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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok I know that it happens at some point in the fab world and the real world. People are busy and what not, but surely a simple msg on the site or via kik or whatever is common curtoisy ( have I spelt that right it doesn't look right) ok it was just a social meet fair enough but I made the effort to go and no show and not even a msg. Do I let them explain or just block? |
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Would be nice if Fab had a marking system for the shows and no shows. Would out the "no show merchants"
Re: you my friend.. Had his chance to text and redeem, didn't so probably best block. His loss so let him off and get yourself a man not a mouse in future...  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Would be nice if Fab had a marking system for the shows and no shows. Would out the "no show merchants"
Re: you my friend.. Had his chance to text and redeem, didn't so probably best block. His loss so let him off and get yourself a man not a mouse in future... "
Advice noted and reframed situation in my mind  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Personally if they couldn't even be bothered to message to say they weren't coming I'd just block
I've been let down couple of times.so annoying"
Hasn't happened before so lesson learned but was annoying on the bright side coffee was lovely x |
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By *appyPandaMan
over a year ago
Kilkenny, but Dublin is more fun |
"Personally if they couldn't even be bothered to message to say they weren't coming I'd just block
I've been let down couple of times.so annoying
Hasn't happened before so lesson learned but was annoying on the bright side coffee was lovely x"
Well seeing that the coffee was nice, you can say it's been a successful day. It's all I need to be happy. |
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By *pringingMan
over a year ago
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"Would be nice if Fab had a marking system for the shows and no shows. Would out the "no show merchants""
I wonder if it happens often enough for this to be worth implementing, but it's not a bad idea. Like how Uber drivers have to maintain a customer score of 4.5 or something or else they're kicked off the system. Just substitute drivers for sexual deviants. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just out of noseyness OP, was he verified?"
Oh he was indeed a few good veris too and we chatted for a while via kik public and private pics not that they are a necessity but they help and on fab for a while too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Block and post the name, I got stung for a hefty hotel room a few weeks back, absolutely no excuse on here, leaves the rest of us doubting the whole experience of this site,
P.s I'll buy you a coffee and you can tell me all about it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just out of noseyness OP, was he verified?
Oh he was indeed a few good veris too and we chatted for a while via kik public and private pics not that they are a necessity but they help and on fab for a while too"
It's a disgrace same thing happened me and the woman still denies we arranged to meet haha yeah like I drove to a certain place at a particular time for the craic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just out of noseyness OP, was he verified?
Oh he was indeed a few good veris too and we chatted for a while via kik public and private pics not that they are a necessity but they help and on fab for a while too"
Just goes to show doesn't it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Block and post the name, I got stung for a hefty hotel room a few weeks back, absolutely no excuse on here, leaves the rest of us doubting the whole experience of this site,
P.s I'll buy you a coffee and you can tell me all about it "
Oh God now that's terrible that didn't happen here ok hair a bit frizzy from the rain lol but the coffee was nice  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just out of noseyness OP, was he verified?
Oh he was indeed a few good veris too and we chatted for a while via kik public and private pics not that they are a necessity but they help and on fab for a while too
It's a disgrace same thing happened me and the woman still denies we arranged to meet haha yeah like I drove to a certain place at a particular time for the craic. "
That's nuts.how can ya deny it like |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just out of noseyness OP, was he verified?
Oh he was indeed a few good veris too and we chatted for a while via kik public and private pics not that they are a necessity but they help and on fab for a while too
It's a disgrace same thing happened me and the woman still denies we arranged to meet haha yeah like I drove to a certain place at a particular time for the craic.
That's nuts.how can ya deny it like"
Mental lol.
And he's a site supporter so will have all the conversations - unless arrangements not made on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Happened me as well for tomorrow night. Hotel room booked and paid for as well. Instant block.  "
Little consolation, but at least they have let you know.
Use booking.com in future and you won't have to pay. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Just out of noseyness OP, was he verified?
Oh he was indeed a few good veris too and we chatted for a while via kik public and private pics not that they are a necessity but they help and on fab for a while too
It's a disgrace same thing happened me and the woman still denies we arranged to meet haha yeah like I drove to a certain place at a particular time for the craic. "
Omg that's awful I didn't have to go too far thank God |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Happened me as well for tomorrow night. Hotel room booked and paid for as well. Instant block.
Little consolation, but at least they have let you know.
