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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would say I have tried really hard and its not as easy as that lol"
You're here 6 weeks and have already had a meet with someone who is looking forward to more. I'd say you're doing better than most  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is is hard for a single guy to have some activity on here had one or two but just haven't had the steamy one yet."
I am sure the one and two you had before will be trilled to read this that  |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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It is when you get messages along these lines after pointing out distance and the fact that I'm not currently meeting has been ignored. And this is not the exact wording by the way..
You seem to forget you are on a site for fucking?! Stop being so rude and get a life idiot |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am not being disrespectful to the ones I have seen but looking that wild meet that you just cant stop thinking about."
Ur just after being disrespectful to ur previous meets |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I didn't mean for it to come across rude maybe sounds abit wrong. But I just want a staemy meet. And I am completely respectful and well mannered towards woman and respect the wishes. If they say they arnt meeting I don't message them. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I dont know what to say now I am coming across wrong and dont want people thinking I am saying something bad I just thought something and writ it and it obviously came across wrong and apologise for that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I totally understand where your coming from. I agree 100%. I put up a similar post last weekend and got totally abused from people when I was only voicing my opinion and my words like yours were mis understood. It's hard for single guys but we keep trying I suppose |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I really didn't mean anything bad by it but people are entitled to their opinions even if they haven't took the time to speak to me and get to know me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dont know what to say now I am coming across wrong and dont want people thinking I am saying something bad I just thought something and writ it and it obviously came across wrong and apologise for that."
Understood. Just have a little patience, it takes time on here as a single guy. Try to get yourself to a social. There are plenty in around the country. Let people get a feel for the real you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have no idea where the disrespect is here, the op is merely looking for a steamier session than he has had at this point, your veri suggests this meet was more a coffee meet..I dont know what the issue is tbh.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have no idea where the disrespect is here, the op is merely looking for a steamier session than he has had at this point, your veri suggests this meet was more a coffee meet..I dont know what the issue is tbh.."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have no idea where the disrespect is here, the op is merely looking for a steamier session than he has had at this point, your veri suggests this meet was more a coffee meet..I dont know what the issue is tbh.."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thank you and completely understand your comment and appreciate it. Didn't think I would have set people off lol. I have learned my lesson today."
I don't think it's you that needs to learn the lesson.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's all about supply and demand. Women here get so many messages it's hard for a guy to stand out. Going to socials is your best bet though as women are more keen on guys they have actually already met in the flesh. Have patience brother, it will happen for you. |
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By *un4tooCouple
over a year ago
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"I have no idea where the disrespect is here, the op is merely looking for a steamier session than he has had at this point, your veri suggests this meet was more a coffee meet..I dont know what the issue is tbh.."
Ah u know yourself, because hes a single guy its ok to just start calling him out of stuff.
He didnt offend any of his previous meets if his veri is anything to go by. Coffee is good but its not orgasmic good.
Keep at it OP
You sound like a decent guy. A coffee meet after 6 weeks is good going considering people have meet here over a year with nothing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have no idea where the disrespect is here, the op is merely looking for a steamier session than he has had at this point, your veri suggests this meet was more a coffee meet..I dont know what the issue is tbh..
Ah u know yourself, because hes a single guy its ok to just start calling him out of stuff.
He didnt offend any of his previous meets if his veri is anything to go by. Coffee is good but its not orgasmic good.
Keep at it OP
You sound like a decent guy. A coffee meet after 6 weeks is good going considering people have meet here over a year with nothing."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have no idea where the disrespect is here, the op is merely looking for a steamier session than he has had at this point, your veri suggests this meet was more a coffee meet..I dont know what the issue is tbh.."
This |
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Just stick at it, you need to sort the wheat from the chaff, most of the profiles you talk to on here are likely fake or have no intention of doing anything with anyone. There are genuine people here its just spoilt by a large amount of wasters. Keep it civil and keep yer pecker up (oo-err!)... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Swinging is no different than real life hooking up you will not have chemistry with everybody which is needed for mind blowing sex thats why coffee meets and socials are best if u hit it off great org a meet if no connection its better to chat be polite and park for both people thats my opinion after years swinging as a couple and now single |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks really appreciate the comment and hope I can get that steamy meet as I have alot to give lol"
haha, well maybe this has helped you to narrow down your search  |
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"I didn't mean for it to come across rude maybe sounds abit wrong. But I just want a staemy meet. And I am completely respectful and well mannered towards woman and respect the wishes. If they say they arnt meeting I don't message them."
Don't dig that hole any deeper! Keep putting in the effort and it'll pay off |
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"It is when you get messages along these lines after pointing out distance and the fact that I'm not currently meeting has been ignored. And this is not the exact wording by the way..
