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so how is fab the site you expected it to be when you joined or is it lot different
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So before I joined fab I had idea of what I thought it would be like but safe to say its not as great as thought it would be have any others had there expectations met or you been dissapointed by the site  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's always entertaining , never dull and lots of hotties So no not disappointing at all "
. Oh yeah great for women you get what you want out of it lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's always entertaining , never dull and lots of hotties So no not disappointing at all . Oh yeah great for women you get what you want out of it lol "
You can't always get want you want but sometimes you get what you need |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's always entertaining , never dull and lots of hotties So no not disappointing at all . Oh yeah great for women you get what you want out of it lol
You can't always get want you want but sometimes you get what you need "
true women have it easy lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Remember ladies have it easy because we are imbeciles
New lady/couple join.. Hundreds of cock pics, wanna fucks, welcome to the site, how you finding it etc etc
We need to play it cool ...
Will that every happen ... No |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Remember ladies have it easy because we are imbeciles
New lady/couple join.. Hundreds of cock pics, wanna fucks, welcome to the site, how you finding it etc etc
We need to play it cool ...
Will that every happen ... No "
to be fair most guys joing a swingers site are gonna be expecting to have fun and sex and this more like x-rated dating site lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I had some cock pics up myself had take it down as guy I had run in on another site has joined this and I could see him putting my pics up on that social network site lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Remember ladies have it easy because we are imbeciles
New lady/couple join.. Hundreds of cock pics, wanna fucks, welcome to the site, how you finding it etc etc
We need to play it cool ...
Will that every happen ... No to be fair most guys joing a swingers site are gonna be expecting to have fun and sex and this more like x-rated dating site lol "
I agree, it's POF with nakey pics  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's always entertaining , never dull and lots of hotties So no not disappointing at all . Oh yeah great for women you get what you want out of it lol
You can't always get want you want but sometimes you get what you need true women have it easy lol "
Maybe try a more positive attitude . And no it's not easy for women either |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had some cock pics up myself had take it down as guy I had run in on another site has joined this and I could see him putting my pics up on that social network site lol "
Block him and he won't see your profile |
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"It's always entertaining , never dull and lots of hotties So no not disappointing at all . Oh yeah great for women you get what you want out of it lol
You can't always get want you want but sometimes you get what you need true women have it easy lol "
I wouldn't say the women have it easy... the fact is there seems to be more men on this site than women which means women have a wider choice to narrow down to find someone suitable |
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"It's always entertaining , never dull and lots of hotties So no not disappointing at all . Oh yeah great for women you get what you want out of it lol
You can't always get want you want but sometimes you get what you need "
Love the Rolling Stones. Saw them in Slane in 2007 and was right at front. |
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I've had plenty of meets and currently talking to plenty of women. The only thing that is limiting me right now is that I have no driving licence. Doing my test though in few weeks and once I have it then I will be able to drive distances and have many more meets. Can't wait.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's always entertaining , never dull and lots of hotties So no not disappointing at all . Oh yeah great for women you get what you want out of it lol
You can't always get want you want but sometimes you get what you need
Love the Rolling Stones. Saw them in Slane in 2007 and was right at front. "
They are awesome ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think like most things in life, if you approach it with a positive attitude then that comes across to others.
Personally it's been a great learning experience and I've met & chatted to some great people who I might not have met otherwise. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The best thing i ever done was join fab.have met fantastic people and had fablous experenices
Op u get what u get what u put into the site
A little patience respect goes a long way here
Women dont have it as easy as some men think. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's cliquey....run by a few drama queens and people who think they are fab royalty....forgetting the difference between fab and reality....so In summary not all I thought it was pal."
There's a clique ? Can I join ? Who do I send my CV to ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So before I joined fab I had idea of what I thought it would be like but safe to say its not as great as thought it would be have any others had there expectations met or you been dissapointed by the site "
What did you think it would be like? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's cliquey....run by a few drama queens and people who think they are fab royalty....forgetting the difference between fab and reality....so In summary not all I thought it was pal.
