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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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To all my fellow single males
Stop humiliating yourself sending messages and jumping through hoops only to get have any results....
Play the slow game, don't message, don't fab, don't kiss ass and let the laws of supply and demand rebalance affairs on here. The ladies only have over inflated egos because we (you) created them with all your adulation and flattery and compliments just to get in their panties
The fish won't bite any quicker the more you cast in... Zen and the art of fabbing, good things come to those who wait
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To all my fellow single males
Stop humiliating yourself sending messages and jumping through hoops only to get have any results....
Play the slow game, don't message, don't fab, don't kiss ass and let the laws of supply and demand rebalance affairs on here. The ladies only have over inflated egos because we (you) created them with all your adulation and flattery and compliments just to get in their panties
The fish won't bite any quicker the more you cast in... Zen and the art of fabbing, good things come to those who wait
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Hey don't put all the ladies in the same bucket ... just like there are few rare men there are few rare ladies too ... btw nice to see a man who can speak the truth ...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If fairness I'd say the women get some mental stuff thrown at them!!!, but at the same time there's nothing worse than when you just send a lighthearted message - no chat up - no Cheesy shit, and you still get the delete and no reply. I did have a great bit of advice from a lady on here a last week and have to say it did change my perspective on how this site goes, happy fabbing |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If fairness I'd say the women get some mental stuff thrown at them!!!, but at the same time there's nothing worse than when you just send a lighthearted message - no chat up - no Cheesy shit, and you still get the delete and no reply. I did have a great bit of advice from a lady on here a last week and have to say it did change my perspective on how this site goes, happy fabbing "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Someone's planing a fab revolution good luck superflash with that one. My guess is the cock is stronger than the brain.
Bigger even  "
Sadly I'd trade some brain power for more cock power
Let's make fab great again |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Someone's planing a fab revolution good luck superflash with that one. My guess is the cock is stronger than the brain. "
Wouldn't you like a world where the compliments were genuine and heartfelt.... Not just a scatter gun "nice titz" approach |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"Someone's planing a fab revolution good luck superflash with that one. My guess is the cock is stronger than the brain.
Wouldn't you like a world where the compliments were genuine and heartfelt.... Not just a scatter gun "nice titz" approach "
My lovely sexy superflash darling, let me tell you an old biscuit like me cannot be softened up with some wide spread sweet sticky sirup, I lost my naivety a while ago  I happily let them scatter away and carry on my hunt in the ditch.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If fairness I'd say the women get some mental stuff thrown at them!!!, but at the same time there's nothing worse than when you just send a lighthearted message - no chat up - no Cheesy shit, and you still get the delete and no reply. I did have a great bit of advice from a lady on here a last week and have to say it did change my perspective on how this site goes, happy fabbing "
Is this the sort of message you're taking about OP? anyone that's on here more than a week can sympathise with the ladies inbox, just like we don't need threads reminding us how hard it is for single guys, we don't need posts reminding us how hard the ladies have it, I think that's part of the OP point although I could be wrong!
I've also used the royal 'we' in my post but don't claim to have any royalty |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Both problems would be solved if the lads could tone down the desperation/romeo act a bit... That's the point.
No point whinging, change your approach!
Less is more |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some lads have PM'd their vote of support for the movement.
They are just afraid they'll be attacked by the forum hounds if they say anything. "
Lads stand up to the hounds.
Don't be afraid.
You will get alot of support.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nah see I wasn't implying I have sympathy for inbox messages... you join a swing site expect some mad shit, my point was really more for the deletion of light normal chat messages, even starting a conversation with some of them and your deleted and blocked which just makes no sense at all |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nah see I wasn't implying I have sympathy for inbox messages... you join a swing site expect some mad shit, my point was really more for the deletion of light normal chat messages, even starting a conversation with some of them and your deleted and blocked which just makes no sense at all"
It makes loads of sense... Time management and a case of plenty more messages in the sea. Civility is gone because ladies are inundated.
Less is more lads. Be selective. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"not all women have inflated egos just like all men arent complete dickheads.. u cant cut everyone with the same cloth "
Of course and I'm generalising here... But on the whole that is the way fab has gone. It used to be 10 times better when people were more human with each other. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some lads have PM'd their vote of support for the movement.
