comment. I don't condone cheating, and the fact im on a swingers site is all the more reason that I state I don't condone cheating.
Shea basically looking for validation and with most people,obviously, not giving it to her it's annoying her. She probably still regrets her actions by the impression I'm getting and is desperately seeking this validation more then likely lol it's like your in my mind...
Well it's either that or you're a genuinely horrible person for bragging about it.
And we would never assume such a thing like that of course"
oh no...never |
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"[Removed by poster at 08/11/17 19:28:23]it was ruined already,she was seeing a married man, I just pulled the rest of the plaster off, amazing how people judge so much on a swingers site, you must be so socially perfect
With all due respect, whatever way people behave is their choice, and not my business. That is unless their is something posted on the forum, this then gives me a right to comment. I don't condone cheating, and the fact im on a swingers site is all the more reason that I state I don't condone cheating.
Shea basically looking for validation and with most people,obviously, not giving it to her it's annoying her. She probably still regrets her actions by the impression I'm getting and is desperately seeking this validation more then likely lol it's like your in my mind...
Well it's either that or you're a genuinely horrible person for bragging about it.
And we would never assume such a thing like that of course"
just don't cheat on her or she will shag one your family members LOL  |
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"[Removed by poster at 08/11/17 19:28:23]it was ruined already,she was seeing a married man, I just pulled the rest of the plaster off, amazing how people judge so much on a swingers site, you must be so socially perfect
With all due respect, whatever way people behave is their choice, and not my business. That is unless their is something posted on the forum, this then gives me a right to comment. I don't condone cheating, and the fact im on a swingers site is all the more reason that I state I don't condone cheating.
Shea basically looking for validation and with most people,obviously, not giving it to her it's annoying her. She probably still regrets her actions by the impression I'm getting and is desperately seeking this validation more then likely lol it's like your in my mind...
Well it's either that or you're a genuinely horrible person for bragging about it.
And we would never assume such a thing like that of courseoh no...never "
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Well for what its worth I've never cheated. I have been cheated on yes it's shitty. I never once thought of ways of getting revenge. It's bad enough your own family breaking up but breaking up a whole family... well I couldn't have that on my conscience |
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"[Removed by poster at 08/11/17 19:28:23]it was ruined already,she was seeing a married man, I just pulled the rest of the plaster off, amazing how people judge so much on a swingers site, you must be so socially perfect
With all due respect, whatever way people behave is their choice, and not my business. That is unless their is something posted on the forum, this then gives me a right to comment. I don't condone cheating, and the fact im on a swingers site is all the more reason that I state I don't condone cheating.
Shea basically looking for validation and with most people,obviously, not giving it to her it's annoying her. She probably still regrets her actions by the impression I'm getting and is desperately seeking this validation more then likely lol it's like your in my mind...
Well it's either that or you're a genuinely horrible person for bragging about it.
And we would never assume such a thing like that of courseoh no...never
I think you should repent now and take a good flogging "
forgive my wicked ways, I'm in dyer need of a good flogging |
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"[Removed by poster at 08/11/17 19:28:23]it was ruined already,she was seeing a married man, I just pulled the rest of the plaster off, amazing how people judge so much on a swingers site, you must be so socially perfect
With all due respect, whatever way people behave is their choice, and not my business. That is unless their is something posted on the forum, this then gives me a right to comment. I don't condone cheating, and the fact im on a swingers site is all the more reason that I state I don't condone cheating.
Shea basically looking for validation and with most people,obviously, not giving it to her it's annoying her. She probably still regrets her actions by the impression I'm getting and is desperately seeking this validation more then likely lol it's like your in my mind...
Well it's either that or you're a genuinely horrible person for bragging about it.
And we would never assume such a thing like that of courseoh no...never
I think you should repent now and take a good flogging forgive my wicked ways, I'm in dyer need of a good flogging "
I'll see ya over on the facials thread, this one is compromised |
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Was in a controlling relationship for years and in end found out she was cheating the whole time, broke me for a while.
learned a lot but could never do that to anyone and have no respect for cheaters and personally see no excuse for it.
In a relationship now that couldn't be more perfect. |
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"Was in a controlling relationship for years and in end found out she was cheating the whole time, broke me for a while.
learned a lot but could never do that to anyone and have no respect for cheaters and personally see no excuse for it.
In a relationship now that couldn't be more perfect. "
Similar |
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"An eye for an eye the whole world goes blind."
No it doesn't. There'll be one guy left with one eye. Hows the last blind guy gonna take out the eye of the last guy left, who's still got one eye?
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Makes me laugh how people judge others no 1 has any idea what is going on in anyone's life. My busy is mine. I am nice the everyone. Manners costs nothing. If you smile others will smile too. |
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"Was in a controlling relationship for years and in end found out she was cheating the whole time, broke me for a while.
learned a lot but could never do that to anyone and have no respect for cheaters and personally see no excuse for it.
In a relationship now that couldn't be more perfect. "
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"Was in a controlling relationship for years and in end found out she was cheating the whole time, broke me for a while.
learned a lot but could never do that to anyone and have no respect for cheaters and personally see no excuse for it.
In a relationship now that couldn't be more perfect.
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"Was in a controlling relationship for years and in end found out she was cheating the whole time, broke me for a while.
learned a lot but could never do that to anyone and have no respect for cheaters and personally see no excuse for it.
In a relationship now that couldn't be more perfect.
^^ this "
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"Was in a controlling relationship for years and in end found out she was cheating the whole time, broke me for a while.
learned a lot but could never do that to anyone and have no respect for cheaters and personally see no excuse for it.
In a relationship now that couldn't be more perfect.
