"At what stage does a fwb relationship need to stop ?? If it's been long standing should it end in case of "feelings" coming into it  "
If you do find that feeling have crept in then discuss it with the other person and who knows you might find the feelings are mutual... If not then it's probably best to move on x |
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"At what stage does a fwb relationship need to stop ?? If it's been long standing should it end in case of "feelings" coming into it "
........When you don't want anyone else,but they're still fabbing away oblivious...they're not going to change...and YOU will get hurt!  |
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"At what stage does a fwb relationship need to stop ?? If it's been long standing should it end in case of "feelings" coming into it "
Six months max after this the female will start to look for something more serious, and if she doesn't get it she will move on, but remember guys within this she is still trying to convert you into being her full time boyfriend, only see her sparingly, and whatever you do dont cuddle after sex..  |
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"At what stage does a fwb relationship need to stop ?? If it's been long standing should it end in case of "feelings" coming into it
Six months max after this the female will start to look for something more serious, and if she doesn't get it she will move on, but remember guys within this she is still trying to convert you into being her full time boyfriend, only see her sparingly, and whatever you do dont cuddle after sex.. "
Always dangerous to stereotype. .. sometimes it's the gut that needs the cuddles |
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"At what stage does a fwb relationship need to stop ?? If it's been long standing should it end in case of "feelings" coming into it
Six months max after this the female will start to look for something more serious, and if she doesn't get it she will move on, but remember guys within this she is still trying to convert you into being her full time boyfriend, only see her sparingly, and whatever you do dont cuddle after sex..
Always dangerous to stereotype. .. sometimes it's the gut that needs the cuddles "
Ffs ... guy I meant guy .. lol |
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"At what stage does a fwb relationship need to stop ?? If it's been long standing should it end in case of "feelings" coming into it
Six months max after this the female will start to look for something more serious, and if she doesn't get it she will move on, but remember guys within this she is still trying to convert you into being her full time boyfriend, only see her sparingly, and whatever you do dont cuddle after sex.. "
Eh....works both ways..there are needy guys as well as girls. |
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"At what stage does a fwb relationship need to stop ?? If it's been long standing should it end in case of "feelings" coming into it
Six months max after this the female will start to look for something more serious, and if she doesn't get it she will move on, but remember guys within this she is still trying to convert you into being her full time boyfriend, only see her sparingly, and whatever you do dont cuddle after sex..
Always dangerous to stereotype. .. sometimes it's the gut that needs the cuddles
Ffs ... guy I meant guy .. lol"
. We all need a cuddle now and again! |
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"At what stage does a fwb relationship need to stop ?? If it's been long standing should it end in case of "feelings" coming into it
Six months max after this the female will start to look for something more serious, and if she doesn't get it she will move on, but remember guys within this she is still trying to convert you into being her full time boyfriend, only see her sparingly, and whatever you do dont cuddle after sex..
Eh....works both ways..there are needy guys as well as girls. "
I wouldn't know about that ahemm..I'm just giving a perspective from the males point of view.  |
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"At what stage does a fwb relationship need to stop ?? If it's been long standing should it end in case of "feelings" coming into it
Six months max after this the female will start to look for something more serious, and if she doesn't get it she will move on, but remember guys within this she is still trying to convert you into being her full time boyfriend, only see her sparingly, and whatever you do dont cuddle after sex..
Always dangerous to stereotype. .. sometimes it's the gut that needs the cuddles
Ffs ... guy I meant guy .. lol . We all need a cuddle now and again!"
We do I'm not heartless ...I have two dogs |
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You can set out looking for a FWB but end up with a lot more. Lifes too short to put a time on when something should end. Go with the flow. When it stops being fun then end it. Communication is the key to any relationship. Long or short term. |
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"At what stage does a fwb relationship need to stop ?? If it's been long standing should it end in case of "feelings" coming into it
Six months max after this the female will start to look for something more serious, and if she doesn't get it she will move on, but remember guys within this she is still trying to convert you into being her full time boyfriend, only see her sparingly, and whatever you do dont cuddle after sex..
I'm a cuddler  "
You can afford to be ya bounce them after the first meet |
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"At what stage does a fwb relationship need to stop ?? If it's been long standing should it end in case of "feelings" coming into it
Six months max after this the female will start to look for something more serious, and if she doesn't get it she will move on, but remember guys within this she is still trying to convert you into being her full time boyfriend, only see her sparingly, and whatever you do dont cuddle after sex..
I'm a cuddler
You can afford to be ya bounce them after the first meet "
Because I'm the needy one!! Haha  |
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"At what stage does a fwb relationship need to stop ?? If it's been long standing should it end in case of "feelings" coming into it
Six months max after this the female will start to look for something more serious, and if she doesn't get it she will move on, but remember guys within this she is still trying to convert you into being her full time boyfriend, only see her sparingly, and whatever you do dont cuddle after sex..
I'm a cuddler
You can afford to be ya bounce them after the first meet
Because I'm the needy one!! Haha "
ffs, show up with a book of terms and conditions for this one |
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A fwb relationship should stop if the balance changes and one wants a different relationship than the other.
Sometimes fwb relationship develops into something much more. I delighted that 2 fab friends of mine, I introduced, became fwbs and now they are an item which is brill
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"At what stage does a fwb relationship need to stop ?? If it's been long standing should it end in case of "feelings" coming into it
Six months max after this the female will start to look for something more serious, and if she doesn't get it she will move on, but remember guys within this she is still trying to convert you into being her full time boyfriend, only see her sparingly, and whatever you do dont cuddle after sex..