They are just afraid they'll be attacked by the forum hounds if they say anything. "
Of course they have. They're the ones you want as pals, the timid Timothys. $
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"not all women have inflated egos just like all men arent complete dickheads.. u cant cut everyone with the same cloth
Of course and I'm generalising here... But on the whole that is the way fab has gone. It used to be 10 times better when people were more human with each other. "
and the hunderds of fake profiles dont help the cause either sometimes fab can be hard work |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Some lads have PM'd their vote of support for the movement.
They are just afraid they'll be attacked by the forum hounds if they say anything.
Of course they have. They're the ones you want as pals, the timid Timothys. $
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Do you not agree that less is more baby? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some lads have PM'd their vote of support for the movement.
They are just afraid they'll be attacked by the forum hounds if they say anything.
Of course they have. They're the ones you want as pals, the timid Timothys. $
Do you not agree that less is more baby? "
No Kojak. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Some lads have PM'd their vote of support for the movement.
They are just afraid they'll be attacked by the forum hounds if they say anything.
Of course they have. They're the ones you want as pals, the timid Timothys. $
Do you not agree that less is more baby?
No Kojak. "
Should lads therefore send even more messages honey? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some lads have PM'd their vote of support for the movement.
They are just afraid they'll be attacked by the forum hounds if they say anything.
Of course they have. They're the ones you want as pals, the timid Timothys. $
Do you not agree that less is more baby?
No Kojak.
Should lads therefore send even more messages honey? "
Lads should be down the park playing footy with their mates, men understand that if you want something you can more easily get it by being polite.
You should ask one of them to explain it to you.
Hun.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Who mentioned impoliteness sugarbun?
This is a movement about peace, love and having fun. Less is more
Does the slogan apply to pleasure?
Hun."
Yes it does... The more part, gorgeous
Less is more
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who mentioned impoliteness sugarbun?
This is a movement about peace, love and having fun. Less is more
Does the slogan apply to pleasure?
Hun.
Yes it does... The more part, gorgeous
Less is more
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Great.
L.
I.
M.
P.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm too hungover to understand this thread....
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Less (drink) is more in your case too
My misandrist lover is more blatantly trolling and making less sense.
There's room for timid timmy, boisterous Bobby and even limp Larry (less is more will help him get his mojo back) in this movement |
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The more I read this thread the cloudier and confused my brain feels.
Less is more???? WTF.
If I serve you a half pint but charge you a pint you wouldn't say that.
If you could have had a threesome but ended up just having a wank, you wouldn't say that.
If.....ahhhhhhh fuck it I'm lost. 
Back to kiss fuck pass. Hehe. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The more I read this thread the cloudier and confused my brain feels.
Less is more???? WTF.
If I serve you a half pint but charge you a pint you wouldn't say that.
If you could have had a threesome but ended up just having a wank, you wouldn't say that.
If.....ahhhhhhh fuck it I'm lost.
Back to kiss fuck pass. Hehe."
But if stop giving so much business to the bar they will have to drop the price or offer 2 for 1 |
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"The more I read this thread the cloudier and confused my brain feels.
Less is more???? WTF.
If I serve you a half pint but charge you a pint you wouldn't say that.
If you could have had a threesome but ended up just having a wank, you wouldn't say that.
If.....ahhhhhhh fuck it I'm lost.
Back to kiss fuck pass. Hehe.
But if stop giving so much business to the bar they will have to drop the price or offer 2 for 1 "
Nah they just go out of business.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The more I read this thread the cloudier and confused my brain feels.
Less is more???? WTF.
If I serve you a half pint but charge you a pint you wouldn't say that.
If you could have had a threesome but ended up just having a wank, you wouldn't say that.
If.....ahhhhhhh fuck it I'm lost.
Back to kiss fuck pass. Hehe.
But if stop giving so much business to the bar they will have to drop the price or offer 2 for 1
Nah they just go out of business.
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 yes they do. They might make the offer but it's always a last-ditch attempt before the doors are locked. An act of desperation if you will. |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"The more I read this thread the cloudier and confused my brain feels.
