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How do you deal with entitled men?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is it with men in their 30s who find it hard to believe that not every woman is interested in them?"
I think that's a very unfair and untruthful statement to make. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What is it with men in their 30s who find it hard to believe that not every woman is interested in them?
I think that's a very unfair and untruthful statement to make."
It's not a statement. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Set age filters above and problem solved. you can always brake your age filters by picking a younger one making the first approach."
Good plan, I'm on it but can I still get the under 30s? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is it with men in their 30s who find it hard to believe that not every woman is interested in them?
I think that's a very unfair and untruthful statement to make.
It's not a statement."
You might then consider it a very unfair and untruthful comment to make. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do all of the above and if someone is really bothering you .. block them, ignore them. Remember we choose who we interact with  "
This is true, thank you. I like the forum and the opinions too, I try to use it to broaden my perspectives. |
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"What is it with men in their 30s who find it hard to believe that not every woman is interested in them?"
plus quiet the opposite for women. they can't believe their luck on here. it's like Santa's sack exploding at once.
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"Set age filters above and problem solved. you can always brake your age filters by picking a younger one making the first approach.
Good plan, I'm on it but can I still get the under 30s? "
Yes unfortunately those you spoke/anwered to will still get through, so you either block or ignore them. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What is it with men in their 30s who find it hard to believe that not every woman is interested in them?
I think that's a very unfair and untruthful statement to make.
It's not a statement.
You might then consider it a very unfair and untruthful comment to make."
You're right, it's not all men, it is definitely some men though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do all of the above and if someone is really bothering you .. block them, ignore them. Remember we choose who we interact with
This is true, thank you. I like the forum and the opinions too, I try to use it to broaden my perspectives."
So do i .. I enjoy reading and learning about others opinions. Sometimes though its best to opt out and not give fuel to it... listen only my opinion .. listen to all advise and take from it what will benefit you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Believe me mate I know this model lol and she's so full up her Arse it's scary I told her I am Irish and we don't take shit wasn't long putting her place back to reality lol .  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Sometimes, some of the men on here make me think they are like angry cats that know they are going to be neutered. They got to get in that last misogynistic comment to qualify their lack of success on an internet meet up site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It isn’t all men but some can actually get quite abusive too. It’s difficult to bite your tongue and not stand up for yourself but in the short time I’ve been here, I find ignoring them is the best solution! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes, some of the men on here make me think they are like angry cats that know they are going to be neutered. They got to get in that last misogynistic comment to qualify their lack of success on an internet meet up site."
You sound very unhappy in here. Might I suggest a period of absence perhaps? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Believe me mate I know this model lol and she's so full up her Arse it's scary I told her I am Irish and we don't take shit wasn't long putting her place back to reality lol . "
Well done on liking someone who's up their own arse. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Believe me mate I know this model lol and she's so full up her Arse it's scary I told her I am Irish and we don't take shit wasn't long putting her place back to reality lol . "
I have no idea who or what your talking about ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It isn’t all men but some can actually get quite abusive too. It’s difficult to bite your tongue and not stand up for yourself but in the short time I’ve been here, I find ignoring them is the best solution! "
 .. it's the only solution. Rise above it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sometimes, some of the men on here make me think they are like angry cats that know they are going to be neutered. They got to get in that last misogynistic comment to qualify their lack of success on an internet meet up site.
You sound very unhappy in here. Might I suggest a period of absence perhaps?"
Given my great location, I'm a delight. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well men should be respectful at all times just because there on the internet doesn't mean they have the right to chat shit either in fairness."
Unless you need to put her in her place with your Irishness. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well men should be respectful at all times just because there on the internet doesn't mean they have the right to chat shit either in fairness.
Unless you need to put her in her place with your Irishness."
Lol depends on the mood .. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It isn’t all men but some can actually get quite abusive too. It’s difficult to bite your tongue and not stand up for yourself but in the short time I’ve been here, I find ignoring them is the best solution! "
I too, have done the ignoring. I'm bored with that now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes, some of the men on here make me think they are like angry cats that know they are going to be neutered. They got to get in that last misogynistic comment to qualify their lack of success on an internet meet up site.
You sound very unhappy in here. Might I suggest a period of absence perhaps?
