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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You get back exactly what you put in.
I'm getting penis back? Ah ffs  "
Ah shur try it... ya might like it  .
And ya certainly won't get that on facebook....  |
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By *ir1967Man
over a year ago
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"Seen someone describe fab as this that no one is actually getting much action and its just x-rated facebook anyone agree lol "
The description may is valid for the one who wrote it
For the rest , it’s up to you what you make out of it. Moaning about no action will get you very far, maybe send some unsolicited cock pics around and let your person of interest know that you are around today , that all gets you a long way for sure  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No
It's fabswingers
Huge clue in the name
And to say no one is getting "much action",is a complete nonsense.
Perhaps you aren't,and with posts n statements like that I can see why. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No
It's fabswingers
Huge clue in the name
And to say no one is getting "much action",is a complete nonsense.
Perhaps you aren't,and with posts n statements like that I can see why."
Would the clue be in the fab or the swingers part. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just made me laugh cause prob accurate description for most sure see plenty ladies on it saying there not meeting just on it for the forums and talking to friends lol  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Also someone tell me the main reason for this site cause apparently it not sex site lol
Just because they're not having sex with you, it doesn't mean they're not having sex
(lol) "
but what did you join the site for to have chats and coffee or sex ??. What brought you to the site  |
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"Also someone tell me the main reason for this site cause apparently it not sex site lol
Just because they're not having sex with you, it doesn't mean they're not having sex
(lol) but what did you join the site for to have chats and coffee or sex ??. What brought you to the site "
All of those things. They're all connected. |
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"Seen someone describe fab as this that no one is actually getting much action and its just x-rated facebook anyone agree lol "
no. plenty get lots of action. women can get as much as they want for eg |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Seen someone describe fab as this that no one is actually getting much action and its just x-rated facebook anyone agree lol no. plenty get lots of action. women can get as much as they want for eg "
or the good looking guys who good at stroking the women's ego its dial a ride for them lol  |
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"Seen someone describe fab as this that no one is actually getting much action and its just x-rated facebook anyone agree lol no. plenty get lots of action. women can get as much as they want for eg or the good looking guys who good at stroking the women's ego its dial a ride for them lol "
prob not but womens egos do excel on here. it's even been admitted by women in the past. sure why wouldn't it in a way. they're been lavished with attention |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"God forbid people should want to chat before they have sex with someone."
less chatting more action ya don't know need know someone's life story there's dating sites ya can do all chatting your heart desires on them lol  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Seen someone describe fab as this that no one is actually getting much action and its just x-rated facebook anyone agree lol no. plenty get lots of action. women can get as much as they want for eg or the good looking guys who good at stroking the women's ego its dial a ride for them lol prob not but womens egos do excel on here. it's even been admitted by women in the past. sure why wouldn't it in a way. they're been lavished with attention "
exactly even if the ladies deny it all that attention is bound go to there head lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"God forbid people should want to chat before they have sex with someone.less chatting more action ya don't know need know someone's life story there's dating sites ya can do all chatting your heart desires on them lol "
Yet here you are.
What's wrong?
No one want to chat to you on the dating sites? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"God forbid people should want to chat before they have sex with someone.less chatting more action ya don't know need know someone's life story there's dating sites ya can do all chatting your heart desires on them lol
Yet here you are.
What's wrong?
No one want to chat to you on the dating sites?"
I've had lot long conversations on dating sites don't worry about that lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"God forbid people should want to chat before they have sex with someone.less chatting more action ya don't know need know someone's life story there's dating sites ya can do all chatting your heart desires on them lol
Yet here you are.
What's wrong?
No one want to chat to you on the dating sites? I've had lot long conversations on dating sites don't worry about that lol "
Phew,that's put my mind at rest  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"God forbid people should want to chat before they have sex with someone.less chatting more action ya don't know need know someone's life story there's dating sites ya can do all chatting your heart desires on them lol "
How’s that action working out for you ?
You sure like chatting on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"God forbid people should want to chat before they have sex with someone.less chatting more action ya don't know need know someone's life story there's dating sites ya can do all chatting your heart desires on them lol
Yet here you are.
What's wrong?
No one want to chat to you on the dating sites? I've had lot long conversations on dating sites don't worry about that lol "
Clearly your one of these ones on fab not getting any. |
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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago
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"God forbid people should want to chat before they have sex with someone.less chatting more action ya don't know need know someone's life story there's dating sites ya can do all chatting your heart desires on them lol "
C'mon ladies, you heard the man
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zx1_6F-nCaw
A little less conversation, a little more action please
All this aggravation ain't satisfactioning me
A little morebite and a little less bark
A little less fight and a little more spark
Close your mouth and open up your heart and baby satisfy me
Satisfy me baby |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"God forbid people should want to chat before they have sex with someone.less chatting more action ya don't know need know someone's life story there's dating sites ya can do all chatting your heart desires on them lol
How’s that action working out for you ?
You sure like chatting on here "
once get rid off all the competition there's lot guys on here then be all systems go mate thanks for your concern |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"God forbid people should want to chat before they have sex with someone.less chatting more action ya don't know need know someone's life story there's dating sites ya can do all chatting your heart desires on them lol
Yet here you are.
What's wrong?
No one want to chat to you on the dating sites? I've had lot long conversations on dating sites don't worry about that lol
Clearly your one of these ones on fab not getting any."
not on this anyway not yet lucky get action in real world so not cracking up yet lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"God forbid people should want to chat before they have sex with someone.
Sure you're on a riding site, giz a ride ffs
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its not sex site or dial the ride jeez you need remember that no one on here for sex or guys looking for quick shag should be ashamed themselves evil guys  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"God forbid people should want to chat before they have sex with someone.less chatting more action ya don't know need know someone's life story there's dating sites ya can do all chatting your heart desires on them lol
How’s that action working out for you ?
You sure like chatting on here once get rid off all the competition there's lot guys on here then be all systems go mate thanks for your concern "
Ahhhh your playing the long game |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"God forbid people should want to chat before they have sex with someone.less chatting more action ya don't know need know someone's life story there's dating sites ya can do all chatting your heart desires on them lol
How’s that action working out for you ?
You sure like chatting on here once get rid off all the competition there's lot guys on here then be all systems go mate thanks for your concern
Ahhhh your playing the long game "
the very long game its 4 year plan lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Seen someone describe fab as this that no one is actually getting much action and its just x-rated facebook anyone agree lol
The description may is valid for the one who wrote it
For the rest , it’s up to you what you make out of it. Moaning about no action will get you very far, maybe send some unsolicited cock pics around and let your person of interest know that you are around today , that all gets you a long way for sure "
was actually female who wrote it and shes getting plenty apparently lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Irish women's mentality is all it is my final word on it before get punished by god squad again lol
I think you make your own bed on here. "
Don't think the problem is in making the bed. it's getting someone to mess the bed up
with you again that's the problem. |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
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"God forbid people should want to chat before they have sex with someone.less chatting more action ya don't know need know someone's life story there's dating sites ya can do all chatting your heart desires on them lol
How’s that action working out for you ?
You sure like chatting on here once get rid off all the competition there's lot guys on here then be all systems go mate thanks for your concern
Ahhhh your playing the long game "
He's already on his 2nd profile so maybe not such a long game as a series of short games |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's a stupid comment to make, it is definitely not an x rated facebook and anyone who thinks so obviously isnt using this site properly.
As for you Andy, I honestly don't know why you are on Fab considering you have such a low opinion of people on fab, you're always saying how judgemental we are but aren't you always judging us on our opinions of things... And judging women because theyre not spreading their legs as quickly as you would like.... This may be a sex site for some but for most it's a swinging site so "dial a ride" users will always find it hard to meet and the quicker people realise that the better for everyone... These "I'm not getting any action forums are boring" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's a stupid comment to make, it is definitely not an x rated facebook and anyone who thinks so obviously isnt using this site properly.
As for you Andy, I honestly don't know why you are on Fab considering you have such a low opinion of people on fab, you're always saying how judgemental we are but aren't you always judging us on our opinions of things... And judging women because theyre not spreading their legs as quickly as you would like.... This may be a sex site for some but for most it's a swinging site so "dial a ride" users will always find it hard to meet and the quicker people realise that the better for everyone... These "I'm not getting any action forums are boring" "
Read my mind all the way from Donegal |
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"That's a stupid comment to make, it is definitely not an x rated facebook and anyone who thinks so obviously isnt using this site properly.
As for you Andy, I honestly don't know why you are on Fab considering you have such a low opinion of people on fab, you're always saying how judgemental we are but aren't you always judging us on our opinions of things... And judging women because theyre not spreading their legs as quickly as you would like.... This may be a sex site for some but for most it's a swinging site so "dial a ride" users will always find it hard to meet and the quicker people realise that the better for everyone... These "I'm not getting any action forums are boring" "
I would honestly say there is far more single men on here just "looking for sex" then "out and out swingers". |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"That's a stupid comment to make, it is definitely not an x rated facebook and anyone who thinks so obviously isnt using this site properly.
As for you Andy, I honestly don't know why you are on Fab considering you have such a low opinion of people on fab, you're always saying how judgemental we are but aren't you always judging us on our opinions of things... And judging women because theyre not spreading their legs as quickly as you would like.... This may be a sex site for some but for most it's a swinging site so "dial a ride" users will always find it hard to meet and the quicker people realise that the better for everyone... These "I'm not getting any action forums are boring" I would honestly say there is far more single men on here just "looking for sex" then "out and out swingers". "
the women are lightweight swingers compared to UK women were in the wrong country lol |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
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"That's a stupid comment to make, it is definitely not an x rated facebook and anyone who thinks so obviously isnt using this site properly.
As for you Andy, I honestly don't know why you are on Fab considering you have such a low opinion of people on fab, you're always saying how judgemental we are but aren't you always judging us on our opinions of things... And judging women because theyre not spreading their legs as quickly as you would like.... This may be a sex site for some but for most it's a swinging site so "dial a ride" users will always find it hard to meet and the quicker people realise that the better for everyone... These "I'm not getting any action forums are boring" I would honestly say there is far more single men on here just "looking for sex" then "out and out swingers". the women are lightweight swingers compared to UK women were in the wrong country lol "
Have you actually been swinging in the UK? I've live there for 5 years swinging as a cpl and as a single and trust me there's very little difference if you know the right women |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"That's a stupid comment to make, it is definitely not an x rated facebook and anyone who thinks so obviously isnt using this site properly.
As for you Andy, I honestly don't know why you are on Fab considering you have such a low opinion of people on fab, you're always saying how judgemental we are but aren't you always judging us on our opinions of things... And judging women because theyre not spreading their legs as quickly as you would like.... This may be a sex site for some but for most it's a swinging site so "dial a ride" users will always find it hard to meet and the quicker people realise that the better for everyone... These "I'm not getting any action forums are boring" I would honestly say there is far more single men on here just "looking for sex" then "out and out swingers". the women are lightweight swingers compared to UK women were in the wrong country lol
Have you actually been swinging in the UK? I've live there for 5 years swinging as a cpl and as a single and trust me there's very little difference if you know the right women "
the women are something else over there |
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"That's a stupid comment to make, it is definitely not an x rated facebook and anyone who thinks so obviously isnt using this site properly.
As for you Andy, I honestly don't know why you are on Fab considering you have such a low opinion of people on fab, you're always saying how judgemental we are but aren't you always judging us on our opinions of things... And judging women because theyre not spreading their legs as quickly as you would like.... This may be a sex site for some but for most it's a swinging site so "dial a ride" users will always find it hard to meet and the quicker people realise that the better for everyone... These "I'm not getting any action forums are boring" I would honestly say there is far more single men on here just "looking for sex" then "out and out swingers". the women are lightweight swingers compared to UK women were in the wrong country lol
Have you actually been swinging in the UK? I've live there for 5 years swinging as a cpl and as a single and trust me there's very little difference if you know the right women the women are something else over there "
Something else? What? Men? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"That's a stupid comment to make, it is definitely not an x rated facebook and anyone who thinks so obviously isnt using this site properly.
