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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Female half of a couple told me recently " no kissing" during our meet.
I couldn't get my head around it. And left, as I wouldn't be able to have fun if I couldn't kiss her.
Am I mad ? And is this a normal occurrence when meeting couples?
Any opinions or feedback please. |
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"Female half of a couple told me recently " no kissing" during our meet.
I couldn't get my head around it. And left, as I wouldn't be able to have fun if I couldn't kiss her.
Am I mad ? And is this a normal occurrence when meeting couples?
Any opinions or feedback please."
I'd find it incredibly difficult to not kiss !! I wouldn't enjoy much at all ! So much more to a sexual encounter than intercourse. I'd have left also! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have done it if a guy has a beard, i did tell him before hand lol still had good fun without but i do prefer kissing . Or if i did not fancy a guy or he's married and the wife does not know . Also a person might need extra sex but does not want passion or itimacy if attached or married etc . Loads of potential reasons really . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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for some kissing is a very personal thing, I understand where they are coming from in wanting to keep something for themselves.
everything else is just sex for the sake of it really |
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"Meet without kissing is pointless. Most here are looking for a fun meet not a robotic sterile shag"
Really ? Would you turn down anyone on your hotlist if they said they preferred not to kiss. Robotic and sterile. I must add that to our about us section. Kissing m/f is something we view as a level of intimacy we prefer to keep between us. I'm sure It's different for singles who don't have the relationship element might understand that . Personal choice I suppose.
That said girl on girl is fine, again it's personal preference. We have yet to be turned away from a meet because we wouldn't kiss. I would like to think we have enough going for us that it wouldn't be an issue  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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but yeah.... each to their own...i often see people who say no kissing...not a major problem is it....you could work around it...and never say never...they could end up kissing you at some point anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for all the feedback folks, it's much appreciate .
I can understand and respect their wishes to keep kissing for themselves.
But personally, it's very much like to hooker situation to me = no kissing
( to clarify I've never been with a hooker)
I prefer talking, kissing, holding, hugging and lots of hot sex as well.
No just the "In -out shake it all about stuff"
Or maybe that the Hocky Pokey, I'm getting mixed up with !!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Meet without kissing is pointless. Most here are looking for a fun meet not a robotic sterile shag
Really ? Would you turn down anyone on your hotlist if they said they preferred not to kiss. Robotic and sterile. I must add that to our about us section. Kissing m/f is something we view as a level of intimacy we prefer to keep between us. I'm sure It's different for singles who don't have the relationship element might understand that . Personal choice I suppose.
That said girl on girl is fine, again it's personal preference. We have yet to be turned away from a meet because we wouldn't kiss. I would like to think we have enough going for us that it wouldn't be an issue "
I wouldn't turn you guys down :P You are simply to hot to say no to.
However, in the heat of the moment I would most likely forgot about the rule and let my passions free and would try to kiss, unintentionally (not intentionally breaking the rule). Just in the moment of passion, erotica and being amazed with the sustain I would simply forget about the rule I think 
MFMF is different. Having my own playmate I could kiss with would help me remember not to kiss your partner. I guess, we should plan a very erotic and very sensual MFMF instead :p haha |
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It's only fair you should be told from the outset... i.e BEFORE a coffee or am actual physical meet...
People have a few specific rules and that's fair enough... but stating those rules well before play is only fair really  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Meet without kissing is pointless. Most here are looking for a fun meet not a robotic sterile shag
Really ? Would you turn down anyone on your hotlist if they said they preferred not to kiss. Robotic and sterile. I must add that to our about us section. Kissing m/f is something we view as a level of intimacy we prefer to keep between us. I'm sure It's different for singles who don't have the relationship element might understand that . Personal choice I suppose.
That said girl on girl is fine, again it's personal preference. We have yet to be turned away from a meet because we wouldn't kiss. I would like to think we have enough going for us that it wouldn't be an issue "
Many moons ago when we started on this journey of swinging we didn't kiss on meets either and never were refused and play was always hot and Horny. The no kissing lasted about a year I think looking back on our early play dates kissing would not have enhanced or taken away from the experience. Now however kissing is essential, alot can be told from that first kiss and during play it definitely is Delicious. Would we turn ye down ? No  |
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"Meet without kissing is pointless. Most here are looking for a fun meet not a robotic sterile shag
Really ? Would you turn down anyone on your hotlist if they said they preferred not to kiss. Robotic and sterile. I must add that to our about us section. Kissing m/f is something we view as a level of intimacy we prefer to keep between us. I'm sure It's different for singles who don't have the relationship element might understand that . Personal choice I suppose.
That said girl on girl is fine, again it's personal preference. We have yet to be turned away from a meet because we wouldn't kiss. I would like to think we have enough going for us that it wouldn't be an issue
Many moons ago when we started on this journey of swinging we didn't kiss on meets either and never were refused and play was always hot and Horny. The no kissing lasted about a year I think looking back on our early play dates kissing would not have enhanced or taken away from the experience. Now however kissing is essential, alot can be told from that first kiss and during play it definitely is Delicious. Would we turn ye down ? No "
Very wise words. We are almost a year to the day from our very meet and that was pretty much our only rule. It was a group thing with a good few experienced couples, many of whom gave us some brilliant advice before we did anything. Most said kissing wasn't on the cards for them either at the time.
Things could very well change next week but that's a conversation. We will that chat closer to the night. You might get to test our resolve if we ever cross paths Jack/Jilly  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Got to kiss it's cold without kissing .if a man wouldn't kiss me I wouldn't bother meeting him or If i was with him and turned away .Id walk away and block him |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Meet without kissing is pointless. Most here are looking for a fun meet not a robotic sterile shag
Really ? Would you turn down anyone on your hotlist if they said they preferred not to kiss. Robotic and sterile. I must add that to our about us section. Kissing m/f is something we view as a level of intimacy we prefer to keep between us. I'm sure It's different for singles who don't have the relationship element might understand that . Personal choice I suppose.
