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By *etergemma OP Couple
over a year ago
South Dublin Area |
Is it disrespectful to send Direct Kik messages to ladies that you only know because they are in a Kik Group with you and many other fabbers. You have never met them, never flirted with them in the chat and they never asked in the Chat group could you send them a message directly. You took it upon yourself to fire off a message completely unsolicited?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think there are alot of chancers and will do what they like regardless of how disrespectful it is to you or your partner... It's the same when they message a couple profile and completely blank the other half of the couple... I don't entertain that kind of crap, Chris laughs at me because I get annoyed by it but I think respect goes a long way!
I wouldn't like it! |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
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"Is it disrespectful to send Direct Kik messages to ladies that you only know because they are in a Kik Group with you and many other fabbers. You have never met them, never flirted with them in the chat and they never asked in the Chat group could you send them a message directly. You took it upon yourself to fire off a message completely unsolicited?
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Yes they see it as a way to get around filters etc |
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For parties beforehand it's nice I say hello or comment pvt, but only send pics if asked or a bit of flirting first.
Just sending one cold is weird, they probably hope for one in return. But it's just rude. |
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By *etergemma OP Couple
over a year ago
South Dublin Area |
Oh and it was 2 messages, around an hour apart, first one was ignored obviously went back for the kill. As anyone knows me, i have no problem with anyone kik chatting to herself once we have met them.  |
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"I think there are alot of chancers and will do what they like regardless of how disrespectful it is to you or your partner... It's the same when they message a couple profile and completely blank the other half of the couple... I don't entertain that kind of crap, Chris laughs at me because I get annoyed by it but I think respect goes a long way!
I wouldn't like it! "
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By *appyPandaMan
over a year ago
Kilkenny, but Dublin is more fun |
Always thought it was disrespectful. On the couple of kik groups and one of the ones with a good mix of people that keep chatting through the day is always dealing with this.
You'll see someone join and within minutes, they'll have PMed every woman in the group, either with a cock pic or asking for nudes.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't often get involved in kik groups but when I have they had rules such as live pics when you join and no pms without permission
So depends on the group rules I guess |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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awh, poor _ilder, whats your kik and i'll send you a dick pic.
that is what you mean isnt it?
we arent in any groups, (feel left out sniffle sniffle)
but common sense would dictate you at least say hello and ask is it okay before a pm. especially if youve never so much as interacted with the person befre.
same in the chatrooms here sure. we'd not reply to an out of the blue pm if we find ourselves bored and browsing the room.
now in saying that if a female was to send a direct message to Mrs S i dont think either of us would mind so much. |
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By *appyPandaMan
over a year ago
Kilkenny, but Dublin is more fun |
"I don't often get involved in kik groups but when I have they had rules such as live pics when you join and no pms without permission
So depends on the group rules I guess "
Well the decent ones have rules like that or are private. Without those rules and good moderating. Kik groups just descend into pure silence, broken by the odd bot spam.
It's sad to see proof that anarchy doesn't work.  |
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99% of all pics i recive on kik are of girls pics off the web as soon as i get one of these pics i picture an old man in his underpance knocking one off and they get deleted unless i have just blocked a load of girls sitting at home on the knickers  |
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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago
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I enjoy kik groups , especially the ones set up just before parties so we can all get know eachother , yes we do get pm's , well mostly me as we both have kik, it can be annoying , but just ingore and dont let it take the fun out of the group just because of a few pm"s , i dont , now is there any cpls groups going  or even an all ladies one lol, im such a chancer
Mrs crazy
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By *appyPandaMan
over a year ago
Kilkenny, but Dublin is more fun |
"Lol Mrs crazy as they say if you're not in you can't win so i wish you only the best in your endeavors to join a group! Xxxx
and i love being in  , it can certainly get hot in the groups , have been know to send sum naughty pics to groups too as its gets very sexual  never plan too but it just happens i guess lol
Mrs crazy "
Well I definitely remember that. Great memories.
I really need to get back into a good fabswinging group, just for the cheeky banter. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's just disrespectful plain and simple happened to me a few times recently.... as laid said it's to get past filters but it's still absolutely ignorant not to ask first in the group if it's ok |
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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago
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"Lol Mrs crazy as they say if you're not in you can't win so i wish you only the best in your endeavors to join a group! Xxxx
and i love being in , it can certainly get hot in the groups , have been know to send sum naughty pics to groups too as its gets very sexual never plan too but it just happens i guess lol
Mrs crazy
Well I definitely remember that. Great memories.
I really need to get back into a good fabswinging group, just for the cheeky banter. "
Mrs crazy |
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By *appyPandaMan
over a year ago
Kilkenny, but Dublin is more fun |
"Lol Mrs crazy as they say if you're not in you can't win so i wish you only the best in your endeavors to join a group! Xxxx
and i love being in , it can certainly get hot in the groups , have been know to send sum naughty pics to groups too as its gets very sexual never plan too but it just happens i guess lol
Mrs crazy
Well I definitely remember that. Great memories.