As for you Andy, I honestly don't know why you are on Fab considering you have such a low opinion of people on fab, you're always saying how judgemental we are but aren't you always judging us on our opinions of things... And judging women because theyre not spreading their legs as quickly as you would like.... This may be a sex site for some but for most it's a swinging site so "dial a ride" users will always find it hard to meet and the quicker people realise that the better for everyone... These "I'm not getting any action forums are boring" I would honestly say there is far more single men on here just "looking for sex" then "out and out swingers". the women are lightweight swingers compared to UK women were in the wrong country lol
Have you actually been swinging in the UK? I've live there for 5 years swinging as a cpl and as a single and trust me there's very little difference if you know the right women the women are something else over there
Something else? What? Men? "
if that floats your boat mick  |
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i can honestly say when I first signed up here I viewed it as a sex site. i didn't know the first thing about swinging only that couples partner swapped with other couples. i don't see though how wanting just sex and nothing else puts you at a big disadvantage here |
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"i can honestly say when I first signed up here I viewed it as a sex site. i didn't know the first thing about swinging only that couples partner swapped with other couples. i don't see though how wanting just sex and nothing else puts you at a big disadvantage here "
some actually have there profile that there not here for endless amounts of chat but actual sex but most those types of profiles seem be from uk side of things lol
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I can honesty admit when I first joined fab i thought the site was just about sex more I stay on it iv started to realise you don't really get anywhere on it if your not a big part of the forms in one of the many clicks on it or a white night to feed girls egos for me iv got more action off tinder then I have here that's not saying I haven't had any here met some lovely people and some not so lovely |
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"I can honesty admit when I first joined fab i thought the site was just about sex more I stay on it iv started to realise you don't really get anywhere on it if your not a big part of the forms in one of the many clicks on it or a white night to feed girls egos for me iv got more action off tinder then I have here that's not saying I haven't had any here met some lovely people and some not so lovely "
tinder is much more straightforward then here
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I can honesty admit when I first joined fab i thought the site was just about sex more I stay on it iv started to realise you don't really get anywhere on it if your not a big part of the forms in one of the many clicks on it or a white night to feed girls egos for me iv got more action off tinder then I have here that's not saying I haven't had any here met some lovely people and some not so lovely tinder is much more straightforward then here "
tinder defo more straightforward haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Seen someone describe fab as this that no one is actually getting much action and its just x-rated facebook anyone agree lol "
They need to reassess their profile if that's what they are thinking. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i can honestly say when I first signed up here I viewed it as a sex site. i didn't know the first thing about swinging only that couples partner swapped with other couples. i don't see though how wanting just sex and nothing else puts you at a big disadvantage here "
Because most people here are NOT wanting just sex and nothing else. Most people want a connection of sorts, a social element and to actually LIKE the people who want them to have sex with them. |
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"i can honestly say when I first signed up here I viewed it as a sex site. i didn't know the first thing about swinging only that couples partner swapped with other couples. i don't see though how wanting just sex and nothing else puts you at a big disadvantage here
Because most people here are NOT wanting just sex and nothing else. Most people want a connection of sorts, a social element and to actually LIKE the people who want them to have sex with them."
sounds like dating site to me that lol |
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"i can honestly say when I first signed up here I viewed it as a sex site. i didn't know the first thing about swinging only that couples partner swapped with other couples. i don't see though how wanting just sex and nothing else puts you at a big disadvantage here
Because most people here are NOT wanting just sex and nothing else. Most people want a connection of sorts, a social element and to actually LIKE the people who want them to have sex with them."
hold on for a minute. to have sex( for me anyway) you have to like the person. i don't jump up on cracked plates but I do understand that many men here do. i love sex like most on here but not wanting the "added bonuses" of swinging imo should mean nothing |
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Yeah you really did make it sound like a dating site thing with tinder you go on for one of two things to find a relationship or the ride there's no in between but with here it's so much different it's a sex swingers site but seems like everyone is looking for that someone special |
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"i can honestly say when I first signed up here I viewed it as a sex site. i didn't know the first thing about swinging only that couples partner swapped with other couples. i don't see though how wanting just sex and nothing else puts you at a big disadvantage here
Because most people here are NOT wanting just sex and nothing else. Most people want a connection of sorts, a social element and to actually LIKE the people who want them to have sex with them.hold on for a minute. to have sex( for me anyway) you have to like the person. i don't jump up on cracked plates but I do understand that many men here do. i love sex like most on here but not wanting the "added bonuses" of swinging imo should mean nothing "
I'm not speaking about you personally, I'm just replying to the part where you said you don't understand why wanting just sex is such a disadvantage here. The short answer is because most people here are not looking for just sex. |
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"i can honestly say when I first signed up here I viewed it as a sex site. i didn't know the first thing about swinging only that couples partner swapped with other couples. i don't see though how wanting just sex and nothing else puts you at a big disadvantage here
Because most people here are NOT wanting just sex and nothing else. Most people want a connection of sorts, a social element and to actually LIKE the people who want them to have sex with them.hold on for a minute. to have sex( for me anyway) you have to like the person. i don't jump up on cracked plates but I do understand that many men here do. i love sex like most on here but not wanting the "added bonuses" of swinging imo should mean nothing
I'm not speaking about you personally, I'm just replying to the part where you said you don't understand why wanting just sex is such a disadvantage here. The short answer is because most people here are not looking for just sex. "
that explains why location is so important to most |
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"Because most people here are NOT wanting just sex and nothing else. Most people want a connection of sorts, a social element and to actually LIKE the people who want them to have sex with them. sounds like dating site to me that lol"
Because that's what you think dating is about, and only dating. In my opinion, and probably in the opinion of all the people I've met, it's also what swinging is about. It's what my swinging life is about anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yeah you really did make it sound like a dating site thing with tinder you go on for one of two things to find a relationship or the ride there's no in between but with here it's so much different it's a sex swingers site but seems like everyone is looking for that someone special "
It's funny, because I was describing swinging, yet you see it as dating. And having sex with someone special is awesome so why not look for that? I'd take awesome over average any day or night. |
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"i can honestly say when I first signed up here I viewed it as a sex site. i didn't know the first thing about swinging only that couples partner swapped with other couples. i don't see though how wanting just sex and nothing else puts you at a big disadvantage here
Because most people here are NOT wanting just sex and nothing else. Most people want a connection of sorts, a social element and to actually LIKE the people who want them to have sex with them.hold on for a minute. to have sex( for me anyway) you have to like the person. i don't jump up on cracked plates but I do understand that many men here do. i love sex like most on here but not wanting the "added bonuses" of swinging imo should mean nothing
I'm not speaking about you personally, I'm just replying to the part where you said you don't understand why wanting just sex is such a disadvantage here. The short answer is because most people here are not looking for just sex. that explains why location is so important to most "
It does? How? |
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this is not ment as a negative I'll just give you my reasoning to be on here. some Nsa sex. i have a very active social life away from here. this is like an added bonus where most sign up and at least one of the things that you have in common is wanting sex but sex to me and sex to alot of women here seems to be different |
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"i can honestly say when I first signed up here I viewed it as a sex site. i didn't know the first thing about swinging only that couples partner swapped with other couples. i don't see though how wanting just sex and nothing else puts you at a big disadvantage here
Because most people here are NOT wanting just sex and nothing else. Most people want a connection of sorts, a social element and to actually LIKE the people who want them to have sex with them.hold on for a minute. to have sex( for me anyway) you have to like the person. i don't jump up on cracked plates but I do understand that many men here do. i love sex like most on here but not wanting the "added bonuses" of swinging imo should mean nothing
I'm not speaking about you personally, I'm just replying to the part where you said you don't understand why wanting just sex is such a disadvantage here. The short answer is because most people here are not looking for just sex. that explains why location is so important to most
It does? How? "
for eg if I met a woman in Dublin for sex. it's approx 1 hr 30 from me. chances are I'll only see that woman every once in a while if we hit it off so in that regard it basically is just sex and nothing more |
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"i can honestly say when I first signed up here I viewed it as a sex site. i didn't know the first thing about swinging only that couples partner swapped with other couples. i don't see though how wanting just sex and nothing else puts you at a big disadvantage here
Because most people here are NOT wanting just sex and nothing else. Most people want a connection of sorts, a social element and to actually LIKE the people who want them to have sex with them.hold on for a minute. to have sex( for me anyway) you have to like the person. i don't jump up on cracked plates but I do understand that many men here do. i love sex like most on here but not wanting the "added bonuses" of swinging imo should mean nothing
I'm not speaking about you personally, I'm just replying to the part where you said you don't understand why wanting just sex is such a disadvantage here. The short answer is because most people here are not looking for just sex. that explains why location is so important to most
It does? How? for eg if I met a woman in Dublin for sex. it's approx 1 hr 30 from me. chances are I'll only see that woman every once in a while if we hit it off so in that regard it basically is just sex and nothing more "
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"i can honestly say when I first signed up here I viewed it as a sex site. i didn't know the first thing about swinging only that couples partner swapped with other couples. i don't see though how wanting just sex and nothing else puts you at a big disadvantage here
Because most people here are NOT wanting just sex and nothing else. Most people want a connection of sorts, a social element and to actually LIKE the people who want them to have sex with them.hold on for a minute. to have sex( for me anyway) you have to like the person. i don't jump up on cracked plates but I do understand that many men here do. i love sex like most on here but not wanting the "added bonuses" of swinging imo should mean nothing
I'm not speaking about you personally, I'm just replying to the part where you said you don't understand why wanting just sex is such a disadvantage here. The short answer is because most people here are not looking for just sex. that explains why location is so important to most
It does? How? for eg if I met a woman in Dublin for sex. it's approx 1 hr 30 from me. chances are I'll only see that woman every once in a while if we hit it off so in that regard it basically is just sex and nothing more
I don't agree with you, but that's ok "
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"i can honestly say when I first signed up here I viewed it as a sex site. i didn't know the first thing about swinging only that couples partner swapped with other couples. i don't see though how wanting just sex and nothing else puts you at a big disadvantage here
Because most people here are NOT wanting just sex and nothing else. Most people want a connection of sorts, a social element and to actually LIKE the people who want them to have sex with them.hold on for a minute. to have sex( for me anyway) you have to like the person. i don't jump up on cracked plates but I do understand that many men here do. i love sex like most on here but not wanting the "added bonuses" of swinging imo should mean nothing
I'm not speaking about you personally, I'm just replying to the part where you said you don't understand why wanting just sex is such a disadvantage here. The short answer is because most people here are not looking for just sex. that explains why location is so important to most
It does? How? for eg if I met a woman in Dublin for sex. it's approx 1 hr 30 from me. chances are I'll only see that woman every once in a while if we hit it off so in that regard it basically is just sex and nothing more
I don't agree with you, but that's ok you don't agree that it's just sex? sure were only gonna see one another when we're having sex lol that's the whole point "
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"i can honestly say when I first signed up here I viewed it as a sex site. i didn't know the first thing about swinging only that couples partner swapped with other couples. i don't see though how wanting just sex and nothing else puts you at a big disadvantage here
Because most people here are NOT wanting just sex and nothing else. Most people want a connection of sorts, a social element and to actually LIKE the people who want them to have sex with them.hold on for a minute. to have sex( for me anyway) you have to like the person. i don't jump up on cracked plates but I do understand that many men here do. i love sex like most on here but not wanting the "added bonuses" of swinging imo should mean nothing
I'm not speaking about you personally, I'm just replying to the part where you said you don't understand why wanting just sex is such a disadvantage here. The short answer is because most people here are not looking for just sex. that explains why location is so important to most
It does? How? for eg if I met a woman in Dublin for sex. it's approx 1 hr 30 from me. chances are I'll only see that woman every once in a while if we hit it off so in that regard it basically is just sex and nothing more
I don't agree with you, but that's ok you don't agree that it's just sex? sure were only gonna see one another when we're having sex lol that's the whole point
I don't agree that it's why location is so important to some."
Sally we saw each other without wanting to rip each other's clothes off and pin each other to the wall.... 
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"Location give over most peopke won't meet someone if there to close to there location of fear of already knowing that person or if the happen to have a friends in common "
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"Sally we saw each other without wanting to rip each other's clothes off and pin each other to the wall....
Oh wait that's a lie... 2 and half hrs of a lie... but the chat was awesome. ..lol lost in time if I recall."
Lost in time is right. And didn't it make things all the better when you travelled that long distance to see me again? |
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"Sally we saw each other without wanting to rip each other's clothes off and pin each other to the wall....
Oh wait that's a lie... 2 and half hrs of a lie... but the chat was awesome. ..lol lost in time if I recall.
Lost in time is right. And didn't it make things all the better when you travelled that long distance to see me again? "
I was knackered after that ride. Love weekend meets though all the more time to recouperate between multiple rounds of.... right we've hijacked this post. Next |
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"Sally we saw each other without wanting to rip each other's clothes off and pin each other to the wall....
Oh wait that's a lie... 2 and half hrs of a lie... but the chat was awesome. ..lol lost in time if I recall.
Lost in time is right. And didn't it make things all the better when you travelled that long distance to see me again?
I was knackered after that ride. Love weekend meets though all the more time to recouperate between multiple rounds of.... right we've hijacked this post. Next "
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"Sally we saw each other without wanting to rip each other's clothes off and pin each other to the wall....
Oh wait that's a lie... 2 and half hrs of a lie... but the chat was awesome. ..lol lost in time if I recall.
Lost in time is right. And didn't it make things all the better when you travelled that long distance to see me again?
I was knackered after that ride. Love weekend meets though all the more time to recouperate between multiple rounds of.... right we've hijacked this post. Next
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"Sally we saw each other without wanting to rip each other's clothes off and pin each other to the wall....
Oh wait that's a lie... 2 and half hrs of a lie... but the chat was awesome. ..lol lost in time if I recall.
Lost in time is right. And didn't it make things all the better when you travelled that long distance to see me again?
I was knackered after that ride. Love weekend meets though all the more time to recouperate between multiple rounds of.... right we've hijacked this post. Next
Feck it I was right about you two."
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"Sally we saw each other without wanting to rip each other's clothes off and pin each other to the wall....
Oh wait that's a lie... 2 and half hrs of a lie... but the chat was awesome. ..lol lost in time if I recall.
Lost in time is right. And didn't it make things all the better when you travelled that long distance to see me again?
I was knackered after that ride. Love weekend meets though all the more time to recouperate between multiple rounds of.... right we've hijacked this post. Next
Feck it I was right about you two.
You're not invited to the wedding .... you'd only hijack it!!!!!"
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"Sally we saw each other without wanting to rip each other's clothes off and pin each other to the wall....
Oh wait that's a lie... 2 and half hrs of a lie... but the chat was awesome. ..lol lost in time if I recall.
Lost in time is right. And didn't it make things all the better when you travelled that long distance to see me again?
I was knackered after that ride. Love weekend meets though all the more time to recouperate between multiple rounds of.... right we've hijacked this post. Next
Feck it I was right about you two.
You're not invited to the wedding .... you'd only hijack it!!!!!"
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"Sally we saw each other without wanting to rip each other's clothes off and pin each other to the wall....
Oh wait that's a lie... 2 and half hrs of a lie... but the chat was awesome. ..lol lost in time if I recall.
Lost in time is right. And didn't it make things all the better when you travelled that long distance to see me again?
I was knackered after that ride. Love weekend meets though all the more time to recouperate between multiple rounds of.... right we've hijacked this post. Next
Feck it I was right about you two.
You're not invited to the wedding .... you'd only hijack it!!!!! No I promise to be on my best behavior."