^^ this
Your profile says you're single "
Nope, couples profile. |
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"Makes me laugh how people judge others no 1 has any idea what is going on in anyone's life. My busy is mine. I am nice the everyone. Manners costs nothing. If you smile others will smile too. "
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Each to their own.
You don't know what's going on behind closed doors.
I know women who have cheated on their husbands because they felt they were trapped in an abusive relationship.
I know men who have cheated because of a lack of affection at home.
Then I know both men and women who just like to fuck whoever they can.
It takes all sorts to make the world go around.
But I ain't on this planet to judge. There's enough people out there doing that already. |
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"Each to their own.
You don't know what's going on behind closed doors.
I know women who have cheated on their husbands because they felt they were trapped in an abusive relationship.
I know men who have cheated because of a lack of affection at home.
Then I know both men and women who just like to fuck whoever they can.
It takes all sorts to make the world go around.
But I ain't on this planet to judge. There's enough people out there doing that already. "
No, your right im not hear to judge, but when I see these type of threads I cant help but think that there are children behind some of these doors,that have nothing to do with the adults difficulties.  |
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Sometimes when these relationships go pear shaped it can be a blessing in disguise when the underplaying issue was an abusive relationship.
But yes, you're right. Kids can be affected by breakups.
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"Have you ever cheated or being on the receiving end? I was cheated on by an ex over the course of our marriage, found out through facebook when he left his page open. I ended up cheating on him with his brother in law. Finding out was the hardest thing ever, like a physical pain, being on the other side wasn't so hard though, physical pain turned into pleasure and the look on his gave when he found out...priceless
Did the brother in laws wife not mind?she'd had her own dabbles with a married man so I just gave her a taste of her own medicine "
Sounds a bit nasty if im honest but each to their own
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I was cheated on for years during my marriage.I wouldn't wish it on anyone.
I don't cheat or help to cheat.At the same time I don't judge.Just dont expect me to be a partner in the affair.
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"I was cheated on for years during my marriage.I wouldn't wish it on anyone.
I don't cheat or help to cheat.At the same time I don't judge.Just dont expect me to be a partner in the affair.
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"I was cheated on for years during my marriage.I wouldn't wish it on anyone.
I don't cheat or help to cheat.At the same time I don't judge.Just dont expect me to be a partner in the affair.
How about forget the affair and just stick too the sex.. cos I would . Just saying "
my days of cheating and been cheated on are well behind me, I'm with a man I love who makes me feel sexy as fuck and encourages my kinky side, too many people think a relationship spells the end of a sex life, I got lucky and found a man who is confident and not insecure, we love seeing the other pleasured and afterwards we get off on talking about our sexy adventures |
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"Sometimes when these relationships go pear shaped it can be a blessing in disguise when the underplaying issue was an abusive relationship.
But yes, you're right. Kids can be affected by breakups.
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I agree but the kids get more damaged watching the abuse, it never stops, it just gets to be the norm..my son is very well adjusted and he's glad I'm not living with his dad, I encourage their relationship but have nothing to do with him myself, kids need their dads |
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"Sometimes when these relationships go pear shaped it can be a blessing in disguise when the underplaying issue was an abusive relationship.
But yes, you're right. Kids can be affected by breakups.
I agree but the kids get more damaged watching the abuse, it never stops, it just gets to be the norm..my son is very well adjusted and he's glad I'm not living with his dad, I encourage their relationship but have nothing to do with him myself, kids need their dads"
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"Sometimes when these relationships go pear shaped it can be a blessing in disguise when the underplaying issue was an abusive relationship.
But yes, you're right. Kids can be affected by breakups.
I agree but the kids get more damaged watching the abuse, it never stops, it just gets to be the norm..my son is very well adjusted and he's glad I'm not living with his dad, I encourage their relationship but have nothing to do with him myself, kids need their dads"
No matter what this is true |
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"An eye for an eye the whole world goes blind.
No it doesn't. There'll be one guy left with one eye. Hows the last blind guy gonna take out the eye of the last guy left, who's still got one eye?
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It would absolutely be a woman. |
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"What's the reason for any thread, it starts an honest discussion"
"Honest discussion"!! Give me a break!!..there's your story, there's his story(which is not available) and then there's the truth! |
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"If you have kids you should absolouty not be putting face pics of yourself uo here"
Unless you are happy to discuss your sexual/swinging choice with them, perhaps. I suppose it depends, to an extent, in the age of your children. |
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Because they talk about a volatile relationship..then share they have kids ..and have face pics up.adult site only and no talk what so ever about children weather you have them .know them ..hate them...
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"Makes me laugh how people judge others no 1 has any idea what is going on in anyone's life. My busy is mine. I am nice the everyone. Manners costs nothing. If you smile others will smile too.
Are you on the wrong thread? "
Think hes cheating as well they don't like people judging them. |
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"If you have kids you should absolouty not be putting face pics of yourself uo here"
I would agree.
Remaining anonymous is everyones right when on a site like this.
I chose to remain anonymous for the simple reason that quite a few profiles on here are fake and I would be well known in my locality and I prefer to keep my private life private.
I have no problem sharing pics with those I am chatting to.
Plus, kids aren't kids anymore. Teenagers can easily access sites like this. It only take one to recognise you and create a scenario. |
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I don't understand why anyone would put up a thread askin have people been cheated on, knowing this is a sensitive subject to those who have and throwing in at the end of that she has cheated.... As if her cheating is any better or any more excusable than his cheating....
Cheaters will always make excuses for their actions and because we will say that it is wrong, we'll be the ones in the wrong, we'll be labelled as "judgemental "
Cheating on the person you're supposed to "love" is the most selfish, spineless, gutless, 2 faced thing you can do to that person... I will never respect a cheater, nor would I condone it!! |
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