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over a year ago
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I've met men with no verifications! Just get chatting, charm them, prove you are real, let them make up their own mind. It could take weeks of daily chat to meet someone (sometimes it does with me) but you have to put the graft in  |
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"I've met men with no verifications! Just get chatting, charm them, prove you are real, let them make up their own mind. It could take weeks of daily chat to meet someone (sometimes it does with me) but you have to put the graft in "
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"Any one any advice on how to get your 1st verification when most people won't meet up with a person with no verifications"
Well we are in Kildare as well, we will meet you for a social drink some evening |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Any one any advice on how to get your 1st verification when most people won't meet up with a person with no verifications
Well we are in Kildare as well, we will meet you for a social drink some evening"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Any one any advice on how to get your 1st verification when most people won't meet up with a person with no verifications
Well we are in Kildare as well, we will meet you for a social drink some evening"
Sounds good to me let me know when you have an evening that suits  |
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"Any one any advice on how to get your 1st verification when most people won't meet up with a person with no verifications
Well we are in Kildare as well, we will meet you for a social drink some evening
Sounds good to me let me know when you have an evening that suits "
9pm Thursday night in Athy |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"Any one any advice on how to get your 1st verification when most people won't meet up with a person with no verifications
Well we are in Kildare as well, we will meet you for a social drink some evening
Sounds good to me let me know when you have an evening that suits
9pm Thursday night in Athy"
I hope you pick up on this offer op and see it through! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Any one any advice on how to get your 1st verification when most people won't meet up with a person with no verifications
Well we are in Kildare as well, we will meet you for a social drink some evening
Sounds good to me let me know when you have an evening that suits
9pm Thursday night in Athy"
Boom!!! There you go OP
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"I've met men with no verifications! Just get chatting, charm them, prove you are real, let them make up their own mind. It could take weeks of daily chat to meet someone (sometimes it does with me) but you have to put the graft in "
No no no just sit and wait for them to come flocking  |
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"Can anyone verify me pm me if you can guys Celtic couple ??"
We will only verify people who we have met, but if you wish to travel for a social drink we would be more than happy to verify you to say you are who you say and that you do turn up. |
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"Celtics you are so good to organise these intros I hope they turn up!!"
Ah Samalan these have been known to be terminal for grannies, pets, jobs.... Even had one guy not only lose his car keys but also his car...
Hence we now no longer travel to meet someone re a veri as we have went out of our way for a no show.
But we were all new once and everyone deserves a chance. |
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"Celtics you are so good to organise these intros I hope they turn up!!
Ah Samalan these have been known to be terminal for grannies, pets, jobs.... Even had one guy not only lose his car keys but also his car...
Hence we now no longer travel to meet someone re a veri as we have went out of our way for a no show.
But we were all new once and everyone deserves a chance. "
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"Will have to check on Friday if he got his veri.
On a plate that one so be silly not to go for it.
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Well he has already changed it to next week, but could have met Mrs C on his own this week, so we will see what next week brings |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Will have to check on Friday if he got his veri.
On a plate that one so be silly not to go for it.
Well he has already changed it to next week, but could have met Mrs C on his own this week, so we will see what next week brings "
Deja Vu? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I tryed to chat to you and got blocked so there you go very harsh not easy trying to talk to plp and get blocked "
You talking about me????
One of your messages had 3 words and the next one had about 5 words... it just wasnt going the right way Paul. No hard feelings  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Lol yeah right it's not easy trying to chat to plp like you on this you don't make it easy for new members blocking me why didn't you say it and you asked me who I was and I told you my name was Paul and did you fancy chatting and I get blocked  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lol yeah right it's not easy trying to chat to plp like you on this you don't make it easy for new members blocking me why didn't you say it and you asked me who I was and I told you my name was Paul and did you fancy chatting and I get blocked "
Its not you, its me.
I'm due my period and I'm in a bad mood. Sorry.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lol yeah right it's not easy trying to chat to plp like you on this you don't make it easy for new members blocking me why didn't you say it and you asked me who I was and I told you my name was Paul and did you fancy chatting and I get blocked
Its not you, its me.