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"i can honestly say when I first signed up here I viewed it as a sex site. i didn't know the first thing about swinging only that couples partner swapped with other couples. i don't see though how wanting just sex and nothing else puts you at a big disadvantage here
Because most people here are NOT wanting just sex and nothing else. Most people want a connection of sorts, a social element and to actually LIKE the people who want them to have sex with them.hold on for a minute. to have sex( for me anyway) you have to like the person. i don't jump up on cracked plates but I do understand that many men here do. i love sex like most on here but not wanting the "added bonuses" of swinging imo should mean nothing
I'm not speaking about you personally, I'm just replying to the part where you said you don't understand why wanting just sex is such a disadvantage here. The short answer is because most people here are not looking for just sex. that explains why location is so important to most
It does? How? for eg if I met a woman in Dublin for sex. it's approx 1 hr 30 from me. chances are I'll only see that woman every once in a while if we hit it off so in that regard it basically is just sex and nothing more
I don't agree with you, but that's ok you don't agree that it's just sex? sure were only gonna see one another when we're having sex lol that's the whole point
I don't agree that it's why location is so important to some."
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"i can honestly say when I first signed up here I viewed it as a sex site. i didn't know the first thing about swinging only that couples partner swapped with other couples. i don't see though how wanting just sex and nothing else puts you at a big disadvantage here
Because most people here are NOT wanting just sex and nothing else. Most people want a connection of sorts, a social element and to actually LIKE the people who want them to have sex with them.hold on for a minute. to have sex( for me anyway) you have to like the person. i don't jump up on cracked plates but I do understand that many men here do. i love sex like most on here but not wanting the "added bonuses" of swinging imo should mean nothing
I'm not speaking about you personally, I'm just replying to the part where you said you don't understand why wanting just sex is such a disadvantage here. The short answer is because most people here are not looking for just sex. that explains why location is so important to most
It does? How? for eg if I met a woman in Dublin for sex. it's approx 1 hr 30 from me. chances are I'll only see that woman every once in a while if we hit it off so in that regard it basically is just sex and nothing more
I don't agree with you, but that's ok you don't agree that it's just sex? sure were only gonna see one another when we're having sex lol that's the whole point
I don't agree that it's why location is so important to some.location shouldn't be important within reason."
But what is reason
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"I can honesty admit when I first joined fab i thought the site was just about sex more I stay on it iv started to realise you don't really get anywhere on it if your not a big part of the forms in one of the many clicks on it or a white night to feed girls egos for me iv got more action off tinder then I have here that's not saying I haven't had any here met some lovely people and some not so lovely tinder is much more straightforward then here tinder defo more straightforward haha "
If tinder more straight forward why the moaning here and why u even still here |
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"i can honestly say when I first signed up here I viewed it as a sex site. i didn't know the first thing about swinging only that couples partner swapped with other couples. i don't see though how wanting just sex and nothing else puts you at a big disadvantage here
Because most people here are NOT wanting just sex and nothing else. Most people want a connection of sorts, a social element and to actually LIKE the people who want them to have sex with them.hold on for a minute. to have sex( for me anyway) you have to like the person. i don't jump up on cracked plates but I do understand that many men here do. i love sex like most on here but not wanting the "added bonuses" of swinging imo should mean nothing
I'm not speaking about you personally, I'm just replying to the part where you said you don't understand why wanting just sex is such a disadvantage here. The short answer is because most people here are not looking for just sex. that explains why location is so important to most
It does? How? for eg if I met a woman in Dublin for sex. it's approx 1 hr 30 from me. chances are I'll only see that woman every once in a while if we hit it off so in that regard it basically is just sex and nothing more
I don't agree with you, but that's ok you don't agree that it's just sex? sure were only gonna see one another when we're having sex lol that's the whole point
I don't agree that it's why location is so important to some.location shouldn't be important within reason.
But what is reason
To me it could be ten miles to another it may be fifty miles "
I would say a reasonable distance is 50 mins to an hour. you could have business to do though in any location and agree to meet somebody |
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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago
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"I can honesty admit when I first joined fab i thought the site was just about sex more I stay on it iv started to realise you don't really get anywhere on it if your not a big part of the forms in one of the many clicks on it or a white night to feed girls egos for me iv got more action off tinder then I have here that's not saying I haven't had any here met some lovely people and some not so lovely tinder is much more straightforward then here tinder defo more straightforward haha
If tinder more straight forward why the moaning here and why u even still here"
Ummn, because he wants to be? Maybe the witty repartee of the forums? Maybe its the challenge of it all? Perhaps just for shits and giggles? Perhaps a thing for older women?
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"I can honesty admit when I first joined fab i thought the site was just about sex more I stay on it iv started to realise you don't really get anywhere on it if your not a big part of the forms in one of the many clicks on it or a white night to feed girls egos for me iv got more action off tinder then I have here that's not saying I haven't had any here met some lovely people and some not so lovely tinder is much more straightforward then here tinder defo more straightforward haha
If tinder more straight forward why the moaning here and why u even still here
Ummn, because he wants to be? Maybe the witty repartee of the forums? Maybe its the challenge of it all? Perhaps just for shits and giggles? Perhaps a thing for older women?
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There's lots of ladies on here that use POF or Okc or even tinder.... i never here guys telling them to leave. Do the women here hate the idea that guys use different places to find meets? What is it that annoys them so much?Surely if a guy wants to use other sources he should be allowed without women giving their tuppence worth about leaving. They each have their own plus and minus points... different reasons for use too. |
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"I can honesty admit when I first joined fab i thought the site was just about sex more I stay on it iv started to realise you don't really get anywhere on it if your not a big part of the forms in one of the many clicks on it or a white night to feed girls egos for me iv got more action off tinder then I have here that's not saying I haven't had any here met some lovely people and some not so lovely tinder is much more straightforward then here tinder defo more straightforward haha
If tinder more straight forward why the moaning here and why u even still here
Ummn, because he wants to be? Maybe the witty repartee of the forums? Maybe its the challenge of it all? Perhaps just for shits and giggles? Perhaps a thing for older women?
There's lots of ladies on here that use POF or Okc or even tinder.... i never here guys telling them to leave. Do the women here hate the idea that guys use different places to find meets? What is it that annoys them so much?Surely if a guy wants to use other sources he should be allowed without women giving their tuppence worth about leaving. They each have their own plus and minus points... different reasons for use too. "
No one here has a problem with any guys on other sites.where did u read that.its when they start saying that the likes of tinder and POF is much simpler to get a ride.if they not happy with fab here and finding it hard work.maybe stop complaining and just go.otherwise stop insulting the female population of fab and try having a civilised conversation .they might even have a laugh and even a meet |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"i can honestly say when I first signed up here I viewed it as a sex site. i didn't know the first thing about swinging only that couples partner swapped with other couples. i don't see though how wanting just sex and nothing else puts you at a big disadvantage here
Because most people here are NOT wanting just sex and nothing else. Most people want a connection of sorts, a social element and to actually LIKE the people who want them to have sex with them.hold on for a minute. to have sex( for me anyway) you have to like the person. i don't jump up on cracked plates but I do understand that many men here do. i love sex like most on here but not wanting the "added bonuses" of swinging imo should mean nothing
I'm not speaking about you personally, I'm just replying to the part where you said you don't understand why wanting just sex is such a disadvantage here. The short answer is because most people here are not looking for just sex. that explains why location is so important to most
It does? How? for eg if I met a woman in Dublin for sex. it's approx 1 hr 30 from me. chances are I'll only see that woman every once in a while if we hit it off so in that regard it basically is just sex and nothing more
I don't agree with you, but that's ok you don't agree that it's just sex? sure were only gonna see one another when we're having sex lol that's the whole point "
I think you miss Sally's point completely. Swinging entails beside the sex component very often a social component. That means when you meet you have sex but you might also have dinner together or a glass of wine and a chat, some even go camping. It doesn't mean that you just meet for social element only (unless it's a coffee meet or a m&g), like you would in a vanilla relationship or when you're dating ie having dinner and going to the cinema to get to know each other but no sex. So if you travel to Dublin for a meet it doesn't necessarily have to be sex only, you might as well add a social component to it unless you wish to run home as soon as you have your load shot once or twice. |
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"I can honesty admit when I first joined fab i thought the site was just about sex more I stay on it iv started to realise you don't really get anywhere on it if your not a big part of the forms in one of the many clicks on it or a white night to feed girls egos for me iv got more action off tinder then I have here that's not saying I haven't had any here met some lovely people and some not so lovely tinder is much more straightforward then here tinder defo more straightforward haha
If tinder more straight forward why the moaning here and why u even still here
Ummn, because he wants to be? Maybe the witty repartee of the forums? Maybe its the challenge of it all? Perhaps just for shits and giggles? Perhaps a thing for older women?
There's lots of ladies on here that use POF or Okc or even tinder.... i never here guys telling them to leave. Do the women here hate the idea that guys use different places to find meets? What is it that annoys them so much?Surely if a guy wants to use other sources he should be allowed without women giving their tuppence worth about leaving. They each have their own plus and minus points... different reasons for use too.
No one here has a problem with any guys on other sites.where did u read that.its when they start saying that the likes of tinder and POF is much simpler to get a ride.if they not happy with fab here and finding it hard work.maybe stop complaining and just go.otherwise stop insulting the female population of fab and try having a civilised conversation .they might even have a laugh and even a meet"
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"I can honesty admit when I first joined fab i thought the site was just about sex more I stay on it iv started to realise you don't really get anywhere on it if your not a big part of the forms in one of the many clicks on it or a white night to feed girls egos for me iv got more action off tinder then I have here that's not saying I haven't had any here met some lovely people and some not so lovely tinder is much more straightforward then here tinder defo more straightforward haha
If tinder more straight forward why the moaning here and why u even still here
Ummn, because he wants to be? Maybe the witty repartee of the forums? Maybe its the challenge of it all? Perhaps just for shits and giggles? Perhaps a thing for older women?
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Or maybe just to annoy people with some of his posts in general |
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"i can honestly say when I first signed up here I viewed it as a sex site. i didn't know the first thing about swinging only that couples partner swapped with other couples. i don't see though how wanting just sex and nothing else puts you at a big disadvantage here
Because most people here are NOT wanting just sex and nothing else. Most people want a connection of sorts, a social element and to actually LIKE the people who want them to have sex with them.hold on for a minute. to have sex( for me anyway) you have to like the person. i don't jump up on cracked plates but I do understand that many men here do. i love sex like most on here but not wanting the "added bonuses" of swinging imo should mean nothing
I'm not speaking about you personally, I'm just replying to the part where you said you don't understand why wanting just sex is such a disadvantage here. The short answer is because most people here are not looking for just sex. that explains why location is so important to most
It does? How? for eg if I met a woman in Dublin for sex. it's approx 1 hr 30 from me. chances are I'll only see that woman every once in a while if we hit it off so in that regard it basically is just sex and nothing more
I don't agree with you, but that's ok you don't agree that it's just sex? sure were only gonna see one another when we're having sex lol that's the whole point
I think you miss Sally's point completely. Swinging entails beside the sex component very often a social component. That means when you meet you have sex but you might also have dinner together or a glass of wine and a chat, some even go camping. It doesn't mean that you just meet for social element only (unless it's a coffee meet or a m&g), like you would in a vanilla relationship or when you're dating ie having dinner and going to the cinema to get to know each other but no sex. So if you travel to Dublin for a meet it doesn't necessarily have to be sex only, you might as well add a social component to it unless you wish to run home as soon as you have your load shot once or twice."
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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago
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"I can honesty admit when I first joined fab i thought the site was just about sex more I stay on it iv started to realise you don't really get anywhere on it if your not a big part of the forms in one of the many clicks on it or a white night to feed girls egos for me iv got more action off tinder then I have here that's not saying I haven't had any here met some lovely people and some not so lovely tinder is much more straightforward then here tinder defo more straightforward haha
If tinder more straight forward why the moaning here and why u even still here
Ummn, because he wants to be? Maybe the witty repartee of the forums? Maybe its the challenge of it all? Perhaps just for shits and giggles? Perhaps a thing for older women?
Or maybe just to annoy people with some of his posts in general "
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"i can honestly say when I first signed up here I viewed it as a sex site. i didn't know the first thing about swinging only that couples partner swapped with other couples. i don't see though how wanting just sex and nothing else puts you at a big disadvantage here
Because most people here are NOT wanting just sex and nothing else. Most people want a connection of sorts, a social element and to actually LIKE the people who want them to have sex with them.hold on for a minute. to have sex( for me anyway) you have to like the person. i don't jump up on cracked plates but I do understand that many men here do. i love sex like most on here but not wanting the "added bonuses" of swinging imo should mean nothing
I'm not speaking about you personally, I'm just replying to the part where you said you don't understand why wanting just sex is such a disadvantage here. The short answer is because most people here are not looking for just sex. that explains why location is so important to most
It does? How? for eg if I met a woman in Dublin for sex. it's approx 1 hr 30 from me. chances are I'll only see that woman every once in a while if we hit it off so in that regard it basically is just sex and nothing more
I don't agree with you, but that's ok you don't agree that it's just sex? sure were only gonna see one another when we're having sex lol that's the whole point
I think you miss Sally's point completely. Swinging entails beside the sex component very often a social component. That means when you meet you have sex but you might also have dinner together or a glass of wine and a chat, some even go camping. It doesn't mean that you just meet for social element only (unless it's a coffee meet or a m&g), like you would in a vanilla relationship or when you're dating ie having dinner and going to the cinema to get to know each other but no sex. So if you travel to Dublin for a meet it doesn't necessarily have to be sex only, you might as well add a social component to it unless you wish to run home as soon as you have your load shot once or twice."
