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"I don't whine or moan and as us ladies know we get a fair amount of dodgy messages. I view it as part of the course and ignore them. This morning is different I just had a guy from cork messaging me to tell me I'm fat but it's a compliment. This is hurtful and in an age where women harm themselves in order to achieve certain looks it's also stupid. Will people please engage there brains before messaging and think about what you write and the effects it will have. Even though the message was hurtful I'm a stronger, better, more intelligent person then the stupid little man that sent that message. ... unfortunately others are not " Too many stupid people on here. | |||
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"I don't whine or moan and as us ladies know we get a fair amount of dodgy messages. I view it as part of the course and ignore them. This morning is different I just had a guy from cork messaging me to tell me I'm fat but it's a compliment. This is hurtful and in an age where women harm themselves in order to achieve certain looks it's also stupid. Will people please engage there brains before messaging and think about what you write and the effects it will have. Even though the message was hurtful I'm a stronger, better, more intelligent person then the stupid little man that sent that message. ... unfortunately others are not " ive seen sum messages sent to friends and there absolutely vile what they received lucky theres the block option but most come back with new profiles and message more abuse theres no need for it what so ever . We all have feelings id rather send a nice message to ladies and always a social meet first have a drink and a chat and a laugh and see how that goes | |||
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"Of you need to bring someone down in order to make yourself feel good your the problem no one else" This is exactly it. Ignore and keep your head up op | |||
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"They scan don't read your profile If your younger your too young If your older your too old. If you have no verifications your fake. If you have plenty your a tramp. And so on and so on. They are so inadequate so hopeless so useless in their own lives they have to post on here or message others in the hope of getting a reaction. In their lives a negative reaction in reaction to abuse is better than a screen with an empty inbox. Pity them. Then block them" Here here! | |||
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Let him off lovely lady | |||
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"The internet can be hurtful, you have to have a pretty tough skin at times...." | |||
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"I don't whine or moan and as us ladies know we get a fair amount of dodgy messages. I view it as part of the course and ignore them. This morning is different I just had a guy from cork messaging me to tell me I'm fat but it's a compliment. This is hurtful and in an age where women harm themselves in order to achieve certain looks it's also stupid. Will people please engage there brains before messaging and think about what you write and the effects it will have. Even though the message was hurtful I'm a stronger, better, more intelligent person then the stupid little man that sent that message. ... unfortunately others are not " He (or it could be a she ?) is an insecure childish asshole. Life's too short for giving these people any attention. Your photos look great, you seem like a smart lady. What's not to love about you !! 
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"When the lads start that shite, women should start luring them in and saying oooh I like a man who tells it like it is, pretend you'll meet them after a while, then block. That'd eat their souls " | |||
"When the lads start that shite, women should start luring them in and saying oooh I like a man who tells it like it is, pretend you'll meet them after a while, then block. That'd eat their souls
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"In one way at least he was a straight up asshole and you can block him, it's the ones who seem so nice, say all the right things and then down the line turn nasty you need to watch out for here" We are bastards alright, aren't we?  | |||
"Cork dickheads "Easy there mate maybe one cork dickhead not all though but yea ur right ....hes a dickhead | |||
"In one way at least he was a straight up asshole and you can block him, it's the ones who seem so nice, say all the right things and then down the line turn nasty you need to watch out for here We are bastards alright, aren't we? "I've never spoken to you personally so couldn't say and of course I did not mean all men just a select few, no doubt women are the same | |||
Block and move on its thier loss .