Use booking.com in future and you won't have to pay."
Good tip LonCav, thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Happened me as well for tomorrow night. Hotel room booked and paid for as well. Instant block.
Little consolation, but at least they have let you know.
Use booking.com in future and you won't have to pay.
Good tip LonCav, thanks"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's something I just can't understand if someone agrees to meet just meet I know some people chicken out or get nervous but it's still no excuse to stand you up or at the very least send you a message to cancel
I would definitely block |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Happened me as well for tomorrow night. Hotel room booked and paid for as well. Instant block.
Try ringing the hotel.....with notice they might give you a full refund "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's something I just can't understand if someone agrees to meet just meet I know some people chicken out or get nervous but it's still no excuse to stand you up or at the very least send you a message to cancel
I would definitely block"
Well I was in a nice friendly place and spoke to the lady who was at the table across from me who was on her own so at least I didn't look like Billy no Mates lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's something I just can't understand if someone agrees to meet just meet I know some people chicken out or get nervous but it's still no excuse to stand you up or at the very least send you a message to cancel
I would definitely block
Well I was in a nice friendly place and spoke to the lady who was at the table across from me who was on her own so at least I didn't look like Billy no Mates lol "
I imagine wherever you go you wouldn't be on your own for long every man there would be trying to strike up a conversation with you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's something I just can't understand if someone agrees to meet just meet I know some people chicken out or get nervous but it's still no excuse to stand you up or at the very least send you a message to cancel
I would definitely block
Well I was in a nice friendly place and spoke to the lady who was at the table across from me who was on her own so at least I didn't look like Billy no Mates lol "
Maybe it was him in drag. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's something I just can't understand if someone agrees to meet just meet I know some people chicken out or get nervous but it's still no excuse to stand you up or at the very least send you a message to cancel
I would definitely block
Well I was in a nice friendly place and spoke to the lady who was at the table across from me who was on her own so at least I didn't look like Billy no Mates lol
I imagine wherever you go you wouldn't be on your own for long every man there would be trying to strike up a conversation with you"
Maybe it's me I would talk to the wall of it wud answer me lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's something I just can't understand if someone agrees to meet just meet I know some people chicken out or get nervous but it's still no excuse to stand you up or at the very least send you a message to cancel
I would definitely block
Well I was in a nice friendly place and spoke to the lady who was at the table across from me who was on her own so at least I didn't look like Billy no Mates lol
Maybe it was him in drag. "
Well if it was he was looking very well hehehe |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's something I just can't understand if someone agrees to meet just meet I know some people chicken out or get nervous but it's still no excuse to stand you up or at the very least send you a message to cancel
I would definitely block
Well I was in a nice friendly place and spoke to the lady who was at the table across from me who was on her own so at least I didn't look like Billy no Mates lol
I imagine wherever you go you wouldn't be on your own for long every man there would be trying to strike up a conversation with you
Maybe it's me I would talk to the wall of it wud answer me lol"
Pmsl |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's something I just can't understand if someone agrees to meet just meet I know some people chicken out or get nervous but it's still no excuse to stand you up or at the very least send you a message to cancel
I would definitely block
Well I was in a nice friendly place and spoke to the lady who was at the table across from me who was on her own so at least I didn't look like Billy no Mates lol
I imagine wherever you go you wouldn't be on your own for long every man there would be trying to strike up a conversation with you
Maybe it's me I would talk to the wall of it wud answer me lol
Pmsl"
It will one day and ooooh of those walls cud talk |
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By *kmanMan
over a year ago
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Maybe we need a golden standby list of people for certain areas for last min cancels like being
on-call.
We can run regional competitions to make up the list. I am sure plenty of women will not mind doing the judging.. to appoint the golden standins.
Maybe I am have lost the plot
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Maybe we need a golden standby list of people for certain areas for last min cancels like being
on-call.
We can run regional competitions to make up the list. I am sure plenty of women will not mind doing the judging.. to appoint the golden standins.