There's a clique ? Can I join ? Who do I send my CV to ? "
King and Queen c/o Fab royalty |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's cliquey....run by a few drama queens and people who think they are fab royalty....forgetting the difference between fab and reality....so In summary not all I thought it was pal.
There's a clique ? Can I join ? Who do I send my CV to ?
King and Queen c/o Fab royalty "
Do I get to wear a crown too ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's cliquey....run by a few drama queens and people who think they are fab royalty....forgetting the difference between fab and reality....so In summary not all I thought it was pal.
There's a clique ? Can I join ? Who do I send my CV to ?
King and Queen c/o Fab royalty
Do I get to wear a crown too ?"
You may be a princess |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's cliquey....run by a few drama queens and people who think they are fab royalty....forgetting the difference between fab and reality....so In summary not all I thought it was pal.
There's a clique ? Can I join ? Who do I send my CV to ?
King and Queen c/o Fab royalty
Do I get to wear a crown too ?
You may be a princess "
That's a tira isn't it idk I wanted a crown ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"On a serious note top tip for the ladies I have learned don't leave expensive lingerie behind you especially if it's one of your favs "
Ops wrong thread |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I will settle for a shiny tiara
Swap with maybebaby lol"
Hold on now will hers be shiner them mine ? I'm not sure I like this clique at all , is there an exit interview process ? I'll could be pressured to stay if I get two tiaras and maybe some cake . |
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By *uite45Man
over a year ago
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Hi everyone. Well I have been on here a year.... and have met no one. Tell people the and nothing. Well thats not all ture....have been stood up 4/5 times. So I will keep been me and see where it brings me. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hi everyone. Well I have been on here a year.... and have met no one. Tell people the and nothing. Well thats not all ture....have been stood up 4/5 times. So I will keep been me and see where it brings me. "
well if they don't like you for been you then there not worth your time mate but I'm sure you will find someone soon |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
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Op I suspect you thought it would be dial a ride and I suspect you got a wake up call after the first week. Moaning about not getting meets is a sure fire way to not get meets.
For me fab has been great |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I will settle for a shiny tiara
Swap with maybebaby lol
Hold on now will hers be shiner them mine ? I'm not sure I like this clique at all , is there an exit interview process ? I'll could be pressured to stay if I get two tiaras and maybe some cake ."
Cake? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ah will leave u the tiara .id just find them a damn nusinance in my hair anyway haha
Okay I'm in so  "
Wait what about the cake ! I'm terrible at this negotiation stuff |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ah will leave u the tiara .id just find them a damn nusinance in my hair anyway haha
Okay I'm in so
Wait what about the cake ! I'm terrible at this negotiation stuff "
Also I've no idea what that emoji means ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I will settle for a shiny tiara
Swap with maybebaby lol
Hold on now will hers be shiner them mine ? I'm not sure I like this clique at all , is there an exit interview process ? I'll could be pressured to stay if I get two tiaras and maybe some cake .
Cake? "
I was just trying to get good terms and conditions and I like cake |
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Not quite feeling the buzz of fab atm, possibly it could be me. But have found more people having more bad experiences than good..... the forums have taken a huge nosedive lots of strong characters even left or are not bothering posting anymore.... it's the circle of fab I guess.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Op I suspect you thought it would be dial a ride and I suspect you got a wake up call after the first week. Moaning about not getting meets is a sure fire way to not get meets.
For me fab has been great "
not moaning just saying wasn't as I expected it to be like and asking how other have found it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What were ya expecting OP? thought be lot more open fun this kinda more like x-rated dating website maybe that's just me tho "
I think must ladies here like to be taken out for drinks or dinner if that's what you mean and have a connection with someone , so yes it is like a date . I know it's my preference . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not quite feeling the buzz of fab atm, possibly it could be me. But have found more people having more bad experiences than good..... the forums have taken a huge nosedive lots of strong characters even left or are not bothering posting anymore.... it's the circle of fab I guess. "
I hear you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not quite feeling the buzz of fab atm, possibly it could be me. But have found more people having more bad experiences than good..... the forums have taken a huge nosedive lots of strong characters even left or are not bothering posting anymore.... it's the circle of fab I guess. "
yeah see lot talking about people not turning up for meets and all abuse you women get in mail must be annoying  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What were ya expecting OP? thought be lot more open fun this kinda more like x-rated dating website maybe that's just me tho "
I've found that most people on here want to meet people they actually like, rather than just anyone, which I kind of expected anyway! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have to admit I must be pretty lucky here aswell...ive met a couple of really nice girls and chatting to some really nice and interesting people.