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"i can honestly say when I first signed up here I viewed it as a sex site. i didn't know the first thing about swinging only that couples partner swapped with other couples. i don't see though how wanting just sex and nothing else puts you at a big disadvantage here
Because most people here are NOT wanting just sex and nothing else. Most people want a connection of sorts, a social element and to actually LIKE the people who want them to have sex with them.hold on for a minute. to have sex( for me anyway) you have to like the person. i don't jump up on cracked plates but I do understand that many men here do. i love sex like most on here but not wanting the "added bonuses" of swinging imo should mean nothing
I'm not speaking about you personally, I'm just replying to the part where you said you don't understand why wanting just sex is such a disadvantage here. The short answer is because most people here are not looking for just sex. that explains why location is so important to most
It does? How? for eg if I met a woman in Dublin for sex. it's approx 1 hr 30 from me. chances are I'll only see that woman every once in a while if we hit it off so in that regard it basically is just sex and nothing more
I don't agree with you, but that's ok you don't agree that it's just sex? sure were only gonna see one another when we're having sex lol that's the whole point
I think you miss Sally's point completely. Swinging entails beside the sex component very often a social component. That means when you meet you have sex but you might also have dinner together or a glass of wine and a chat, some even go camping. It doesn't mean that you just meet for social element only (unless it's a coffee meet or a m&g), like you would in a vanilla relationship or when you're dating ie having dinner and going to the cinema to get to know each other but no sex. So if you travel to Dublin for a meet it doesn't necessarily have to be sex only, you might as well add a social component to it unless you wish to run home as soon as you have your load shot once or twice."
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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago
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"i can honestly say when I first signed up here I viewed it as a sex site. i didn't know the first thing about swinging only that couples partner swapped with other couples. i don't see though how wanting just sex and nothing else puts you at a big disadvantage here
Because most people here are NOT wanting just sex and nothing else. Most people want a connection of sorts, a social element and to actually LIKE the people who want them to have sex with them.hold on for a minute. to have sex( for me anyway) you have to like the person. i don't jump up on cracked plates but I do understand that many men here do. i love sex like most on here but not wanting the "added bonuses" of swinging imo should mean nothing
I'm not speaking about you personally, I'm just replying to the part where you said you don't understand why wanting just sex is such a disadvantage here. The short answer is because most people here are not looking for just sex. that explains why location is so important to most
It does? How? for eg if I met a woman in Dublin for sex. it's approx 1 hr 30 from me. chances are I'll only see that woman every once in a while if we hit it off so in that regard it basically is just sex and nothing more
I don't agree with you, but that's ok you don't agree that it's just sex? sure were only gonna see one another when we're having sex lol that's the whole point
I think you miss Sally's point completely. Swinging entails beside the sex component very often a social component. That means when you meet you have sex but you might also have dinner together or a glass of wine and a chat, some even go camping. It doesn't mean that you just meet for social element only (unless it's a coffee meet or a m&g), like you would in a vanilla relationship or when you're dating ie having dinner and going to the cinema to get to know each other but no sex. So if you travel to Dublin for a meet it doesn't necessarily have to be sex only, you might as well add a social component to it unless you wish to run home as soon as you have your load shot once or twice. ah here might as well rename it fab dating site feck sake lol "
Andy, have you had a look at escorts ireland? It might be more in line with your expectations. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"i can honestly say when I first signed up here I viewed it as a sex site. i didn't know the first thing about swinging only that couples partner swapped with other couples. i don't see though how wanting just sex and nothing else puts you at a big disadvantage here
Because most people here are NOT wanting just sex and nothing else. Most people want a connection of sorts, a social element and to actually LIKE the people who want them to have sex with them.hold on for a minute. to have sex( for me anyway) you have to like the person. i don't jump up on cracked plates but I do understand that many men here do. i love sex like most on here but not wanting the "added bonuses" of swinging imo should mean nothing
I'm not speaking about you personally, I'm just replying to the part where you said you don't understand why wanting just sex is such a disadvantage here. The short answer is because most people here are not looking for just sex. that explains why location is so important to most
It does? How? for eg if I met a woman in Dublin for sex. it's approx 1 hr 30 from me. chances are I'll only see that woman every once in a while if we hit it off so in that regard it basically is just sex and nothing more
I don't agree with you, but that's ok you don't agree that it's just sex? sure were only gonna see one another when we're having sex lol that's the whole point
I think you miss Sally's point completely. Swinging entails beside the sex component very often a social component. That means when you meet you have sex but you might also have dinner together or a glass of wine and a chat, some even go camping. It doesn't mean that you just meet for social element only (unless it's a coffee meet or a m&g), like you would in a vanilla relationship or when you're dating ie having dinner and going to the cinema to get to know each other but no sex. So if you travel to Dublin for a meet it doesn't necessarily have to be sex only, you might as well add a social component to it unless you wish to run home as soon as you have your load shot once or twice. ah here might as well rename it fab dating site feck sake lol
Andy, have you had a look at escorts ireland? It might be more in line with your expectations."
been there got the t-shirt mate. I suppose the couples go on romantic double dates before getting down to action |
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"i can honestly say when I first signed up here I viewed it as a sex site. i didn't know the first thing about swinging only that couples partner swapped with other couples. i don't see though how wanting just sex and nothing else puts you at a big disadvantage here
Because most people here are NOT wanting just sex and nothing else. Most people want a connection of sorts, a social element and to actually LIKE the people who want them to have sex with them.hold on for a minute. to have sex( for me anyway) you have to like the person. i don't jump up on cracked plates but I do understand that many men here do. i love sex like most on here but not wanting the "added bonuses" of swinging imo should mean nothing
I'm not speaking about you personally, I'm just replying to the part where you said you don't understand why wanting just sex is such a disadvantage here. The short answer is because most people here are not looking for just sex. that explains why location is so important to most
It does? How? for eg if I met a woman in Dublin for sex. it's approx 1 hr 30 from me. chances are I'll only see that woman every once in a while if we hit it off so in that regard it basically is just sex and nothing more
I don't agree with you, but that's ok you don't agree that it's just sex? sure were only gonna see one another when we're having sex lol that's the whole point
I think you miss Sally's point completely. Swinging entails beside the sex component very often a social component. That means when you meet you have sex but you might also have dinner together or a glass of wine and a chat, some even go camping. It doesn't mean that you just meet for social element only (unless it's a coffee meet or a m&g), like you would in a vanilla relationship or when you're dating ie having dinner and going to the cinema to get to know each other but no sex. So if you travel to Dublin for a meet it doesn't necessarily have to be sex only, you might as well add a social component to it unless you wish to run home as soon as you have your load shot once or twice."
there is not a hope in hell of me travelling over an hour on a sex site for just a tea/ coffee. if i was in the area on business then all's good. i go for dinner and get to know a woman on a date. that's a completely different kettle of fish to hoping for sex from fabswingers. my main aim of meeting one to one on this is with the hope of sex. that's why I said I think location is important to alot of women. they're hoping it will be more then just sexual encounters |
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"i can honestly say when I first signed up here I viewed it as a sex site. i didn't know the first thing about swinging only that couples partner swapped with other couples. i don't see though how wanting just sex and nothing else puts you at a big disadvantage here
Because most people here are NOT wanting just sex and nothing else. Most people want a connection of sorts, a social element and to actually LIKE the people who want them to have sex with them.hold on for a minute. to have sex( for me anyway) you have to like the person. i don't jump up on cracked plates but I do understand that many men here do. i love sex like most on here but not wanting the "added bonuses" of swinging imo should mean nothing
I'm not speaking about you personally, I'm just replying to the part where you said you don't understand why wanting just sex is such a disadvantage here. The short answer is because most people here are not looking for just sex. that explains why location is so important to most
It does? How? for eg if I met a woman in Dublin for sex. it's approx 1 hr 30 from me. chances are I'll only see that woman every once in a while if we hit it off so in that regard it basically is just sex and nothing more
I don't agree with you, but that's ok you don't agree that it's just sex? sure were only gonna see one another when we're having sex lol that's the whole point
I think you miss Sally's point completely. Swinging entails beside the sex component very often a social component. That means when you meet you have sex but you might also have dinner together or a glass of wine and a chat, some even go camping. It doesn't mean that you just meet for social element only (unless it's a coffee meet or a m&g), like you would in a vanilla relationship or when you're dating ie having dinner and going to the cinema to get to know each other but no sex. So if you travel to Dublin for a meet it doesn't necessarily have to be sex only, you might as well add a social component to it unless you wish to run home as soon as you have your load shot once or twice.there is not a hope in hell of me travelling over an hour on a sex site for just a tea/ coffee. if i was in the area on business then all's good. i go for dinner and get to know a woman on a date. that's a completely different kettle of fish to hoping for sex from fabswingers. my main aim of meeting one to one on this is with the hope of sex. that's why I said I think location is important to alot of women. they're hoping it will be more then just sexual encounters "
by sounds off it lot them what be romanced don't forget your flowers and choclates for these meets lol |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"i can honestly say when I first signed up here I viewed it as a sex site. i didn't know the first thing about swinging only that couples partner swapped with other couples. i don't see though how wanting just sex and nothing else puts you at a big disadvantage here
Because most people here are NOT wanting just sex and nothing else. Most people want a connection of sorts, a social element and to actually LIKE the people who want them to have sex with them.hold on for a minute. to have sex( for me anyway) you have to like the person. i don't jump up on cracked plates but I do understand that many men here do. i love sex like most on here but not wanting the "added bonuses" of swinging imo should mean nothing
I'm not speaking about you personally, I'm just replying to the part where you said you don't understand why wanting just sex is such a disadvantage here. The short answer is because most people here are not looking for just sex. that explains why location is so important to most
It does? How? for eg if I met a woman in Dublin for sex. it's approx 1 hr 30 from me. chances are I'll only see that woman every once in a while if we hit it off so in that regard it basically is just sex and nothing more
I don't agree with you, but that's ok you don't agree that it's just sex? sure were only gonna see one another when we're having sex lol that's the whole point
I think you miss Sally's point completely. Swinging entails beside the sex component very often a social component. That means when you meet you have sex but you might also have dinner together or a glass of wine and a chat, some even go camping. It doesn't mean that you just meet for social element only (unless it's a coffee meet or a m&g), like you would in a vanilla relationship or when you're dating ie having dinner and going to the cinema to get to know each other but no sex. So if you travel to Dublin for a meet it doesn't necessarily have to be sex only, you might as well add a social component to it unless you wish to run home as soon as you have your load shot once or twice.there is not a hope in hell of me travelling over an hour on a sex site for just a tea/ coffee. if i was in the area on business then all's good. i go for dinner and get to know a woman on a date. that's a completely different kettle of fish to hoping for sex from fabswingers. my main aim of meeting one to one on this is with the hope of sex. that's why I said I think location is important to alot of women. they're hoping it will be more then just sexual encounters "
I wouldn't travel over an hour for a coffee meet only but that's not what I said anyway.
I understand you're looking for sex only, but as Sally said and I'm trying to say the difference between swinging and pure sex meets is the social component and by the end of the day you're on a swingers site. You don't have to go for dinner, the social site can take on many forms it can be just a drink or two, you might go to a club or sauna whatever and sometimes there isn't a social side when time is restricted or for other reasons. The social bit has noting to do with dating, it's NSA social if you want to call it so. I like to get to know the person I'm with a lil bit as it normally enhances the sex, it's not only a mechanical act.
Anyhow everyone can use the site as they please, but you shouldn't be surprised when peeps enjoy/seek meets where there's a social element to it. |
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"i can honestly say when I first signed up here I viewed it as a sex site. i didn't know the first thing about swinging only that couples partner swapped with other couples. i don't see though how wanting just sex and nothing else puts you at a big disadvantage here
Because most people here are NOT wanting just sex and nothing else. Most people want a connection of sorts, a social element and to actually LIKE the people who want them to have sex with them.hold on for a minute. to have sex( for me anyway) you have to like the person. i don't jump up on cracked plates but I do understand that many men here do. i love sex like most on here but not wanting the "added bonuses" of swinging imo should mean nothing
I'm not speaking about you personally, I'm just replying to the part where you said you don't understand why wanting just sex is such a disadvantage here. The short answer is because most people here are not looking for just sex. that explains why location is so important to most
It does? How? for eg if I met a woman in Dublin for sex. it's approx 1 hr 30 from me. chances are I'll only see that woman every once in a while if we hit it off so in that regard it basically is just sex and nothing more
I don't agree with you, but that's ok you don't agree that it's just sex? sure were only gonna see one another when we're having sex lol that's the whole point
I think you miss Sally's point completely. Swinging entails beside the sex component very often a social component. That means when you meet you have sex but you might also have dinner together or a glass of wine and a chat, some even go camping. It doesn't mean that you just meet for social element only (unless it's a coffee meet or a m&g), like you would in a vanilla relationship or when you're dating ie having dinner and going to the cinema to get to know each other but no sex. So if you travel to Dublin for a meet it doesn't necessarily have to be sex only, you might as well add a social component to it unless you wish to run home as soon as you have your load shot once or twice.there is not a hope in hell of me travelling over an hour on a sex site for just a tea/ coffee. if i was in the area on business then all's good. i go for dinner and get to know a woman on a date. that's a completely different kettle of fish to hoping for sex from fabswingers. my main aim of meeting one to one on this is with the hope of sex. that's why I said I think location is important to alot of women. they're hoping it will be more then just sexual encounters
I wouldn't travel over an hour for a coffee meet only but that's not what I said anyway.
I understand you're looking for sex only, but as Sally said and I'm trying to say the difference between swinging and pure sex meets is the social component and by the end of the day you're on a swingers site. You don't have to go for dinner, the social site can take on many forms it can be just a drink or two, you might go to a club or sauna whatever and sometimes there isn't a social side when time is restricted or for other reasons. The social bit has noting to do with dating, it's NSA social if you want to call it so. I like to get to know the person I'm with a lil bit as it normally enhances the sex, it's not only a mechanical act.