You seem to forget you are on a site for fucking?! Stop being so rude and get a life idiot"
This is actually a "swinging" site which in my opinion is different to fucking! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Describe what you want out of a Steamy meet? Maybe it's lost in translation your veri is from a coffee meet I'm sure if you wait it probably would be steamy next time |
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"Why is is hard for a single guy to have some activity on here had one or two but just haven't had the steamy one yet."
Dude you'll get the usual guff on here about being patient and putting in the effort blah blah blah the fact of the matter is single guys are pretty much looked upon as pariahs on here by a high percentage of people,particularly couples,there are obviously exceptions to the rule but don't stress and keep on trying,hope you have some luck and ignore the holier than thou gomeys |
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"It is when you get messages along these lines after pointing out distance and the fact that I'm not currently meeting has been ignored. And this is not the exact wording by the way..
You seem to forget you are on a site for fucking?! Stop being so rude and get a life idiot"
Damn someone needs a snickers Red Tom in da house |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dont know what to say now I am coming across wrong and dont want people thinking I am saying something bad I just thought something and writ it and it obviously came across wrong and apologise for that."
You're not saying anything wrong... there are many women who will read what one says the way they want to. Happens all the time... its a sex site...nsa, yet many dont like comparisons but love to show their own veris and conquests, they don't like to see pics of you having sex with another yet will post pics of themselves have bjs with different dicks. It's a bit of a taboo for some that you're considering meeting others. Don't even mention meeting two on the same day....yet they will meet 4 or 5 at a party....
Welcome to the ironies and twists of the fab thinkers. Don't argue...just accept but stand your ground and it'll all come out in the wash.
Happy fabbing OP....  |
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"It is when you get messages along these lines after pointing out distance and the fact that I'm not currently meeting has been ignored. And this is not the exact wording by the way..
You seem to forget you are on a site for fucking?! Stop being so rude and get a life idiot"
WTF... the guy asked a question he wasn't being rude you're the rude one calling him an idiot. I don't think he's the idiot. Chillax ffs.
OP just keep doing what you're doing . I'm sure you'll find what your looking for you seem like a decent guy... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It is when you get messages along these lines after pointing out distance and the fact that I'm not currently meeting has been ignored. And this is not the exact wording by the way..
You seem to forget you are on a site for fucking?! Stop being so rude and get a life idiot
WTF... the guy asked a question he wasn't being rude you're the rude one calling him an idiot. I don't think he's the idiot. Chillax ffs.
OP just keep doing what you're doing . I'm sure you'll find what your looking for you seem like a decent guy... "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It is when you get messages along these lines after pointing out distance and the fact that I'm not currently meeting has been ignored. And this is not the exact wording by the way..
You seem to forget you are on a site for fucking?! Stop being so rude and get a life idiot
WTF... the guy asked a question he wasn't being rude you're the rude one calling him an idiot. I don't think he's the idiot. Chillax ffs.
OP just keep doing what you're doing . I'm sure you'll find what your looking for you seem like a decent guy... "
I could be wrong but I took it as thats a message she got after saying she wasn't meeting..I don't think it was aimed towards the op |
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"It is when you get messages along these lines after pointing out distance and the fact that I'm not currently meeting has been ignored. And this is not the exact wording by the way..
You seem to forget you are on a site for fucking?! Stop being so rude and get a life idiot
WTF... the guy asked a question he wasn't being rude you're the rude one calling him an idiot. I don't think he's the idiot. Chillax ffs.
OP just keep doing what you're doing . I'm sure you'll find what your looking for you seem like a decent guy...
I could be wrong but I took it as thats a message she got after saying she wasn't meeting..I don't think it was aimed towards the op"
Ok. Sorry sorry ... it's a bit out of context |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It is when you get messages along these lines after pointing out distance and the fact that I'm not currently meeting has been ignored. And this is not the exact wording by the way..
You seem to forget you are on a site for fucking?! Stop being so rude and get a life idiot
WTF... the guy asked a question he wasn't being rude you're the rude one calling him an idiot. I don't think he's the idiot. Chillax ffs.
OP just keep doing what you're doing . I'm sure you'll find what your looking for you seem like a decent guy...
I could be wrong but I took it as thats a message she got after saying she wasn't meeting..I don't think it was aimed towards the op
Ok. Sorry sorry ... it's a bit out of context"
It could be me thats wrong though it's hard to tell |
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"It is when you get messages along these lines after pointing out distance and the fact that I'm not currently meeting has been ignored. And this is not the exact wording by the way..