I think blokes come on here and expect great things to happen but it's a woman's market here and you have to stand out from the rest. This place is full of guys who send dick pics in the first message but I've found that being able to hold a conversation and the other persons attention is far better than any dick pic.
It's hard work but I'm a grafter and perseverance is key.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think everyone has different expectations of what they want on fab
Theres something and someone here for everyone
Might be a wait but we normally get there in the end
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What where you expecting? How did it not live up to your expectations? "
thought it be more fun then just x-rated dating site but early days I suppose |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Have to admit I must be pretty lucky here aswell...ive met a couple of really nice girls and chatting to some really nice and interesting people.
I think blokes come on here and expect great things to happen but it's a woman's market here and you have to stand out from the rest. This place is full of guys who send dick pics in the first message but I've found that being able to hold a conversation and the other persons attention is far better than any dick pic.
It's hard work but I'm a grafter and perseverance is key.
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very true agree with your comment quite few guys seem to be having problems meeting women but as you say its because of amount of women to men ratio is ridiculous lol |
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I think the majority of men get overly excited when they join. And send messages and cock pics at every angle.... I'm sick and sure every woman is with intro mail with various cock pics asking me when we gonna fuck and I'm in your area now. The men get disheartened cause it's not dial a ride and the women get sick of being treated like meat.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think the majority of men get overly excited when they join. And send messages and cock pics at every angle.... I'm sick and sure every woman is with intro mail with various cock pics asking me when we gonna fuck and I'm in your area now. The men get disheartened cause it's not dial a ride and the women get sick of being treated like meat.... "
yeah true I never sent cock pics tho lol |
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different, I thought people would be very chilled out about sex on a site like this, but its not that way at all, it seems to dominate their existence in a way in fact. personally I don't get nervous, don't get attached, and just enjoy the people having sex as much as the sex, but there is definitely a 'vibe' on here that its all about the performance, and even if the performance was average, all about making others think it wasn't!!!!!
sounds negative all that, but its my take and I accept its a generalisation |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"different, I thought people would be very chilled out about sex on a site like this, but its not that way at all, it seems to dominate their existence in a way in fact. personally I don't get nervous, don't get attached, and just enjoy the people having sex as much as the sex, but there is definitely a 'vibe' on here that its all about the performance, and even if the performance was average, all about making others think it wasn't!!!!!
sounds negative all that, but its my take and I accept its a generalisation"
Performance ? nothing would turn me off more. Sex should be passionate and fun . I'm not a performing monkey and I'm not a fan of fucking for sport . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"different, I thought people would be very chilled out about sex on a site like this, but its not that way at all, it seems to dominate their existence in a way in fact. personally I don't get nervous, don't get attached, and just enjoy the people having sex as much as the sex, but there is definitely a 'vibe' on here that its all about the performance, and even if the performance was average, all about making others think it wasn't!!!!!
sounds negative all that, but its my take and I accept its a generalisation
Performance ? nothing would turn me off more. Sex should be passionate and fun . I'm not a performing monkey and I'm not a fan of fucking for sport . "
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"different, I thought people would be very chilled out about sex on a site like this, but its not that way at all, it seems to dominate their existence in a way in fact. personally I don't get nervous, don't get attached, and just enjoy the people having sex as much as the sex, but there is definitely a 'vibe' on here that its all about the performance, and even if the performance was average, all about making others think it wasn't!!!!!
sounds negative all that, but its my take and I accept its a generalisation
Performance ? nothing would turn me off more. Sex should be passionate and fun . I'm not a performing monkey and I'm not a fan of fucking for sport . "
id agree, probably why I haven't met since I re-joined!!...do enjoy the chats though!! |
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"Have to admit I must be pretty lucky here aswell...ive met a couple of really nice girls and chatting to some really nice and interesting people.