Given my great location, I'm a delight. "
I don't know what that means |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well men should be respectful at all times just because there on the internet doesn't mean they have the right to chat shit either in fairness.
Unless you need to put her in her place with your Irishness.
Lol depends on the mood .."
Lucky her to have such a delightful fella in her presence. |
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"Well men should be respectful at all times just because there on the internet doesn't mean they have the right to chat shit either in fairness.
Unless you need to put her in her place with your Irishness.
Lol depends on the mood .."
if I lived in fanny central I would never be on fab |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well men should be respectful at all times just because there on the internet doesn't mean they have the right to chat shit either in fairness.
Unless you need to put her in her place with your Irishness.
Lol depends on the mood ..if I lived in fanny central I would never be on fab"
Would you go around putting women in their place too? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well men should be respectful at all times just because there on the internet doesn't mean they have the right to chat shit either in fairness.
Unless you need to put her in her place with your Irishness.
Lol depends on the mood ..if I lived in fanny central I would never be on fab"
Yah but it's need to get invite to clubs and meets etc fella. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well men should be respectful at all times just because there on the internet doesn't mean they have the right to chat shit either in fairness."
Could you use the reply & quote please, I cant understand what you are saying, it seems like your speaking out of both sides of your mouth to be honest. |
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"Well men should be respectful at all times just because there on the internet doesn't mean they have the right to chat shit either in fairness.
Unless you need to put her in her place with your Irishness.
Lol depends on the mood ..if I lived in fanny central I would never be on fab
Yah but it's need to get invite to clubs and meets etc fella. "
Liverpool is unreal. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well men should be respectful at all times just because there on the internet doesn't mean they have the right to chat shit either in fairness.
Could you use the reply & quote please, I cant understand what you are saying, it seems like your speaking out of both sides of your mouth to be honest."
Sorry mate . I will do anymore . |
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"Well men should be respectful at all times just because there on the internet doesn't mean they have the right to chat shit either in fairness.
Unless you need to put her in her place with your Irishness.
Lol depends on the mood ..if I lived in fanny central I would never be on fab
Would you go around putting women in their place too?"
sorry?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well men should be respectful at all times just because there on the internet doesn't mean they have the right to chat shit either in fairness.
Unless you need to put her in her place with your Irishness.
Lol depends on the mood ..if I lived in fanny central I would never be on fab
Yah but it's need to get invite to clubs and meets etc fella. Liverpool is unreal. "
It sure is . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"*break 
have a kitkat
Would that be 2 fingers or one...sorry couldn't resist....lol.... 
two please "
Im sure you wouldn't turn down the four fingers hunter |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Believe me mate I know this model lol and she's so full up her Arse it's scary I told her I am Irish and we don't take shit wasn't long putting her place back to reality lol . "
Some men.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"*break
have a kitkat
Would that be 2 fingers or one...sorry couldn't resist....lol....
two please
Im sure you wouldn't turn down the four fingers hunter
I only went for what's on offer.  "
Well I have the chunky brand, as much as ya want |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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""Believe me mate I know this model lol and she's so full up her Arse it's scary I told her I am Irish and we don't take shit wasn't long putting her place back to reality lol . "
Some men.
Haha u get the wipe out lol .
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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""Believe me mate I know this model lol and she's so full up her Arse it's scary I told her I am Irish and we don't take shit wasn't long putting her place back to reality lol . "
Some men.
This makes you sound like a man who hasn't ever respected a woman in his life.
Haha u get the wipe out lol .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"once we get past some overt flirting from bigfantastyguy"
Oops, I have found in my limited experience here, chocolate tends to bring peeps together here, not so much the sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey yosser, we’re over here now!  to reply to your response. yes location does bother alot even though you drive
Eh??....
I’m only here for the popcorn "
The popcorn brigade are here. Is that still a thing? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"once we get past some overt flirting from bigfantastyguy
Oops, I have found in my limited experience here, chocolate tends to bring peeps together here, not so much the sex "
If there's chocolate you'd better be sharing!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"once we get past some overt flirting from bigfantastyguy
Oops, I have found in my limited experience here, chocolate tends to bring peeps together here, not so much the sex
If there's chocolate you'd better be sharing! "
Whats up doc, you can have a carrot |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"What is it with men in their 30s who find it hard to believe that not every woman is interested in them?
it's probably true in that age category haha god love them when they turn fifty "
You never know if they calm down by then and mature they might get an old biscuit like me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"once we get past some overt flirting from bigfantastyguy
Oops, I have found in my limited experience here, chocolate tends to bring peeps together here, not so much the sex
If there's chocolate you'd better be sharing!
