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Why is it impossible for a young lad to get a reply of a mature lady??
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"Oh that's rude ???? some people have different levels of maturity "
Not a bit rude in the slightest ,hence the maturity necessary to play with thee elusive older lady . Having a 24 year old there's not a hope I'd want to engage physically with someone young either so each to their own  |
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over a year ago
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"Maybe haha . These young guys don't have patience . They think the ladies are here for them and not the other way round . "
What are the ladies here for.
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"Maybe haha . These young guys don't have patience . They think the ladies are here for them and not the other way round . "
Some the older guys think that to |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's an uphill battle alright.
You just need to make yourself stand out, be sure to display maturity in your profile and messages.
For some women, this will be enough to convince them youre not the typical 'hows u  ' young guy.
For others, they have personal reasons (ie. a younger son or previous bad experience). In this case, you just have to accept it and move on 
You'll be grand, and believe me, the countless messages are worth it for when do you meet an open minded older woman |
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over a year ago
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"Oh that's rude ???? some people have different levels of maturity Why is it rude ?"
I think he meant that people being 'not interested' was rude 
Thick skin needed on Fab at times |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Oh that's rude ???? some people have different levels of maturity Why is it rude ?
I think he meant that people being 'not interested' was rude
Thick skin needed on Fab at times "
gentleman thanks bro |
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"Oh that's rude ???? some people have different levels of maturity Why is it rude ?
I think he meant that people being 'not interested' was rude
Thick skin needed on Fab at times gentleman thanks bro "
You're welcome, it's not east for younger guys on Fab.
We should set up some sort o f group for cougars to take their pick |
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"Oh that's rude ???? some people have different levels of maturity Why is it rude ?
I think he meant that people being 'not interested' was rude
Thick skin needed on Fab at times gentleman thanks bro "
You didn't really think being not interested was rude did you? |
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Lad I know we’re your coming from, you’d rather a response even if it is to be shot down, but not to be pushy is key and just be polite in your messages. Iv a few friends and I’m no expert let’s be fair but patience and politeness is key. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's loads of reasons kid,they may have children your age or simply not interested,manners go a long way!I have sent plenty of messages with face pics and never a rude word ever said,still no reply and some just deleted as unread!no pics don't help either!keep at it ?? |
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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago
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Op I suggest you figure out your surroundings before jumping in. Nobody is being rude or personal but you came to an open forum with a question and are being responded to honestly but seem defensive as they are not the responses you were expecting. Your profile says you were here before so you probably know the answer, it takes time and patience while showing maturity to be able to handle an older woman.
Get your pics sorted and fill out the profile a bit more, keep it light hearted and positive. Read the forums and maybe try attending a social meet and greet to get verified.
By time you have all that done... you should be ready grass hopper |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tbh think any seasoned fabster took his / her time to get started but nobody owes you anything it’s unfortunately a shallow world where in reality ladies do have choice and time location and reliability are constraints and factors as well as safety. If you are pleasant mannerly and are seen to be involved in the social aspect of the site women will notice you and conversation will start. What happens after that will determine how you get on Nothing as off putting as the “ feeling sorry because of no replies “ stick with it. It will happen |
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"Tbh think any seasoned fabster took his / her time to get started but nobody owes you anything it’s unfortunately a shallow world where in reality ladies do have choice and time location and reliability are constraints and factors as well as safety. If you are pleasant mannerly and are seen to be involved in the social aspect of the site women will notice you and conversation will start. What happens after that will determine how you get on Nothing as off putting as the “ feeling sorry because of no replies “ stick with it. It will happen "
It's worth it when you do get a good meet guys.
Unfortunately the cougar to cub ratio on Fab is lacking in equity  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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But Chocko you didn't say whether the lad should change his age by 10 years to make him more attractive to the lay dees.
After all you are great at giving advice Chocko.
Is changing age a bit sensitive old boy? |
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