Less is more???? WTF.
If I serve you a half pint but charge you a pint you wouldn't say that.
If you could have had a threesome but ended up just having a wank, you wouldn't say that.
If.....ahhhhhhh fuck it I'm lost.
Back to kiss fuck pass. Hehe."
Superflash, I told you yesterday quite at the beginning of this thread...  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The more I read this thread the cloudier and confused my brain feels.
Less is more???? WTF.
If I serve you a half pint but charge you a pint you wouldn't say that.
If you could have had a threesome but ended up just having a wank, you wouldn't say that.
If.....ahhhhhhh fuck it I'm lost.
Back to kiss fuck pass. Hehe.
Superflash, I told you yesterday quite at the beginning of this thread... "
Told me what?
It went in one ear and out the other
Nice pic... Less (colour) is more |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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" it's always a last-ditch attempt before the doors are locked. An act of desperation if you will."
Like when you start making even less sense as you troll harder before finally locking it baby? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" it's always a last-ditch attempt before the doors are locked. An act of desperation if you will.
Like when you start making even less sense as you troll harder before finally locking it baby? "
Harder? Dude, you & Stan are about the easiest people (after Sligo) to wind up on this forum, I could do it in my sleep. Really, it takes no effort whatsoever. Hungry fish always bite. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ha ha checkmate
Is that an admission of being a petty wind-up merchant baby?..
Maybe just let boys be boys so we can have our thread in peace.
Namaste |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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" it's always a last-ditch attempt before the doors are locked. An act of desperation if you will.
Like when you start making even less sense as you troll harder before finally locking it baby?
Harder? Dude, you & Stan are about the easiest people (after Sligo) to wind up on this forum, I could do it in my sleep. Really, it takes no effort whatsoever. Hungry fish always bite."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ha ha checkmate
Is that an admission of being a petty wind-up merchant baby?..
Maybe just let boys be boys so we can have our thread in peace.
Namaste "
I'm whatever a thread needs, bullshit meets bullshit, tea & cake meets pleasant chat.
But I accept your bow to the divine in me. |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"The more I read this thread the cloudier and confused my brain feels.
Less is more???? WTF.
If I serve you a half pint but charge you a pint you wouldn't say that.
If you could have had a threesome but ended up just having a wank, you wouldn't say that.
If.....ahhhhhhh fuck it I'm lost.
Back to kiss fuck pass. Hehe.
Superflash, I told you yesterday quite at the beginning of this thread...
Told me what?
It went in one ear and out the other
Nice pic... Less (colour) is more"
About the strength of the cock |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Ha ha checkmate
Is that an admission of being a petty wind-up merchant baby?..
Maybe just let boys be boys so we can have our thread in peace.
Namaste
I'm whatever a thread needs, bullshit meets bullshit, tea & cake meets pleasant chat.
But I accept your bow to the divine in me. "
Narcissism check, delusions of grandeur check
Can we go for the full dark triad? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Less of this would certainly be more for the forum
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All three dark triad traits are conceptually distinct although empirical evidence shows them to be overlapping. They are associated with a callous-manipulative interpersonal style.
Narcissism is characterized by grandiosity, pride, egotism, and a lack of empathy.
Machiavellianism is characterized by manipulation and exploitation of others, a cynical disregard for morality, and a focus on self-interest and deception.
Psychopathy is characterized by continuing antisocial behavior, impulsivity, selfishness, callousness, and remorselessness.
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The silent majority can form their own opinion
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"Less of this would certainly be more for the forum
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All three dark triad traits are conceptually distinct although empirical evidence shows them to be overlapping. They are associated with a callous-manipulative interpersonal style.
Narcissism is characterized by grandiosity, pride, egotism, and a lack of empathy.
Machiavellianism is characterized by manipulation and exploitation of others, a cynical disregard for morality, and a focus on self-interest and deception.
Psychopathy is characterized by continuing antisocial behavior, impulsivity, selfishness, callousness, and remorselessness.
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The silent majority can form their own opinion
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Are you schizophrenic........me too That makes four of us!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"You would score pretty low on the Agreeableness test I'd imagine...