Mr Dirty | |||
"I'm sorry this has happened to you, it's horrible. But I wouldn't be giving him the satisfaction of knowing he got to you. I wouldn't be giving him air time on here. The best reply to an asshole like that is no reply and no reaction. And I know you're only venting, but there's every chance your post will be seen and that will only make him or her know that he hit you where it hurt. " | |||
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"I'm sorry this has happened to you, it's horrible. But I wouldn't be giving him the satisfaction of knowing he got to you. I wouldn't be giving him air time on here. The best reply to an asshole like that is no reply and no reaction. And I know you're only venting, but there's every chance your post will be seen and that will only make him or her know that he hit you where it hurt. " This ^^^^ | |||
"Lets turn this negitivity to a positive...follow my lead( dancing term....)..op your sexy very sexy and id love a coffee and more with you anytime" Jesus don't give up the day job lol | |||
"Lets turn this negitivity to a positive...follow my lead( dancing term....)..op your sexy very sexy and id love a coffee and more with you anytime Jesus don't give up the day job lol "@randyandy .... good try but genuinely not a negative post actually the opposite. I'm a female who's empowered enough to give this stupid little man the two fingers. .. there are lots that it would effect. The post is been about more mindfull about what we say | |||
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"Fair play to you Sally. Sorry it happened but you habdled it well by all accounts. To try balance it out I say we all go Fab some pictures of people to cheer them up. It is always nice to know someone fancies you." What a wonderful idea | |||
"Unfortunately in today's world dickheads will always be dickheads " Very simply put but very very true | |||
"Lets turn this negitivity to a positive...follow my lead( dancing term....)..op your sexy very sexy and id love a coffee and more with you anytime Jesus don't give up the day job lol
@randyandy .... good try but genuinely not a negative post actually the opposite. I'm a female who's empowered enough to give this stupid little man the two fingers. .. there are lots that it would effect. The post is been about more mindfull about what we say "True Sally people should be more mindful about what they say. My adage is of you nothing good to say, say nothing. I got a messafe from a complete random guy last week a d it wasnt nice. I thanked wished him well and blocked him but it can b hard not to let that negativity effect ourselves a year ago it would have really hurt but mh attitude is not everyone going to like me and thats ok. I kniw plenty you do. | |||
"Lets turn this negitivity to a positive...follow my lead( dancing term....)..op your sexy very sexy and id love a coffee and more with you anytime Jesus don't give up the day job lol
@randyandy .... good try but genuinely not a negative post actually the opposite. I'm a female who's empowered enough to give this stupid little man the two fingers. .. there are lots that it would effect. The post is been about more mindfull about what we say
True Sally people should be more mindful about what they say. My adage is of you nothing good to say, say nothing. I got a messafe from a complete random guy last week a d it wasnt nice. I thanked wished him well and blocked him but it can b hard not to let that negativity effect ourselves a year ago it would have really hurt but mh attitude is not everyone going to like me and thats ok. I kniw plenty you do. "Couldn't agree more ... not everybody will like you ... I don't like everybody | |||
"I got called a fat tramp in a message yesterday and told to meet lads and not talk shit all the time......"
What is wrong with some people?
And how do they hope to get anywhere on here with an attitude like that?  | |||
"I don't whine or moan and as us ladies know we get a fair amount of dodgy messages. I view it as part of the course and ignore them. This morning is different I just had a guy from cork messaging me to tell me I'm fat but it's a compliment. This is hurtful and in an age where women harm themselves in order to achieve certain looks it's also stupid. Will people please engage there brains before messaging and think about what you write and the effects it will have. Even though the message was hurtful I'm a stronger, better, more intelligent person then the stupid little man that sent that message. ... unfortunately others are not " I can't for the life of me understand how any person can think for one second that calling a person fat is a compliment. Any pics I've seen of you have all looked great to me you wee ride ye. I definitely agree that some people should think about what they are saying before they speak but alas some of them just simply don't have the brains. | |||
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"Old. Fat. And a slag. Just some of the insults I regularly get thrown at me when I reject people. Old - yeh still get people 20 years my junior hitting on me in clubs. Fat - mmm hate to disappoint you but not really. Curvy yep but healthy with it. A slag - well how does that make you feel, cos this 'slag' would never fuck you in a million years. Rejected my a slag ya muppets! OP it says more about the abuser than you. Ignore the fuckards on here." This!!! | |||
