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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So I'm wondering is it polite to ask the size of ur meets penis? I have found that this information is usually freely given.
But it's a little disappointing to be left short changed.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i have never asked this question to a meet , perfer not to think of men as a walking dildo im sure a lot of guys dont mind being asked tho , if you simply feel a small penis is of no use to you better to find out before meeting . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I'm wondering is it polite to ask the size of ur meets penis? I have found that this information is usually freely given.
But it's a little disappointing to be left short changed.
....take me to your ruler
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i have never asked this question to a meet , perfer not to think of men as a walking dildo im sure a lot of guys dont mind being asked tho , if you simply feel a small penis is of no use to you better to find out before meeting ."
This 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I'm wondering is it polite to ask the size of ur meets penis? I have found that this information is usually freely given.
But it's a little disappointing to be left short changed.
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What, in your book, is short change?
And in the spirit of the forum, I'm 7"... |
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By *ohnandGemCouple
over a year ago
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"So I'm wondering is it polite to ask the size of ur meets penis? I have found that this information is usually freely given.
But it's a little disappointing to be left short changed.
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How would you feel of you were asked how big your tits were or how tight your pussy is?
It depends on the person really. Some might be offended and others might not care. |
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"So I'm wondering is it polite to ask the size of ur meets penis? I have found that this information is usually freely given.
But it's a little disappointing to be left short changed.
How would you feel of you were asked how big your tits were or how tight your pussy is?
It depends on the person really. Some might be offended and others might not care."
sure some willies are Tiny same way as some tits are Tiny and some pussy's are as wide as the grand canyon! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never been asked. Have sent pics on request. To me in average be it imperial or metric. But the pics may be deceiving as my impression is less than the recipients. Why is it about size |
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By *ohnandGemCouple
over a year ago
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"So I'm wondering is it polite to ask the size of ur meets penis? I have found that this information is usually freely given.
But it's a little disappointing to be left short changed.
How would you feel of you were asked how big your tits were or how tight your pussy is?
It depends on the person really. Some might be offended and others might not care.sure some willies are Tiny same way as some tits are Tiny and some pussy's are as wide as the grand canyon!"
Of course they are. That's not my point, nor the point of the OP
It's about asking.
If it was asked in the opening mail without so much as a hello, I'd consider it rude.
Do you think ladies like being asked about tit size in their first mail? Of course not.
Timing is everything.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i have never asked this question to a meet , perfer not to think of men as a walking dildo im sure a lot of guys dont mind being asked tho , if you simply feel a small penis is of no use to you better to find out before meeting ."
Or too big |
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By (user no longer on site)
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so should we know the size? I know its about this size but I've never bothered getting a tape out???
Pretty sure we all got a mickey pic on here, cant you just look??
And surely its what you do with it that matters ??
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I'm wondering is it polite to ask the size of ur meets penis? I have found that this information is usually freely given.
But it's a little disappointing to be left short changed.
How would you feel of you were asked how big your tits were or how tight your pussy is?
It depends on the person really. Some might be offended and others might not care."
This ^
I haven't measured my dick since I was at school. I wouldn't be about to start again now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i have never asked this question to a meet , perfer not to think of men as a walking dildo im sure a lot of guys dont mind being asked tho , if you simply feel a small penis is of no use to you better to find out before meeting .
Or too big"
Never too big |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i have never asked this question to a meet , perfer not to think of men as a walking dildo im sure a lot of guys dont mind being asked tho , if you simply feel a small penis is of no use to you better to find out before meeting .
Or too big"
I was bit afraid of "too big" ones before Ed 
Not anymore  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i have never asked this question to a meet , perfer not to think of men as a walking dildo im sure a lot of guys dont mind being asked tho , if you simply feel a small penis is of no use to you better to find out before meeting .
Or too big
I was bit afraid of "too big" ones before Ed
Not anymore "
See now, with a shared profile we can't be sure if this is Alex or Ed responding...  |
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"So I'm wondering is it polite to ask the size of ur meets penis? I have found that this information is usually freely given.
But it's a little disappointing to be left short changed.
How would you feel of you were asked how big your tits were or how tight your pussy is?
It depends on the person really. Some might be offended and others might not care."
