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Is it me, or has fab gone a bit???
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just wondering what everyone elses opinion is, but I think fab has gone a bit stale or something 
Fab's what you make of it yourself  "
110% agree. You put the positive in you'll get it back. Put negative in you'll get no where
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just wondering what everyone elses opinion is, but I think fab has gone a bit stale or something "
You got your first and only verification 2 days ago n now you think the site has gone stale? Really?  |
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Yes,a big difference since i joined,Less willingness to chat,seems more serious,less fun. Six months ago most people would reply to a message,not so now and most definitely way more fakes(in the Cork area at least) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why is it always the guys that have issues with the site. Im yet too see a female write it up that the site is gone stale or crap or no one is meeting. We meet quite often and its crazy the number of let downs we have lol you cant win lads  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Yes,a big difference since i joined,Less willingness to chat,seems more serious,less fun. Six months ago most people would reply to a message,not so now and most definitely way more fakes(in the Cork area at least)"
Maybe it is just here in cork, and I agree with the amount of fakes |
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Was here as a couple for awhile and we also were left standing twice. It's nice to be nice,pity more people don't think that way,treat everyone as you would like to be treated yourself. The joys of a free site. |
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"Just wondering what everyone elses opinion is, but I think fab has gone a bit stale or something "
took me a while to learn but fab aint worth the effort. the effort put in doesn't reap the rewards plus I'm to busy to devote ultimate time to fab. I said it before but it's very easy for most women to get a reply so I wouldn't expect women to have the same outlook as alot of men on here. to try get a reply never mind a meet is just too time consuming. location is massive even though u say you can drive which makes me believe women wanr sonething regular even though some dont say it out straight. so the way I view this place now is if you get lucky you get lucky, if not you always have the everyday life way. enjoy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I find you get out of fab what you put in... i know they say its a little different for women but just because 20 men contact you doesnt mean its a great bunch of 20 men...  |
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"I find you get out of fab what you put in... i know they say its a little different for women but just because 20 men contact you doesnt mean its a great bunch of 20 men... "
Exactly blondie......i'm always saying that, the ratio of women to decent guys is probably 50/50....
( I'm in the decent guys ratio btw....just in case there's any confusion....just not very tall)
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"I find you get out of fab what you put in... i know they say its a little different for women but just because 20 men contact you doesnt mean its a great bunch of 20 men...
Exactly blondie......i'm always saying that, the ratio of women to decent guys is probably 50/50....
( I'm in the decent guys ratio btw....just in case there's any confusion....just not very tall)
Ol
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Tall and decent but can't see how you come up with 50/50 Ratio,are you playing up to the girls,a clever plan lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I find you get out of fab what you put in... i know they say its a little different for women but just because 20 men contact you doesnt mean its a great bunch of 20 men...
Exactly blondie......i'm always saying that, the ratio of women to decent guys is probably 50/50....
( I'm in the decent guys ratio btw....just in case there's any confusion....just not very tall)
Ollie
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Ahh ollie you couldnt have it all.. charm,wit and height so the good lord made you short to fit with the beautiful apples ( your defo one of the good ones btw) |
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"I find you get out of fab what you put in... i know they say its a little different for women but just because 20 men contact you doesnt mean its a great bunch of 20 men...
Exactly blondie......i'm always saying that, the ratio of women to decent guys is probably 50/50....
( I'm in the decent guys ratio btw....just in case there's any confusion....just not very tall)
Ol
Tall and decent but can't see how you come up with 50/50 Ratio,are you playing up to the girls,a clever plan lol"
You missed out "cynical" between tall and decent....lol.
I was judging it by the messages we receive from the vast majority of single guys...no effort, no wit...some rude and some just disgusting....
Don't get me wrong...I can be dirty....very dirty...
But that's not how you phrase an opening message...
Then you see them on the forums whinging they didn't get a response to their copied and pasted "scater gun message"
As to playing to the ladies...