You seem to forget you are on a site for fucking?! Stop being so rude and get a life idiot
WTF... the guy asked a question he wasn't being rude you're the rude one calling him an idiot. I don't think he's the idiot. Chillax ffs.
OP just keep doing what you're doing . I'm sure you'll find what your looking for you seem like a decent guy...
I could be wrong but I took it as thats a message she got after saying she wasn't meeting..I don't think it was aimed towards the op
Ok. Sorry sorry ... it's a bit out of context
It could be me thats wrong though it's hard to tell"
Ok I take it back. I'm not sorry. Jeeze!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dont know what to say now I am coming across wrong and dont want people thinking I am saying something bad I just thought something and writ it and it obviously came across wrong and apologise for that."
Op ur post may have come across wrong in the beginning.wording is everything.ur only here six weeks and u have had meets maybe not the ones u want but u have got past the hard part of getting a meet in which a lot is here longer and can't get a coffee meet.
I can only suggest u relax sit back enjoy the chat and the banter with people.getting the exact steamy meet u want will not happen over night.that will come with time.
Good luck op |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It is when you get messages along these lines after pointing out distance and the fact that I'm not currently meeting has been ignored. And this is not the exact wording by the way..
You seem to forget you are on a site for fucking?! Stop being so rude and get a life idiot
WTF... the guy asked a question he wasn't being rude you're the rude one calling him an idiot. I don't think he's the idiot. Chillax ffs.
OP just keep doing what you're doing . I'm sure you'll find what your looking for you seem like a decent guy...
I could be wrong but I took it as thats a message she got after saying she wasn't meeting..I don't think it was aimed towards the op
Ok. Sorry sorry ... it's a bit out of context
It could be me thats wrong though it's hard to tell
Ok I take it back. I'm not sorry. Jeeze!!! "
You need to apologise for things you haven't even done yet |
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"It is when you get messages along these lines after pointing out distance and the fact that I'm not currently meeting has been ignored. And this is not the exact wording by the way..
You seem to forget you are on a site for fucking?! Stop being so rude and get a life idiot
WTF... the guy asked a question he wasn't being rude you're the rude one calling him an idiot. I don't think he's the idiot. Chillax ffs.
OP just keep doing what you're doing . I'm sure you'll find what your looking for you seem like a decent guy...
I could be wrong but I took it as thats a message she got after saying she wasn't meeting..I don't think it was aimed towards the op
Ok. Sorry sorry ... it's a bit out of context
It could be me thats wrong though it's hard to tell
Ok I take it back. I'm not sorry. Jeeze!!!
You need to apologise for things you haven't even done yet "
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By *oserMan
over a year ago
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"Sorry I obviously set you off on one there and it is abit disrespectful called me an idiot when you dont know me."
She was paraphrasing a mail she got ..she was not calling you a dick |
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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago
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If it was easy then everyone would be getting it.
You have to work for what you want sometimes and often the best things need lots of work..
Patience and effort and some luck and you may well find what you are looking for. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is is hard for a single guy to have some activity on here had one or two but just haven't had the steamy one yet."
Because we do simple.sorry but every single day on here it's the same old thing why why why just read the rest of the why threads .you get all the answers you want |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is is hard for a single guy to have some activity on here had one or two but just haven't had the steamy one yet.
Because we do simple.sorry but every single day on here it's the same old thing why why why just read the rest of the why threads .you get all the answers you want"
Have you even bothered to read the thread, there's quite a bit inside, highlighting others disrespect to the op..why would you bother to comment, when you obviously have no other interest other than venting your own frustration, that has nothing to do with the op. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thank you and completely understand your comment and appreciate it. Didn't think I would have set people off lol. I have learned my lesson today."
by the sounds of it you don't need to learn any lessons don't listen to anyone but what ya gut instincts tell ya, I made loadsa mistakes at the start even had a stalker, some random guy the other day said, 24veris in 4months the n17 sees less traffic than you, I was like wow ya twisted nasty fucka. Put it out there what you would like, blow caution to the wind, it's right, the orgasming sex won't come to you, bring your sex to them, with swinging the possibilities are endless! Tell women what you like and what your strong points are say like tongue fucking?! Just an example mind. You will eventually have the 'one' forget about it for the time being and do the meets, socials, see if there's chemistry or physical attraction and boooooom it'll slap ya in the face xx good luck happy fabbing xx
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"Thank you and completely understand your comment and appreciate it. Didn't think I would have set people off lol. I have learned my lesson today. by the sounds of it you don't need to learn any lessons don't listen to anyone but what ya gut instincts tell ya, I made loadsa mistakes at the start even had a stalker, some random guy the other day said, 24veris in 4months the n17 sees less traffic than you, I was like wow ya twisted nasty fucka. Put it out there what you would like, blow caution to the wind, it's right, the orgasming sex won't come to you, bring your sex to them, with swinging the possibilities are endless! Tell women what you like and what your strong points are say like tongue fucking?! Just an example mind. You will eventually have the 'one' forget about it for the time being and do the meets, socials, see if there's chemistry or physical attraction and boooooom it'll slap ya in the face xx good luck happy fabbing xx"
That's a breathe of fresh air piece of honesty |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry I obviously set you off on one there and it is abit disrespectful called me an idiot when you dont know me."