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I just did one... 65% i'm not a sycophantic yes man but get on with most and have a heart
Of course I'll admit my own bias doing the test so who knows baby
Maybe you just need a chill pill. I'm not jumping up and down making a racket in your lyrics thread  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Of course and I'm generalising here... But on the whole that is the way fab has gone. It used to be 10 times better when people were more human with each other. "
I liked it best when people were genuinely friendly with each other. Now it's based on what you can do for me and self serving behaviour. Broken bread is soon forgotten with lot's and the negatives can far outweigh the positives at times.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You would score pretty low on the Agreeableness test I'd imagine...
I just did one... 65% i'm not a sycophantic yes man but get on with most and have a heart
Of course I'll admit my own bias doing the test so who knows baby
Maybe you just need a chill pill. I'm not jumping up and down making a racket in your lyrics thread "
Maybe you just need to visit The Wizard? |
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"Of course and I'm generalising here... But on the whole that is the way fab has gone. It used to be 10 times better when people were more human with each other.
I liked it best when people were genuinely friendly with each other. Now it's based on what you can do for me and self serving behaviour. Broken bread is soon forgotten with lot's and the negatives can far outweigh the positives at times.
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Truthfully, I struggle to realise when people are being nasty or just having banter in the forums. Still love chatting here though and the majority of people I have met have been really nice.
Trying to always be positive and funny keeps me smiling. Even the silly messages or nasty ones don't bother me, we are online, not at a pub or in heated battle on a pitch.
I like fabbers and fab forums 99% of the time.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"not all women have inflated egos just like all men arent complete dickheads.. u cant cut everyone with the same cloth
Of course and I'm generalising here... But on the whole that is the way fab has gone. It used to be 10 times better when people were more human with each other. "
Seems its sleaze and shock value from some and a sense of entitlement from others. People used to chat about everything but sex to build a connection and find that spark then build from there to arrange meeting up.
Messages get deleted without reply for many reasons like sender obviously hasnt read my profile, they dont match my needs, its rude or crude, its utter nonsense or im just not attracted to them. Not every message warrants a reply, get over it and dont take it so personally.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Less is more
Who cares if he or she doesn't reply, it's not meant to be
Be patient for someone who's a better match
Let's make fab great again"
I love the movement and I'm a believer
Not all women are bad on here but 99% are, I like to call them 1st refusers.. Demand a face pic "I'll send one back" and never reply, or just leave it there... read!!
What irritates me the most is you get rejected by somebody but you never get a chance to view, you may have not liked or being interested in them either? But you will never know because the 1st refusers hold the power and the notions.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To all my fellow single males
Stop humiliating yourself sending messages and jumping through hoops only to get have any results....
Play the slow game, don't message, don't fab, don't kiss ass and let the laws of supply and demand rebalance affairs on here. The ladies only have over inflated egos because we (you) created them with all your adulation and flattery and compliments just to get in their panties
The fish won't bite any quicker the more you cast in... Zen and the art of fabbing, good things come to those who wait
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And it works too. Used it myself in the past
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To all my fellow single males
Stop humiliating yourself sending messages and jumping through hoops only to get have any results....
Play the slow game, don't message, don't fab, don't kiss ass and let the laws of supply and demand rebalance affairs on here. The ladies only have over inflated egos because we (you) created them with all your adulation and flattery and compliments just to get in their panties
The fish won't bite any quicker the more you cast in... Zen and the art of fabbing, good things come to those who wait
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Flippin heck I am minding my own business doing research on a few things and this thread comes up.
Making me post! Grrr-ing
Ha ha cracked me up!
Hmm...
What the heck does superflash know about "the slow game" ??
And I thought we discussed time back you OP need to slow down... 
Stop spreading nonsense ffs
I aint sticking around here for long and besides I have said what I wanted to say on this ridiculous topic.
You may be quick, but by the time you read this I would have left Ireland
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By (user no longer on site)
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Op maybe u should take a leaf
out of of ur own book here
As u say to fellas to stop mailing women here on fab
Well this has been done before old news
If the fellas didnt want to mail they wouldnt
Maybe u should stop posting this nonsence on forums and come up with a more interesting topic to discuss
U will still get attention |
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Think i agreee completely with the sentiment in this post, its why i left before..sorry to generalise but girls picked up guys like pebbles on a beach walk, then threw them away when their pockets were full.And i know its numbers, but just because you can, doesnt mean you should!!!
