Anybody else prefer to chat and make a connection rather than just jump into bed with someone. One night stands are always cold if theres no conection. Sex is always better if you can make a mental conection |
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"Agree 100% and is the case in most cases though unless they're really HOT instant attraction can take over   "
Not every guy on here is going to get odd and aggresive because you say no. EVERYONE has the right to change their mind and say no and walk away |
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"Agree 100% and is the case in most cases though unless they're really HOT instant attraction can take over
Not every guy on here is going to get odd and aggresive because you say no. EVERYONE has the right to change their mind and say no and walk away"
we shouldnt all be treated the same. |
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"Agree 100% and is the case in most cases though unless they're really HOT instant attraction can take over
Not every guy on here is going to get odd and aggresive because you say no. EVERYONE has the right to change their mind and say no and walk away"
Thats an odd answer to what she wrote |
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"Agree 100% and is the case in most cases though unless they're really HOT instant attraction can take over
Not every guy on here is going to get odd and aggresive because you say no. EVERYONE has the right to change their mind and say no and walk away
Thats an odd answer to what she wrote"
Was too scared to say it was odd lol  |
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"Anybody else prefer to chat and make a connection rather than just jump into bed with someone. One night stands are always cold if theres no conection. Sex is always better if you can make a mental conection"
Totally agree the sex gets better and hotter too |
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"Agree 100% and is the case in most cases though unless they're really HOT instant attraction can take over
Not every guy on here is going to get odd and aggresive because you say no. EVERYONE has the right to change their mind and say no and walk away
Ya sorry that was more a continuation of what i wrote first. Most people think that when they tell a guy they will meet that the guy thinks sex is garunteed. Just because you agree to have coffee is not agreeing to have sex. Of coarse if you both fancy the pants off each other and both agree then dive right in.
Sorry for the confusion
Thats an odd answer to what she wrote"
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Not every guy on here is going to get odd and aggresive because you say no. EVERYONE has the right to change their mind and say no and walk away
Dont be scared lol. Im one of the few who respects women
Thats an odd answer to what she wrote
Was too scared to say it was odd lol "
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"Op, you'll find that most on here need to make some sort of connection, it's not a dial/one-message to ride site. "
I personally can only truly tell if I like somebody in a face to face setting. it's all guess work through a screen
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"Op, you'll find that most on here need to make some sort of connection, it's not a dial/one-message to ride site. I personally can only truly tell if I like somebody in a face to face setting. it's all guess work through a screen "
Everyone has their own approach, I get a fair good idea of a person and if I will click with a person by just chatting online. |
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"Op, you'll find that most on here need to make some sort of connection, it's not a dial/one-message to ride site. I personally can only truly tell if I like somebody in a face to face setting. it's all guess work through a screen
Everyone has their own approach, I get a fair good idea of a person and if I will click with a person by just chatting online. "
absolutely. I just find that way, I'm second guessing the person all the time. it's like trying to make your mind up without actually meeting the person to see  |
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"Op, you'll find that most on here need to make some sort of connection, it's not a dial/one-message to ride site. I personally can only truly tell if I like somebody in a face to face setting. it's all guess work through a screen
Everyone has their own approach, I get a fair good idea of a person and if I will click with a person by just chatting online. absolutely. I just find that way, I'm second guessing the person all the time. it's like trying to make your mind up without actually meeting the person to see "
Most people do a social meet before a hands on, so that should cover your problem. |
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"Op, you'll find that most on here need to make some sort of connection, it's not a dial/one-message to ride site. I personally can only truly tell if I like somebody in a face to face setting. it's all guess work through a screen
Everyone has their own approach, I get a fair good idea of a person and if I will click with a person by just chatting online. absolutely. I just find that way, I'm second guessing the person all the time. it's like trying to make your mind up without actually meeting the person to see
Most people do a social meet before a hands on, so that should cover your problem. "
I tried drinking coffee but I can't so when a coffee meet is suggested i usually just say I don't drink coffee can we skip to the main course  |
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"Op, you'll find that most on here need to make some sort of connection, it's not a dial/one-message to ride site. I personally can only truly tell if I like somebody in a face to face setting. it's all guess work through a screen
Everyone has their own approach, I get a fair good idea of a person and if I will click with a person by just chatting online. absolutely. I just find that way, I'm second guessing the person all the time. it's like trying to make your mind up without actually meeting the person to see
Most people do a social meet before a hands on, so that should cover your problem. I tried drinking coffee but I can't so when a coffee meet is suggested i usually just say I don't drink coffee can we skip to the main course "
You're contradicting yourself there or it's you just going with the physical attraction based on pics. |
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"Op, you'll find that most on here need to make some sort of connection, it's not a dial/one-message to ride site. I personally can only truly tell if I like somebody in a face to face setting. it's all guess work through a screen
Everyone has their own approach, I get a fair good idea of a person and if I will click with a person by just chatting online. absolutely. I just find that way, I'm second guessing the person all the time. it's like trying to make your mind up without actually meeting the person to see
Most people do a social meet before a hands on, so that should cover your problem. I tried drinking coffee but I can't so when a coffee meet is suggested i usually just say I don't drink coffee can we skip to the main course
You're contradicting yourself there or it's you just going with the physical attraction based on pics. "
nah I'm joking. if I'm been honest I can shag on physical attraction alone without a social! it's only sex at the end of the day. |
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"Op, you'll find that most on here need to make some sort of connection, it's not a dial/one-message to ride site. I personally can only truly tell if I like somebody in a face to face setting. it's all guess work through a screen
Everyone has their own approach, I get a fair good idea of a person and if I will click with a person by just chatting online. absolutely. I just find that way, I'm second guessing the person all the time. it's like trying to make your mind up without actually meeting the person to see
Most people do a social meet before a hands on, so that should cover your problem. I tried drinking coffee but I can't so when a coffee meet is suggested i usually just say I don't drink coffee can we skip to the main course
You're contradicting yourself there or it's you just going with the physical attraction based on pics. nah I'm joking. if I'm been honest I can shag on physical attraction alone without a social! it's only sex at the end of the day."
I'd say I could too but there wouldn't be much steam and heat, just mechanical sex. |
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"Op, you'll find that most on here need to make some sort of connection, it's not a dial/one-message to ride site. I personally can only truly tell if I like somebody in a face to face setting. it's all guess work through a screen
Everyone has their own approach, I get a fair good idea of a person and if I will click with a person by just chatting online. absolutely. I just find that way, I'm second guessing the person all the time. it's like trying to make your mind up without actually meeting the person to see
Most people do a social meet before a hands on, so that should cover your problem. I tried drinking coffee but I can't so when a coffee meet is suggested i usually just say I don't drink coffee can we skip to the main course
You're contradicting yourself there or it's you just going with the physical attraction based on pics. nah I'm joking. if I'm been honest I can shag on physical attraction alone without a social! it's only sex at the end of the day.
I'd say I could too but there wouldn't be much steam and heat, just mechanical sex. "
Mechanical sex is my worst nightmare.... I need the connection, passion, desire and sparks to fully enjoy an encounter.
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I said this before but I never get to "into" a person with just sex. what I mean is, I have let it happen before, explained it was just sex but feelings on her part became involved and then things just got dirty and not in a good way. I prefer, with sex to keep things completly as casual as possible! |
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