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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just wondering if you've ever been sent a face pic and noticed it was someone you knew, maybe it be your mate, family, friend, whoever! What did you do? lol coming from ballinderry i havnt came across anyone I know...yet  |
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"Just wondering if you've ever been sent a face pic and noticed it was someone you knew, maybe it be your mate, family, friend, whoever! What did you do? lol coming from ballinderry i havnt came across anyone I know...yet
Came across a few faces I knew but never said anything. However sent a face pic to a lady who apparently happened to know me and threatened to tell the world I was on fab cause we have bad history . Really Pissed me off cause we're all on here for a reason so no need for that crap  "
Totally agree with you. I like to think of Fab as a community and even though some may have differences with one another, we're all in this together and I would like us all to see this as a secret (or mutual respect) that we uphold together. We can disagree on things or may not even like one another but should still respect each other's privacy and discretion. Like a certain code. The first rule of Fab club is that we should not blow someone else's cover on Fab club. The second rule of Fab club is that we should not blow someone else's cover on Fab Club (See what I did there?  ). The only thing that should be getting blown on here is people's minds, cocks and loads.
Thus endeth the sermon.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Saw my brothers best mate on the 'nearby' page. He is married with several kids. I blocked him before he could see me and havnt said anything. Think i should?"
Nah to each their own. |
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"Saw my brothers best mate on the 'nearby' page. He is married with several kids. I blocked him before he could see me and havnt said anything. Think i should?
Nah to each their own. "
came across a few one guy told me who I was and personal details as I would never meet him so I blocked him |
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"Saw my brothers best mate on the 'nearby' page. He is married with several kids. I blocked him before he could see me and havnt said anything. Think i should?"
Nah, not your place to say. Let people do what they do and if there are consequences then so be it to them but it won't be on you. Speaking from plenty of experience. |
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Yep a friends husband..
but it's none of my business that he's on here and I'm not going to tell her as then I'd have to say so am I. I think the messenger would end up worse off in this circumstances so keeping my mouth shut.
He knows me too and we've both been to non fab events a few times and had that knowing look. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Was chatting to a localish guy for a while n was one of my mates uncles had to block him as he was pestering me to meet. Thankfully he didnt recognise me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep a friends husband..
but it's none of my business that he's on here and I'm not going to tell her as then I'd have to say so am I. I think the messenger would end up worse off in this circumstances so keeping my mouth shut.
He knows me too and we've both been to non fab events a few times and had that knowing look. "
Remind me not to become your friend |
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Of course , as has been said here it's a small world and living near a small town I have "came across " a few here I know . Discretion is paramount here so their secret and mine are safe .
I made myself known to a family friend on here and it has worked out very well for both of us. Assisting and advising each other here without the need to play together .... tempting as I'm sure it is for her  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I first joined fab I sent a face pic to someone who I thought was genuine..... turns out he knew me and tried to blackm#il me!
Freaked the hell outta me and genuinely wanted to leave the site but refused to let an asshole like that control me! |
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By *ack 188Man
over a year ago
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"When I first joined fab I sent a face pic to someone who I thought was genuine..... turns out he knew me and tried to blackm#il me!
Freaked the hell outta me and genuinely wanted to leave the site but refused to let an asshole like that control me!"
that's shocking |
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"Yep a friends husband..
but it's none of my business that he's on here and I'm not going to tell her as then I'd have to say so am I. I think the messenger would end up worse off in this circumstances so keeping my mouth shut.
He knows me too and we've both been to non fab events a few times and had that knowing look.
Remind me not to become your friend "
It's not my place to break up a marriage where there are children involved. Who knows, maybe she is aware of the situation. I've not discussed it with her.
Thank you for the judgement.
