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over a year ago
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quite funny that there is all this talk of intelligent conversations when most most have pictures of their dicks or naked bodies showing. Not that I'm saying you can't do that and be intelligent, but if you are wanting intelligence then perhaps having your dick out isn't the best way to advertise that is what one wants 
I like to talk to someone on here and be surprised by their intelligence and it can usually always be displayed in their first message... |
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Problem is many people on here aren't capable of having a conversation.They want to go from joining the site to instant fucking not realising that intelligent respectful conversation will actually help them get there quicker but unfortunately too many either are thinking with their dick or craving attention for their ego. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's actually very hard to find on here. There are some but it dries up quickly when they find a quick meet I've found. Some very good non personalised discussions and debates do also happen but it's usually on other forums. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You see this phrase a lot in profiles. Given how people can have different levels of education, different interests and stuff. What do woman really expect?"
I expect conversation about everyday stuff, general conversation. I expect politeness, I expect respectful, and I expect to reciprocate in kind.
What I do NOT expect is to see someone's dick in a private message, nor do I expect to have to steer a conversation away from how horny he is or what he'd like to do to me. For me, those conversations are occasionally to be had with someone I've actually met and had sex with. Otherwise it feels like wank fodder, and I am not interested in that. |
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"You see this phrase a lot in profiles. Given how people can have different levels of education, different interests and stuff. What do woman really expect?
I expect conversation about everyday stuff, general conversation. I expect politeness, I expect respectful, and I expect to reciprocate in kind.
What I do NOT expect is to see someone's dick in a private message, nor do I expect to have to steer a conversation away from how horny he is or what he'd like to do to me. For me, those conversations are occasionally to be had with someone I've actually met and had sex with. Otherwise it feels like wank fodder, and I am not interested in that. "
Now here would be the most valuable advice a woman could give us men - how to show intelligence in a message that attracts your attention when you are getting so many??? Especially when physical attraction counts for so much in this game |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I love intelligent conversation, a debate, without it getting too intense, just harmless, get your point across, and leave it, move onto next topic, just go with the Flo, |
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I don't know about "intelligent conversation" but lot to be said about chatting about other things outside of just sex, Fab veris and meets..
I find a woman more attractive when she talks about what her passions, whether it's art,job, hobbies or a fav film. It's also good to know a little more about the person you're going to share a bed with apart from few booby pics and a profile... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You see this phrase a lot in profiles. Given how people can have different levels of education, different interests and stuff. What do woman really expect?
I expect conversation about everyday stuff, general conversation. I expect politeness, I expect respectful, and I expect to reciprocate in kind.
What I do NOT expect is to see someone's dick in a private message, nor do I expect to have to steer a conversation away from how horny he is or what he'd like to do to me. For me, those conversations are occasionally to be had with someone I've actually met and had sex with. Otherwise it feels like wank fodder, and I am not interested in that. "
I totally agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You see this phrase a lot in profiles. Given how people can have different levels of education, different interests and stuff. What do woman really expect?
I expect conversation about everyday stuff, general conversation. I expect politeness, I expect respectful, and I expect to reciprocate in kind.
What I do NOT expect is to see someone's dick in a private message, nor do I expect to have to steer a conversation away from how horny he is or what he'd like to do to me. For me, those conversations are occasionally to be had with someone I've actually met and had sex with. Otherwise it feels like wank fodder, and I am not interested in that. "
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A fabber told me recently I was the ideal person for a sapiophile ....I am fully aware what a sapiophile is , hence not sure if I should be happy as the attraction therefore could me non physical... ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The copy and paste messages always make me feel special... I think it's the level of effort and personalised detail that is in it
A message can trigger some great conversations that enhances thing's, level of intelligence aside you can have a great conversation when it's respectful as Sally said. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I enjoy good political discussion. I find out their political persuasion before I agree to a meet. "
So I should start with - hey there what's your opinion on the repeal of the 8th? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The copy and paste messages always make me feel special... I think it's the level of effort and personalised detail that is in it
A message can trigger some great conversations that enhances thing's, level of intelligence aside you can have a great conversation when it's respectful as Sally said."
See all this is wonderful advice and I do try that, and absolutely love a good political, social and intellectual discussion and boy when I talk to a woman who challenges my views, makes me think twice about my opinions because of her logic and arguments - I'm sold!!!!! |
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Maybe we should cut a bit of slack and allow for the fact people let their hair down and drop any pretences from "vanilla " world here . We possibly expect to many sensible conversations here when a lot of us are here for stress relief and totally drop our guard as we are talking anomalously . Some times it's good to "dumb down " .... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I enjoy good political discussion. I find out their political persuasion before I agree to a meet.
So I should start with - hey there what's your opinion on the repeal of the 8th?"
That would certainly engage me anyway!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You see this phrase a lot in profiles. Given how people can have different levels of education, different interests and stuff. What do woman really expect?
I expect conversation about everyday stuff, general conversation. I expect politeness, I expect respectful, and I expect to reciprocate in kind.
What I do NOT expect is to see someone's dick in a private message, nor do I expect to have to steer a conversation away from how horny he is or what he'd like to do to me. For me, those conversations are occasionally to be had with someone I've actually met and had sex with. Otherwise it feels like wank fodder, and I am not interested in that. "
Exactly!!
The same as if you met someone in a bar or coffee shop. You'd chat about normal every day subjects and eventually find a chemistry or not |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You see this phrase a lot in profiles. Given how people can have different levels of education, different interests and stuff. What do woman really expect?
I expect conversation about everyday stuff, general conversation. I expect politeness, I expect respectful, and I expect to reciprocate in kind.
What I do NOT expect is to see someone's dick in a private message, nor do I expect to have to steer a conversation away from how horny he is or what he'd like to do to me. For me, those conversations are occasionally to be had with someone I've actually met and had sex with. Otherwise it feels like wank fodder, and I am not interested in that.
Exactly!!
The same as if you met someone in a bar or coffee shop. You'd chat about normal every day subjects and eventually find a chemistry or not "
Like that conversation we had with Kk last week during the social !
Some people can't get their mind out of the gutter sadly, but a lot can too ! (: |
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"Maybe we should cut a bit of slack and allow for the fact people let their hair down and drop any pretences from "vanilla " world here . We possibly expect to many sensible conversations here when a lot of us are here for stress relief and totally drop our guard as we are talking anomalously . Some times it's good to "dumb down " ...."
Uh, and some of us don't feel the need. |
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