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Do women put more effort in to a meet than men ??
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes we defo do
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Men just turn up usually..i start the prep days before on a naughty shopping spree for the occasion...its part of the foreplay .."
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"Yes we defo do
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Men just turn up usually..i start the prep days before on a naughty shopping spree for the occasion...its part of the foreplay .."
That's a generalisation...I am sure a man would say the same for women... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes we defo do
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Men just turn up usually..i start the prep days before on a naughty shopping spree for the occasion...its part of the foreplay .."
Glad I don't go to that kind of trouble nine times out of ten the guy will turn up having made zero effort . Your setting yourself up for major disappointment if you go all out in my opinion the men rarely appreciate the effort |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Haha why?????"
A lot of the time, im not saying all the time, us men  are thinking about the background, for example, the environment, restaurant maybe, accommodation, hotel, location, parking, and lets not forget protection! And some men I'm sure put a little thought into a small gift, such as handcuffs etc that's before we go shopping for underwear, really! Why do women presume its a wham bam, thank you mam. Good day |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well i always want to make the effort
..its part of the forplay for me...the build up is always the highlight unfortunatly...i have lots of beautiful underwear is the upside..always a upsidexx |
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Pinks went to meet a female of another couple, and dressed nicely (as always) hair done, makeup on etc.
Other woman turns up in a trackie, no makeup, hair like a wild woman, and bits of her dinner on her clothes. Pinks made a quick getaway.
I always shower, shave, nice aftershave, nice clothes,nice boxers etc, and my foreplay stands up against any preparation the lady has done |
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By *on1980Man
over a year ago
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"Well i always want to make the effort
..its part of the forplay for me...the build up is always the highlight unfortunatly...i have lots of beautiful underwear is the upside..always a upsidexx"
Name the time and place and I'll make the effort |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't
You won't get me into lingerie or a frock 
Low maintenance - take it or leave it 
I would be overjoyed if you only wore those socks "
excellent response |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok there must be something wrong with me...i bought 3 outfits and 2 pairs of designer shoes...2 bottles of wine ...2 taxis...this is not good ..but i dont want to change either |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok there must be something wrong with me...i bought 3 outfits and 2 pairs of designer shoes...2 bottles of wine ...2 taxis...this is not good ..but i dont want to change either"
Don't change! Be who you are! Always. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd need an hour!! Shower and a shave( unless the lady prefers my stubbly attempt at a beard) nice clothes nice deodorant and aftershave and I'm ready to rock!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok there must be something wrong with me...i bought 3 outfits and 2 pairs of designer shoes...2 bottles of wine ...2 taxis...this is not good ..but i dont want to change either"
Wtf?! Really? For a meet? 
I’ve better things to spend my money on, no disrespect to you.
I make an effort, but that’s a bit much in my opinion. |
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"Yes we defo do
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Men just turn up usually..i start the prep days before on a naughty shopping spree for the occasion...its part of the foreplay ..
Glad I don't go to that kind of trouble nine times out of ten the guy will turn up having made zero effort . Your setting yourself up for major disappointment if you go all out in my opinion the men rarely appreciate the effort "
where did you find out that stat??? How about the stat of women not having a turn up problem at all. Because a guy turn up on you doesn't mean all guy turn up on every woman. You might be the problem  |
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"Ok there must be something wrong with me...i bought 3 outfits and 2 pairs of designer shoes...2 bottles of wine ...2 taxis...this is not good ..but i dont want to change either
Wtf?! Really? For a meet?
I’ve better things to spend my money on, no disrespect to you.
I make an effort, but that’s a bit much in my opinion. "
That's at the border of obsession |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well i had to get there and get back...and there was no free bar in the hotel room!! I make the effort for me and take huge pride in my apperence madam so.im.always worth the dosh xx |
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"Well i had to get there and get back...and there was no free bar in the hotel room!! I make the effort for me and take huge pride in my apperence madam so.im.always worth the dosh xx"
She doesn't say you don't worth it. It is clear you are a bit excessive just for a meet. You are throwing money out of the window |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well i had to get there and get back...and there was no free bar in the hotel room!! I make the effort for me and take huge pride in my apperence madam so.im.always worth the dosh xx"
I take pride in my appearance too, but couldn’t justify that kind of cash for a sex meet.
Don’t mean any offense, BB x |
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By *un4tooCouple
over a year ago
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But but but i thought it was all about the connection and if you can make the other person laugh and make conversation and all that stuff??
Always knew that was bullshit but its spouted on here alot.
Appearance and effort are 99% of a meet.
Example..
I met a lady in the club on Saturday night in Cork. Within two minutes of talking we were in a private room.
Did i give a fuck about her personality? Nope! Did she give a shit about mine? Nope.
Its all about appearance unless you're looking for more than sex out of it.
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"I get turned on overindulging in myself anyway
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Op, you do what you like to do. If you love that build up and if it feels right for you, then do it! Nothing wrong with it. Everyone's different and I hope your meets appreciate your effort!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Exactly!! Sometimes i like to plan a date so i can exactly do that..its my money to spend lavishly on my prised possesionxx"
It might be cheaper to buy a chastity belt I bet your pussy likes diamonds, I can hear it purring |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But but but i thought it was all about the connection and if you can make the other person laugh and make conversation and all that stuff??
