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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a sub and this annoys me. This is what happens when people attend gangbangs and think a female sub is there to be used however the so called dom sees fit. Op you should do your homework and understand how a D/s relationship works . Please don't drag it into the gutter. |
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"I'm a sub and this annoys me. This is what happens when people attend gangbangs and think a female sub is there to be used however the so called dom sees fit. Op you should do your homework and understand how a D/s relationship works . Please don't drag it into the gutter."
I think you have made a lot of assumptions there, simply asking for sub personalities does not indicate anything other than a type, anything more would naturally be built upon by mutual trust, connection and communication. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm a sub and this annoys me. This is what happens when people attend gangbangs and think a female sub is there to be used however the so called dom sees fit. Op you should do your homework and understand how a D/s relationship works . Please don't drag it into the gutter."
Could not agree more. Op learn what d/s is actually about before seeking a sub and if your anyway serious about looking and want something more than a girl who'll let you shag her anyway you want then you'll be rewarded when you meet the right one otherwise your just another dim dom thinking with his cock
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By *tranTV/TS
over a year ago
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Girls sub for random guys all the time. On here and the fetish sites you always see it.
I seen girls beaten black and blue on their first meeting with a guy. Seen girls cut on their first meeting. Some girls don't really give a shit about the guy, they just want someone to take control.
If its not for you then ok, if you think its dangerous and silly, well it probably is, but it happens enough that his question shouldn't annoy anyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm a sub and this annoys me. This is what happens when people attend gangbangs and think a female sub is there to be used however the so called dom sees fit. Op you should do your homework and understand how a D/s relationship works . Please don't drag it into the gutter.
I think you have made a lot of assumptions there, simply asking for sub personalities does not indicate anything other than a type, anything more would naturally be built upon by mutual trust, connection and communication."
No assumptions just facts. I've seen this on numerous occasions a person attends a gangbang and assumes that's the way a submissive woman SHOULD act for them. I simply advised the OP To do some research not be led by what he's seen briefly. Sorry if this has hit a nerve. |
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I have to agree with all the above. You must treat your lady like a princess before you can even begin to treat her like a sub. The sub should always have control in an ironic way. He or she decides on the relationship once there is mutual respect (and usually is the one who searches for the right dom), allows the limits to be set, agrees when to stop and when to continue. The true dom must always respect the sub and their wishes. If a sub enters into a relationship with a dom because of wanting to please the dom or under the doms pressure then you can only but fear for the sub imho. Fran |
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No nerve hit. But the op didn't make any requests or references to any pafticulars so based on this it does seem that you have unless you know the op and all of his past experience. But the request simply asked for contact and I fail to see how this ia offends anyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Girls sub for random guys all the time. On here and the fetish sites you always see it.
I seen girls beaten black and blue on their first meeting with a guy. Seen girls cut on their first meeting. Some girls don't really give a shit about the guy, they just want someone to take control.
If its not for you then ok, if you think its dangerous and silly, well it probably is, but it happens enough that his question shouldn't annoy anyone."
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"I have to agree with all the above. You must treat your lady like a princess before you can even begin to treat her like a sub. The sub should always have control in an ironic way. He or she decides on the relationship once there is mutual respect (and usually is the one who searches for the right dom), allows the limits to be set, agrees when to stop and when to continue. The true dom must always respect the sub and their wishes. If a sub enters into a relationship with a dom because of wanting to please the dom or under the doms pressure then you can only but fear for the sub imho. Fran"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No nerve hit. But the op didn't make any requests or references to any pafticulars so based on this it does seem that you have unless you know the op and all of his past experience. But the request simply asked for contact and I fail to see how this ia offends anyone. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No nerve hit. But the op didn't make any requests or references to any pafticulars so based on this it does seem that you have unless you know the op and all of his past experience. But the request simply asked for contact and I fail to see how this ia offends anyone. "
The op asked specifically for a bi fem SUB not a bi female. Yes I've spoken to the op. And with 30 years experience in the BDSM world and living as a 24/7 submissive I know what I'm talking about the op does not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I never said I was expecting anything less I just asked a simple question  "
And you've just proved my point. Asking for a SUB Is more than a simple question it's very complex. Maybe a different angle would help you in your quest. |
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Well hi there  you made asumptions about profile that had nothing to do with me sorry if it offends u I said nothing offensive I asked a question and there is enough pain in life without beating people up |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well hi there you made asumptions about profile that had nothing to do with me sorry if it offends u I said nothing offensive I asked a question and there is enough pain in life without beating people up "
It's not offensive what you said at all its the fact that people look for subs thinking the can just use them. I'm not beating anyone up. I apologise if that's the way you view it. Although that statement is quiet ironic. |
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Reading through this I feel there is something I am missing. There are many females that describe themselves as submissive bi females. What is wrong in looking to make contact with them. If they meet and there is no connection then nothing comes of it. And if they do well then happy days.  |
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