Eh....works both ways..there are needy guys as well as girls.
I wouldn't know about that ahemm..I'm just giving a perspective from the males point of view. "
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"At what stage does a fwb relationship need to stop ?? If it's been long standing should it end in case of "feelings" coming into it
Six months max after this the female will start to look for something more serious, and if she doesn't get it she will move on, but remember guys within this she is still trying to convert you into being her full time boyfriend, only see her sparingly, and whatever you do dont cuddle after sex..
Always dangerous to stereotype. .. sometimes it's the gut that needs the cuddles
Ffs ... guy I meant guy .. lol . We all need a cuddle now and again!"
Cuddling can lead to more |
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"At what stage does a fwb relationship need to stop ?? If it's been long standing should it end in case of "feelings" coming into it "
If it's still working why should it stop. Once you are both on the same page then all is good communication is key .
But once it feels like they are trying to move in the show them the door
Mr dirty xx |
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"At what stage does a fwb relationship need to stop ?? If it's been long standing should it end in case of "feelings" coming into it
If it's still working why should it stop. Once you are both on the same page then all is good communication is key .
But once it feels like they are trying to move in the show them the door
Mr dirty xx "
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Eh, I can't _not_ have feelings for people I bonk regularly because if I didn't have feelings for them then I wouldn't wanna bonk 'em. But they're not necessarily _romantic_ feelings, in the sense of wanting to ride off into the sunset together. I've loved some without being in love with them. But then I've known for years that I'm poly.
For me it has to be friendship first, and I've had many fine friendships where sex was also involved. Which means that open communication is, by nature, a strong feature of the relationship so it's somewhat easier to discuss where each party sees it going or what they want. When should they end? When it's not being what all parties (including other relationships that each party may be involved in, non-monogamy can be fun for dealing with tons of hearts and heads at the same time) need or can handle, but even then it's not necessarily the end because talking is a good and wonderful thing that humans do. It's an individual thing, of course, but that's how things have been for me and I quite like it. |
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"At what stage does a fwb relationship need to stop ?? If it's been long standing should it end in case of "feelings" coming into it
Six months max after this the female will start to look for something more serious, and if she doesn't get it she will move on, but remember guys within this she is still trying to convert you into being her full time boyfriend, only see her sparingly, and whatever you do dont cuddle after sex.. "
Cuddling is good after sex if that's what they want , it's not always just a fuck and go
And also cuddling can lead to round 2 or 3  |
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"At what stage does a fwb relationship need to stop ?? If it's been long standing should it end in case of "feelings" coming into it
Six months max after this the female will start to look for something more serious, and if she doesn't get it she will move on, but remember guys within this she is still trying to convert you into being her full time boyfriend, only see her sparingly, and whatever you do dont cuddle after sex..
Cuddling is good after sex if that's what they want , it's not always just a fuck and go
And also cuddling can lead to round 2 or 3 "
If I cuddle it means I want more |
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"At what stage does a fwb relationship need to stop ?? If it's been long standing should it end in case of "feelings" coming into it
Six months max after this the female will start to look for something more serious, and if she doesn't get it she will move on, but remember guys within this she is still trying to convert you into being her full time boyfriend, only see her sparingly, and whatever you do dont cuddle after sex..
Cuddling is good after sex if that's what they want , it's not always just a fuck and go
And also cuddling can lead to round 2 or 3
If I cuddle it means I want more "
Duly noted 
So it's cuddles or the door lol
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"At what stage does a fwb relationship need to stop ?? If it's been long standing should it end in case of "feelings" coming into it
Six months max after this the female will start to look for something more serious, and if she doesn't get it she will move on, but remember guys within this she is still trying to convert you into being her full time boyfriend, only see her sparingly, and whatever you do dont cuddle after sex..
Cuddling is good after sex if that's what they want , it's not always just a fuck and go
And also cuddling can lead to round 2 or 3
If I cuddle it means I want more
Duly noted
So it's cuddles or the door lol
Mr dirty xx "
Lol .... about sums it up .. |
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"You can set out looking for a FWB but end up with a lot more. Lifes too short to put a time on when something should end. Go with the flow. When it stops being fun then end it. Communication is the key to any relationship. Long or short term. "
Totally agree  |
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Their should be no time limits on it.
It comes down to what both want
Either as fwb or more
If both eant the same then go for it.
If its a one way street then time for a rethink |
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"Their should be no time limits on it.
It comes down to what both want
Either as fwb or more
If both eant the same then go for it.
If its a one way street then time for a rethink"
Wisest bum on fab |
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"Their should be no time limits on it.
It comes down to what both want
Either as fwb or more
If both eant the same then go for it.
If its a one way street then time for a rethink
Wisest bum on fab "
Lucky you never said widest lol |
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"Their should be no time limits on it.
It comes down to what both want
Either as fwb or more
If both eant the same then go for it.
If its a one way street then time for a rethink
Wisest bum on fab
Lucky you never said widest
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Lol ... it's fabulous |
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"Their should be no time limits on it.
It comes down to what both want
Either as fwb or more
If both eant the same then go for it.
If its a one way street then time for a rethink"
this.
If you set the "terms" at the start and clearly state that if it changes for either of you, it's discussed openly. You both then know where you are and it's up to each party to decide how they would like to proceed. It may mean the end of the relationship but is likely that you will remain friends as a result of your open, adult attitudes. |
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