To me, the secret to fab as a guy is to have a healthy social and sex life away from fab...no wonder there are so many single guys cancel or dont appear...their girlfriends/wives probably got home on time..  |
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All that playing games nonsensical crap would put me off... actually my pet hate tbh like straight forward...chat flirt get to the point... I'd be fecking unhooking myself off the darn fishing rod and away in search of better tackle haha... just saying!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"All that playing games nonsensical crap would put me off... actually my pet hate tbh like straight forward...chat flirt get to the point... I'd be fecking unhooking myself off the darn fishing rod and away in search of better tackle haha... just saying!! "
Been a while since I posted so forgot to quote...
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Am I wrong to say that many but not all women develop inflated egos and a lack of manners on a steady diet on 100+ messages per day? "
The only people who get 100+ messages a day are newbies who don't use filters. Just sayin' |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Think i agreee completely with the sentiment in this post, its why i left before..sorry to generalise but girls picked up guys like pebbles on a beach walk, then threw them away when their pockets were full.And i know its numbers, but just because you can, doesnt mean you should!!! "
While I can certainly understand where this sentiment comes from, men here can be just as guilty of what I call "doug" syndrome, all over you like a rash, then suddenly you're dropped like a hot potato when something better comes along. Fab is best taken by both genders with a liberal pinch of salt and an ego in check |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We are all just an extension of our non fab persona, are we not? Just find a strategy that works for you, that cuts out the effort and can quickly establish time wasters etc. Different probs depending what sex you are
It no.ones fault the ratio difference,not ladies, not guys. So it a situation we all have to live within.
My strategy of filters works for me, a necessary evil to avoid getting guys backs up and my time is precious.
Do I have an inflated ego, no, I don't think so, just trying to have my fab journey with maximum fun, minimum hassle
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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" To me, the secret to fab as a guy is to have a healthy social and sex life away from fab..."
I'm taking this for granted that a balanced happy person has a heathy social life away from fab. Regarding the sex life, yes fab is just an add on. If you expect to cover your sexual needs fully through fab you might end up frustrated. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No inflated ego here
No 100 messages a day
I have filters
Allways Reply to most messages here
Same here"
That makes ye the survivors that have it all figured out.
Most fresh and nice ladies run a mile when confronted with the typical low quality desperate male eejits who are too stubborn or stupid to leave fab for greener pastures... We are în a self fulfilling race to the bottom where the men are mostly wankers and the women are rude.
That's why men need to be smart and make fab great again by practicing "less is more"
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By (user no longer on site)
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Sorry but I just can't resist posting a comment. I've just read the whole thread. Not particularly interesting to be honest but made me roll my eyes!
As a few may know or have realised. I've been off and on Fab over the past few years. It's definitely a different wee place. Fab is what you make it yourself and what you allow it to be. It doesn't matter how many men or women, couples, tv/ts or whatever there are here. Nor does it matter how anyone conducts themselves toward you. Your experience of Fab is based on your expectations and how you react to what happens on Fab. Your 'success' is completely defined by yourself. Not by others. Your life is completely what you make of it. Fab is exactly the same.
Personally, i conduct myself as I would anywhere else. With honesty and integrity. By doing so, i will attract who I want to attract. For me Fab is not about numbers, it is about meeting someone that I can trust, someone that suits me and someone I can have great fun with. That is me and my Fab. Some may see it the same way, others have defferent perspectives. There is no right nor wrong in it. So you can't blame others for your lack of, your own perceived, success. They are doing their thing on Fab. Your personal success depends on you and your own perceptions and expectations. I always think that the people who complain the most, are really the ones with the inflated egos. That's why they complain about Fab and look to blame others. It's because their egos find it hard to accept rejection. Probably why they are on Fab in the first place. They come thinking it'll be an easy fuck. Beats the ego bashing they probably recieve outside of fab. |
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"No inflated ego here
No 100 messages a day
I have filters
Allways Reply to most messages here"
Always reply to most is like 60% of the time, every time!
