FabSwingers.com > Forums > Ireland > What made you swing?
What made you swing?
Jump to: Newest in thread
The wife has mentioned a threesome multiple times. But always changes her mind. She seems to be genuine when she says she wants to, then seems to get scared
What was it that made you decide to involve another person for the first time? How did you feel? Did it live up to your expectations? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Inviting a woman to join us for some FMF fun, we chatted on KIK for a few days to make sure we were first of all, all sane and then on the same sexy wavelength...
A coffee meet would be a good first step but in our case we all got on so well that we planned a night for all three of us to pop our threesome cherry together.
I was always curious about it and it far surpassed my sex-pectations.
I understand your partner having mixed feelings so maybe a coffee and chat initially as Cozy chemistry is #1 though  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Inviting a woman to join us for some FMF fun, we chatted on KIK for a few days to make sure we were first of all, all sane and then on the same sexy wavelength...
A coffee meet would be a good first step but in our case we all got on so well that we planned a night for all three of us to pop our threesome cherry together.
I was always curious about it and it far surpassed my sex-pectations.
I understand your partner having mixed feelings so maybe a coffee and chat initially as Cozy chemistry is #1 though "
Its not got to that point yet. We created a joint profile then she wanted it deleted. I think shes worried about people finding out, but i get the sense shes very interested |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
 |
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Inviting a woman to join us for some FMF fun, we chatted on KIK for a few days to make sure we were first of all, all sane and then on the same sexy wavelength...
A coffee meet would be a good first step but in our case we all got on so well that we planned a night for all three of us to pop our threesome cherry together.
I was always curious about it and it far surpassed my sex-pectations.
I understand your partner having mixed feelings so maybe a coffee and chat initially as Cozy chemistry is #1 though
Its not got to that point yet. We created a joint profile then she wanted it deleted. I think shes worried about people finding out, but i get the sense shes very interested"
Ask her? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Inviting a woman to join us for some FMF fun, we chatted on KIK for a few days to make sure we were first of all, all sane and then on the same sexy wavelength...
A coffee meet would be a good first step but in our case we all got on so well that we planned a night for all three of us to pop our threesome cherry together.
I was always curious about it and it far surpassed my sex-pectations.
I understand your partner having mixed feelings so maybe a coffee and chat initially as Cozy chemistry is #1 though
Its not got to that point yet. We created a joint profile then she wanted it deleted. I think shes worried about people finding out, but i get the sense shes very interested"
--------------------
Could be a little battle going on between her "good girl" "bad girl" side as well???  / 
You seem clued in so am sure discretion will be given to the lady. Am sounding like Cilla Black now, but do feel free to come back and tell us how you got on |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Everyone is nervous at the beginning....
If anyone remembers lovers leap house a good 20 years ago in Wicklow we backed out so many times although we were dying to go! Once you take the leap you will know if you love this or not
Sam |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ohnandGemCouple
over a year ago
Louth/Meath/Dublin |
"Everyone is nervous at the beginning....
If anyone remembers lovers leap house a good 20 years ago in Wicklow we backed out so many times although we were dying to go! Once you take the leap you will know if you love this or not
Sam"
Holy shit I forgot about that place. I used to read about it in the Sunday world all the time when I was a young lad.
It's probably where the seeds got planted.... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
For myself it just felt like a natural progression within our relationship, partner and myself craved every aspect of each other mentally, emotionally and sexually, and of course boundaries are pushed to and fro until we agree a happy medium, for our adventure into swingland. From there on in it has been a steep learning curve. There is no denying all the positives that go with this lifestyle, but also a lot of life lessons learned along the way, some of these quite challenging as a couple. Nothing can quite prepare you for the initial experience, so a lot of talking between each other around the pros and cons are essential.sexual liberation is amazing, and when this is supported by emotional and psychological connection to each other first and foremost, the experience is out of this world, a piece of advice, when you both have this experience and come away from it, treat your princess like the beautiful lady that she is and vica versa, because there will be highs and lows. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Everyone is nervous at the beginning....
If anyone remembers lovers leap house a good 20 years ago in Wicklow we backed out so many times although we were dying to go! Once you take the leap you will know if you love this or not
Sam
Holy shit I forgot about that place. I used to read about it in the Sunday world all the time when I was a young lad.
It's probably where the seeds got planted...."
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Inviting a woman to join us for some FMF fun, we chatted on KIK for a few days to make sure we were first of all, all sane and then on the same sexy wavelength...
A coffee meet would be a good first step but in our case we all got on so well that we planned a night for all three of us to pop our threesome cherry together.
I was always curious about it and it far surpassed my sex-pectations.
I understand your partner having mixed feelings so maybe a coffee and chat initially as Cozy chemistry is #1 though
Its not got to that point yet. We created a joint profile then she wanted it deleted. I think shes worried about people finding out, but i get the sense shes very interested
--------------------
Could be a little battle going on between her "good girl" "bad girl" side as well??? /
You seem clued in so am sure discretion will be given to the lady. Am sounding like Cilla Black now, but do feel free to come back and tell us how you got on "
I think your spot on, she wants too, but the nerves are winning. Just wondering what made people take that final leap of faith.
(I imagine lots of alchohol? Lol) |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Inviting a woman to join us for some FMF fun, we chatted on KIK for a few days to make sure we were first of all, all sane and then on the same sexy wavelength...
A coffee meet would be a good first step but in our case we all got on so well that we planned a night for all three of us to pop our threesome cherry together.
I was always curious about it and it far surpassed my sex-pectations.
I understand your partner having mixed feelings so maybe a coffee and chat initially as Cozy chemistry is #1 though
Its not got to that point yet. We created a joint profile then she wanted it deleted. I think shes worried about people finding out, but i get the sense shes very interested
--------------------
Could be a little battle going on between her "good girl" "bad girl" side as well??? /
You seem clued in so am sure discretion will be given to the lady. Am sounding like Cilla Black now, but do feel free to come back and tell us how you got on
I think your spot on, she wants too, but the nerves are winning. Just wondering what made people take that final leap of faith.
(I imagine lots of alchohol? Lol)"
--------------
If she's nervous, best find out exactly what she's nervous about... Nervous about possibility of someone finding out? Nerves about being with an extra body? Nervous about doing something new?
A little dutch courage is well & good, but a simple no pressure coffee meet can often allay nerves and work wonders |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *adame BWoman
over a year ago
C'est moi Boudoir |
Had my first MFF in my early twenties and it just felt so great it was a no brainer.
Re your wife op, I hosted a soirée recently with a mixed group and all the ladies were bi but two of the ladies were curious and nervous. It was a fantastic setting were they could witness their fantasy and decide if they wanted to take the leap...they both did with gusto and I am delighted to have provided that environment for them.
Madame Boo |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Meeting someone on tinder. Promised to be the Dom that I needed along with the mental stimulation. Met, played, enjoyed and then he went cold  Natural progression to head here trying to find what I desire. Good luck with persuading your good lady wife OP  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I'm too picky for threesomes. Rather mff than mmf and even mff doesn't float my boat. Probably just haven't met the right people "
That been said, I would love to do a mfffff |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"The wife has mentioned a threesome multiple times. But always changes her mind. She seems to be genuine when she says she wants to, then seems to get scared
What was it that made you decide to involve another person for the first time? How did you feel? Did it live up to your expectations?"
I wanted to experience cuckold, and also meet a lady who enjoyed the art of sex, that wasn't shy about her needs!!
Vanilla is so hit and miss .. The amout of ladies who won't let you go down or go down themselves is not worth the hassle!!
The saying a lady on the street a devil between the sheets is what brought me fabs direction  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