Anyhow everyone can use the site as they please, but you shouldn't be surprised when peeps enjoy/seek meets where there's a social element to it. "
I thought the vast majority wanted a social before a potential sex meet but I thought the norm for a social was a tea/coffee and a bun plus a chat |
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"i can honestly say when I first signed up here I viewed it as a sex site. i didn't know the first thing about swinging only that couples partner swapped with other couples. i don't see though how wanting just sex and nothing else puts you at a big disadvantage here
Because most people here are NOT wanting just sex and nothing else. Most people want a connection of sorts, a social element and to actually LIKE the people who want them to have sex with them.hold on for a minute. to have sex( for me anyway) you have to like the person. i don't jump up on cracked plates but I do understand that many men here do. i love sex like most on here but not wanting the "added bonuses" of swinging imo should mean nothing
I'm not speaking about you personally, I'm just replying to the part where you said you don't understand why wanting just sex is such a disadvantage here. The short answer is because most people here are not looking for just sex. that explains why location is so important to most
It does? How? for eg if I met a woman in Dublin for sex. it's approx 1 hr 30 from me. chances are I'll only see that woman every once in a while if we hit it off so in that regard it basically is just sex and nothing more
I don't agree with you, but that's ok you don't agree that it's just sex? sure were only gonna see one another when we're having sex lol that's the whole point
I think you miss Sally's point completely. Swinging entails beside the sex component very often a social component. That means when you meet you have sex but you might also have dinner together or a glass of wine and a chat, some even go camping. It doesn't mean that you just meet for social element only (unless it's a coffee meet or a m&g), like you would in a vanilla relationship or when you're dating ie having dinner and going to the cinema to get to know each other but no sex. So if you travel to Dublin for a meet it doesn't necessarily have to be sex only, you might as well add a social component to it unless you wish to run home as soon as you have your load shot once or twice.there is not a hope in hell of me travelling over an hour on a sex site for just a tea/ coffee. if i was in the area on business then all's good. i go for dinner and get to know a woman on a date. that's a completely different kettle of fish to hoping for sex from fabswingers. my main aim of meeting one to one on this is with the hope of sex. that's why I said I think location is important to alot of women. they're hoping it will be more then just sexual encounters
I wouldn't travel over an hour for a coffee meet only but that's not what I said anyway.
I understand you're looking for sex only, but as Sally said and I'm trying to say the difference between swinging and pure sex meets is the social component and by the end of the day you're on a swingers site. You don't have to go for dinner, the social site can take on many forms it can be just a drink or two, you might go to a club or sauna whatever and sometimes there isn't a social side when time is restricted or for other reasons. The social bit has noting to do with dating, it's NSA social if you want to call it so. I like to get to know the person I'm with a lil bit as it normally enhances the sex, it's not only a mechanical act.
Anyhow everyone can use the site as they please, but you shouldn't be surprised when peeps enjoy/seek meets where there's a social element to it. I thought the vast majority wanted a social before a potential sex meet but I thought the norm for a social was a tea/coffee and a bun plus a chat "
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"i can honestly say when I first signed up here I viewed it as a sex site. i didn't know the first thing about swinging only that couples partner swapped with other couples. i don't see though how wanting just sex and nothing else puts you at a big disadvantage here
Because most people here are NOT wanting just sex and nothing else. Most people want a connection of sorts, a social element and to actually LIKE the people who want them to have sex with them.hold on for a minute. to have sex( for me anyway) you have to like the person. i don't jump up on cracked plates but I do understand that many men here do. i love sex like most on here but not wanting the "added bonuses" of swinging imo should mean nothing
I'm not speaking about you personally, I'm just replying to the part where you said you don't understand why wanting just sex is such a disadvantage here. The short answer is because most people here are not looking for just sex. that explains why location is so important to most
It does? How? for eg if I met a woman in Dublin for sex. it's approx 1 hr 30 from me. chances are I'll only see that woman every once in a while if we hit it off so in that regard it basically is just sex and nothing more
I don't agree with you, but that's ok you don't agree that it's just sex? sure were only gonna see one another when we're having sex lol that's the whole point
I think you miss Sally's point completely. Swinging entails beside the sex component very often a social component. That means when you meet you have sex but you might also have dinner together or a glass of wine and a chat, some even go camping. It doesn't mean that you just meet for social element only (unless it's a coffee meet or a m&g), like you would in a vanilla relationship or when you're dating ie having dinner and going to the cinema to get to know each other but no sex. So if you travel to Dublin for a meet it doesn't necessarily have to be sex only, you might as well add a social component to it unless you wish to run home as soon as you have your load shot once or twice.there is not a hope in hell of me travelling over an hour on a sex site for just a tea/ coffee. if i was in the area on business then all's good. i go for dinner and get to know a woman on a date. that's a completely different kettle of fish to hoping for sex from fabswingers. my main aim of meeting one to one on this is with the hope of sex. that's why I said I think location is important to alot of women. they're hoping it will be more then just sexual encounters
I wouldn't travel over an hour for a coffee meet only but that's not what I said anyway.
I understand you're looking for sex only, but as Sally said and I'm trying to say the difference between swinging and pure sex meets is the social component and by the end of the day you're on a swingers site. You don't have to go for dinner, the social site can take on many forms it can be just a drink or two, you might go to a club or sauna whatever and sometimes there isn't a social side when time is restricted or for other reasons. The social bit has noting to do with dating, it's NSA social if you want to call it so. I like to get to know the person I'm with a lil bit as it normally enhances the sex, it's not only a mechanical act.
Anyhow everyone can use the site as they please, but you shouldn't be surprised when peeps enjoy/seek meets where there's a social element to it. I thought the vast majority wanted a social before a potential sex meet but I thought the norm for a social was a tea/coffee and a bun plus a chat
Hold on a second, who said anything about a bun??"
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"i can honestly say when I first signed up here I viewed it as a sex site. i didn't know the first thing about swinging only that couples partner swapped with other couples. i don't see though how wanting just sex and nothing else puts you at a big disadvantage here
Because most people here are NOT wanting just sex and nothing else. Most people want a connection of sorts, a social element and to actually LIKE the people who want them to have sex with them.hold on for a minute. to have sex( for me anyway) you have to like the person. i don't jump up on cracked plates but I do understand that many men here do. i love sex like most on here but not wanting the "added bonuses" of swinging imo should mean nothing
I'm not speaking about you personally, I'm just replying to the part where you said you don't understand why wanting just sex is such a disadvantage here. The short answer is because most people here are not looking for just sex. that explains why location is so important to most
It does? How? for eg if I met a woman in Dublin for sex. it's approx 1 hr 30 from me. chances are I'll only see that woman every once in a while if we hit it off so in that regard it basically is just sex and nothing more
I don't agree with you, but that's ok you don't agree that it's just sex? sure were only gonna see one another when we're having sex lol that's the whole point
I think you miss Sally's point completely. Swinging entails beside the sex component very often a social component. That means when you meet you have sex but you might also have dinner together or a glass of wine and a chat, some even go camping. It doesn't mean that you just meet for social element only (unless it's a coffee meet or a m&g), like you would in a vanilla relationship or when you're dating ie having dinner and going to the cinema to get to know each other but no sex. So if you travel to Dublin for a meet it doesn't necessarily have to be sex only, you might as well add a social component to it unless you wish to run home as soon as you have your load shot once or twice.there is not a hope in hell of me travelling over an hour on a sex site for just a tea/ coffee. if i was in the area on business then all's good. i go for dinner and get to know a woman on a date. that's a completely different kettle of fish to hoping for sex from fabswingers. my main aim of meeting one to one on this is with the hope of sex. that's why I said I think location is important to alot of women. they're hoping it will be more then just sexual encounters
I wouldn't travel over an hour for a coffee meet only but that's not what I said anyway.
I understand you're looking for sex only, but as Sally said and I'm trying to say the difference between swinging and pure sex meets is the social component and by the end of the day you're on a swingers site. You don't have to go for dinner, the social site can take on many forms it can be just a drink or two, you might go to a club or sauna whatever and sometimes there isn't a social side when time is restricted or for other reasons. The social bit has noting to do with dating, it's NSA social if you want to call it so. I like to get to know the person I'm with a lil bit as it normally enhances the sex, it's not only a mechanical act.
Anyhow everyone can use the site as they please, but you shouldn't be surprised when peeps enjoy/seek meets where there's a social element to it. I thought the vast majority wanted a social before a potential sex meet but I thought the norm for a social was a tea/coffee and a bun plus a chat "
I'm not sure if you're trying to pull my leg or if you really don't get it. Yes a coffee meet is a social but its purpose is to see if there is mutual attraction, that's not the social component I'm talking about. |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"i can honestly say when I first signed up here I viewed it as a sex site. i didn't know the first thing about swinging only that couples partner swapped with other couples. i don't see though how wanting just sex and nothing else puts you at a big disadvantage here
Because most people here are NOT wanting just sex and nothing else. Most people want a connection of sorts, a social element and to actually LIKE the people who want them to have sex with them.hold on for a minute. to have sex( for me anyway) you have to like the person. i don't jump up on cracked plates but I do understand that many men here do. i love sex like most on here but not wanting the "added bonuses" of swinging imo should mean nothing
I'm not speaking about you personally, I'm just replying to the part where you said you don't understand why wanting just sex is such a disadvantage here. The short answer is because most people here are not looking for just sex. that explains why location is so important to most
It does? How? for eg if I met a woman in Dublin for sex. it's approx 1 hr 30 from me. chances are I'll only see that woman every once in a while if we hit it off so in that regard it basically is just sex and nothing more
I don't agree with you, but that's ok you don't agree that it's just sex? sure were only gonna see one another when we're having sex lol that's the whole point
I think you miss Sally's point completely. Swinging entails beside the sex component very often a social component. That means when you meet you have sex but you might also have dinner together or a glass of wine and a chat, some even go camping. It doesn't mean that you just meet for social element only (unless it's a coffee meet or a m&g), like you would in a vanilla relationship or when you're dating ie having dinner and going to the cinema to get to know each other but no sex. So if you travel to Dublin for a meet it doesn't necessarily have to be sex only, you might as well add a social component to it unless you wish to run home as soon as you have your load shot once or twice.there is not a hope in hell of me travelling over an hour on a sex site for just a tea/ coffee. if i was in the area on business then all's good. i go for dinner and get to know a woman on a date. that's a completely different kettle of fish to hoping for sex from fabswingers. my main aim of meeting one to one on this is with the hope of sex. that's why I said I think location is important to alot of women. they're hoping it will be more then just sexual encounters
I wouldn't travel over an hour for a coffee meet only but that's not what I said anyway.
I understand you're looking for sex only, but as Sally said and I'm trying to say the difference between swinging and pure sex meets is the social component and by the end of the day you're on a swingers site. You don't have to go for dinner, the social site can take on many forms it can be just a drink or two, you might go to a club or sauna whatever and sometimes there isn't a social side when time is restricted or for other reasons. The social bit has noting to do with dating, it's NSA social if you want to call it so. I like to get to know the person I'm with a lil bit as it normally enhances the sex, it's not only a mechanical act.
Anyhow everyone can use the site as they please, but you shouldn't be surprised when peeps enjoy/seek meets where there's a social element to it. I thought the vast majority wanted a social before a potential sex meet but I thought the norm for a social was a tea/coffee and a bun plus a chat
Hold on a second, who said anything about a bun??"
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"i can honestly say when I first signed up here I viewed it as a sex site. i didn't know the first thing about swinging only that couples partner swapped with other couples. i don't see though how wanting just sex and nothing else puts you at a big disadvantage here
Because most people here are NOT wanting just sex and nothing else. Most people want a connection of sorts, a social element and to actually LIKE the people who want them to have sex with them.hold on for a minute. to have sex( for me anyway) you have to like the person. i don't jump up on cracked plates but I do understand that many men here do. i love sex like most on here but not wanting the "added bonuses" of swinging imo should mean nothing
I'm not speaking about you personally, I'm just replying to the part where you said you don't understand why wanting just sex is such a disadvantage here. The short answer is because most people here are not looking for just sex. that explains why location is so important to most
It does? How? for eg if I met a woman in Dublin for sex. it's approx 1 hr 30 from me. chances are I'll only see that woman every once in a while if we hit it off so in that regard it basically is just sex and nothing more
I don't agree with you, but that's ok you don't agree that it's just sex? sure were only gonna see one another when we're having sex lol that's the whole point
I think you miss Sally's point completely. Swinging entails beside the sex component very often a social component. That means when you meet you have sex but you might also have dinner together or a glass of wine and a chat, some even go camping. It doesn't mean that you just meet for social element only (unless it's a coffee meet or a m&g), like you would in a vanilla relationship or when you're dating ie having dinner and going to the cinema to get to know each other but no sex. So if you travel to Dublin for a meet it doesn't necessarily have to be sex only, you might as well add a social component to it unless you wish to run home as soon as you have your load shot once or twice.there is not a hope in hell of me travelling over an hour on a sex site for just a tea/ coffee. if i was in the area on business then all's good. i go for dinner and get to know a woman on a date. that's a completely different kettle of fish to hoping for sex from fabswingers. my main aim of meeting one to one on this is with the hope of sex. that's why I said I think location is important to alot of women. they're hoping it will be more then just sexual encounters
I wouldn't travel over an hour for a coffee meet only but that's not what I said anyway.
I understand you're looking for sex only, but as Sally said and I'm trying to say the difference between swinging and pure sex meets is the social component and by the end of the day you're on a swingers site. You don't have to go for dinner, the social site can take on many forms it can be just a drink or two, you might go to a club or sauna whatever and sometimes there isn't a social side when time is restricted or for other reasons. The social bit has noting to do with dating, it's NSA social if you want to call it so. I like to get to know the person I'm with a lil bit as it normally enhances the sex, it's not only a mechanical act.