Does that also mean you never reply to all? |
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"To all my fellow single males
Stop humiliating yourself sending messages and jumping through hoops only to get have any results....
Play the slow game, don't message, don't fab, don't kiss ass and let the laws of supply and demand rebalance affairs on here. The ladies only have over inflated egos because we (you) created them with all your adulation and flattery and compliments just to get in their panties
The fish won't bite any quicker the more you cast in... Zen and the art of fabbing, good things come to those who wait
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well said OP no doubt the ones you are referring to will be bashing you on here I couldn't be arsed reading all the replies as surely they will have tried to hijack your thread. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Sorry but I just can't resist posting a comment. I've just read the whole thread. Not particularly interesting to be honest but made me roll my eyes!
As a few may know or have realised. I've been off and on Fab over the past few years. It's definitely a different wee place. Fab is what you make it yourself and what you allow it to be. It doesn't matter how many men or women, couples, tv/ts or whatever there are here. Nor does it matter how anyone conducts themselves toward you. Your experience of Fab is based on your expectations and how you react to what happens on Fab. Your 'success' is completely defined by yourself. Not by others. Your life is completely what you make of it. Fab is exactly the same.
Personally, i conduct myself as I would anywhere else. With honesty and integrity. By doing so, i will attract who I want to attract. For me Fab is not about numbers, it is about meeting someone that I can trust, someone that suits me and someone I can have great fun with. That is me and my Fab. Some may see it the same way, others have defferent perspectives. There is no right nor wrong in it. So you can't blame others for your lack of, your own perceived, success. They are doing their thing on Fab. Your personal success depends on you and your own perceptions and expectations. I always think that the people who complain the most, are really the ones with the inflated egos. That's why they complain about Fab and look to blame others. It's because their egos find it hard to accept rejection. Probably why they are on Fab in the first place. They come thinking it'll be an easy fuck. Beats the ego bashing they probably recieve outside of fab. "
This is all correct.
It is all about how you conduct yourself but you are conducting yourself well in a bad market.
This is a grander scheme to make fab great again and make people nicer to each other.
Just a point on what you said, I don't think adjusting your perceptions and expectations to the environment is the route to success.
#lessismore |
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"No inflated ego here
No 100 messages a day
I have filters
Allways Reply to most messages here
Always reply to most is like 60% of the time, every time!
Does that also mean you never reply to all? "
It means she replies to all - except the fancy a fuck right now because I'm in your area type |
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Actually I read it again and it's totally wrong.
The environment definitely determines one's success to a strong degree in anything you do.
It's like trying to find a job during a recession. Your inner Zen doesn't matter nuch when applying or interviewing for jobs in the depths of a recession.
You can't catch fish in heavily polluted waters no matter what bait you have. |
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"No inflated ego here
No 100 messages a day
I have filters
Allways Reply to most messages here
Always reply to most is like 60% of the time, every time!
Does that also mean you never reply to all?
It means she replies to all - except the fancy a fuck right now because I'm in your area type"
Oh now I get ya |
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"No inflated ego here
No 100 messages a day
I have filters
Allways Reply to most messages here
Always reply to most is like 60% of the time, every time!
Does that also mean you never reply to all?
It means she replies to all - except the fancy a fuck right now because I'm in your area type
Oh now I get ya "
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"Actually I read it again and it's totally wrong.
The environment definitely determines one's success to a strong degree in anything you do.
It's like trying to find a job during a recession. Your inner Zen doesn't matter nuch when applying or interviewing for jobs in the depths of a recession.
You can't catch fish in heavily polluted waters no matter what bait you have. "
what is your idea of success on Fab? If your #lessismore campaign worked. What would Fab be like then? Paint me a picture...sell it to me. |
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A better ratio of men to women
Better men and better women, more manners, less suspicion of each other
Increased civility and better communication
A more civil and safe environment where attractive younger women with lots of options don't tend to turn on their heels and leave straightway
Success breeds success |
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Lots of the better guys that the better girls are after have already left because of toxic attitudes and it generally being a laborious experience here.