Maybe I am have lost the plot
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Oooooohhhhhhh I'm in |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ah sorry to hear that.. It's not nice especially after you made the effort to get ready and go.. Chin up "
Awwww thank you I am over it got a new pair of shoes when I was out so not all bad |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ah sorry to hear that.. It's not nice especially after you made the effort to get ready and go.. Chin up
Awwww thank you I am over it got a new pair of shoes when I was out so not all bad "
Oh better of the two... A new pair of shoes.. Love it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok I know that it happens at some point in the fab world and the real world. People are busy and what not, but surely a simple msg on the site or via kik or whatever is common curtoisy ( have I spelt that right it doesn't look right) ok it was just a social meet fair enough but I made the effort to go and no show and not even a msg. Do I let them explain or just block? "
It's called Wankers Remorse... Block |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok I know that it happens at some point in the fab world and the real world. People are busy and what not, but surely a simple msg on the site or via kik or whatever is common curtoisy ( have I spelt that right it doesn't look right) ok it was just a social meet fair enough but I made the effort to go and no show and not even a msg. Do I let them explain or just block? "
Well Lucky? Did you get an excuse yet? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok I know that it happens at some point in the fab world and the real world. People are busy and what not, but surely a simple msg on the site or via kik or whatever is common curtoisy ( have I spelt that right it doesn't look right) ok it was just a social meet fair enough but I made the effort to go and no show and not even a msg. Do I let them explain or just block? "
let them explain give them an earful block them so they can't reply lol
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Ok I know that it happens at some point in the fab world and the real world. People are busy and what not, but surely a simple msg on the site or via kik or whatever is common curtoisy ( have I spelt that right it doesn't look right) ok it was just a social meet fair enough but I made the effort to go and no show and not even a msg. Do I let them explain or just block?
Well Lucky? Did you get an excuse yet? "
Nah nothing msg on kik open and read been online since so it's good night Vienna I am afraid |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok I know that it happens at some point in the fab world and the real world. People are busy and what not, but surely a simple msg on the site or via kik or whatever is common curtoisy ( have I spelt that right it doesn't look right) ok it was just a social meet fair enough but I made the effort to go and no show and not even a msg. Do I let them explain or just block?
Well Lucky? Did you get an excuse yet?
Nah nothing msg on kik open and read been online since so it's good night Vienna I am afraid "
Absolutely right. Theres no excuse that will cut it now.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It happened to me we planned a day and time and no reply leading to it, i forgave the first excuse then actually went to meet the second time and no show . So i would say just block because it may happen again .  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It happened to me we planned a day and time and no reply leading to it, i forgave the first excuse then actually went to meet the second time and no show . So i would say just block because it may happen again . "
Have done already can't be bothered with it. There are others I can rely on |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Ok I know that it happens at some point in the fab world and the real world. People are busy and what not, but surely a simple msg on the site or via kik or whatever is common curtoisy ( have I spelt that right it doesn't look right) ok it was just a social meet fair enough but I made the effort to go and no show and not even a msg. Do I let them explain or just block?
Well Lucky? Did you get an excuse yet?
Nah nothing msg on kik open and read been online since so it's good night Vienna I am afraid
Absolutely right. Theres no excuse that will cut it now.
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Have to stop being so nice lol and more ruthless hehehe |
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"Ok I know that it happens at some point in the fab world and the real world. People are busy and what not, but surely a simple msg on the site or via kik or whatever is common curtoisy ( have I spelt that right it doesn't look right) ok it was just a social meet fair enough but I made the effort to go and no show and not even a msg. Do I let them explain or just block?
Well Lucky? Did you get an excuse yet?
Nah nothing msg on kik open and read been online since so it's good night Vienna I am afraid
Absolutely right. Theres no excuse that will cut it now.
Have to stop being so nice lol and more ruthless hehehe "
Maybe the wife wouldn't leave him outside the house you never know these days |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok I know that it happens at some point in the fab world and the real world. People are busy and what not, but surely a simple msg on the site or via kik or whatever is common curtoisy ( have I spelt that right it doesn't look right) ok it was just a social meet fair enough but I made the effort to go and no show and not even a msg. Do I let them explain or just block?
Well Lucky? Did you get an excuse yet?
Nah nothing msg on kik open and read been online since so it's good night Vienna I am afraid
Absolutely right. Theres no excuse that will cut it now.
Have to stop being so nice lol and more ruthless hehehe
Maybe the wife wouldn't leave him outside the house you never know these days "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can't understand why he couldn't send a text to say he couldn't make it. No excuse takes seconds and saves you hours. His loss sweetie. Block his ass.  "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Give him a chance! Everyone gets cold feet at some point!
Having said that, if you do forgive, and decide to chance a meet again, don't go out of your way!