Anyhow everyone can use the site as they please, but you shouldn't be surprised when peeps enjoy/seek meets where there's a social element to it. "
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"i can honestly say when I first signed up here I viewed it as a sex site. i didn't know the first thing about swinging only that couples partner swapped with other couples. i don't see though how wanting just sex and nothing else puts you at a big disadvantage here
Because most people here are NOT wanting just sex and nothing else. Most people want a connection of sorts, a social element and to actually LIKE the people who want them to have sex with them.hold on for a minute. to have sex( for me anyway) you have to like the person. i don't jump up on cracked plates but I do understand that many men here do. i love sex like most on here but not wanting the "added bonuses" of swinging imo should mean nothing
I'm not speaking about you personally, I'm just replying to the part where you said you don't understand why wanting just sex is such a disadvantage here. The short answer is because most people here are not looking for just sex. that explains why location is so important to most
It does? How? for eg if I met a woman in Dublin for sex. it's approx 1 hr 30 from me. chances are I'll only see that woman every once in a while if we hit it off so in that regard it basically is just sex and nothing more
I don't agree with you, but that's ok you don't agree that it's just sex? sure were only gonna see one another when we're having sex lol that's the whole point
I think you miss Sally's point completely. Swinging entails beside the sex component very often a social component. That means when you meet you have sex but you might also have dinner together or a glass of wine and a chat, some even go camping. It doesn't mean that you just meet for social element only (unless it's a coffee meet or a m&g), like you would in a vanilla relationship or when you're dating ie having dinner and going to the cinema to get to know each other but no sex. So if you travel to Dublin for a meet it doesn't necessarily have to be sex only, you might as well add a social component to it unless you wish to run home as soon as you have your load shot once or twice.there is not a hope in hell of me travelling over an hour on a sex site for just a tea/ coffee. if i was in the area on business then all's good. i go for dinner and get to know a woman on a date. that's a completely different kettle of fish to hoping for sex from fabswingers. my main aim of meeting one to one on this is with the hope of sex. that's why I said I think location is important to alot of women. they're hoping it will be more then just sexual encounters
I wouldn't travel over an hour for a coffee meet only but that's not what I said anyway.
I understand you're looking for sex only, but as Sally said and I'm trying to say the difference between swinging and pure sex meets is the social component and by the end of the day you're on a swingers site. You don't have to go for dinner, the social site can take on many forms it can be just a drink or two, you might go to a club or sauna whatever and sometimes there isn't a social side when time is restricted or for other reasons. The social bit has noting to do with dating, it's NSA social if you want to call it so. I like to get to know the person I'm with a lil bit as it normally enhances the sex, it's not only a mechanical act.
Anyhow everyone can use the site as they please, but you shouldn't be surprised when peeps enjoy/seek meets where there's a social element to it. I thought the vast majority wanted a social before a potential sex meet but I thought the norm for a social was a tea/coffee and a bun plus a chat
I'm not sure if you're trying to pull my leg or if you really don't get it. Yes a coffee meet is a social but its purpose is to see if there is mutual attraction, that's not the social component I'm talking about. "
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"i can honestly say when I first signed up here I viewed it as a sex site. i didn't know the first thing about swinging only that couples partner swapped with other couples. i don't see though how wanting just sex and nothing else puts you at a big disadvantage here
Because most people here are NOT wanting just sex and nothing else. Most people want a connection of sorts, a social element and to actually LIKE the people who want them to have sex with them.hold on for a minute. to have sex( for me anyway) you have to like the person. i don't jump up on cracked plates but I do understand that many men here do. i love sex like most on here but not wanting the "added bonuses" of swinging imo should mean nothing
I'm not speaking about you personally, I'm just replying to the part where you said you don't understand why wanting just sex is such a disadvantage here. The short answer is because most people here are not looking for just sex. that explains why location is so important to most
It does? How? for eg if I met a woman in Dublin for sex. it's approx 1 hr 30 from me. chances are I'll only see that woman every once in a while if we hit it off so in that regard it basically is just sex and nothing more
I don't agree with you, but that's ok you don't agree that it's just sex? sure were only gonna see one another when we're having sex lol that's the whole point
I think you miss Sally's point completely. Swinging entails beside the sex component very often a social component. That means when you meet you have sex but you might also have dinner together or a glass of wine and a chat, some even go camping. It doesn't mean that you just meet for social element only (unless it's a coffee meet or a m&g), like you would in a vanilla relationship or when you're dating ie having dinner and going to the cinema to get to know each other but no sex. So if you travel to Dublin for a meet it doesn't necessarily have to be sex only, you might as well add a social component to it unless you wish to run home as soon as you have your load shot once or twice.there is not a hope in hell of me travelling over an hour on a sex site for just a tea/ coffee. if i was in the area on business then all's good. i go for dinner and get to know a woman on a date. that's a completely different kettle of fish to hoping for sex from fabswingers. my main aim of meeting one to one on this is with the hope of sex. that's why I said I think location is important to alot of women. they're hoping it will be more then just sexual encounters
I wouldn't travel over an hour for a coffee meet only but that's not what I said anyway.
I understand you're looking for sex only, but as Sally said and I'm trying to say the difference between swinging and pure sex meets is the social component and by the end of the day you're on a swingers site. You don't have to go for dinner, the social site can take on many forms it can be just a drink or two, you might go to a club or sauna whatever and sometimes there isn't a social side when time is restricted or for other reasons. The social bit has noting to do with dating, it's NSA social if you want to call it so. I like to get to know the person I'm with a lil bit as it normally enhances the sex, it's not only a mechanical act.
Anyhow everyone can use the site as they please, but you shouldn't be surprised when peeps enjoy/seek meets where there's a social element to it. I thought the vast majority wanted a social before a potential sex meet but I thought the norm for a social was a tea/coffee and a bun plus a chat
I'm not sure if you're trying to pull my leg or if you really don't get it. Yes a coffee meet is a social but its purpose is to see if there is mutual attraction, that's not the social component I'm talking about. I'm not interested in any other social component. only one im interested in is to see if there is an attraction. why would I want to go too the cinema or on dinner dates with somebody I just want to have sex with?"
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"i can honestly say when I first signed up here I viewed it as a sex site. i didn't know the first thing about swinging only that couples partner swapped with other couples. i don't see though how wanting just sex and nothing else puts you at a big disadvantage here
Because most people here are NOT wanting just sex and nothing else. Most people want a connection of sorts, a social element and to actually LIKE the people who want them to have sex with them.hold on for a minute. to have sex( for me anyway) you have to like the person. i don't jump up on cracked plates but I do understand that many men here do. i love sex like most on here but not wanting the "added bonuses" of swinging imo should mean nothing
I'm not speaking about you personally, I'm just replying to the part where you said you don't understand why wanting just sex is such a disadvantage here. The short answer is because most people here are not looking for just sex. that explains why location is so important to most
It does? How? for eg if I met a woman in Dublin for sex. it's approx 1 hr 30 from me. chances are I'll only see that woman every once in a while if we hit it off so in that regard it basically is just sex and nothing more
I don't agree with you, but that's ok you don't agree that it's just sex? sure were only gonna see one another when we're having sex lol that's the whole point
I think you miss Sally's point completely. Swinging entails beside the sex component very often a social component. That means when you meet you have sex but you might also have dinner together or a glass of wine and a chat, some even go camping. It doesn't mean that you just meet for social element only (unless it's a coffee meet or a m&g), like you would in a vanilla relationship or when you're dating ie having dinner and going to the cinema to get to know each other but no sex. So if you travel to Dublin for a meet it doesn't necessarily have to be sex only, you might as well add a social component to it unless you wish to run home as soon as you have your load shot once or twice.there is not a hope in hell of me travelling over an hour on a sex site for just a tea/ coffee. if i was in the area on business then all's good. i go for dinner and get to know a woman on a date. that's a completely different kettle of fish to hoping for sex from fabswingers. my main aim of meeting one to one on this is with the hope of sex. that's why I said I think location is important to alot of women. they're hoping it will be more then just sexual encounters
I wouldn't travel over an hour for a coffee meet only but that's not what I said anyway.
I understand you're looking for sex only, but as Sally said and I'm trying to say the difference between swinging and pure sex meets is the social component and by the end of the day you're on a swingers site. You don't have to go for dinner, the social site can take on many forms it can be just a drink or two, you might go to a club or sauna whatever and sometimes there isn't a social side when time is restricted or for other reasons. The social bit has noting to do with dating, it's NSA social if you want to call it so. I like to get to know the person I'm with a lil bit as it normally enhances the sex, it's not only a mechanical act.
Anyhow everyone can use the site as they please, but you shouldn't be surprised when peeps enjoy/seek meets where there's a social element to it. I thought the vast majority wanted a social before a potential sex meet but I thought the norm for a social was a tea/coffee and a bun plus a chat
I'm not sure if you're trying to pull my leg or if you really don't get it. Yes a coffee meet is a social but its purpose is to see if there is mutual attraction, that's not the social component I'm talking about. I'm not interested in any other social component. only one im interested in is to see if there is an attraction. why would I want to go too the cinema or on dinner dates with somebody I just want to have sex with?and don't come back and say some just sign up here and want that "
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"i can honestly say when I first signed up here I viewed it as a sex site. i didn't know the first thing about swinging only that couples partner swapped with other couples. i don't see though how wanting just sex and nothing else puts you at a big disadvantage here
Because most people here are NOT wanting just sex and nothing else. Most people want a connection of sorts, a social element and to actually LIKE the people who want them to have sex with them.hold on for a minute. to have sex( for me anyway) you have to like the person. i don't jump up on cracked plates but I do understand that many men here do. i love sex like most on here but not wanting the "added bonuses" of swinging imo should mean nothing
I'm not speaking about you personally, I'm just replying to the part where you said you don't understand why wanting just sex is such a disadvantage here. The short answer is because most people here are not looking for just sex. that explains why location is so important to most
It does? How? for eg if I met a woman in Dublin for sex. it's approx 1 hr 30 from me. chances are I'll only see that woman every once in a while if we hit it off so in that regard it basically is just sex and nothing more
I don't agree with you, but that's ok you don't agree that it's just sex? sure were only gonna see one another when we're having sex lol that's the whole point
I think you miss Sally's point completely. Swinging entails beside the sex component very often a social component. That means when you meet you have sex but you might also have dinner together or a glass of wine and a chat, some even go camping. It doesn't mean that you just meet for social element only (unless it's a coffee meet or a m&g), like you would in a vanilla relationship or when you're dating ie having dinner and going to the cinema to get to know each other but no sex. So if you travel to Dublin for a meet it doesn't necessarily have to be sex only, you might as well add a social component to it unless you wish to run home as soon as you have your load shot once or twice.there is not a hope in hell of me travelling over an hour on a sex site for just a tea/ coffee. if i was in the area on business then all's good. i go for dinner and get to know a woman on a date. that's a completely different kettle of fish to hoping for sex from fabswingers. my main aim of meeting one to one on this is with the hope of sex. that's why I said I think location is important to alot of women. they're hoping it will be more then just sexual encounters
I wouldn't travel over an hour for a coffee meet only but that's not what I said anyway.
I understand you're looking for sex only, but as Sally said and I'm trying to say the difference between swinging and pure sex meets is the social component and by the end of the day you're on a swingers site. You don't have to go for dinner, the social site can take on many forms it can be just a drink or two, you might go to a club or sauna whatever and sometimes there isn't a social side when time is restricted or for other reasons. The social bit has noting to do with dating, it's NSA social if you want to call it so. I like to get to know the person I'm with a lil bit as it normally enhances the sex, it's not only a mechanical act.
Anyhow everyone can use the site as they please, but you shouldn't be surprised when peeps enjoy/seek meets where there's a social element to it. I thought the vast majority wanted a social before a potential sex meet but I thought the norm for a social was a tea/coffee and a bun plus a chat
I'm not sure if you're trying to pull my leg or if you really don't get it. Yes a coffee meet is a social but its purpose is to see if there is mutual attraction, that's not the social component I'm talking about. I'm not interested in any other social component. only one im interested in is to see if there is an attraction. why would I want to go too the cinema or on dinner dates with somebody I just want to have sex with?and don't come back and say some just sign up here and want that
tbh I just give up. Maybe one day you might understand what sexual 'dining' is. "
sexual dining as i already said to u I have no interest in. dining is something i would do with friends or a potential female i have an interest in dating. if I'm on the wrong path then I havnt a clue what you're talking about. one thing I do know is that this place is a lot of peoples social circle |
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By *oserMan
over a year ago
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I haven't had time to read this one and its time for beddybybys so ffs dont go reporting anything or anybody
I want some entertainment while having the porridge in the am and this has potential
So behave fabbers |
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"I haven't had time to read this one and its time for beddybybys so ffs dont go reporting anything or anybody
I want some entertainment while having the porridge in the am and this has potential
So behave fabbers "
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By *oserMan
over a year ago
where the wild roses grow |
"I haven't had time to read this one and its time for beddybybys so ffs dont go reporting anything or anybody
I want some entertainment while having the porridge in the am and this has potential
So behave fabbers are you Serious that you would read the whole thread?"
Is it worth it?
Give me the headlines |
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"I haven't had time to read this one and its time for beddybybys so ffs dont go reporting anything or anybody
I want some entertainment while having the porridge in the am and this has potential
So behave fabbers are you Serious that you would read the whole thread?
Is it worth it?
Give me the headlines "
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"I haven't had time to read this one and its time for beddybybys so ffs dont go reporting anything or anybody
I want some entertainment while having the porridge in the am and this has potential
So behave fabbers "
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By *oserMan
over a year ago
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"I haven't had time to read this one and its time for beddybybys so ffs dont go reporting anything or anybody
I want some entertainment while having the porridge in the am and this has potential
So behave fabbers are you Serious that you would read the whole thread?
Is it worth it?
Give me the headlines one word answer, no "
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
on the hill NordWest of |
"i can honestly say when I first signed up here I viewed it as a sex site. i didn't know the first thing about swinging only that couples partner swapped with other couples. i don't see though how wanting just sex and nothing else puts you at a big disadvantage here
Because most people here are NOT wanting just sex and nothing else. Most people want a connection of sorts, a social element and to actually LIKE the people who want them to have sex with them.hold on for a minute. to have sex( for me anyway) you have to like the person. i don't jump up on cracked plates but I do understand that many men here do. i love sex like most on here but not wanting the "added bonuses" of swinging imo should mean nothing
I'm not speaking about you personally, I'm just replying to the part where you said you don't understand why wanting just sex is such a disadvantage here. The short answer is because most people here are not looking for just sex. that explains why location is so important to most
It does? How? for eg if I met a woman in Dublin for sex. it's approx 1 hr 30 from me. chances are I'll only see that woman every once in a while if we hit it off so in that regard it basically is just sex and nothing more
I don't agree with you, but that's ok you don't agree that it's just sex? sure were only gonna see one another when we're having sex lol that's the whole point
I think you miss Sally's point completely. Swinging entails beside the sex component very often a social component. That means when you meet you have sex but you might also have dinner together or a glass of wine and a chat, some even go camping. It doesn't mean that you just meet for social element only (unless it's a coffee meet or a m&g), like you would in a vanilla relationship or when you're dating ie having dinner and going to the cinema to get to know each other but no sex. So if you travel to Dublin for a meet it doesn't necessarily have to be sex only, you might as well add a social component to it unless you wish to run home as soon as you have your load shot once or twice.there is not a hope in hell of me travelling over an hour on a sex site for just a tea/ coffee. if i was in the area on business then all's good. i go for dinner and get to know a woman on a date. that's a completely different kettle of fish to hoping for sex from fabswingers. my main aim of meeting one to one on this is with the hope of sex. that's why I said I think location is important to alot of women. they're hoping it will be more then just sexual encounters
I wouldn't travel over an hour for a coffee meet only but that's not what I said anyway.
