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What Percentage of Profiles Do you Think have Issues.?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Im talking social misfits with mental health issues.
1. 10% - 20%
2. 20% - 40%
3. There are a few seriously disturbed folk here.
4. More like 5-6 people with different profiles.
5. We're all crazy, why else would we be here.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im talking social misfits with mental health issues.
1. 10% - 20%
2. 20% - 40%
3. There are a few seriously disturbed folk here.
4. More like 5-6 people with different profiles.
5. We're all crazy, why else would we be here. "
There’s a fair amount of people in Ireland with mental health issues & no doubt a good percentage on Fab. I’m sure it’s meant in a light hearted way but I think it’s right to take the piss or make a joke of the issue. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Im talking social misfits with mental health issues.
1. 10% - 20%
2. 20% - 40%
3. There are a few seriously disturbed folk here.
4. More like 5-6 people with different profiles.
5. We're all crazy, why else would we be here.
There’s a fair amount of people in Ireland with mental health issues & no doubt a good percentage on Fab. I’m sure it’s meant in a light hearted way but I think it’s right to take the piss or make a joke of the issue."
So your saying its right to take the piss and make jokes of people with mental health? I disagree with that! Im sure folks here will be quite capable of being able to differentiate for themselves what I mean, in the context of fab. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mental health issues is not a joke or even something to make a laught about. There is a stigma in this country as it stands and your having a laugh about it, shame on you OP"
Here here. Well said... X shame in u OP |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im talking social misfits with mental health issues.
1. 10% - 20%
2. 20% - 40%
3. There are a few seriously disturbed folk here.
4. More like 5-6 people with different profiles.
5. We're all crazy, why else would we be here.
There’s a fair amount of people in Ireland with mental health issues & no doubt a good percentage on Fab. I’m sure it’s meant in a light hearted way but I think it’s right to take the piss or make a joke of the issue.
So your saying its right to take the piss and make jokes of people with mental health? I disagree with that! Im sure folks here will be quite capable of being able to differentiate for themselves what I mean, in the context of fab."
I do think he meant it's not right |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Mental health issues is not a joke or even something to make a laught about. There is a stigma in this country as it stands and your having a laugh about it, shame on you OP"
I'm by no means laughing at the subject matter, but im sure im not alone, in having to deal with individuals here, whom are quite evidently disturbed...so for clarification purposes my comment is not directed at people who have general mental health issues, but people who have not got the mental or emotional capacity to engage or relate to others on an adult forum, and who some might actually consider dangerous. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im talking social misfits with mental health issues.
1. 10% - 20%
2. 20% - 40%
3. There are a few seriously disturbed folk here.
4. More like 5-6 people with different profiles.
5. We're all crazy, why else would we be here.
There’s a fair amount of people in Ireland with mental health issues & no doubt a good percentage on Fab. I’m sure it’s meant in a light hearted way but I think it’s right to take the piss or make a joke of the issue.
So your saying its right to take the piss and make jokes of people with mental health? I disagree with that! Im sure folks here will be quite capable of being able to differentiate for themselves what I mean, in the context of fab."
Yeah sorry OP, typo error. I meant it’s not right to take the piss. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP is very generous not including a percentage more than 40%.
When I read just the status, I am seeing more than 70% of deranged one. Now, I don't know if they are fake or actual profile."
We are probably better off pretending they are fake  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP is very generous not including a percentage more than 40%.
When I read just the status, I am seeing more than 70% of deranged one. Now, I don't know if they are fake or actual profile.
We are probably better off pretending they are fake "
I just assume everyone apart from me is fake, it makes it easier.
No reply? Fake. No show? Fake |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP is very generous not including a percentage more than 40%.
When I read just the status, I am seeing more than 70% of deranged one. Now, I don't know if they are fake or actual profile."
Yeah I'd say it's closer to 100% and yes, I am including myself in that |
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By *ohnandGemCouple
over a year ago
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Despite the OP possibly missing the mark with regards to the tone of this thread, the subject is valid.
Shining a light on a problem is not necessarily taking the piss out of it.
All websites that contain a social element will have it's fair share of members with problems. Fab and swinging is no different.
I go as far as saying however, that most profiles that exhibit behavioural problems are the ones that are set up with the express intent of causing trouble....these profiles don't meet. I'd say there's a minimum of meet active profiles that are "dodgy"
I've been on the scene myself for four years now and you learn to spot troublemakers early, and avoid them. Trust your gut and you won't go too far wrong. |
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Just putting it out there that I have had mental health issues in the past. Thankfully everything is under control. Without the help of medication, thankfully I take things with a pinch of salt and not offended. But I know a lot of people who can even the slightest thing out of context! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Just putting it out there that I have had mental health issues in the past. Thankfully everything is under control. Without the help of medication, thankfully I take things with a pinch of salt and not offended. But I know a lot of people who can even the slightest thing out of context!"
Good for you pal,and hopefully people wont take it out of context  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Despite the OP possibly missing the mark with regards to the tone of this thread, the subject is valid.
Shining a light on a problem is not necessarily taking the piss out of it.
All websites that contain a social element will have it's fair share of members with problems. Fab and swinging is no different.
I go as far as saying however, that most profiles that exhibit behavioural problems are the ones that are set up with the express intent of causing trouble....these profiles don't meet. I'd say there's a minimum of meet active profiles that are "dodgy"
I've been on the scene myself for four years now and you learn to spot troublemakers early, and avoid them. Trust your gut and you won't go too far wrong. "
Guys I think you've given us very clever and sound advise. I'm a newbie and learning through trial and error. Always trust your gut. |
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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago
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As a former sufferer of PTSD I can definitely say that it’s no laughing matter.
Having said that I’m sure the OP didn’t create the thread out of ridicule for sufferers with health issues.
Banter, ‘craic’ and inclusion with society is a natural remedy and can help people to find their paths again...
I think this thread highlights the issue and that it’s not just restricted to a certain type of person.
Happiness will always prevail 
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