Well for me its not about the size of the tits or how tight the pussy  , its all about the person they belong to .
Yes i do love a good pair of boobs but mi more than happy with any that im aloud play with 
As for my size , I have no complaints 
Mr Dirty xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i have never asked this question to a meet , perfer not to think of men as a walking dildo im sure a lot of guys dont mind being asked tho , if you simply feel a small penis is of no use to you better to find out before meeting .
Or too big
I was bit afraid of "too big" ones before Ed
Not anymore
See now, with a shared profile we can't be sure if this is Alex or Ed responding... "
It's always me on forums (Alex) Ed is only allowed to reply mails, sometimes hahaha (I'm joking... He reads sometimes)
Alex |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As anyone who watched game of thrones this week can agree, if you're lacking in the trouser area just be good at oral. "
If you ain't got it in the hips ...you'd better have it in the lips |
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"i have never asked this question to a meet , perfer not to think of men as a walking dildo im sure a lot of guys dont mind being asked tho , if you simply feel a small penis is of no use to you better to find out before meeting .
Or too big"
But what use is an 8inch+ cock if its attached to a huge prick |
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"i have never asked this question to a meet , perfer not to think of men as a walking dildo im sure a lot of guys dont mind being asked tho , if you simply feel a small penis is of no use to you better to find out before meeting .
Or too big
I was bit afraid of "too big" ones before Ed
Not anymore
See now, with a shared profile we can't be sure if this is Alex or Ed responding...
It's always me on forums (Alex) Ed is only allowed to reply mails, sometimes hahaha (I'm joking... He reads sometimes)
Alex "
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By *yhrk69Man
over a year ago
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"i have never asked this question to a meet , perfer not to think of men as a walking dildo im sure a lot of guys dont mind being asked tho , if you simply feel a small penis is of no use to you better to find out before meeting .
Or too big
But what use is an 8inch+ cock if its attached to a huge prick "
that's pure funny...pmsl  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I'm wondering is it polite to ask the size of ur meets penis? I have found that this information is usually freely given.
But it's a little disappointing to be left short changed.
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Is it so important? I'm maybe not mad experience with women's but sex that's not only size or I'm wrong? Big job needs to be done before you'll slide it in (i think ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If I'm ever asked then it usually goes no further. If she feels I don't know how to use it to please her then there's no point meeting asthe mental cconnection has just been partially severed and theres probably nothing she can now do to reconnect it back. That's the problem with a true sapiophile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If I'm ever asked then it usually goes no further. If she feels I don't know how to use it to please her then there's no point meeting asthe mental cconnection has just been partially severed and theres probably nothing she can now do to reconnect it back. That's the problem with a true sapiophile. "
Yeah, agree with you. Nicely said |
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By *tranTV/TS
over a year ago
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Some guys look big when they are limp, but it never gets much bigger.
Some guys look small when they are limp but it grows a lot bigger.
If you're black you instantly have a bbc, even if its only average or below average.
Most guys will try show it as big as they can, and tell you as big it looks in a photo not as big as it is in person.
Anyway its never really that far off the photos, and sometimes you might be thankful its a bit smaller so it doesnt hurt as much x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Intelligent connection all good and well but if u can't hit the spot
If seems that guys would take offence so.
Thanks for all the input
Could we have a well hung social perhaps ? We already have BBC BBW |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Intelligent connection all good and well but if u can't hit the spot
If seems that guys would take offence so.
Thanks for all the input
Could we have a well hung social perhaps ? We already have BBC BBW "
They deserve their own social too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Intelligent connection all good and well but if u can't hit the spot
If seems that guys would take offence so.
Thanks for all the input
Could we have a well hung social perhaps ? We already have BBC BBW "
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"Intelligent connection all good and well but if u can't hit the spot
If seems that guys would take offence so.
Thanks for all the input
Could we have a well hung social perhaps ? We already have BBC BBW "
Sounds great...then after maybe a 'sub32" waist ' social.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I'm wondering is it polite to ask the size of ur meets penis? I have found that this information is usually freely given.
But it's a little disappointing to be left short changed. ,,,
I have no problem being asked or showing a potential meet
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've never asked any man for size, but I want to see a cock pic before I meet. I had to learn the hard way a few years back and it won't happen again. "
Hard being the operative word  |
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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago
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"so should we know the size? I know its about this size but I've never bothered getting a tape out???