I understand you're looking for sex only, but as Sally said and I'm trying to say the difference between swinging and pure sex meets is the social component and by the end of the day you're on a swingers site. You don't have to go for dinner, the social site can take on many forms it can be just a drink or two, you might go to a club or sauna whatever and sometimes there isn't a social side when time is restricted or for other reasons. The social bit has noting to do with dating, it's NSA social if you want to call it so. I like to get to know the person I'm with a lil bit as it normally enhances the sex, it's not only a mechanical act.
Anyhow everyone can use the site as they please, but you shouldn't be surprised when peeps enjoy/seek meets where there's a social element to it. I thought the vast majority wanted a social before a potential sex meet but I thought the norm for a social was a tea/coffee and a bun plus a chat
I'm not sure if you're trying to pull my leg or if you really don't get it. Yes a coffee meet is a social but its purpose is to see if there is mutual attraction, that's not the social component I'm talking about. I'm not interested in any other social component. only one im interested in is to see if there is an attraction. why would I want to go too the cinema or on dinner dates with somebody I just want to have sex with?and don't come back and say some just sign up here and want that
tbh I just give up. Maybe one day you might understand what sexual 'dining' is. sexual dining as i already said to u I have no interest in. dining is something i would do with friends or a potential female i have an interest in dating. if I'm on the wrong path then I havnt a clue what you're talking about. one thing I do know is that this place is a lot of peoples social circle "
As you might have noticed I put dining in apostrophes, it means it shouldn't be read literally. It means savouring sex as a delicacy and not as an mechanical act. |
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"I haven't had time to read this one and its time for beddybybys so ffs dont go reporting anything or anybody
I want some entertainment while having the porridge in the am and this has potential
So behave fabbers are you Serious that you would read the whole thread?
Is it worth it?
Give me the headlines one word answer, no
No don't read it or no you're not gna give me the headlines? "
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"i can honestly say when I first signed up here I viewed it as a sex site. i didn't know the first thing about swinging only that couples partner swapped with other couples. i don't see though how wanting just sex and nothing else puts you at a big disadvantage here
Because most people here are NOT wanting just sex and nothing else. Most people want a connection of sorts, a social element and to actually LIKE the people who want them to have sex with them.hold on for a minute. to have sex( for me anyway) you have to like the person. i don't jump up on cracked plates but I do understand that many men here do. i love sex like most on here but not wanting the "added bonuses" of swinging imo should mean nothing
I'm not speaking about you personally, I'm just replying to the part where you said you don't understand why wanting just sex is such a disadvantage here. The short answer is because most people here are not looking for just sex. that explains why location is so important to most
It does? How? for eg if I met a woman in Dublin for sex. it's approx 1 hr 30 from me. chances are I'll only see that woman every once in a while if we hit it off so in that regard it basically is just sex and nothing more
I don't agree with you, but that's ok you don't agree that it's just sex? sure were only gonna see one another when we're having sex lol that's the whole point
I think you miss Sally's point completely. Swinging entails beside the sex component very often a social component. That means when you meet you have sex but you might also have dinner together or a glass of wine and a chat, some even go camping. It doesn't mean that you just meet for social element only (unless it's a coffee meet or a m&g), like you would in a vanilla relationship or when you're dating ie having dinner and going to the cinema to get to know each other but no sex. So if you travel to Dublin for a meet it doesn't necessarily have to be sex only, you might as well add a social component to it unless you wish to run home as soon as you have your load shot once or twice.there is not a hope in hell of me travelling over an hour on a sex site for just a tea/ coffee. if i was in the area on business then all's good. i go for dinner and get to know a woman on a date. that's a completely different kettle of fish to hoping for sex from fabswingers. my main aim of meeting one to one on this is with the hope of sex. that's why I said I think location is important to alot of women. they're hoping it will be more then just sexual encounters
I wouldn't travel over an hour for a coffee meet only but that's not what I said anyway.
I understand you're looking for sex only, but as Sally said and I'm trying to say the difference between swinging and pure sex meets is the social component and by the end of the day you're on a swingers site. You don't have to go for dinner, the social site can take on many forms it can be just a drink or two, you might go to a club or sauna whatever and sometimes there isn't a social side when time is restricted or for other reasons. The social bit has noting to do with dating, it's NSA social if you want to call it so. I like to get to know the person I'm with a lil bit as it normally enhances the sex, it's not only a mechanical act.
Anyhow everyone can use the site as they please, but you shouldn't be surprised when peeps enjoy/seek meets where there's a social element to it. I thought the vast majority wanted a social before a potential sex meet but I thought the norm for a social was a tea/coffee and a bun plus a chat
I'm not sure if you're trying to pull my leg or if you really don't get it. Yes a coffee meet is a social but its purpose is to see if there is mutual attraction, that's not the social component I'm talking about. I'm not interested in any other social component. only one im interested in is to see if there is an attraction. why would I want to go too the cinema or on dinner dates with somebody I just want to have sex with?and don't come back and say some just sign up here and want that
tbh I just give up. Maybe one day you might understand what sexual 'dining' is. sexual dining as i already said to u I have no interest in. dining is something i would do with friends or a potential female i have an interest in dating. if I'm on the wrong path then I havnt a clue what you're talking about. one thing I do know is that this place is a lot of peoples social circle
As you might have noticed I put dining in apostrophes, it means it shouldn't be read literally. It means savouring sex as a delicacy and not as an mechanical act."
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"i can honestly say when I first signed up here I viewed it as a sex site. i didn't know the first thing about swinging only that couples partner swapped with other couples. i don't see though how wanting just sex and nothing else puts you at a big disadvantage here
Because most people here are NOT wanting just sex and nothing else. Most people want a connection of sorts, a social element and to actually LIKE the people who want them to have sex with them.hold on for a minute. to have sex( for me anyway) you have to like the person. i don't jump up on cracked plates but I do understand that many men here do. i love sex like most on here but not wanting the "added bonuses" of swinging imo should mean nothing
I'm not speaking about you personally, I'm just replying to the part where you said you don't understand why wanting just sex is such a disadvantage here. The short answer is because most people here are not looking for just sex. that explains why location is so important to most
It does? How? for eg if I met a woman in Dublin for sex. it's approx 1 hr 30 from me. chances are I'll only see that woman every once in a while if we hit it off so in that regard it basically is just sex and nothing more
I don't agree with you, but that's ok you don't agree that it's just sex? sure were only gonna see one another when we're having sex lol that's the whole point
I think you miss Sally's point completely. Swinging entails beside the sex component very often a social component. That means when you meet you have sex but you might also have dinner together or a glass of wine and a chat, some even go camping. It doesn't mean that you just meet for social element only (unless it's a coffee meet or a m&g), like you would in a vanilla relationship or when you're dating ie having dinner and going to the cinema to get to know each other but no sex. So if you travel to Dublin for a meet it doesn't necessarily have to be sex only, you might as well add a social component to it unless you wish to run home as soon as you have your load shot once or twice.there is not a hope in hell of me travelling over an hour on a sex site for just a tea/ coffee. if i was in the area on business then all's good. i go for dinner and get to know a woman on a date. that's a completely different kettle of fish to hoping for sex from fabswingers. my main aim of meeting one to one on this is with the hope of sex. that's why I said I think location is important to alot of women. they're hoping it will be more then just sexual encounters
I wouldn't travel over an hour for a coffee meet only but that's not what I said anyway.
I understand you're looking for sex only, but as Sally said and I'm trying to say the difference between swinging and pure sex meets is the social component and by the end of the day you're on a swingers site. You don't have to go for dinner, the social site can take on many forms it can be just a drink or two, you might go to a club or sauna whatever and sometimes there isn't a social side when time is restricted or for other reasons. The social bit has noting to do with dating, it's NSA social if you want to call it so. I like to get to know the person I'm with a lil bit as it normally enhances the sex, it's not only a mechanical act.
Anyhow everyone can use the site as they please, but you shouldn't be surprised when peeps enjoy/seek meets where there's a social element to it. I thought the vast majority wanted a social before a potential sex meet but I thought the norm for a social was a tea/coffee and a bun plus a chat
I'm not sure if you're trying to pull my leg or if you really don't get it. Yes a coffee meet is a social but its purpose is to see if there is mutual attraction, that's not the social component I'm talking about. I'm not interested in any other social component. only one im interested in is to see if there is an attraction. why would I want to go too the cinema or on dinner dates with somebody I just want to have sex with?and don't come back and say some just sign up here and want that
tbh I just give up. Maybe one day you might understand what sexual 'dining' is. sexual dining as i already said to u I have no interest in. dining is something i would do with friends or a potential female i have an interest in dating. if I'm on the wrong path then I havnt a clue what you're talking about. one thing I do know is that this place is a lot of peoples social circle
As you might have noticed I put dining in apostrophes, it means it shouldn't be read literally. It means savouring sex as a delicacy and not as an mechanical act.sex is so not straightforward to you sure it's not?"
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"i can honestly say when I first signed up here I viewed it as a sex site. i didn't know the first thing about swinging only that couples partner swapped with other couples. i don't see though how wanting just sex and nothing else puts you at a big disadvantage here
Because most people here are NOT wanting just sex and nothing else. Most people want a connection of sorts, a social element and to actually LIKE the people who want them to have sex with them.hold on for a minute. to have sex( for me anyway) you have to like the person. i don't jump up on cracked plates but I do understand that many men here do. i love sex like most on here but not wanting the "added bonuses" of swinging imo should mean nothing
I'm not speaking about you personally, I'm just replying to the part where you said you don't understand why wanting just sex is such a disadvantage here. The short answer is because most people here are not looking for just sex. that explains why location is so important to most
It does? How? for eg if I met a woman in Dublin for sex. it's approx 1 hr 30 from me. chances are I'll only see that woman every once in a while if we hit it off so in that regard it basically is just sex and nothing more
I don't agree with you, but that's ok you don't agree that it's just sex? sure were only gonna see one another when we're having sex lol that's the whole point
I think you miss Sally's point completely. Swinging entails beside the sex component very often a social component. That means when you meet you have sex but you might also have dinner together or a glass of wine and a chat, some even go camping. It doesn't mean that you just meet for social element only (unless it's a coffee meet or a m&g), like you would in a vanilla relationship or when you're dating ie having dinner and going to the cinema to get to know each other but no sex. So if you travel to Dublin for a meet it doesn't necessarily have to be sex only, you might as well add a social component to it unless you wish to run home as soon as you have your load shot once or twice.there is not a hope in hell of me travelling over an hour on a sex site for just a tea/ coffee. if i was in the area on business then all's good. i go for dinner and get to know a woman on a date. that's a completely different kettle of fish to hoping for sex from fabswingers. my main aim of meeting one to one on this is with the hope of sex. that's why I said I think location is important to alot of women. they're hoping it will be more then just sexual encounters
I wouldn't travel over an hour for a coffee meet only but that's not what I said anyway.
I understand you're looking for sex only, but as Sally said and I'm trying to say the difference between swinging and pure sex meets is the social component and by the end of the day you're on a swingers site. You don't have to go for dinner, the social site can take on many forms it can be just a drink or two, you might go to a club or sauna whatever and sometimes there isn't a social side when time is restricted or for other reasons. The social bit has noting to do with dating, it's NSA social if you want to call it so. I like to get to know the person I'm with a lil bit as it normally enhances the sex, it's not only a mechanical act.
Anyhow everyone can use the site as they please, but you shouldn't be surprised when peeps enjoy/seek meets where there's a social element to it. I thought the vast majority wanted a social before a potential sex meet but I thought the norm for a social was a tea/coffee and a bun plus a chat
I'm not sure if you're trying to pull my leg or if you really don't get it. Yes a coffee meet is a social but its purpose is to see if there is mutual attraction, that's not the social component I'm talking about. I'm not interested in any other social component. only one im interested in is to see if there is an attraction. why would I want to go too the cinema or on dinner dates with somebody I just want to have sex with?and don't come back and say some just sign up here and want that
tbh I just give up. Maybe one day you might understand what sexual 'dining' is. sexual dining as i already said to u I have no interest in. dining is something i would do with friends or a potential female i have an interest in dating. if I'm on the wrong path then I havnt a clue what you're talking about. one thing I do know is that this place is a lot of peoples social circle
As you might have noticed I put dining in apostrophes, it means it shouldn't be read literally. It means savouring sex as a delicacy and not as an mechanical act.sex is so not straightforward to you sure it's not?
