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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What are peoples views about repeat meets.
Would you be concerned that feelings may develop? Or do you enjoy the opportunity to build up a trusting relationship, that provides you with the sex your seeking.?
Or is it a case of in and out, been there done that!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We're looking for repeat meets with single guys, for many reasons being fussy can make it hard to find what you're attracted to, a repeat meet is less likely to let you down, and to build up a sexual relationship where the sex will get better and better, we've only managed to find 1 that R genuinely wants to play with again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They both have their positives, with repeat meets you have found out how to push each others buttons but a one off can be fun as well, the feeling of fresh hands etc. on your body is hard to beat.
I like having repeat meets displayed on my verification summary as well, it shows that people are willing to come back for more lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What are peoples views about repeat meets.
Would you be concerned that feelings may develop? Or do you enjoy the opportunity to build up a trusting relationship, that provides you with the sex your seeking.?
Or is it a case of in and out, been there done that!
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The good ones I repeat, so long as they don't get attached....
I'm allergic to monogamy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One offs are great but repeat meets are so much better.
I love getting to explore more intimately and try different things each time. It's more satisfying! |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
by a lake with my rod out |
"What are peoples views about repeat meets.
Would you be concerned that feelings may develop? Or do you enjoy the opportunity to build up a trusting relationship, that provides you with the sex your seeking.?
Or is it a case of in and out, been there done that!
The good ones I repeat, so long as they don't get attached....
I'm allergic to monogamy "
Mahogany? Then you can't come see my many leather bound books in my mahogany book cases |
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As said above, repeat meets are great, as long as the rules are set and no one gets possesive. Met a girl a few times here, she rung me again for a 'shag' so went round and she had a tantrum that i never take her out???
Great fuck but that was the end of that. |
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Repeats for sure when its agreeable to both. Far better. The anticipation is different (better in my view) because you know what's coming. Plus no uncertainty and you have a good idea what turns your partner on. Both parties tend to let go a bit more also I think. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We're looking for repeat meets with single guys, for many reasons being fussy can make it hard to find what you're attracted to, a repeat meet is less likely to let you down, and to build up a sexual relationship where the sex will get better and better, we've only managed to find 1 that R genuinely wants to play with again. "
Agree  |
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By *un4tooCouple
over a year ago
north cork |
"What are peoples views about repeat meets.
Would you be concerned that feelings may develop? Or do you enjoy the opportunity to build up a trusting relationship, that provides you with the sex your seeking.?
Or is it a case of in and out, been there done that!
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Good topic.
There is a handful of people we would meet again, good conversationalists and easy to get on with.
A woman once told me the 3 fs. Find them
Fuck them
Forget them.
Some we don't want to forget, others we stick to the 3 Fs, not in a pig ignorant way but it can be very hot to just fuck some random person in a club/party and know nothing about them.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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That's a very interesting stat from the 20 posts, the overwhelming majority are in favour of repeats, and don't seem too overly concerned about negative emotional attachment.Providing clear guidelines, and boundaries are expressed and adhered to. |
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I generally tell most people I would like to have repeat meet.
And they tend to agree as well. But when push comes to shove they tend to change their minds or it's their way of saying thanks but no thanks |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I generally tell most people I would like to have repeat meet.
And they tend to agree as well. But when push comes to shove they tend to change their minds or it's their way of saying thanks but no thanks"
Ssshhhh, everyone else is saying they have successful repeats  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If u like the persons company and sex was amazing why not all my repeat meets are friends of mine at this stage you can change the level of kink for each meet its going to be a long dark winter its good to have a hot list at the ready |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Both are good and for different reasons, repeat meets you get to know what turns each other on and each meet can get more interesting, on the other hand sometimes you just wanna have sex no small talk, no getting to know each other no involvement whatsoever and then go your seperate ways |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Repeats meets are always welcome if you have a great experience,why would you not? ...and the first meet nerves are gone!...."Good evening,let's get naked!"  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bita both..
Repeats are like Ronseal..does exactly Wat it says on tin..along with knowing how to push each others boundaries.
New meets always fun..like a new toy to play with n explore. |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
on the hill NordWest of |
"Too many questions in one go, could you repeat them? 
Would you prefer a shag with strangers or with friends you haven't met yet "
Lol,
Actually what works quite well is a new meet and then a repeat meet afterwards. Like that you get the nerve tingling bit of fresh meet and the satisfaction from the repeat meet.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you go to a nice restaurant and have a great meal would you ever leave and say "Never coming back here again." Doubt it. My feelings with sex are the same. |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
Hard to find people that just get each other so for that reason I like repeats, pushing boundaries climbing to the next level building trust.
First meets are always exciting and if u can build on that excitment without the attachment then why not |
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By *infulmeWoman
over a year ago
somewhere in Wexford |
Good point. I was wondering about displaying repeat verifications on my profile but yeah definitely shows they want to come back for me.
I enjoy the easiness of repeat meet ups but also it's fun to meet new people too. So win win |
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"Hard to find people that just get each other so for that reason I like repeats, pushing boundaries climbing to the next level building trust.
First meets are always exciting and if u can build on that excitment without the attachment then why not "
Exactly this. |
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