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"Theyre just sad assholes...plain and simple. No wonder theres serious mistrust of single guys here. Some of us do have some civility and decency. No excuse for these muppets "There really is more good then bad here | |||
"I don't whine or moan and as us ladies know we get a fair amount of dodgy messages. I view it as part of the course and ignore them. This morning is different I just had a guy from cork messaging me to tell me I'm fat but it's a compliment. This is hurtful and in an age where women harm themselves in order to achieve certain looks it's also stupid. Will people please engage there brains before messaging and think about what you write and the effects it will have. Even though the message was hurtful I'm a stronger, better, more intelligent person then the stupid little man that sent that message. ... unfortunately others are not I can't for the life of me understand how any person can think for one second that calling a person fat is a compliment. Any pics I've seen of you have all looked great to me you wee ride ye. I definitely agree that some people should think about what they are saying before they speak but alas some of them just simply don't have the brains." A wee ride ... I can hear that accent you know. All I can say is for every dope there really is 3 gentlemen ... positives outweigh the negatives | |||
"What a prick!!!!! And FYI I think your pure sexy "Why thank you very much | |||
"Old. Fat. And a slag. Just some of the insults I regularly get thrown at me when I reject people. Old - yeh still get people 20 years my junior hitting on me in clubs. Fat - mmm hate to disappoint you but not really. Curvy yep but healthy with it. A slag - well how does that make you feel, cos this 'slag' would never fuck you in a million years. Rejected my a slag ya muppets! OP it says more about the abuser than you. Ignore the fuckards on here." I love love love your attitude. .. rejected by a slag you muppet .... love it 
Well this Slag wouldn't fuck that rwat in a million years | |||
"Old. Fat. And a slag. Just some of the insults I regularly get thrown at me when I reject people. Old - yeh still get people 20 years my junior hitting on me in clubs. Fat - mmm hate to disappoint you but not really. Curvy yep but healthy with it. A slag - well how does that make you feel, cos this 'slag' would never fuck you in a million years. Rejected my a slag ya muppets! OP it says more about the abuser than you. Ignore the fuckards on here. I love love love your attitude. .. rejected by a slag you muppet .... love it
Well this Slag wouldn't fuck that rwat in a million years "Love it | |||
"I don't whine or moan and as us ladies know we get a fair amount of dodgy messages. I view it as part of the course and ignore them. This morning is different I just had a guy from cork messaging me to tell me I'm fat but it's a compliment. This is hurtful and in an age where women harm themselves in order to achieve certain looks it's also stupid. Will people please engage there brains before messaging and think about what you write and the effects it will have. Even though the message was hurtful I'm a stronger, better, more intelligent person then the stupid little man that sent that message. ... unfortunately others are not " Fair play OP | |||
"Theyre just sad assholes...plain and simple. No wonder theres serious mistrust of single guys here. Some of us do have some civility and decency. No excuse for these muppets
There really is more good then bad here "Am glad to hear it  aint nothin wrong with curves by the way....really sexy in my opinion. | |||
"What a prick!!!!! And FYI I think your pure sexy
Why thank you very much "Sent you a wee message luv | |||
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"I don't whine or moan and as us ladies know we get a fair amount of dodgy messages. I view it as part of the course and ignore them. This morning is different I just had a guy from cork messaging me to tell me I'm fat but it's a compliment. This is hurtful and in an age where women harm themselves in order to achieve certain looks it's also stupid. Will people please engage there brains before messaging and think about what you write and the effects it will have. Even though the message was hurtful I'm a stronger, better, more intelligent person then the stupid little man that sent that message. ... unfortunately others are not I can't for the life of me understand how any person can think for one second that calling a person fat is a compliment. Any pics I've seen of you have all looked great to me you wee ride ye. I definitely agree that some people should think about what they are saying before they speak but alas some of them just simply don't have the brains. A wee ride ... I can hear that accent you know. All I can say is for every dope there really is 3 gentlemen ... positives outweigh the negatives "You know it. | |||
"Old. Fat. And a slag. Just some of the insults I regularly get thrown at me when I reject people. Old - yeh still get people 20 years my junior hitting on me in clubs. Fat - mmm hate to disappoint you but not really. Curvy yep but healthy with it. A slag - well how does that make you feel, cos this 'slag' would never fuck you in a million years. Rejected my a slag ya muppets! OP it says more about the abuser than you. Ignore the fuckards on here." This! This right here! We have a thread winner folks | |||