It is very much so with the right person that can tickle all my senses. "
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"i can honestly say when I first signed up here I viewed it as a sex site. i didn't know the first thing about swinging only that couples partner swapped with other couples. i don't see though how wanting just sex and nothing else puts you at a big disadvantage here
Because most people here are NOT wanting just sex and nothing else. Most people want a connection of sorts, a social element and to actually LIKE the people who want them to have sex with them.hold on for a minute. to have sex( for me anyway) you have to like the person. i don't jump up on cracked plates but I do understand that many men here do. i love sex like most on here but not wanting the "added bonuses" of swinging imo should mean nothing
I'm not speaking about you personally, I'm just replying to the part where you said you don't understand why wanting just sex is such a disadvantage here. The short answer is because most people here are not looking for just sex. that explains why location is so important to most
It does? How? for eg if I met a woman in Dublin for sex. it's approx 1 hr 30 from me. chances are I'll only see that woman every once in a while if we hit it off so in that regard it basically is just sex and nothing more
I don't agree with you, but that's ok you don't agree that it's just sex? sure were only gonna see one another when we're having sex lol that's the whole point
I think you miss Sally's point completely. Swinging entails beside the sex component very often a social component. That means when you meet you have sex but you might also have dinner together or a glass of wine and a chat, some even go camping. It doesn't mean that you just meet for social element only (unless it's a coffee meet or a m&g), like you would in a vanilla relationship or when you're dating ie having dinner and going to the cinema to get to know each other but no sex. So if you travel to Dublin for a meet it doesn't necessarily have to be sex only, you might as well add a social component to it unless you wish to run home as soon as you have your load shot once or twice.there is not a hope in hell of me travelling over an hour on a sex site for just a tea/ coffee. if i was in the area on business then all's good. i go for dinner and get to know a woman on a date. that's a completely different kettle of fish to hoping for sex from fabswingers. my main aim of meeting one to one on this is with the hope of sex. that's why I said I think location is important to alot of women. they're hoping it will be more then just sexual encounters
I wouldn't travel over an hour for a coffee meet only but that's not what I said anyway.
I understand you're looking for sex only, but as Sally said and I'm trying to say the difference between swinging and pure sex meets is the social component and by the end of the day you're on a swingers site. You don't have to go for dinner, the social site can take on many forms it can be just a drink or two, you might go to a club or sauna whatever and sometimes there isn't a social side when time is restricted or for other reasons. The social bit has noting to do with dating, it's NSA social if you want to call it so. I like to get to know the person I'm with a lil bit as it normally enhances the sex, it's not only a mechanical act.
Anyhow everyone can use the site as they please, but you shouldn't be surprised when peeps enjoy/seek meets where there's a social element to it. I thought the vast majority wanted a social before a potential sex meet but I thought the norm for a social was a tea/coffee and a bun plus a chat
I'm not sure if you're trying to pull my leg or if you really don't get it. Yes a coffee meet is a social but its purpose is to see if there is mutual attraction, that's not the social component I'm talking about. I'm not interested in any other social component. only one im interested in is to see if there is an attraction. why would I want to go too the cinema or on dinner dates with somebody I just want to have sex with?and don't come back and say some just sign up here and want that
tbh I just give up. Maybe one day you might understand what sexual 'dining' is. sexual dining as i already said to u I have no interest in. dining is something i would do with friends or a potential female i have an interest in dating. if I'm on the wrong path then I havnt a clue what you're talking about. one thing I do know is that this place is a lot of peoples social circle
As you might have noticed I put dining in apostrophes, it means it shouldn't be read literally. It means savouring sex as a delicacy and not as an mechanical act.sex is so not straightforward to you sure it's not?
It is very much so with the right person that can tickle all my senses. how did i no that was exactly what you were going to say. if i had that attitude to sex id be a born again virgin with no sex in site"
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By *oserMan
over a year ago
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Done
Conclusion...
Willie wants to drop in next door get drained and leave.
DH likes to dine on cock.
Sally doesn't mind travelling.
Inbetween is a 2.5 hour guy who will jog home if necessary.
And Andy?
Well Andy is Andy
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"Seen someone describe fab as this that no one is actually getting much action and its just x-rated facebook anyone agree lol "
Na fab is fab. x-rated Facebook well that’s a different story. If you know you know  |
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"Done
Conclusion...
Willie wants to drop in next door get drained and leave.
DH likes to dine on cock.
Sally doesn't mind travelling.
Inbetween is a 2.5 hour guy who will jog home if necessary.
And Andy?
Well Andy is Andy
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not a bad summary. one conclusion I take is DH is a nice person but fuck me id hate to be trying to please her. |
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By *oghunter33Woman
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"Done
Conclusion...
Willie wants to drop in next door get drained and leave.
DH likes to dine on cock.
Sally doesn't mind travelling.
Inbetween is a 2.5 hour guy who will jog home if necessary.
And Andy?
Well Andy is Andy
not a bad summary. one conclusion I take is DH is a nice person but fuck me id hate to be trying to please her. "
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By *oghunter33Woman
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"Done
Conclusion...
Willie wants to drop in next door get drained and leave.
DH likes to dine on cock.
Sally doesn't mind travelling.
Inbetween is a 2.5 hour guy who will jog home if necessary.
And Andy?
Well Andy is Andy
not a bad summary. one conclusion I take is DH is a nice person but fuck me id hate to be trying to please her.
A 4+ course dinner will do me "
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"in all areas sounds like you want perfection "
Focusing your life solely on having average fucks shows a certain poverty of ambition. It asks too little of yourself. Because it's only when you hitch your wagon to something larger than yourself that you realize your true potential.
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"in all areas sounds like you want perfection
Focusing your life solely on having average fucks shows a certain poverty of ambition. It asks too little of yourself. Because it's only when you hitch your wagon to something larger than yourself that you realize your true potential.
- a slightly altered quote from Barack Obama - "
you're not denying it. it's just the impression I get |
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By *oghunter33Woman
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"in all areas sounds like you want perfection
Focusing your life solely on having average fucks shows a certain poverty of ambition. It asks too little of yourself. Because it's only when you hitch your wagon to something larger than yourself that you realize your true potential.
- a slightly altered quote from Barack Obama - you're not denying it. it's just the impression I get "
We're all here for sex but for a different reason. You because you want a uncomplicated shag and I because I love good sex and there are some lovely very talented gents on here. |
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"in all areas sounds like you want perfection
Focusing your life solely on having average fucks shows a certain poverty of ambition. It asks too little of yourself. Because it's only when you hitch your wagon to something larger than yourself that you realize your true potential.
- a slightly altered quote from Barack Obama - you're not denying it. it's just the impression I get
We're all here for sex but for a different reason. You because you want a uncomplicated shag and I because I love good sex and there are some lovely very talented gents on here. "
spot on. the whole mantra of here is non complication. a bit of no strings sex (which as humans we all crave and need). as i said on another thread I very rarely have bad sex but then again I'm a male but reading your posts for many a time you just sound like a person who expects perfection,no faults. |
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By *oghunter33Woman
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"in all areas sounds like you want perfection
Focusing your life solely on having average fucks shows a certain poverty of ambition. It asks too little of yourself. Because it's only when you hitch your wagon to something larger than yourself that you realize your true potential.
- a slightly altered quote from Barack Obama - you're not denying it. it's just the impression I get
We're all here for sex but for a different reason. You because you want a uncomplicated shag and I because I love good sex and there are some lovely very talented gents on here. spot on. the whole mantra of here is non complication. a bit of no strings sex (which as humans we all crave and need). as i said on another thread I very rarely have bad sex but then again I'm a male but reading your posts for many a time you just sound like a person who expects perfection,no faults."
Yeah I've read your post on the other thread, it boils down to the same than what I'm trying to say here. There's a difference between mechanical sex and passionate sex, I prefer the latter. Nothing to do with perfection rather than body AND mind clash lustfully with your play partner's.
Tell me why should I go for average when I can have outstanding? |
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"in all areas sounds like you want perfection
Focusing your life solely on having average fucks shows a certain poverty of ambition. It asks too little of yourself. Because it's only when you hitch your wagon to something larger than yourself that you realize your true potential.
- a slightly altered quote from Barack Obama - you're not denying it. it's just the impression I get
We're all here for sex but for a different reason. You because you want a uncomplicated shag and I because I love good sex and there are some lovely very talented gents on here. spot on. the whole mantra of here is non complication. a bit of no strings sex (which as humans we all crave and need). as i said on another thread I very rarely have bad sex but then again I'm a male but reading your posts for many a time you just sound like a person who expects perfection,no faults.
Yeah I've read your post on the other thread, it boils down to the same than what I'm trying to say here. There's a difference between mechanical sex and passionate sex, I prefer the latter. Nothing to do with perfection rather than body AND mind clash lustfully with your play partner's.
Tell me why should I go for average when I can have outstanding? "
I havnt a clue what you mean by mechanical sex |
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By *oghunter33Woman
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"in all areas sounds like you want perfection
Focusing your life solely on having average fucks shows a certain poverty of ambition. It asks too little of yourself. Because it's only when you hitch your wagon to something larger than yourself that you realize your true potential.
- a slightly altered quote from Barack Obama - you're not denying it. it's just the impression I get
We're all here for sex but for a different reason. You because you want a uncomplicated shag and I because I love good sex and there are some lovely very talented gents on here. spot on. the whole mantra of here is non complication. a bit of no strings sex (which as humans we all crave and need). as i said on another thread I very rarely have bad sex but then again I'm a male but reading your posts for many a time you just sound like a person who expects perfection,no faults.
Yeah I've read your post on the other thread, it boils down to the same than what I'm trying to say here. There's a difference between mechanical sex and passionate sex, I prefer the latter. Nothing to do with perfection rather than body AND mind clash lustfully with your play partner's.
Tell me why should I go for average when I can have outstanding? I havnt a clue what you mean by mechanical sex "
Going through the motions sex for the purpose of releasing yourself |
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"in all areas sounds like you want perfection
Focusing your life solely on having average fucks shows a certain poverty of ambition. It asks too little of yourself. Because it's only when you hitch your wagon to something larger than yourself that you realize your true potential.
- a slightly altered quote from Barack Obama - you're not denying it. it's just the impression I get
We're all here for sex but for a different reason. You because you want a uncomplicated shag and I because I love good sex and there are some lovely very talented gents on here. spot on. the whole mantra of here is non complication. a bit of no strings sex (which as humans we all crave and need). as i said on another thread I very rarely have bad sex but then again I'm a male but reading your posts for many a time you just sound like a person who expects perfection,no faults.
Yeah I've read your post on the other thread, it boils down to the same than what I'm trying to say here. There's a difference between mechanical sex and passionate sex, I prefer the latter. Nothing to do with perfection rather than body AND mind clash lustfully with your play partner's.
Tell me why should I go for average when I can have outstanding? I havnt a clue what you mean by mechanical sex
Going through the motions sex for the purpose of releasing yourself "
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By *oghunter33Woman
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"in all areas sounds like you want perfection
Focusing your life solely on having average fucks shows a certain poverty of ambition. It asks too little of yourself. Because it's only when you hitch your wagon to something larger than yourself that you realize your true potential.
- a slightly altered quote from Barack Obama - you're not denying it. it's just the impression I get
We're all here for sex but for a different reason. You because you want a uncomplicated shag and I because I love good sex and there are some lovely very talented gents on here. spot on. the whole mantra of here is non complication. a bit of no strings sex (which as humans we all crave and need). as i said on another thread I very rarely have bad sex but then again I'm a male but reading your posts for many a time you just sound like a person who expects perfection,no faults.
Yeah I've read your post on the other thread, it boils down to the same than what I'm trying to say here. There's a difference between mechanical sex and passionate sex, I prefer the latter. Nothing to do with perfection rather than body AND mind clash lustfully with your play partner's.
Tell me why should I go for average when I can have outstanding? I havnt a clue what you mean by mechanical sex
Going through the motions sex for the purpose of releasing yourself and that you're not really into your partner?"
I'm a bit cautious answering this question with a yes or no because you keep on mixing it up with dating and you actually find the answer to that in my previous post and I'm only repeating myself here. |
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"in all areas sounds like you want perfection
Focusing your life solely on having average fucks shows a certain poverty of ambition. It asks too little of yourself. Because it's only when you hitch your wagon to something larger than yourself that you realize your true potential.
- a slightly altered quote from Barack Obama - you're not denying it. it's just the impression I get
We're all here for sex but for a different reason. You because you want a uncomplicated shag and I because I love good sex and there are some lovely very talented gents on here. spot on. the whole mantra of here is non complication. a bit of no strings sex (which as humans we all crave and need). as i said on another thread I very rarely have bad sex but then again I'm a male but reading your posts for many a time you just sound like a person who expects perfection,no faults.
Yeah I've read your post on the other thread, it boils down to the same than what I'm trying to say here. There's a difference between mechanical sex and passionate sex, I prefer the latter. Nothing to do with perfection rather than body AND mind clash lustfully with your play partner's.
Tell me why should I go for average when I can have outstanding? I havnt a clue what you mean by mechanical sex
Going through the motions sex for the purpose of releasing yourself and that you're not really into your partner?
I'm a bit cautious answering this question with a yes or no because you keep on mixing it up with dating and you actually find the answer to that in my previous post and I'm only repeating myself here. "
oh I think for many on here there is a fine line between what they want from a fab partner and a proper relationship. also I think alot of fab women want to do the same things as a normal couple do without the stigma of a proper relationship |
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I'm a bit cautious answering this question with a yes or no because you keep on mixing it up with dating and you actually find the answer to that in my previous post and I'm only repeating myself here. oh I think for many on here there is a fine line between what they want from a fab partner and a proper relationship. also I think alot of fab women want to do the same things as a normal couple do without the stigma of a proper relationship "
I can only speak for myself. I'm here for good sex, nothing more and nothing less. However I don't think your generalisations and implied remarks will do you any favour. And btw stigma and relationship don't really go together. |
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I'm a bit cautious answering this question with a yes or no because you keep on mixing it up with dating and you actually find the answer to that in my previous post and I'm only repeating myself here. oh I think for many on here there is a fine line between what they want from a fab partner and a proper relationship. also I think alot of fab women want to do the same things as a normal couple do without the stigma of a proper relationship
I can only speak for myself. I'm here for good sex, nothing more and nothing less. However I don't think your generalisations and implied remarks will do you any favour. And btw stigma and relationship don't really go together. "
you know as well as I do i view the stages of the site as very straightforward. you and other women on the other hand don't. 1)chat 2) tea coffee meet) 3) If there is an attraction, sex. pretty straightforward you would think |
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