And think of the power you'll have over him when he's making it up to you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What I find shocking about this is that so many men complain about not getting a meet and so many women on this thread have had no show's! I'm flabbergasted!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I was chatting to a guy few years back getting on great had arranged to meet on the day of the meet got a txt from him saying so sorry fell at work. I'm at hospital now and sent a pic off a knee that had clearly had surgery in last few days and was healing up but had lots of yellow bruising. After that we never met.
Two years later I'm going to a party and group chat is done on kik and low and behold there is same guy in chat. It looked like he did not realise who I was (changed profile).
I said nothing and just let chat flow over the next few days. He was all up for play at the party that was on a real eager beaver...
The day of the party as we where all heading to meet up point the guy sends a group txt sorry everyone I can't make it hurt my knee today here's a pic of it I'm in hospital... Yep same pic he sent me 2 years before... |
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"I was chatting to a guy few years back getting on great had arranged to meet on the day of the meet got a txt from him saying so sorry fell at work. I'm at hospital now and sent a pic off a knee that had clearly had surgery in last few days and was healing up but had lots of yellow bruising. After that we never met.
Two years later I'm going to a party and group chat is done on kik and low and behold there is same guy in chat. It looked like he did not realise who I was (changed profile).
I said nothing and just let chat flow over the next few days. He was all up for play at the party that was on a real eager beaver...
The day of the party as we where all heading to meet up point the guy sends a group txt sorry everyone I can't make it hurt my knee today here's a pic of it I'm in hospital... Yep same pic he sent me 2 years before... "
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"I was chatting to a guy few years back getting on great had arranged to meet on the day of the meet got a txt from him saying so sorry fell at work. I'm at hospital now and sent a pic off a knee that had clearly had surgery in last few days and was healing up but had lots of yellow bruising. After that we never met.
Two years later I'm going to a party and group chat is done on kik and low and behold there is same guy in chat. It looked like he did not realise who I was (changed profile).
I said nothing and just let chat flow over the next few days. He was all up for play at the party that was on a real eager beaver...
The day of the party as we where all heading to meet up point the guy sends a group txt sorry everyone I can't make it hurt my knee today here's a pic of it I'm in hospital... Yep same pic he sent me 2 years before... "
Haha and you never went to see him in hospital Candy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I blocked my guy after 2nd let down, yes I admit I gave him a chance, coz I have a heart, and always try too see good in people,he sent me message saying
I cant do this evening babes,im still here at work and hasn't been a good day and cud 9 b4 i'm out.don' lose faith in me plzzzzz????????
After that I gave him a chance, 2 weeks later from same guy, another message, saying sorry babes can't make it,
I said ok that's it, BLOCKED!!
So frustrating.  |
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"I was chatting to a guy few years back getting on great had arranged to meet on the day of the meet got a txt from him saying so sorry fell at work. I'm at hospital now and sent a pic off a knee that had clearly had surgery in last few days and was healing up but had lots of yellow bruising. After that we never met.
Two years later I'm going to a party and group chat is done on kik and low and behold there is same guy in chat. It looked like he did not realise who I was (changed profile).
I said nothing and just let chat flow over the next few days. He was all up for play at the party that was on a real eager beaver...
The day of the party as we where all heading to meet up point the guy sends a group txt sorry everyone I can't make it hurt my knee today here's a pic of it I'm in hospital... Yep same pic he sent me 2 years before...
Haha and you never went to see him in hospital Candy "
I should have done really... And gave him a bed bath.... With a brillo pad |
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"I was chatting to a guy few years back getting on great had arranged to meet on the day of the meet got a txt from him saying so sorry fell at work. I'm at hospital now and sent a pic off a knee that had clearly had surgery in last few days and was healing up but had lots of yellow bruising. After that we never met.
Two years later I'm going to a party and group chat is done on kik and low and behold there is same guy in chat. It looked like he did not realise who I was (changed profile).
I said nothing and just let chat flow over the next few days. He was all up for play at the party that was on a real eager beaver...
The day of the party as we where all heading to meet up point the guy sends a group txt sorry everyone I can't make it hurt my knee today here's a pic of it I'm in hospital... Yep same pic he sent me 2 years before...
Haha and you never went to see him in hospital Candy
I should have done really... And gave him a bed bath.... With a brillo pad "
He wouldn't be long in running quick all of a sudden hehe |
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