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ok is this no me being polite or am i going insane ?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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look il cut to the chase here it says your from Kildare and I'm in Dublin and il be honest I don't drive and I don't see a future where I do ha your a stunning woman and seem pretty cool but if your not in dub it probably wouldn't work sorry 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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look il cut to the chase here it says your from Kildare and I'm in Dublin and il be honest I don't drive and I don't see a future where I do ha your a stunning woman and seem pretty cool but if your not in dub it probably wouldn't work sorry
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Perhaps it's best to communicate this to the person concerned?
Also, where there's a will, there's a way, some people are worth the effort. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You don't have to expand on the reason - less is more. Keep it brief, but not personal."
Agreed, and if the person starts probing as to why, you know you were right to turn them down politely.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't see anything wrong with what you said OP, perhaps throw something into your profile text about those not from Dublin it may save you time if you feel the need to explain yourself to someone again. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I should prob expand she was on pof and ive a completely diff profile on that but after I sent that she went mad at me. and that's I thought I did something wrong so was looking for advice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I should prob expand she was on pof and ive a completely diff profile on that but after I sent that she went mad at me. and that's I thought I did something wrong so was looking for advice "
Lucky escape then, someone who nuts out at your polite refusal isn't psychologically healthy. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I should prob expand she was on pof and ive a completely diff profile on that but after I sent that she went mad at me. and that's I thought I did something wrong so was looking for advice
Lucky escape then, someone who nuts out at your polite refusal isn't psychologically healthy."
that's what I thought |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nothing at all wrong with your reply, however i wouldn't do excuse just be up front as lets face it dub is only up the road from kildare so she knew straight away you pied her  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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you were right, last thing you wannna be doing is wandering around the curragh at 3 in the morning surrounded by sheep, family pack of condoms in your pocket and a horn  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes you're polite but it's a cheep excuse even after taking into account that we have the worst public transport system in West-Europe. "
i know its cheap because I'm broke and cant afford to be going back n forth but its not an excuse its just honesty |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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hold on people this was not an excuse I thought she was good looking and a nice girl I just didn't want to travel its an honest reason. the only reason |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't see anything wrong with what you said OP, perhaps throw something into your profile text about those not from Dublin it may save you time if you feel the need to explain yourself to someone again."
good idea thanks  |
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