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"There's a guy I work with who's also a good mate. Was showing me pics of a woman he "met in town" and her pics were from Fab. I know the cheeky fecker is here somewhere 
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I wouldn't be telling him any secrets  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The near by option then you're bound to notice people etc even near yourself. But if you've no discretion and can't keep it to yourself then you're on the wrong site. |
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"There's a guy I work with who's also a good mate. Was showing me pics of a woman he "met in town" and her pics were from Fab. I know the cheeky fecker is here somewhere
I wouldn't be telling him any secrets "
I tell him that I've met a few women but never say how. Let him figure that out  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lucky for us not yet. "
Happened to one of us twice. At a social. On the same night. Bartender was a neighbour. Attendee was a childhood friend. Fun night. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lucky for us not yet.
Happened to one of us twice. At a social. On the same night. Bartender was a neighbour. Attendee was a childhood friend. Fun night. "
We've lots of friends on here with stories like that. The one common factor in most is they all seem to happen at socials. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I met someone last week in Liffey Valley, he took my number, we were texting and then it just stopped.
He just txt me on here now and said he liked me til he found out I was on here
What a prick haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lucky for us not yet.
Happened to one of us twice. At a social. On the same night. Bartender was a neighbour. Attendee was a childhood friend. Fun night.
We've lots of friends on here with stories like that. The one common factor in most is they all seem to happen at socials. "
Bumping into the childhood friend was okay. She was there for the same reason. The bartender was another story. "You with the swinger party"? Me "what's a swinger"? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I met someone last week in Liffey Valley, he took my number, we were texting and then it just stopped.
He just txt me on here now and said he liked me til he found out I was on here
What a prick haha "
His loss , big time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep a friends husband..
but it's none of my business that he's on here and I'm not going to tell her as then I'd have to say so am I. I think the messenger would end up worse off in this circumstances so keeping my mouth shut.
He knows me too and we've both been to non fab events a few times and had that knowing look.
Remind me not to become your friend
It's not my place to break up a marriage where there are children involved. Who knows, maybe she is aware of the situation. I've not discussed it with her.
Thank you for the judgement.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lucky for us not yet.
Happened to one of us twice. At a social. On the same night. Bartender was a neighbour. Attendee was a childhood friend. Fun night.
We've lots of friends on here with stories like that. The one common factor in most is they all seem to happen at socials.
Bumping into the childhood friend was okay. She was there for the same reason. The bartender was another story. "You with the swinger party"? Me "what's a swinger"? "
"Swingers? Like the Dancing? Sorry I must be in the wrong place. Bye now"  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I met someone last week in Liffey Valley, he took my number, we were texting and then it just stopped.
He just txt me on here now and said he liked me til he found out I was on here
What a prick haha "
Did you tell him you were on here or is he on here himself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I met someone last week in Liffey Valley, he took my number, we were texting and then it just stopped.
He just txt me on here now and said he liked me til he found out I was on here
What a prick haha
Did you tell him you were on here or is he on here himself "
If he messaged her here then he must be here too.
Double standards much! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I met someone last week in Liffey Valley, he took my number, we were texting and then it just stopped.
He just txt me on here now and said he liked me til he found out I was on here
What a prick haha
Did you tell him you were on here or is he on here himself
If he messaged her here then he must be here too.
Double standards much!"
He was looking at my tattoos in liffey valley, thats what made him cop it when he saw me on here!
But yeah, hes here too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I met someone last week in Liffey Valley, he took my number, we were texting and then it just stopped.
He just txt me on here now and said he liked me til he found out I was on here
What a prick haha
Did you tell him you were on here or is he on here himself
If he messaged her here then he must be here too.
Double standards much!
He was looking at my tattoos in liffey valley, thats what made him cop it when he saw me on here!
But yeah, hes here too. "
That's one cheeky goblin ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I met someone last week in Liffey Valley, he took my number, we were texting and then it just stopped.
He just txt me on here now and said he liked me til he found out I was on here
What a prick haha
Did you tell him you were on here or is he on here himself
If he messaged her here then he must be here too.
Double standards much!
He was looking at my tattoos in liffey valley, thats what made him cop it when he saw me on here!
But yeah, hes here too.
That's one cheeky goblin ??"
Sure is
Ah well, guess no boyfriend for me so, Fab all the way  |
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I've been messaged by people in my place of work and also someone who works in the local school. I just said nothing and deleted the mails.