Whats up doc, you can have a carrot "
I'll show ye where to put your carrot |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I use strong words. You'll live. I won't put you back to reality or whatever words you used to describe having sex with a model and puffing out your Irish feathers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"once we get past some overt flirting from bigfantastyguy
Oops, I have found in my limited experience here, chocolate tends to bring peeps together here, not so much the sex
If there's chocolate you'd better be sharing!
Whats up doc, you can have a carrot
I'll show ye where to put your carrot "
Yes please |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I didn't say I had sex tho 
Sorry if it was analyzed like that J meant she was a cunt and told her were to go .
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It sounded like you fucked her into submission. That's the way it comes across. You put her back into reality. You showed her. You Irish men don't take shit from anyone. That's the way you wrote it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"once we get past some overt flirting from bigfantastyguy
Oops, I have found in my limited experience here, chocolate tends to bring peeps together here, not so much the sex
If there's chocolate you'd better be sharing!
Whats up doc, you can have a carrot
I'll show ye where to put your carrot
Yes please "
Haha  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Believe me mate I know this model lol and she's so full up her Arse it's scary I told her I am Irish and we don't take shit wasn't long putting her place back to reality lol .
So you put her in her place by coming on to her and she turned you down and now she's a cunt. Well done. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is it with men in their 30s who find it hard to believe that not every woman is interested in them?"
I don't think it is an age specific thing. Having had a couple profile with C a while it has been a real eye opener but we have had all kinds of scenarios from all age groups.
A lot of messages we get with guys demanding to meet up with C at the drop of a hat or talking to her like she is some kind of free prostitute that will fuck anyone or anything upon demand. Then many of them are so shocked and surprised when we tell them were to go. Sickens me the way so many of the guys conduct themselves on here but sure, quality over quantity and all that. (M) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sweet popcorn nicer
I never want to meet you. I find the way you talk abhorrent.
I wish there was a clap emoji "
Are you suggesting someone has the clap?
This thread reminds me why I don't drink and forum |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sweet popcorn nicer
I never want to meet you. I find the way you talk abhorrent.
I wish there was a clap emoji
Are you suggesting someone has the clap?
This thread reminds me why I don't drink and forum "
The clap ...never would i suggest such a thing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bit like women always thinking there in the right about everything  "
Unlike yourself that's never wrong and always terribly quiet unless there's a bit of an audience for you ... many meets lined up yet ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bit like women always thinking there in the right about everything
Unlike yourself that's never wrong and always terribly quiet unless there's a bit of an audience for you ... many meets lined up yet ?? "
For someone that don't like arguments you seem to find yourself in the middle of quite a few. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sweet popcorn nicer
I never want to meet you. I find the way you talk abhorrent.
I wish there was a clap emoji "
Awww you for yourself a little hero have you?
Afraid to say those things yourself are you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sweet popcorn nicer
I never want to meet you. I find the way you talk abhorrent.
I wish there was a clap emoji
Awww you for yourself a little hero have you?
Afraid to say those things yourself are you?"
Meaningless tumble |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not just men in their 30s.
There's always a few who can't take no for an answer. Like everything else.
You just happen to have had couple in their 30s who couldn't take no for an answer.
The experience I've made on here, the older the man the harder it is for them to accept sorry I am not interested. Doesn't mean all men are like that.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bit like women always thinking there in the right about everything
Unlike yourself that's never wrong and always terribly quiet unless there's a bit of an audience for you ... many meets lined up yet ?? For someone that don't like arguments you seem to find yourself in the middle of quite a few. "
shes always trying argue with me think she likes me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bit like women always thinking there in the right about everything
Unlike yourself that's never wrong and always terribly quiet unless there's a bit of an audience for you ... many meets lined up yet ?? For someone that don't like arguments you seem to find yourself in the middle of quite a few. "
Me ?? Mearly voicing an opinion ... it's allowed ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bit like women always thinking there in the right about everything
Unlike yourself that's never wrong and always terribly quiet unless there's a bit of an audience for you ... many meets lined up yet ?? For someone that don't like arguments you seem to find yourself in the middle of quite a few.