Always knew that was bullshit but its spouted on here alot.
Appearance and effort are 99% of a meet.
Example..
I met a lady in the club on Saturday night in Cork. Within two minutes of talking we were in a private room.
Did i give a fuck about her personality? Nope! Did she give a shit about mine? Nope.
Its all about appearance unless you're looking for more than sex out of it.
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Clubs with private rooms? I obviously don't go to the right places in Cork...
I agree, sometimes personality don't matter when only looking for sex (in my case most of the times) but appeareance does.
I do enjoy taking my time to get ready for meets, and I do it for me, because I like to be shaven, smooth and to wear nice undies... I don't do it to please the other part. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Haha why?????
us men are thinking about the background, for example, the environment, restaurant maybe, accommodation, hotel, location, parking, and lets not forget protection! And some men I'm sure put a little thought into a small gift, such as handcuffs etc that's before we go shopping for underwear, really! Why do women presume its a wham bam, thank you mam. Good day "
We are? 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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HB always goes all out before we go to meets, parties or clubs.
New dress, new naughty outfit, beautian appiontments, etc.
I also like to go all out too. Champagne for her while she is getting ready (me too if I'm not driving), suit picked up from the dry cleaners, shoes polished, my tightest whitest boxers on and freshly Manscaped
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"Haha why?????
us men are thinking about the background, for example, the environment, restaurant maybe, accommodation, hotel, location, parking, and lets not forget protection! And some men I'm sure put a little thought into a small gift, such as handcuffs etc that's before we go shopping for underwear, really! Why do women presume its a wham bam, thank you mam. Good day
We are?
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Do you not?  |
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By *un4tooCouple
over a year ago
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"But but but i thought it was all about the connection and if you can make the other person laugh and make conversation and all that stuff??
Always knew that was bullshit but its spouted on here alot.
Appearance and effort are 99% of a meet.
Example..
I met a lady in the club on Saturday night in Cork. Within two minutes of talking we were in a private room.
Did i give a fuck about her personality? Nope! Did she give a shit about mine? Nope.
Its all about appearance unless you're looking for more than sex out of it.
Clubs with private rooms? I obviously don't go to the right places in Cork...
I agree, sometimes personality don't matter when only looking for sex (in my case most of the times) but appeareance does.
I do enjoy taking my time to get ready for meets, and I do it for me, because I like to be shaven, smooth and to wear nice undies... I don't do it to please the other part."
Not the vanilla clubs.
The swingers club
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Haha why?????
us men are thinking about the background, for example, the environment, restaurant maybe, accommodation, hotel, location, parking, and lets not forget protection! And some men I'm sure put a little thought into a small gift, such as handcuffs etc that's before we go shopping for underwear, really! Why do women presume its a wham bam, thank you mam. Good day
We are?
Do you not? "
I'd spend my time thinking about what I'll do to her, not what restaurant is nearby or where I'll park the car. |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"Haha why?????
us men are thinking about the background, for example, the environment, restaurant maybe, accommodation, hotel, location, parking, and lets not forget protection! And some men I'm sure put a little thought into a small gift, such as handcuffs etc that's before we go shopping for underwear, really! Why do women presume its a wham bam, thank you mam. Good day
We are?
Do you not?
I'd spend my time thinking about what I'll do to her, not what restaurant is nearby or where I'll park the car. "
Nothing beats a filthy mind!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be sexy...you gotta feel sexy, which takes work - SIMPLES "
To be sexy, it shouldn’t feel like “work” or cost and arm and a leg to do so, no?
Where’s the “sexy is an attitude” brigade?
Some of the female posts on this thread have me eyerolling a little tbh.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be sexy...you gotta feel sexy, which takes work - SIMPLES
To be sexy, it shouldn’t feel like “work” or cost and arm and a leg to do so, no?
Where’s the “sexy is an attitude” brigade?
Some of the female posts on this thread have me eyerolling a little tbh.
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I agree boldy
I'm not comfortable dolled up to the nines - for a meet or otherwise - yet I've never had a complaint for turning up in my jeans
Sexy is an attitude - you've got it & and I've got it |
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"To be sexy...you gotta feel sexy, which takes work - SIMPLES
To be sexy, it shouldn’t feel like “work” or cost and arm and a leg to do so, no?
Where’s the “sexy is an attitude” brigade?
Some of the female posts on this thread have me eyerolling a little tbh.
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Agree to disagree...dont get me wrong, feeling sexy is an attitude!
Just personally to FEEL sexy in someone's company i want to put my best side forward - costs you nothing but time.
In my opinion
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Haha why?????
us men are thinking about the background, for example, the environment, restaurant maybe, accommodation, hotel, location, parking, and lets not forget protection! And some men I'm sure put a little thought into a small gift, such as handcuffs etc that's before we go shopping for underwear, really! Why do women presume its a wham bam, thank you mam. Good day
We are?