Pretty sure we all got a mickey pic on here, cant you just look??
And surely its what you do with it that matters ??
tenpennoth over "
To be fair , alot seem to say , its what ya do with it that counts , this makes me laugh ad all ya have do is go in and out and repeat lol ,how hard is that
Mrs crazy  |
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By *ohnandGemCouple
over a year ago
Louth/Meath/Dublin |
"So I'm wondering is it polite to ask the size of ur meets penis? I have found that this information is usually freely given.
But it's a little disappointing to be left short changed.
How would you feel of you were asked how big your tits were or how tight your pussy is?
It depends on the person really. Some might be offended and others might not care.
Well for me its not about the size of the tits or how tight the pussy , its all about the person they belong to .
Yes i do love a good pair of boobs but mi more than happy with any that im aloud play with
As for my size , I have no complaints
Mr Dirty xx"
I agree with this sentiment. It's all about the person, but then again as a straight guy I don't have to worry about other cocks. And G is more than happy with me, it's women she wants to meet.
Plus no one has ever complained about my size (at least to my face) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its more the angle of the dangle than the size I think lol  "
That's what I've always been told but then others have different 'approach'
"Anyone can drive straight but takes skill to drive round corners" apparently. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As anyone who watched game of thrones this week can agree, if you're lacking in the trouser area just be good at oral. "
how long is your tongue is next new topic |
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By *ulu00Woman
over a year ago
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"Its more the angle of the dangle than the size I think lol
That's what I've always been told but then others have different 'approach'
"Anyone can drive straight but takes skill to drive round corners" apparently. "
Its hard to beat a wee curve, always hits the spot |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I'm wondering is it polite to ask the size of ur meets penis?
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I don't see why not.
Many that we have never met or even spoke to have messaged us and asked if we had sex last night/over the weekend?
It really is none of their business,and they get very upset when I tell them so. If they feel it's ok to ask that, I don't see why you can't ask a prospective meet the size of his cock. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As anyone who watched game of thrones this week can agree, if you're lacking in the trouser area just be good at oral. how long is your tongue is next new topic "
I'm told mines pretty long |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most guys are in the average range 5-7". Some are below and some are above. Just like tits and pussies.
I wouldn't get offended if asked how big my cock was. I'd reply and then ask for her 'credentials'
For the record, mine is just inside the top if the average range.
But I do have a tongue like a sheepdog. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its more the angle of the dangle than the size I think lol
That's what I've always been told but then others have different 'approach'
"Anyone can drive straight but takes skill to drive round corners" apparently.
Its hard to beat a wee curve, always hits the spot "
Getting a curve ball can be unexpected and sometimes fun if taken properly.
I say it's good for the woman to manoeuvre too. Some like it diferently. .. |
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"So I'm wondering is it polite to ask the size of ur meets penis? I have found that this information is usually freely given.
But it's a little disappointing to be left short changed.
Well as long as your Fanny's not as wide as O'Connell street sure you'll be grand.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It seems to be asked a lot this question. Personally I could estimate my size but I have never felt the need to actually measure it. Saying that, I know its not something you see in the average porn! I've never had a complaint or had any women running for the hills. So I can only conclude it does the job nicely. As for being asked the question. I don't think its classy but its going to happen. If a woman wants a big cock, they should highlight it on their profile. I can only assume that a woman likes a big cock because they like the feeling of it filling them, being deep inside and some like the pain of a big cock. Just like a guy likes the feeling of a pussy that is snug and slightly tight around their shaft. It all aids the pleasure. You'll not find too many guys with class asking how big a woman's pussy is or how many kids they've had through natural birth or if they do kegel exercises on a regular basis. This is Fab. Just do your thing and enjoy. Discard the negative and embrace the positive for a good experience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I'm wondering is it polite to ask the size of ur meets penis? I have found that this information is usually freely given.
But it's a little disappointing to be left short changed.
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I once had a lady ask me to verify my size by taking a picture with a ruler !!
I haven't had a ruler since school !!