Fix that and more will come/stay creating a regenerative effect.
It's like a sweet harmony with nice flowers and good bees in your garden so we can have honey |
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"Utter nonsense.
A blistering argument "
Where you arguing? Your thinking is unrealistic, unachievable and one that is not born of free will. So in my opinion...utter nonsense.
“If you are willing to do only what's easy, life will be hard. But if you are willing to do what's hard, life will be easy.” |
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"If fairness I'd say the women get some mental stuff thrown at them!!!, but at the same time there's nothing worse than when you just send a lighthearted message - no chat up - no Cheesy shit, and you still get the delete and no reply. I did have a great bit of advice from a lady on here a last week and have to say it did change my perspective on how this site goes, happy fabbing "
I get that most of the time lol they put up a status I send a wee message having a laugh then deleted without reply . |
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You are very right I texted a girl on fab 3 and a half years ago with a simple hi how are you and now she is my wife just be yerselfs and stop saying anything just to get a meet |
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Jaysus this thread got confusing...I thought the original point was about playing the slow game with the women as to not over inflate their already over inflated egos which is an assumption in itself...not all women are on here to boost their egos their sex life maybe or even just socialising with more liberal like minded people,I certainly am not on fab for validation on my sense of self I get that from my real life.
Though I did make a point of saying that I wasn't interested in playing games either as who has time for that??? Not me! On the rare occasion yes rare occasion that I would meet, as can you believe it (sarcasm OP) there are actually some elusive and selective females on fab unbelievable I know that don't want men to jump through any hoops for them or fall at their feet.
Like someone flirt a little,express interest,all being well meet.
No likey no flirty no meety none of anyone's business how anyone else uses fab!
Simples!
I'm away now to reply to all my messages telling me how fabulously fabulous I am..... KIDDING
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Oh damn!
Still going strong.
This thread was done 4 weeks ago and collecting dust in the archives, but then I had to go and bloody post.
I was going to apologise for reviving this thread, but I read the following:
"You are very right I texted a girl on fab 3 and a half years ago with a simple hi how are you and now she is my wife just be yerselfs and stop saying anything just to get a meet"
Wowzer!! Love that.
#keepitreal
However...
Don't let OP fool you folks.
There is no slow game or no game... the only game you need is your A game. That is the game plan.
Confused...
Yeah me to!
In other words:
Men, charge full steam ahead. Send more messages then you ever did before. If that does not work send winks. Actually send a message and a wink to everyone.
Please remember no likey no lighty... so if your inbox does not light up in return for all your effort don't pursue... just let it go.
Thank you Ireland, it's been Fab!
Over and out.
#winning
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"Oh damn!
Still going strong.
This thread was done 4 weeks ago and collecting dust in the archives, but then I had to go and bloody post.
I was going to apologise for reviving this thread, but I read the following:
You are very right I texted a girl on fab 3 and a half years ago with a simple hi how are you and now she is my wife just be yerselfs and stop saying anything just to get a meet
Wowzer!! Love that.
#keepitreal
However...
Don't let OP fool you folks.
There is no slow game or no game... the only game you need is your A game. That is the game plan.
Confused...
Yeah me to!
In other words:
Men, charge full steam ahead. Send more messages then you ever did before. If that does not work send winks. Actually send a message and a wink to everyone.
Please remember no likey no lighty... so if your inbox does not light up in return for all your effort don't pursue... just let it go.
Thank you Ireland, it's been Fab!
Over and out.
#winning
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"# is so last year ....jokes"
Ha!
"Adam you and you and your machine gun "
Superflash put your machine gun and dollar signs away. That is soo last year.
I got this...
This is all about the new tech signs. Hi-tech gagdets for men.
Say hello to my little friends:
# ### # ...
Oh crap the thing has jammed! Can't get the technology these days...
Hang on...
Reload...
Here it comes...
#2017
Lights out all out.
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"Lights out my arse.... The last thing we need is lads machine gunning messages at every inbox.
Less is more "
True, but a naked man saying less is more... is just not connecting with the lads flash.
I was only trying to offer alternative methods.
You gotta be in it to win it.
#innit
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