But moral of the story is don't send face pics in first messages. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would love to find someone I know. If anyone recognises me say hi ??"
Dad.....is that......oh my god....dad.....is that you.....
Any chance of a nice verification? I won't tell mum.
Dear lord how wrong is that lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would love to find someone I know. If anyone recognises me say hi ??
Dad.....is that......oh my god....dad.....is that you.....
Any chance of a nice verification? I won't tell mum.
Dear lord how wrong is that lol"
Hilarious if that really happened |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was on a dating site where you rang to listen to a message and it turned out to be my mates wife looking for some extra . I kept quite about it but she know I know "
If you stayed stum, and if she knows, that you know she knows !!! Ohh it doesn't matter..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've seen a couple on here who are neighbours. I know its them because of a picture on the wall in the background of one of their profile pics.
Sexy wife too.
Should I contact??  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was chatting to a very nice lady when I first joined. We were both only here a few days and we were both nervous about sending face pics to each other. We chatted via mail for a few weeks and decided to meet blind. She told me what she'd be wearing and I told her what I'd be wearing. I nearly crapped myself when my ex wife's sister walked in wearing the exact clothes she'd described to me. We laughed nervously for a few seconds and she said 'fuck it, let's do this anyway' as we'd sent some pretty racy mails to each other. Fun continued for a couple of weeks and we promised we would never tell our other halfs what happened but I always wanted to tell my wife I had her sister.
I always make sure now I have an idea who I'm chatting to before I send a face pic or I've seen enough of them through their pics to know I don't know them. |
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"I've been messaged by people in my place of work and also someone who works in the local school. I just said nothing and deleted the mails.
But moral of the story is don't send face pics in first messages. "
That's a little to close for comfort, like that a woman who I work with is on this site with her husband, reason I know is I spotted there profile half recognised her but when she mentioned a fancy dress party she was attending which also matched a fancy meet and greet from here, I put 2 and 2 together to get 5 and knew it was her! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Every1 is on here for the same reason I don't think anybody should go telling tales if they know sumbody just get on with it no point blocking or not txting somebody back just because u know them it's regular to find somebody you know on here all only a bit of fun at the end of the day ?????? happy fabbing |
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"I met someone last week in Liffey Valley, he took my number, we were texting and then it just stopped.
He just txt me on here now and said he liked me til he found out I was on here
What a prick haha
Did you tell him you were on here or is he on here himself
If he messaged her here then he must be here too.
Double standards much!
He was looking at my tattoos in liffey valley, thats what made him cop it when he saw me on here!
But yeah, hes here too.
That's one cheeky goblin ??
Sure is
Ah well, guess no boyfriend for me so, Fab all the way "
What an absolute prick , well its his loss |
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When we first started on Fab hubby sent face pics to a couple that wanted to meet, he told us that his wife know me (mrs) and wasn't comfortable with meeting us BUT wouldn't tell us who they were.
NOT VERY NICE!
we've since discovered who they are and it honestly doesn't bother me. We mind our own they mind theirs.
Mind you I haven't actually 'bumped into her for a long time so it will be interesting when I do 
S x |
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"When I first joined fab I sent a face pic to someone who I thought was genuine..... turns out he knew me and tried to blackm#il me!
Freaked the hell outta me and genuinely wanted to leave the site but refused to let an asshole like that control me!"
Genuinely upsetting that and proper chill down your spine stuff.
This is very common here in Derry from what I can gather (I know a couple of local current and former fabbers it has hapened to), in fact it probably is common everywhere.
I don't think Fab does enough to combat this. Signing up is very easy and you don't have to be a site supporter to start sending emails and contacting people. If you get blocked, you sign up and start again. All too simple. All ladies should have free access and the guys need to become site supporters if they want to initiate contact. Might sound extreme to some people, but it might filter out the scum.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When I first joined fab I sent a face pic to someone who I thought was genuine..... turns out he knew me and tried to blackm#il me!
Freaked the hell outta me and genuinely wanted to leave the site but refused to let an asshole like that control me!
Genuinely upsetting that and proper chill down your spine stuff.