I think blokes come on here and expect great things to happen but it's a woman's market here and you have to stand out from the rest. This place is full of guys who send dick pics in the first message but I've found that being able to hold a conversation and the other persons attention is far better than any dick pic.
It's hard work but I'm a grafter and perseverance is key.
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^^ What this guy said right here. Same approach has worked for me. I've met plenty of nice women and am talking to plenty of nice women. I've even been friends now for four years outside of Fab without a wonderful lady I met on here.
There's been plenty of women who have wanted to meet but I have been restricted by distance and having no licence which I hope shall change soon.
I've also turned down plenty of meets as I won't have sex with just anybody just because they are offering. I prefer a bit of a connection and quality over quantity. I want to meet a person not an object or somebody with the conversational skills of a cabbage.
I've had bad meets too but the good far outweighs the bad. Gotta take the rough with the smooth. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"different, I thought people would be very chilled out about sex on a site like this, but its not that way at all, it seems to dominate their existence in a way in fact. personally I don't get nervous, don't get attached, and just enjoy the people having sex as much as the sex, but there is definitely a 'vibe' on here that its all about the performance, and even if the performance was average, all about making others think it wasn't!!!!!
sounds negative all that, but its my take and I accept its a generalisation"
I mostly agree with you there |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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I joined looking for openminded people that weren't afraid to express their sexuality that could have a laugh and talk about what they liked in an adult manner with out the snigger and finger pointing of vanilla land
Mostly it has being like that and like starting to go to a new local after a bit of interacting here on the forums and in chat doors started to open and before I knew it I was living the dream
The dream was never to shag the whole herd but to pick out the pedigree that suited my personality and so far I have being having a ball doing just this along with exploring things I never dreamt I'd do or heard of before fab
U see its like life u live and learn and if something isn't working for u then it's up to u to change it
Is fab anything like I expected hell no its textiles better |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"I joined looking for openminded people that weren't afraid to express their sexuality that could have a laugh and talk about what they liked in an adult manner with out the snigger and finger pointing of vanilla land
Mostly it has being like that and like starting to go to a new local after a bit of interacting here on the forums and in chat doors started to open and before I knew it I was living the dream
The dream was never to shag the whole herd but to pick out the pedigree that suited my personality and so far I have being having a ball doing just this along with exploring things I never dreamt I'd do or heard of before fab
U see its like life u live and learn and if something isn't working for u then it's up to u to change it
Is fab anything like I expected hell no its textiles better "
Ffs ten times better not textiles |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I joined looking for openminded people that weren't afraid to express their sexuality that could have a laugh and talk about what they liked in an adult manner with out the snigger and finger pointing of vanilla land
Mostly it has being like that and like starting to go to a new local after a bit of interacting here on the forums and in chat doors started to open and before I knew it I was living the dream
The dream was never to shag the whole herd but to pick out the pedigree that suited my personality and so far I have being having a ball doing just this along with exploring things I never dreamt I'd do or heard of before fab
U see its like life u live and learn and if something isn't working for u then it's up to u to change it
Is fab anything like I expected hell no its textiles better
Ffs ten times better not textiles "
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"I joined looking for openminded people that weren't afraid to express their sexuality that could have a laugh and talk about what they liked in an adult manner with out the snigger and finger pointing of vanilla land
Mostly it has being like that and like starting to go to a new local after a bit of interacting here on the forums and in chat doors started to open and before I knew it I was living the dream
The dream was never to shag the whole herd but to pick out the pedigree that suited my personality and so far I have being having a ball doing just this along with exploring things I never dreamt I'd do or heard of before fab
U see its like life u live and learn and if something isn't working for u then it's up to u to change it
Is fab anything like I expected hell no its textiles better
Ffs ten times better not textiles "
Well, ya know, textiles works on here too.
Carpets and rugs gotta be laid too right? And curtains need a good pulling or tug first thing in morning and last thing at night. |
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