I'm due my period and I'm in a bad mood. Sorry. "
Oh that old chestnut |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lol yeah right it's not easy trying to chat to plp like you on this you don't make it easy for new members blocking me why didn't you say it and you asked me who I was and I told you my name was Paul and did you fancy chatting and I get blocked
Its not you, its me.
I'm due my period and I'm in a bad mood. Sorry.
Oh that old chestnut "
Hey you!!! It's a viable excuse  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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No worries I'll just move on and try to chat yo the next woman and get blocked again not easy for us guys lol and guys that's serious about meeting up not like all the fakes |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No worries I'll just move on and try to chat yo the next woman and get blocked again not easy for us guys lol and guys that's serious about meeting up not like all the fakes "
Being honest I don't know where lisnaskea is but figured its nowhere near good old Clondalkin |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lol yeah right it's not easy trying to chat to plp like you on this you don't make it easy for new members blocking me why didn't you say it and you asked me who I was and I told you my name was Paul and did you fancy chatting and I get blocked
Its not you, its me.
I'm due my period and I'm in a bad mood. Sorry.
Oh that old chestnut
Hey you!!! It's a viable excuse
if I'm honest I don't understand what that means  "
I'll message you myself  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lol yeah right it's not easy trying to chat to plp like you on this you don't make it easy for new members blocking me why didn't you say it and you asked me who I was and I told you my name was Paul and did you fancy chatting and I get blocked
Its not you, its me.
I'm due my period and I'm in a bad mood. Sorry.
Oh that old chestnut
Hey you!!! It's a viable excuse
if I'm honest I don't understand what that means
I'll message you myself "
Oh cool, thanks! Every day is a school day |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lol yeah right it's not easy trying to chat to plp like you on this you don't make it easy for new members blocking me why didn't you say it and you asked me who I was and I told you my name was Paul and did you fancy chatting and I get blocked
Its not you, its me.
I'm due my period and I'm in a bad mood. Sorry.
Oh that old chestnut
Hey you!!! It's a viable excuse
if I'm honest I don't understand what that means
I'll message you myself
Oh cool, thanks! Every day is a school day "
You might learn something |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just to balance, what would one like to see in the first message or two from a woman's point of view.
I know it's not 3 or 5 words !!!!
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I like to know that somebody has read my profile and tells me something about themselves. It's not rocket science. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Be nice, if she says no or doesn't reply then leave it otherwise suggest meeting in a public place for a coffee and chat and see how things go then it all happens from there if the connection is otherwise its just going to be a coffee |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just to balance, what would one like to see in the first message or two from a woman's point of view.
I know it's not 3 or 5 words !!!!
I like to know that somebody has read my profile and tells me something about themselves. It's not rocket science."
What if they're a rocket scientist? |
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By *enusalMan
over a year ago
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"Just to balance, what would one like to see in the first message or two from a woman's point of view.
I know it's not 3 or 5 words !!!!
I like to know that somebody has read my profile and tells me something about themselves. It's not rocket science."
Yes I agree totally with you.
Sometimes it works and can get a good reaction or compliment for the effort and thought gone into it.
However alot of times it's irrvelant.
Verification appears to carry more weight in the end of the day.
Although tbf....you did comment kindly on mine |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just to balance, what would one like to see in the first message or two from a woman's point of view.
I know it's not 3 or 5 words !!!!
I like to know that somebody has read my profile and tells me something about themselves. It's not rocket science.
What if they're a rocket scientist? "
Rocket scientists get to the top of the queue!  $- |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just to balance, what would one like to see in the first message or two from a woman's point of view.
I know it's not 3 or 5 words !!!!
I like to know that somebody has read my profile and tells me something about themselves. It's not rocket science.
What if they're a rocket scientist?
Rocket scientists get to the top of the queue! $-"
I normally bring my degree with me at all times |
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"Will have to check on Friday if he got his veri.
On a plate that one so be silly not to go for it.
Well he has already changed it to next week, but could have met Mrs C on his own this week, so we will see what next week brings
Deja Vu?"
Well we will give him a chance he is new lol |
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"Mini social in athy anyone?
We tried organising a few here , very little interest
Really? Well it's just down the road for me so if you organise another I wouldn't turn down an invite"
Doubt we will to be honest, not worth the effort for what will actually turn up |
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"Mini social in athy anyone?