That said girl on girl is fine, again it's personal preference. We have yet to be turned away from a meet because we wouldn't kiss. I would like to think we have enough going for us that it wouldn't be an issue
Many moons ago when we started on this journey of swinging we didn't kiss on meets either and never were refused and play was always hot and Horny. The no kissing lasted about a year I think looking back on our early play dates kissing would not have enhanced or taken away from the experience. Now however kissing is essential, alot can be told from that first kiss and during play it definitely is Delicious. Would we turn ye down ? No
Very wise words. We are almost a year to the day from our very meet and that was pretty much our only rule. It was a group thing with a good few experienced couples, many of whom gave us some brilliant advice before we did anything. Most said kissing wasn't on the cards for them either at the time.
Things could very well change next week but that's a conversation. We will that chat closer to the night. You might get to test our resolve if we ever cross paths Jack/Jilly "
Good on yous standing by your own boundaries guys ... Xx p.s pop Ur kiss cherry with us anytime |
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Have heard of that before. Apparently it's too personal! 
Personally I love kissing and couldn't be having sex and not kiss a guy!! Sure how would ya even get started?
Me lying legs spread; "is it in yet?"
Uuuhhhh Nope! Never gonna happen! |
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It has happened, twice with 2 different couples.
As much as I do love kissing, you have to respect what others want.
In fairness they were 2 very good meets, but could have been so much better, if there had of been some kissing... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Kissing really does set the tone
Of what's to come would find it very hard to do without kissing
But then again everyone is different
I'm a person who craves kisses and if done in a playful way kissing denial or teasing can be such a turn on in its self |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love kissing really makes the connection sensual ,but she might have cooties which can be covered with lippy but are very sore to the touch ,she would be doing u a favour then ,you don't want to catch them do u |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I find it so cold without kissing...yes i know its nsa but it shouldn't be that u feel used and dirty after a meet and that is how i feel with no kissing....plus sex is so much better with kissing..gets the juices flowing |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Female half of a couple told me recently " no kissing" during our meet.
I couldn't get my head around it. And left, as I wouldn't be able to have fun if I couldn't kiss her.
Am I mad ? And is this a normal occurrence when meeting couples?
Any opinions or feedback please."
You winked us 4 weeks knowing that we dont kiss. It does noting for us and as a married couple we would never kiss another human. Thats just us though loads fun can be had without kissing |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Im sure everyone here protects themselfs sexual health wise.
How do you all protect your sexual health by kissing strangers?? You can hardly kiss using a condom
you be at risk for whilst snogging? You could get a cold, the flu, mono, or the herpes virus through kissing if the other person is infected. You can also spread meningitis through saliva. Oral microbiota (found in the saliva and on the tongue) and bacteria (in the saliva) — which can lead to gum disease — can be transmitted through frequent kissing. More specifically, gingivitis (one type of gum disease) can turn into periodontitis (a more severe form of gum disease) if not treated properly.
And there probally more too that aint risking any of it just for the sake lf a kiss..
Got the quoted text off google |
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It feels odd not to kiss during passion but I respect couples decision on what boundaries they have. My 2rules on this tho is 1) I'm told beforehand & 2) what 'no no's' they have go for both so if there's no kissing it goes for female on female too. |
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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago
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"Can totally understand and respect in a couple not kissing and once the people meeting them is happy with that
Personally for myself no kissing no meet"
kissing get my juices flowing so to speak  cant play without kissing as its sooo intense and sets the tone for playing
Mrs crazy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't understand the no kissing thing.
I won't kiss you - but I'll happily shove my cock in your mouth.
Sounds like a plan when are we doing this x"
You want my cock in your mouth?  |
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"I don't understand the no kissing thing.
I won't kiss you - but I'll happily shove my cock in your mouth.
Sounds like a plan when are we doing this x
You want my cock in your mouth? "
didn't know you had 1  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Female half of a couple told me recently " no kissing" during our meet.
I couldn't get my head around it. And left, as I wouldn't be able to have fun if I couldn't kiss her.
Am I mad ? And is this a normal occurrence when meeting couples?
Any opinions or feedback please.
You winked us 4 weeks knowing that we dont kiss. It does noting for us and as a married couple we would never kiss another human. Thats just us though loads fun can be had without kissing "
True ,I winked because I like your profile. I'm well aware you don't kiss.
I do actually read profiles in full |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't understand the no kissing thing.
I won't kiss you - but I'll happily shove my cock in your mouth.
Sounds like a plan when are we doing this x
You want my cock in your mouth?
didn't know you had 1 "
I keep it well hidden! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The no kissing thing, each to their own but personally we think its nonsense, too much watching Pretty Woman and thinking they are Julia Roberts lol. Lets be honest, what we do on here is a lot more intimate than kissing! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I honestly would turn down a meet If there was no kissing, even if she was a stunner it would be like getting a lapdance you can look but no touch, bit of an insult to the situation. Kissing is such a turn on for me and usually a great sign for other things  |
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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago
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"I honestly would turn down a meet If there was no kissing, even if she was a stunner it would be like getting a lapdance you can look but no touch, bit of an insult to the situation. Kissing is such a turn on for me and usually a great sign for other things "
Mwah XXX triple X rated kisses
Madame Boo |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I honestly would turn down a meet If there was no kissing, even if she was a stunner it would be like getting a lapdance you can look but no touch, bit of an insult to the situation. Kissing is such a turn on for me and usually a great sign for other things
Mwah XXX triple X rated kisses
Madame Boo"
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