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"I'm so sorry you had to put up with that OP but it's sadly a common occurrence on here, I've been on here a very long time now and been called fat ugly and should be drowned, that no man in his right mind would want to come near me. And I've even had verbal abuse on coffee meets and was badly injured by one meet I had 4yrs ago, Yes it does get to you I brushed it off for a long time but eventually got to the stage where I retired from swinging here in ireland, I now travel to swing clubs abroad to play and find that I'm made more welcome by people there and my size is accepted. yes I'm fat but I'm definitely not ugly and anyone that doesn't like how i look dont look at me I'm a bbw and I'm proud of who I am so don't let the wankers get to you be the beautiful person you are and leave those people at the kerb where they belong. " ---------------- I'm a firm believer that sexy is a state of mind not numbers on a scale... but just want to say that if you're half as sensual or beautiful as your pics suggest, any man here should consider himself lucky to enjoy a coffee let alone share a bed with you. So, keep your head up and your dancing shoes on lovely lady. Night... | |||
"I'm so sorry you had to put up with that OP but it's sadly a common occurrence on here, I've been on here a very long time now and been called fat ugly and should be drowned, that no man in his right mind would want to come near me. And I've even had verbal abuse on coffee meets and was badly injured by one meet I had 4yrs ago, Yes it does get to you I brushed it off for a long time but eventually got to the stage where I retired from swinging here in ireland, I now travel to swing clubs abroad to play and find that I'm made more welcome by people there and my size is accepted. yes I'm fat but I'm definitely not ugly and anyone that doesn't like how i look dont look at me I'm a bbw and I'm proud of who I am so don't let the wankers get to you be the beautiful person you are and leave those people at the kerb where they belong. " Hey come out here, before you go heading back over to the UK! I thought your post was lovely, as in heartfelt, genuine and sincere.Im not going to dwell on the scary aspects of it, as you don't seem to be, other than to say im sorry you or any lady had/has to experience that abuse!! What I really want to say, without it sounding like another platitude is, how beautiful your pictures are. So sensual and exotic, there was a thread only last evening, guys n girls talking photography, your input im sure would have been very welcome, last but not least, Irelands loss is Englands gain, the bastards Always remember lady, theres a big welcome mat here for ya, if you ever decide to return. | |||
"Old. Fat. And a slag. Just some of the insults I regularly get thrown at me when I reject people. Old - yeh still get people 20 years my junior hitting on me in clubs. Fat - mmm hate to disappoint you but not really. Curvy yep but healthy with it. A slag - well how does that make you feel, cos this 'slag' would never fuck you in a million years. Rejected my a slag ya muppets! OP it says more about the abuser than you. Ignore the fuckards on here. This! This right here! We have a thread winner folks "Got to agree . Love this lady's attitude | |||
"What an asshole.I'm glad you didn't let him get to you! I think you look very sexy ?? I do prefer curvy ladies, I'm also one myself "Thank you wild cherry .. a compliment from a lady is always accepted | |||
"I'm so sorry you had to put up with that OP but it's sadly a common occurrence on here, I've been on here a very long time now and been called fat ugly and should be drowned, that no man in his right mind would want to come near me. And I've even had verbal abuse on coffee meets and was badly injured by one meet I had 4yrs ago, Yes it does get to you I brushed it off for a long time but eventually got to the stage where I retired from swinging here in ireland, I now travel to swing clubs abroad to play and find that I'm made more welcome by people there and my size is accepted. yes I'm fat but I'm definitely not ugly and anyone that doesn't like how i look dont look at me I'm a bbw and I'm proud of who I am so don't let the wankers get to you be the beautiful person you are and leave those people at the kerb where they belong. " Thank you xx | |||
"so reading between the lines here op he called you a BBW or simmilar?" Read what I wrote it's very clear | |||
"so reading between the lines here op he called you a BBW or simmilar?" Big difference calling someone fat and bbw. I know im fat i live with it everyday of the week but to b told it is not nice, its rude and unnecessary. Like op i had a message from a complete random guy who i had never spoken to or geard from before send me a message twlling ne im fat. Why ? What business is it of his? I hadnt contacted him. As op said people need to b a little bit more considerate on here. | |||
"so reading between the lines here op he called you a BBW or simmilar? Read what I wrote it's very clear " you said he "called you fat but it was a compliment". BBW would fit that description perfectly ? I only ask as everyone seems to be reacting as if he has messaged you to insult you when you say he complimented you but you cook it as an insult. | |||
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