I had one of those unbreakable ones, you could bend the motherfucker to all sorts of extreams and it wouldn't break, I miss my bendy ruler  |
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By *pringingMan
over a year ago
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"so should we know the size? I know its about this size but I've never bothered getting a tape out???
Pretty sure we all got a mickey pic on here, cant you just look??
And surely its what you do with it that matters ??
tenpennoth over
To be fair , alot seem to say , its what ya do with it that counts , this makes me laugh ad all ya have do is go in and out and repeat lol ,how hard is that
Mrs crazy "
Isn't that a bit like saying all women have to do is lay there with their legs open?
If your man is just thrusting away robotically like he's pumping a flat tire, he's doing it wrong. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think there is anything wrong asking for penis size before a meet xx
At least you know what you're getting but remember a man's inch is bigger than a woman's inch lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely understand why people would want to know, but personally I wouldn't ask outright - in my eyes it can put pressure on someone to live up to your expectations...
I often think it's this type of pressure that can make people get cold feet at the last minute.... whether it's a demand on their body-type, penis size, face pics, stamina, kinkiness level etc, even if they are quite confident in themselves
If cock size is a hard limit (pun intended ) , available pics, veris and profile descriptions I find are usually good to gauge.... Or pm me for some recommendations lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't think there is anything wrong asking for penis size before a meet xx
At least you know what you're getting but remember a man's inch is bigger than a woman's inch lol "
There's always the possibility of a surprise isn't there no matter what people tell you.
OP. If you've been told it's 9 in and a couple worked over photos sent...you suddenly get excited...a room is booked (maybe you expect the guy to book it so won't matter then) your kissing and the time cum to go down...zip undone... and ooooooh only 6" fully extended and stretched. What happens then? |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"I don't think there is anything wrong asking for penis size before a meet xx
At least you know what you're getting but remember a man's inch is bigger than a woman's inch lol
There's always the possibility of a surprise isn't there no matter what people tell you.
OP. If you've been told it's 9 in and a couple worked over photos sent...you suddenly get excited...a room is booked (maybe you expect the guy to book it so won't matter then) your kissing and the time cum to go down...zip undone... and ooooooh only 6" fully extended and stretched. What happens then?"
Hmm reminds me had once the opposite experience, cock looked decent in pics but not over the top, nearly lost conscience when I saw the joy trunk in full size but it was too late to retreat and just got on with it. |
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By *heilsWoman
over a year ago
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Most are quite willing to show what they have before u meet, before you've spoken quite frankly.. (Between pics on profile and in messages!)
I personally don't feel it matters if they know what to do with all of their equipment - mouth, tongue, finger's as well as the cock...
Also depends what gets the woman off, I personally prefer playing to get me to cum, could bang away with the ole cock, whatever size, and I wouldn't cum....
Some of the best meets I have had, there has been no "sex"... |
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By *ohnandGemCouple
over a year ago
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"Definitely understand why people would want to know, but personally I wouldn't ask outright - in my eyes it can put pressure on someone to live up to your expectations...
I often think it's this type of pressure that can make people get cold feet at the last minute.... whether it's a demand on their body-type, penis size, face pics, stamina, kinkiness level etc, even if they are quite confident in themselves
If cock size is a hard limit (pun intended ) , available pics, veris and profile descriptions I find are usually good to gauge.... Or pm me for some recommendations lol "
Oh I don't know if I should PM you
J. |
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By *irtyricoMan
over a year ago
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"I've posted my first cock pic today, or should I say pics, I've always been self conscious of the size because women always saying they want vwe but hey this is fab so I don't care 6" gang
Absolutely nothing wrong with your cock, I'm sure I could have fun on it "
Haha thank you! I'm sure I'd love that aswell! Pm me x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most women will be offended if ask how open is their pussy, as we surely know that women will prefer to have tight pussy. Personally I won't ask a guy such question rather I will ask if he is very good in bed with his dick |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i have never asked this question to a meet , perfer not to think of men as a walking dildo im sure a lot of guys dont mind being asked tho , if you simply feel a small penis is of no use to you better to find out before meeting ."
I totally agree unless you are into cuckholding x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's kinda weird, like asking a woman her boob size. I have no problem sharing the info of my 8 inch weapon, but it's still a little weird every time I'm asked haha |
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