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if your dating women/man would you tell them you have been on swinging site
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I see I wouldn't personally cheat on someone if got with them . Just I know quite few women that if I was dating them and they knew I had been meeting up with women of swinging site they wouldn't be impressed lol |
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By *squaredCouple
over a year ago
Dublin/westmeath/kildare |
I was on a site ages ago.
Then met a guy & left.
I let Mr know after initial get to know...... things happened..... I set up profile for us & we have met some amazing people, been to some amazing parties & had fun experiences.
Depends what you were here for will change if you tell. If you love latex or bdsm.... & you don't tell then you don't get to experience that again & that could end relationship as you are not being fulfilled or you end up cheating to get your fix.
Imagine if you still keep in contact with people from here - all the lies to cover it up or partner not being able to join conversation as jig saw pieces missing.
I'd still tell him tomorrow if I hadn't done it already. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Very true that but if you were mad about the person and they weren't into swinging then I would give it up personally then if doesn't work out can always go back to it lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was on a site ages ago.
Then met a guy & left.
I let Mr know after initial get to know...... things happened..... I set up profile for us & we have met some amazing people, been to some amazing parties & had fun experiences.
Depends what you were here for will change if you tell. If you love latex or bdsm.... & you don't tell then you don't get to experience that again & that could end relationship as you are not being fulfilled or you end up cheating to get your fix.
Imagine if you still keep in contact with people from here - all the lies to cover it up or partner not being able to join conversation as jig saw pieces missing.
I'd still tell him tomorrow if I hadn't done it already."
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this is the best advice.. no secrets  |
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By *ohnandGemCouple
over a year ago
Louth/Meath/Dublin |
I met G offsite as I was taking a break from fab. As soon as I met her I knew she was the "fab type" and told her about it one night. Turns out she had already known about it as other guys on other dating sites had tried to get her to join with them as a couple (before they'd even met!)
We decided that we would join at some point, once we had a solid relationship, and also because she wanted to explore her sexuality as she was bi curious.
I told her all my experiences and she was really interested, so it all worked out well and now here we are! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What do you mean past?
Meeting a girl doesn't mean that I would give away big part of my personality. All my dates find out early about my interests, so they can make best decision for themselves about their commitment.
But I guess, If I was meeting only single girls through FAB, I wouldn't mention this to any of my dates, as I wouldn't tell them if I was also on Tinder, Badoo or POF. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's really down to how big a part Fab would play in you're life.. it's not like we tell most people we're with about every single relationship, dalliance, kiss or shag we've ever had... but if it's a huge part of you're life (same as an ex or a relationship might of been) then you'll have to tell them.. whether they understand now, that's a different game of soldiers...  |
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