Me ?? Mearly voicing an opinion ... it's allowed ??"
Sure its allowed. Just like the rest of us are allowed to do the same. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Isn't this exactly what's wrong with current society, that some men believe it's totally fine to treat women with utter disrespect and if the woman doesn't like it, it is their fault because they have been treating women that way all their lives! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bit like women always thinking there in the right about everything
Unlike yourself that's never wrong and always terribly quiet unless there's a bit of an audience for you ... many meets lined up yet ?? For someone that don't like arguments you seem to find yourself in the middle of quite a few.
Me ?? Mearly voicing an opinion ... it's allowed ?? Sure its allowed. Just like the rest of us are allowed to do the same."
Did someone say you couldn't? ? That's not very nice |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bit like women always thinking there in the right about everything
Unlike yourself that's never wrong and always terribly quiet unless there's a bit of an audience for you ... many meets lined up yet ?? For someone that don't like arguments you seem to find yourself in the middle of quite a few.
Me ?? Mearly voicing an opinion ... it's allowed ?? Sure its allowed. Just like the rest of us are allowed to do the same.
Did someone say you couldn't? ? That's not very nice "
If someone says I can't do or say something it makes me more determined to do it.But then again it don't bother me what others do as long as it don't interfere with me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is it with men in their 30s who find it hard to believe that not every woman is interested in them?"
Works for both sexes. A lot of women have the same thought process re men |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Think it’s more how they communicate rather than a sense of entitlement. It’s a swingers site firstly and an open minded sex site secondly. If your not a couple you are here for to satisfy some need which most list on their profile. If your profile is vague or general you will get everyone not just males thinking there could be a chance. I’ve never came across one who thought they were entitled just because they mailed me. |
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"Isn't this exactly what's wrong with current society, that some men believe it's totally fine to treat women with utter disrespect and if the woman doesn't like it, it is their fault because they have been treating women that way all their lives!"
Maybe replace the words 'men' and 'women' with 'people'. I honestly don't know too many people who treat others with utter disrespect, but those that do are from both sexes and they dont differentiate between sexes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont think age has anything to do with it, or gender for that matter.
I think it is the way people have been raised. Some people are raised to be self entitled. |
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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago
C'est moi Boudoir |
"I dont think age has anything to do with it, or gender for that matter.
I think it is the way people have been raised. Some people are raised to be self entitled. "
Or personality perhaps |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bit like women always thinking there in the right about everything
Unlike yourself that's never wrong and always terribly quiet unless there's a bit of an audience for you ... many meets lined up yet ?? For someone that don't like arguments you seem to find yourself in the middle of quite a few.
Me ?? Mearly voicing an opinion ... it's allowed ?? Sure its allowed. Just like the rest of us are allowed to do the same.
Did someone say you couldn't? ? That's not very nice If someone says I can't do or say something it makes me more determined to do it.But then again it don't bother me what others do as long as it don't interfere with me."
You know what your spot on couldn't agree with you more |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bit like women always thinking there in the right about everything
Unlike yourself that's never wrong and always terribly quiet unless there's a bit of an audience for you ... many meets lined up yet ?? For someone that don't like arguments you seem to find yourself in the middle of quite a few.
Me ?? Mearly voicing an opinion ... it's allowed ?? Sure its allowed. Just like the rest of us are allowed to do the same.
Did someone say you couldn't? ? That's not very nice If someone says I can't do or say something it makes me more determined to do it.But then again it don't bother me what others do as long as it don't interfere with me.
You know what your spot on couldn't agree with you more "
Phew thank God for that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What is it with men in their 30s who find it hard to believe that not every woman is interested in them?"
They come in all ages and forms and brave on a keyboard
Only way to handle them is block and move on |
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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago
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"I'm in my fifties and I find it hard to believe that any of the ladies can resist me either so there's no need for that ageism "
I know, its bloody shocking. Misandry and ageism in the one statement. The brass neck of some people!! |
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"I'm in my fifties and I find it hard to believe that any of the ladies can resist me either so there's no need for that ageism
I know, its bloody shocking. Misandry and ageism in the one statement. The brass neck of some people!!"
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