Calm down mate,your problem here is a well known problem and the replys to your posting are well known too. Such a posting like yours you'll read every couple of weeks .... inclusive the same lovely answers.
See fab as a chance not more not less.cheers |
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"Thank you and completely understand your comment and appreciate it. Didn't think I would have set people off lol. I have learned my lesson today. by the sounds of it you don't need to learn any lessons don't listen to anyone but what ya gut instincts tell ya, I made loadsa mistakes at the start even had a stalker, some random guy the other day said, 24veris in 4months the n17 sees less traffic than you, I was like wow ya twisted nasty fucka. Put it out there what you would like, blow caution to the wind, it's right, the orgasming sex won't come to you, bring your sex to them, with swinging the possibilities are endless! Tell women what you like and what your strong points are say like tongue fucking?! Just an example mind. You will eventually have the 'one' forget about it for the time being and do the meets, socials, see if there's chemistry or physical attraction and boooooom it'll slap ya in the face xx good luck happy fabbing xx"
Great advice guys. You should listen to this lady. I've only just started to look at forum tbh but seems like great place for advice. Without wanting to annoy anyone ok. The ladies on this site get hundreds of messages a day. They can't be expected to reply or meet everyone who would. So don't b offended and certainly don't pester them. It's like life b nice. Enjoy yourselves and things will happen. Be an areshole and women will block you. I've never sent a dick pic yet on here. Right my rant over Off to get d*unk on my birthday lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thank you and completely understand your comment and appreciate it. Didn't think I would have set people off lol. I have learned my lesson today. by the sounds of it you don't need to learn any lessons don't listen to anyone but what ya gut instincts tell ya, I made loadsa mistakes at the start even had a stalker, some random guy the other day said, 24veris in 4months the n17 sees less traffic than you, I was like wow ya twisted nasty fucka. Put it out there what you would like, blow caution to the wind, it's right, the orgasming sex won't come to you, bring your sex to them, with swinging the possibilities are endless! Tell women what you like and what your strong points are say like tongue fucking?! Just an example mind. You will eventually have the 'one' forget about it for the time being and do the meets, socials, see if there's chemistry or physical attraction and boooooom it'll slap ya in the face xx good luck happy fabbing xx
Great advice guys. You should listen to this lady. I've only just started to look at forum tbh but seems like great place for advice. Without wanting to annoy anyone ok. The ladies on this site get hundreds of messages a day. They can't be expected to reply or meet everyone who would. So don't b offended and certainly don't pester them. It's like life b nice. Enjoy yourselves and things will happen. Be an areshole and women will block you. I've never sent a dick pic yet on here. Right my rant over Off to get d*unk on my birthday lol "
Happy birthday boyo |
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"Thank you and completely understand your comment and appreciate it. Didn't think I would have set people off lol. I have learned my lesson today. by the sounds of it you don't need to learn any lessons don't listen to anyone but what ya gut instincts tell ya, I made loadsa mistakes at the start even had a stalker, some random guy the other day said, 24veris in 4months the n17 sees less traffic than you, I was like wow ya twisted nasty fucka. Put it out there what you would like, blow caution to the wind, it's right, the orgasming sex won't come to you, bring your sex to them, with swinging the possibilities are endless! Tell women what you like and what your strong points are say like tongue fucking?! Just an example mind. You will eventually have the 'one' forget about it for the time being and do the meets, socials, see if there's chemistry or physical attraction and boooooom it'll slap ya in the face xx good luck happy fabbing xx
Great advice guys. You should listen to this lady. I've only just started to look at forum tbh but seems like great place for advice. Without wanting to annoy anyone ok. The ladies on this site get hundreds of messages a day. They can't be expected to reply or meet everyone who would. So don't b offended and certainly don't pester them. It's like life b nice. Enjoy yourselves and things will happen. Be an areshole and women will block you. I've never sent a dick pic yet on here. Right my rant over Off to get d*unk on my birthday lol
Happy birthday boyo "
Thanks gorgeous means a lot |
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