Have you seen my photos...lol
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I find you get out of fab what you put in... i know they say its a little different for women but just because 20 men contact you doesnt mean its a great bunch of 20 men...
Exactly blondie......i'm always saying that, the ratio of women to decent guys is probably 50/50....
( I'm in the decent guys ratio btw....just in case there's any confusion....just not very tall)
Ol
Tall and decent but can't see how you come up with 50/50 Ratio,are you playing up to the girls,a clever plan lol
You missed out "cynical" between tall and decent....lol.
I was judging it by the messages we receive from the vast majority of single guys...no effort, no wit...some rude and some just disgusting....
Don't get me wrong...I can be dirty....very dirty...
But that's not how you phrase an opening message...
Then you see them on the forums whinging they didn't get a response to their copied and pasted "scater gun message"
As to playing to the ladies...
Have you seen my photos...lol
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I just went back and recreeped on yer profile for said pictures  |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"I find you get out of fab what you put in... i know they say its a little different for women but just because 20 men contact you doesnt mean its a great bunch of 20 men...
Exactly blondie......i'm always saying that, the ratio of women to decent guys is probably 50/50....
( I'm in the decent guys ratio btw....just in case there's any confusion....just not very tall)
Ol
Tall and decent but can't see how you come up with 50/50 Ratio,are you playing up to the girls,a clever plan lol
You missed out "cynical" between tall and decent....lol.
I was judging it by the messages we receive from the vast majority of single guys...no effort, no wit...some rude and some just disgusting....
Don't get me wrong...I can be dirty....very dirty...
But that's not how you phrase an opening message...
Then you see them on the forums whinging they didn't get a response to their copied and pasted "scater gun message"
As to playing to the ladies...
Have you seen my photos...lol
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What about the ratio for 'decent' women on here? There might be some that aren't a dream meet either. Or imagine a man has some preferences too! 
Of course not everyone that approaches you, might appeal to you. On here is no difference to normal life. You're not attracted to everyone either when you socialise says it at a party, going out, sports club etc.
Also a one liner that doesn't appeal to you might to someone else and just because it doesn't appeal to you doesn't mean the man is 'indecent'.
Most men contacting me are pretty okay, some might take a more elaborate approach, some just come up with a one liner but of course I'm not attracted to everyone of them. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Each to there own eh, attraction of course is important.
And a little respect and manners.
What I was gettin at the start was that fab lately seams to have gotten very serious and the fun seams to be gone a bit, from my point of view of course.
I get that women and couples get loads of mail and ye have to separate the good from the bad.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just wondering what everyone elses opinion is, but I think fab has gone a bit stale or something took me a while to learn but fab aint worth the effort. the effort put in doesn't reap the rewards plus I'm to busy to devote ultimate time to fab. I said it before but it's very easy for most women to get a reply so I wouldn't expect women to have the same outlook as alot of men on here. to try get a reply never mind a meet is just too time consuming. location is massive even though u say you can drive which makes me believe women wanr sonething regular even though some dont say it out straight. so the way I view this place now is if you get lucky you get lucky, if not you always have the everyday life way. enjoy "
Yes brother
Less is more. Don't send messages. Don't fab. Let them come to you. |
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"Just wondering what everyone elses opinion is, but I think fab has gone a bit stale or something took me a while to learn but fab aint worth the effort. the effort put in doesn't reap the rewards plus I'm to busy to devote ultimate time to fab. I said it before but it's very easy for most women to get a reply so I wouldn't expect women to have the same outlook as alot of men on here. to try get a reply never mind a meet is just too time consuming. location is massive even though u say you can drive which makes me believe women wanr sonething regular even though some dont say it out straight. so the way I view this place now is if you get lucky you get lucky, if not you always have the everyday life way. enjoy
Yes brother
Less is more. Don't send messages. Don't fab. Let them come to you. "
lol I'd say the wait could be an eternity |
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