We tried organising a few here , very little interest
Really? Well it's just down the road for me so if you organise another I wouldn't turn down an invite
Doubt we will to be honest, not worth the effort for what will actually turn up "
Disappointing ain't it? I hope Op helps restore you faith |
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"Mini social in athy anyone?
We tried organising a few here , very little interest
Really? Well it's just down the road for me so if you organise another I wouldn't turn down an invite
Doubt we will to be honest, not worth the effort for what will actually turn up
Disappointing ain't it? I hope Op helps restore you faith"
Ah we see it all the time , people whinging they cant get verified, we have tried organising socials , mostly mid week where there is no huge cost involved on people , done them in different parts of the country and its the same each time, starting your thinking of booking the RDS for a finish you could have it in phone box lol |
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"Ah we see it all the time , people whinging they cant get verified, we have tried organising socials , mostly mid week where there is no huge cost involved on people , done them in different parts of the country and its the same each time, starting your thinking of booking the RDS for a finish you could have it in phone box lol"
I know, when I showed up to my first social everyone was surprised.
"you actually showed" they said
"ah why wouldn't I" I asked
"cause you're a young, single, unverified guy" they said
Apparently we don't have a good track record |
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"Ah we see it all the time , people whinging they cant get verified, we have tried organising socials , mostly mid week where there is no huge cost involved on people , done them in different parts of the country and its the same each time, starting your thinking of booking the RDS for a finish you could have it in phone box lol
I know, when I showed up to my first social everyone was surprised.
"you actually showed" they said
"ah why wouldn't I" I asked
"cause you're a young, single, unverified guy" they said
Apparently we don't have a good track record "
We once had a singles party, invited 7 men , 7 ladies, 6 ladies turned up , 1 male showed. |
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"Hey Celtic cpl if your organising a social letvmw know as I need vierfies and I would fed turn up
Will do but as previously said its highly unlikely we will do them again but never say never"
I've thought about organising one myself, seems like a load of hassle though for sometimes a very disappointing payoff |
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"Hey Celtic cpl if your organising a social letvmw know as I need vierfies and I would fed turn up
Will do but as previously said its highly unlikely we will do them again but never say never
I've thought about organising one myself, seems like a load of hassle though for sometimes a very disappointing payoff"
We had a great one going at one stage only we both forgot about it |
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"Hey Celtic cpl if your organising a social letvmw know as I need vierfies and I would fed turn up
Will do but as previously said its highly unlikely we will do them again but never say never
I've thought about organising one myself, seems like a load of hassle though for sometimes a very disappointing payoff
We had a great one going at one stage only we both forgot about it "
After that little bromance post, we had a lot of momentum going, I was thinking of organising a "lads night out", inspired in part by the Belfast girls and their night |
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"Hey Celtic cpl if your organising a social letvmw know as I need vierfies and I would fed turn up
Will do but as previously said its highly unlikely we will do them again but never say never
I've thought about organising one myself, seems like a load of hassle though for sometimes a very disappointing payoff"
Yes very hard work |
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"Hey Celtic cpl if your organising a social letvmw know as I need vierfies and I would fed turn up
Will do but as previously said its highly unlikely we will do them again but never say never
I've thought about organising one myself, seems like a load of hassle though for sometimes a very disappointing payoff
We had a great one going at one stage only we both forgot about it
After that little bromance post, we had a lot of momentum going, I was thinking of organising a "lads night out", inspired in part by the Belfast girls and their night"
It's not to late sure! |
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"After that little bromance post, we had a lot of momentum going, I was thinking of organising a "lads night out", inspired in part by the Belfast girls and their night
It's not to late sure! "
I might just make the post then |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"After that little bromance post, we had a lot of momentum going, I was thinking of organising a "lads night out", inspired in part by the Belfast girls and their night
It's not to late sure!
I might just make the post then"
Do yeah! I'll help out |
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"After that little bromance post, we had a lot of momentum going, I was thinking of organising a "lads night out", inspired in part by the Belfast girls and their night
It's not to late sure!
I might just make the post then
Best of luck lads
Do yeah! I'll help out "
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"After that little bromance post, we had a lot of momentum going, I was thinking of organising a "lads night out", inspired in part by the Belfast girls and their night
It's not to late sure!
