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over a year ago
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First off, any site like this has more male members than female, so unless you're handsome or charming (preferably both), the competition is going to very strong.
Secondly, if you're here just for the sex, then you're not going to get the social interaction that swinging is all about (you may as well just engage a sex worker) - just because a woman is on this site, doesn't mean they want to be treated as meat.
Thirdly, it's not about "giving it away" - no-one owes you sex and as a straight man, you need the women on here much more than they need you. If you expect nothing, then anything that does happen, is a bonus (just enjoy reading the forums, looking at the photos, reading the profiles, Fabbing and Winking, chatting etc).
Fourthly, it's a waiting game, but if you put effort into your profile and photos, it helps you get noticed.
Fifthly, be yourself - don't try to write a profile that's all things to all people (you'll never win and people will see straight though it).
Sixth, there are some rude people on here (who oddly think they are anything but rude) - rise above it and move on (never engage in an online spat - you'll do more damage to your reputation regardless of whether you're right or wrong) - use the ignore button, report the profile and be on your way.
Seventh, the best of luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"First off, any site like this has more male members than female, so unless you're handsome or charming (preferably both), the competition is going to very strong.
Secondly, if you're here just for the sex, then you're not going to get the social interaction that swinging is all about (you may as well just engage a sex worker) - just because a woman is on this site, doesn't mean they want to be treated as meat.
Thirdly, it's not about "giving it away" - no-one owes you sex and as a straight man, you need the women on here much more than they need you. If you expect nothing, then anything that does happen, is a bonus (just enjoy reading the forums, looking at the photos, reading the profiles, Fabbing and Winking, chatting etc).
Fourthly, it's a waiting game, but if you put effort into your profile and photos, it helps you get noticed.
Fifthly, be yourself - don't try to write a profile that's all things to all people (you'll never win and people will see straight though it).
Sixth, there are some rude people on here (who oddly think they are anything but rude) - rise above it and move on (never engage in an online spat - you'll do more damage to your reputation regardless of whether you're right or wrong) - use the ignore button, report the profile and be on your way.
Seventh, the best of luck."
couldnt have said it better myself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Be yourself. Charm, wit, sense of humour and manners go a long way. With the right ladies. 
Good luck.
*Tips hat, *holds door... Ma'am  "
Why thank you kind Sir ( giggles ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You've had 2 meets in 9 weeks. Plenty would be happy with that.
Do whatever you did to meet them"
I don't remember those verifications being there this morning...
Sounds like you're doing just fine OP |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe lose the drugs
drugs?
420 friendly on his profile
ah now thats hardly drugs lol
It's hardly asprin either  "
every one knows its good to have your greens |
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