This is very common here in Derry from what I can gather (I know a couple of local current and former fabbers it has hapened to), in fact it probably is common everywhere.
I don't think Fab does enough to combat this. Signing up is very easy and you don't have to be a site supporter to start sending emails and contacting people. If you get blocked, you sign up and start again. All too simple. All ladies should have free access and the guys need to become site supporters if they want to initiate contact. Might sound extreme to some people, but it might filter out the scum.
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Does that free access include all the female profiles who are actually men? |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"When I first joined fab I sent a face pic to someone who I thought was genuine..... turns out he knew me and tried to blackm#il me!
Freaked the hell outta me and genuinely wanted to leave the site but refused to let an asshole like that control me!
Genuinely upsetting that and proper chill down your spine stuff.
This is very common here in Derry from what I can gather (I know a couple of local current and former fabbers it has hapened to), in fact it probably is common everywhere.
I don't think Fab does enough to combat this. Signing up is very easy and you don't have to be a site supporter to start sending emails and contacting people. If you get blocked, you sign up and start again. All too simple. All ladies should have free access and the guys need to become site supporters if they want to initiate contact. Might sound extreme to some people, but it might filter out the scum.
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Scum can have money to |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Was on fab before verified and all going good..chatting a couple getting on great they ask for face pic and having no negative experience I sent..no reply.and I no smart arses will say sure you must be ugly as fuck..maybe I am but a reply to tell me that would have been nice..which gets me to the point of the tread..did they no me...... |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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This is like the lad that went to a swingers club and was enjoying the night when he entered the orgy room. Joining in the fun he spotted this lovely arse up in the air with pussy lips peeping out at him begging to be fucked, without hesitation he slipped in and started pounding away only to look up and see his father at the other end pumping this womans mouth with he's equally hard cock. Dad he exclaimed does mom know ur cheating on her his father looked at him and replied I am not cheating |
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"When I first joined fab I sent a face pic to someone who I thought was genuine..... turns out he knew me and tried to blackm#il me!
Freaked the hell outta me and genuinely wanted to leave the site but refused to let an asshole like that control me!
Genuinely upsetting that and proper chill down your spine stuff.
This is very common here in Derry from what I can gather (I know a couple of local current and former fabbers it has hapened to), in fact it probably is common everywhere.
I don't think Fab does enough to combat this. Signing up is very easy and you don't have to be a site supporter to start sending emails and contacting people. If you get blocked, you sign up and start again. All too simple. All ladies should have free access and the guys need to become site supporters if they want to initiate contact. Might sound extreme to some people, but it might filter out the scum.
Scum can have money to "
Of course they can. But it might cut down on the same person creating multiple profiles when profile #1 has been blocked and reported beyond use |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Living in a small town I've learnt the hard way to not play or show my face.
Don't shit where you live as they say.
I have seen couple of men who've sent me face pic around here.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Living in a small town I've learnt the hard way to not play or show my face.
Don't shit where you live as they say.
I have seen couple of men who've sent me face pic around here.
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I think there is a lot of pics sharing between couples, women and guys. Better not to send pics. It use camera on KIK or Skype. Much safer. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would love to find someone I know. If anyone recognises me say hi ??
Dad.....is that......oh my god....dad.....is that you.....
Any chance of a nice verification? I won't tell mum.
Dear lord how wrong is that lol"
Haha brilliant, please tell me that wasn't a true story!!
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Nephew of ours sent us pics of him face and private parts he going steady with a girl and he has met people on here recently we just said nothing did not block him so we can keep an eye on him he don't turn up in the same place as us lol Also a guy that works with mrs Small world. Lol |
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"Nephew of ours sent us pics of him face and private parts he going steady with a girl and he has met people on here recently we just said nothing did not block him so we can keep an eye on him he don't turn up in the same place as us lol Also a guy that works with mrs Small world. Lol"
Good attitude folks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Came across my old boss on here once, just avoided lol,
Have seen a couple of old school friends etc too, we ended up meeting. So long as everyone is discreet and comfortable it hasn't been an issue xx |
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blocked straight away. And a few people i know there faces x