I might just make the post then
Do yeah! I'll help out
Best of luck lads"
If it works out I might move on to bigger socials, if I do youll definitely have an invite |
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"After that little bromance post, we had a lot of momentum going, I was thinking of organising a "lads night out", inspired in part by the Belfast girls and their night
It's not to late sure!
I might just make the post then
Do yeah! I'll help out
Best of luck lads
If it works out I might move on to bigger socials, if I do youll definitely have an invite"
Thank you and if we are free we will try make it |
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"Yes can be hard, but I still have great chats on fab and K,, some day I'll be verified lol
Well your in Kildare as well we will meet you for a social "
Only wants friends invite dont waste your time here, confirmed everything on a year met no one |
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"Will have to check on Friday if he got his veri.
On a plate that one so be silly not to go for it.
Well he has already changed it to next week, but could have met Mrs C on his own this week, so we will see what next week brings "
Now here is a huge surprise guess who has gone awol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Will have to check on Friday if he got his veri.
On a plate that one so be silly not to go for it.
Well he has already changed it to next week, but could have met Mrs C on his own this week, so we will see what next week brings
Now here is a huge surprise guess who has gone awol "
No Way ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You either have game and are true to your word ... or you don't just be honest make it happen and then it will .. I'm sure there's lots of people out there who like you and other people for that matter .... wish you luck my friend |
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"Be yourself,join in on the forums update your profile as you develop on here and try not to fall foul of the fab elitists you don't want that blackball happening too early
You forgot "Go to a social" "
Socials are my idea of a nightmare scenario. There are many nice people on here but God there are so many pains in the arses that the "socials" scene turns my blood cold. |
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"Will have to check on Friday if he got his veri.
On a plate that one so be silly not to go for it.
Well he has already changed it to next week, but could have met Mrs C on his own this week, so we will see what next week brings
Now here is a huge surprise guess who has gone awol
No Way ! "
Yip , whinges he cant get a meet , was to meet last Thursday but said work had come up which is fair enough so re-arranged for this Thursday and a no show |
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"Will have to check on Friday if he got his veri.
On a plate that one so be silly not to go for it.
Well he has already changed it to next week, but could have met Mrs C on his own this week, so we will see what next week brings
Now here is a huge surprise guess who has gone awol "
Did he leave you guys hanging? Awh, give me a minute I'll be there, I've got tomorrow off so I can deal with the hangover |
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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago
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"Will have to check on Friday if he got his veri.
On a plate that one so be silly not to go for it.
Well he has already changed it to next week, but could have met Mrs C on his own this week, so we will see what next week brings
Now here is a huge surprise guess who has gone awol
No Way !
Yip , whinges he cant get a meet , was to meet last Thursday but said work had come up which is fair enough so re-arranged for this Thursday and a no show"
There's no show like a......
No show!? 
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"Lol yeah right it's not easy trying to chat to plp like you on this you don't make it easy for new members blocking me why didn't you say it and you asked me who I was and I told you my name was Paul and did you fancy chatting and I get blocked
Its not you, its me.
I'm due my period and I'm in a bad mood. Sorry.
Oh that old chestnut
Hey you!!! It's a viable excuse "
Ahhhhh, yes, I am familiar with this situation all too well. I try to think of it as women on their periods being like terrorists. The only key difference is you can negotiate with a terrorist.
When a woman is on her period one should approach her very slowly and cautiously. If she starts snarl, retreat to a safe distance and throw chocolates. |
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"Just to balance, what would one like to see in the first message or two from a woman's point of view.
I know it's not 3 or 5 words !!!!
I like to know that somebody has read my profile and tells me something about themselves. It's not rocket science.
What if they're a rocket scientist?
Rocket scientists get to the top of the queue! $-"
I have a rocket (between my legs). Does that count? Lol |
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By *onniebumWoman
over a year ago
Tell ya later |
Try to be as honest as you can too. Ive had messages from 'single' men, only for them to have to disappear from chatting as there 'child' came down for a drink or they lost signal etc etc. A little digging later, turns out the 'estranged wife' still lives in the house....yeah, and in his bed too...
Please don't be one of those guys!!! |
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