Do you not?
I'd spend my time thinking about what I'll do to her, not what restaurant is nearby or where I'll park the car.
Nothing beats a filthy mind! "
It's essential really |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be sexy...you gotta feel sexy, which takes work - SIMPLES
To be sexy, it shouldn’t feel like “work” or cost and arm and a leg to do so, no?
Where’s the “sexy is an attitude” brigade?
Some of the female posts on this thread have me eyerolling a little tbh.
Agree to disagree...dont get me wrong, feeling sexy is an attitude!
Just personally to FEEL sexy in someone's company i want to put my best side forward - costs you nothing but time.
In my opinion
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I always make an effort for a meet, social or otherwise, but I don’t spend ages(or money) doing so.
I wasn’t having a pop at you, btw. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ladies ladies ladies.....i only ever wear jeans...im just saying i like to make an effort and i make the bigger one of the 2 so i see!!.lets not have a online spat about sonething so trivial |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ladies ladies ladies.....i only ever wear jeans...im just saying i like to make an effort and i make the bigger one of the 2 so i see!!.lets not have a online spat about sonething so trivial"
The lady has developed an attitude...i like it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ladies ladies ladies.....i only ever wear jeans...im just saying i like to make an effort and i make the bigger one of the 2 so i see!!.lets not have a online spat about sonething so trivial"
lol. No one is having a spat |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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Awe here ye haven't a clue what a man goes trough shower shaving top and bottom trimming nose and ear hair,cutting nails including toe nails adding his best aftershave and as for trying to decide which boxers or commando. Then there's socks to decide on jeans or chino's Polish the shoes (always best to have at least a three day wax build up on them that way u can slip ur foot between her legs to see if she's wearing knickers  )which shirt best shows off ur physique one button open or two .
Ye think we just look this good all day every day |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"Awe here ye haven't a clue what a man goes trough shower shaving top and bottom trimming nose and ear hair,cutting nails including toe nails adding his best aftershave and as for trying to decide which boxers or commando. Then there's socks to decide on jeans or chino's Polish the shoes (always best to have at least a three day wax build up on them that way u can slip ur foot between her legs to see if she's wearing knickers )which shirt best shows off ur physique one button open or two .
Ye think we just look this good all day every day "
How much effort do you put in for a quickie?
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"Awe here ye haven't a clue what a man goes trough shower shaving top and bottom trimming nose and ear hair,cutting nails including toe nails adding his best aftershave and as for trying to decide which boxers or commando. Then there's socks to decide on jeans or chino's Polish the shoes (always best to have at least a three day wax build up on them that way u can slip ur foot between her legs to see if she's wearing knickers )which shirt best shows off ur physique one button open or two .
Ye think we just look this good all day every day "
Lol.......and there's me thinking snickers were all you wear |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"Awe here ye haven't a clue what a man goes trough shower shaving top and bottom trimming nose and ear hair,cutting nails including toe nails adding his best aftershave and as for trying to decide which boxers or commando. Then there's socks to decide on jeans or chino's Polish the shoes (always best to have at least a three day wax build up on them that way u can slip ur foot between her legs to see if she's wearing knickers )which shirt best shows off ur physique one button open or two .
Ye think we just look this good all day every day
How much effort do you put in for a quickie?
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4.5 seconds |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"Awe here ye haven't a clue what a man goes trough shower shaving top and bottom trimming nose and ear hair,cutting nails including toe nails adding his best aftershave and as for trying to decide which boxers or commando. Then there's socks to decide on jeans or chino's Polish the shoes (always best to have at least a three day wax build up on them that way u can slip ur foot between her legs to see if she's wearing knickers )which shirt best shows off ur physique one button open or two .
Ye think we just look this good all day every day
Lol.......and there's me thinking snickers were all you wear "
Must be someone else I am sure |
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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago
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It would be nice to think everyone preps to some degree... personal hygiene should be a given.
The level of effort, time and money you put into it is a personal choice aund if it heightens the anticipation for you then good for you. I think it builds up anticipation but it's not where your sexiness comes from...sexiness can not be packaged but can be wrapped up in pretty packaging to enhance it, there's a difference.
I personally don't spend a huge amount prior to meets but I do put in a fair amount of effort.
Spending huge amounts of money does not determine sex appeal. If it makes you feel good op and you have the money to do so then good for you but how much you spend does not determine your efforts either.
Madame Boo
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree it adds to the excitement / buildup .. women defo make more effort.. it makes them feel sexier & it makes us guys even hornier..
preparation is key..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes we defo do
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Men just turn up usually..i start the prep days before on a naughty shopping spree for the occasion...its part of the foreplay .."
You gals put more work to prepare and we put more work during the meet. All you gals do is shouting 'harder' , 'faster'. We deliberately spend little time preparing to conserve energy to give you that pounding if requested :P
If you organise a MMF meet, you have better chances guys do actually shower before as they know there is another man to help with that hard work, so are more willing to use energy for grooming etc. Hahahha
That is why girls, you should always look for Double Penetration Delight fun with two handsome devils... PM for details girls... |
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