I really need to get back into a good fabswinging group, just for the cheeky banter.
Mrs crazy "
Sorry for making you so bashful.  |
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There is always an admin on kik groups so report them becausrle if they have done it to u, u can be sure they have done it to others and then should get banned from group. Only problem is that they now have ur kik so unless u block them they will still be able to message u. The funny thing is that most that do that are the ones that dont turn up at parties!!!! Maybe thats a good thing haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You can choose to ignore or chat so I wouldn't make a song and dance about it. It's easy to block too.
I think women are getting away with worse behaviour of sending unsolicited p.m's on Kik and screen grabbing private mails from fab and sharing them. Respect works both ways so can't say it's just men that's culpable.
It's a great tool in fairness pardon the pun  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You can choose to ignore or chat so I wouldn't make a song and dance about it. It's easy to block too.
I think women are getting away with worse behaviour of sending unsolicited p.m's on Kik and screen grabbing private mails from fab and sharing them. Respect works both ways so can't say it's just men that's culpable.
It's a great tool in fairness pardon the pun "
women always get away with more then men.
the pussy pass |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Feel free to add my kik its on my profile lol
I am admin for a kik group and only verified people who read the rules get in the group and everyone is happy.
I recommend have one group for verifying people and a private group that you move the person to when they are verified
Keeps the fakes out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If your not sending creepy cocks pics to random strangers what's the bloody point???  but In all seriousness no it's not on, but if they message u to say hello?? Singles guys should follow different rules show some respect and engage when allowed etc. |
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By *etergemma OP Couple
over a year ago
South Dublin Area |
"If your not sending creepy cocks pics to random strangers what's the bloody point??? but In all seriousness no it's not on, but if they message u to say hello?? Singles guys should follow different rules show some respect and engage when allowed etc."
you crack me up  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lol i got one the other ngt had only joined the group and sends me private kik asking could we chat get to know each other before the social. Just told him im.sure ill see him on the ngt . That was that lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It would be respectful for the person to ask on fab first. Make contact that way first. Same rule applies I think on kik. No reply means not interested. Also 1 hour apart ?? Really ?? We do have a life outside of fab.
As for the pussy pass. Maybe some women like to use it. I treat men same as I want to be treated. With respect and manners. There's no pussy pass or any other passes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It would be respectful for the person to ask on fab first. Make contact that way first. Same rule applies I think on kik. No reply means not interested. Also 1 hour apart ?? Really ?? We do have a life outside of fab.
As for the pussy pass. Maybe some women like to use it. I treat men same as I want to be treated. With respect and manners. There's no pussy pass or any other passes. "
Manners cost absolutely nothing and may end up getting you everything, that's if yours luck and charming |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It would be respectful for the person to ask on fab first. Make contact that way first. Same rule applies I think on kik. No reply means not interested. Also 1 hour apart ?? Really ?? We do have a life outside of fab.
As for the pussy pass. Maybe some women like to use it. I treat men same as I want to be treated. With respect and manners. There's no pussy pass or any other passes.
Manners cost absolutely nothing and may end up getting you everything, that's if yours luck and charming "
Manners and respect are becoming very rare nowadays ...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It would be respectful for the person to ask on fab first. Make contact that way first. Same rule applies I think on kik. No reply means not interested. Also 1 hour apart ?? Really ?? We do have a life outside of fab.
As for the pussy pass. Maybe some women like to use it. I treat men same as I want to be treated. With respect and manners. There's no pussy pass or any other passes.
Manners cost absolutely nothing and may end up getting you everything, that's if yours luck and charming
Manners and respect are becoming very rare nowadays ... "
Chivalry is not dead you know! It's just took a bad beating over time  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It would be respectful for the person to ask on fab first. Make contact that way first. Same rule applies I think on kik. No reply means not interested. Also 1 hour apart ?? Really ?? We do have a life outside of fab.
As for the pussy pass. Maybe some women like to use it. I treat men same as I want to be treated. With respect and manners. There's no pussy pass or any other passes.
Manners cost absolutely nothing and may end up getting you everything, that's if yours luck and charming
Manners and respect are becoming very rare nowadays ...
Chivalry is not dead you know! It's just took a bad beating over time "
Oh I know it's not dead... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't see why someone can't message you on kik if they can on Fabs.
Don't have a kik name same as your profile if you have a category or certain profiles blocked. That's asking for trouble straight away.
I don't get kik groups before a big party/m&g. You're inviting everyone to message you then.
Use Fabs to keep the comms going, its a great site believe it or not |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It would be respectful for the person to ask on fab first. Make contact that way first. Same rule applies I think on kik. No reply means not interested. Also 1 hour apart ?? Really ?? We do have a life outside of fab.
As for the pussy pass. Maybe some women like to use it. I treat men same as I want to be treated. With respect and manners. There's no pussy pass or any other passes. "
ah i agree, it was just injecting some light heartedness into the topic. there is some truth to it though. |
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