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Married or attached, or not ?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have to be honest here for me, i particularly don't get all turned on with married or attached. Some find it very exciting. For me unless couples are swinging together or playing separate with permission then i don't really go for it. Are you turned on or turned off??? |
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It depends if deception is part of the equation. I don't want to facilitate cheating or pain and drama, but lots of couples lead separate sexual lives (so I discover) and are content with that set up. In some marriages one partner has discovered they are gay, in others one partner has become the long term carer for the other who, due to illness or disability, is not able to have sex. All sorts of reasons other than cheating. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have to be honest here for me, i particularly don't get all turned on with married or attached. Some find it very exciting. For me unless couples are swinging together or playing separate with permission then i don't really go for it. Are you turned on or turned off???"
thats your perogitive and fair play to you .. but this is a sex/swinging site not a dating one ..so who are we to judge if a person is married or not ..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't mind. I met a good few married/attached men but the fact that they're attached isn't an additional turn on to me."
And I could stay that about attached / married women. All about the chemistry |
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Prefer if the hubby knows and is ok with her playing away.
I have meet a few women who were doing it behind his back.
But I ain't going judge and as long as we ain't caught, I am happy to do so again.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally id not get involved with a married woman, unless her husband was aware of the situation, this would be more down to practical reasons, like trying to arrange meets than any moral reason. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not an additional turn on / off for me at all.
Generally I don’t ask. If I’m meeting someone it’s because there is a spark or some sexual chemistry between us and as far as I’m concerned, that’s what we’re there to explore.
As long as I’m kept out of the potential drama I’m fine with it.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Turn on or turn off...for me it’s all about the chemistry as others have said above.
Each to their own and all that, it shouldn’t be anyone else’s business.
Quite a few women are very insistent on their profiles about no attached men contacting them which is fair enough. But that’s all anyone needs to say, no need for a ‘morality’ lesson either! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have to be honest here for me, i particularly don't get all turned on with married or attached. Some find it very exciting. For me unless couples are swinging together or playing separate with permission then i don't really go for it. Are you turned on or turned off??? thats your perogitive and fair play to you .. but this is a sex/swinging site not a dating one ..so who are we to judge if a person is married or not .. "
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To many judging others .... most are here for fun and not looking a relationship . A married person will garuntee you discretion , hygiene and normally less inhibitions ( in my humble experience )
“Walk a mile in my shoes before you judge me”. Ghandi |
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By *pforit74Man
over a year ago
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"Not an additional turn on / off for me at all.
Generally I don’t ask. If I’m meeting someone it’s because there is a spark or some sexual chemistry between us and as far as I’m concerned, that’s what we’re there to explore.
As long as I’m kept out of the potential drama I’m fine with it.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have to be honest here for me, i particularly don't get all turned on with married or attached. Some find it very exciting. For me unless couples are swinging together or playing separate with permission then i don't really go for it. Are you turned on or turned off??? thats your perogitive and fair play to you .. but this is a sex/swinging site not a dating one ..so who are we to judge if a person is married or not .. "
Very well put - I don't meet attached men that's my own personal choice.... but each to their own - and I certainly don't judge anyone!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personally id not get involved with a married woman, unless her husband was aware of the situation, this would be more down to practical reasons, like trying to arrange meets than any moral reason."
I totally agree with this |
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By *aura66Woman
over a year ago
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Doesn't bother me. Everyone has their reasons to be here.
I'd just prefer to know from the get go. It can make sense of some other wise confusing behaviour , especially if you're repeat meeting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Married here.... Both of us swing separately and together. So we tend to get the eclectic view of people from profiles. It's amazing how different the same people men women and couples can treat u on different messages on profiles. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get turned on more if the woman is married i find it more risky and kinky and they treat you like a piece of meat when they are married which i like aswell  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get turned on more if the woman is married i find it more risky and kinky and they treat you like a piece of meat when they are married which i like aswell "
Sorry the piece of meat is a generalisation and ur opinion. My better half would always treat people with respect and even when we have invited others in for 3 or 4 likewise we would always ensure that everyone involved got and gave equal and had no regrets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im only saying that some women who are married and their husbands dont know they are on here can tend to use single males which i like thats all the meat word might have been too strong for some  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have to be honest here for me, i particularly don't get all turned on with married or attached. Some find it very exciting. For me unless couples are swinging together or playing separate with permission then i don't really go for it. Are you turned on or turned off??? thats your perogitive and fair play to you .. but this is a sex/swinging site not a dating one ..so who are we to judge if a person is married or not .. "
I am not judging at at all just said for me it is'nt a huge turn on for me . I was asking is it for people or not that's all. Some find the sneaking around etc very exciting . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"None of my business if I'm honest ... this is neither a dating site nor a let's sit in judgment site. Each to their own irony in this comment lol "
Stop stirring. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't mind. I met a good few married/attached men but the fact that they're attached isn't an additional turn on to me."
I feel the same as this x. I love nothing more that a married or attached couple playing together or separate . This is huge turn on for me x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't mind. I met a good few married/attached men but the fact that they're attached isn't an additional turn on to me.
I feel the same as this x. I love nothing more that a married or attached couple playing together or separate . This is huge turn on for me x"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I do however play with married/attached also and i agree with no wanting drama etc. I don't want or need to know about the partner or the sex life they have or don't have lol . |
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I am honest and upfront about being attached and most for care. Guys seems to get a harder guy on here. I had a messages from a couple who wanted to meet but up on reading their profile it said in capital letters we do not meet married guys at all. So don't ask or you'll be blocked. I replied that I was married and they clearly don't meet married. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t want to meet married men. I don’t want to be complicit in another person’s dishonesty anymore. I’ve met married men before and now I ask straight out to save us all time. It’s just a preference and I am all for people having their own preferences |
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"Not an additional turn on / off for me at all.
Generally I don’t ask. If I’m meeting someone it’s because there is a spark or some sexual chemistry between us and as far as I’m concerned, that’s what we’re there to explore.
As long as I’m kept out of the potential drama I’m fine with it.
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This ^^^ |
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"I don’t want to meet married men. I don’t want to be complicit in another person’s dishonesty anymore. I’ve met married men before and now I ask straight out to save us all time. It’s just a preference and I am all for people having their own preferences "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I don’t want to meet married men. I don’t want to be complicit in another person’s dishonesty anymore. I’ve met married men before and now I ask straight out to save us all time. It’s just a preference and I am all for people having their own preferences "
I really do tend to avoid if at all possible but some are dishonest about being attached/married ,i have been caught out that way . |
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"I don’t want to meet married men. I don’t want to be complicit in another person’s dishonesty anymore. I’ve met married men before and now I ask straight out to save us all time. It’s just a preference and I am all for people having their own preferences
I really do tend to avoid if at all possible but some are dishonest about being attached/married ,i have been caught out that way . "
Some of us are honest and state it clearly on profile.
Much like we can custom the pubic hair, according to ladies preference, given enough advance warning |
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