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over a year ago
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"Why oh why is it so hard for men to attend these.
So many pull out at the last minute.
Surely you see the benefit of meeting other Fabbers at these. Just sayin....
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Be fair now. You know how many Grannies and goldfish die during social season |
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over a year ago
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"Why oh why is it so hard for men to attend these.
So many pull out at the last minute.
Surely you see the benefit of meeting other Fabbers at these. Just sayin....
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Because a lot of men join here to meet women to have sex with them...not to go on the piss. We have our own friends for that |
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"It's quite intimidating for a single man to attend a social, it costs more for them and then they sit in a corner with no one talking to them."
Cost? The one im going to there is no cost and everyones banned from corners |
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Sitting in a corner not talking is down to that person. It's up to you to start interaction with other people. Don't expect everyone to come running cos you're a newbie! I was nervous at my first one of course but once you get chatting it's no bother. I had a blast |
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"Sitting in a corner not talking is down to that person. It's up to you to start interaction with other people. Don't expect everyone to come running cos you're a newbie! I was nervous at my first one of course but once you get chatting it's no bother. I had a blast "
Exactly this ... sure it's what you make it.
No one will be left in the corner anyway. |
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"Sitting in a corner not talking is down to that person. It's up to you to start interaction with other people. Don't expect everyone to come running cos you're a newbie! I was nervous at my first one of course but once you get chatting it's no bother. I had a blast I certainly wasn't anyway
Exactly this ... sure it's what you make it.
No one will be left in the corner anyway."
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"Why oh why is it so hard for men to attend these.
So many pull out at the last minute.
Surely you see the benefit of meeting other Fabbers at these. Just sayin....
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nervousness not knowing anybody to name but 2 I'd say. plus I'd imagine after the first 5 mins the nerves are gone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If a guy is intimidated, nervous or for whatever reason stops him from attending a social he should never ask for an invite to one. That way he frees up space for the guys who actually do want to attend, especially as there are always limited spaces for guys at most socials. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I went to few socials and had great time vast majority of times. Met fantastic people and played with few. Really worth going to M&G if you are a single bloke!!
I can imagine that more guys would have actually showed up if there was less hostility displayed on forums towards our kind. There's so much negativity and constant complaints about the morons that many of the good guys not necessarily feel welcomed and prefer not to come... Even single guys say crap and generalise on forums about the other guys, as a way to beg for attention and show how much of white armour knight they are... Constant insinuations about guys being attached, where for a fact I know about single ladies (that are married) attend those and no-one bats an eye...
Same goes for our presence on socials. I experienced hostile behaviour on occasions (rarely thankfully) simply due to the fact that I am a single gent. Some couples just don't know how to behave...
I am still happy to show on M&G and socials as 90% of people attending are simply fantastic and fun and I believe it's a very good way to meet nice people. At the same time, I can understand why other single guys stay clear from such gatherings. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If a guy is intimidated, nervous or for whatever reason stops him from attending a social he should never ask for an invite to one. That way he frees up space for the guys who actually do want to attend, especially as there are always limited spaces for guys at most socials."
The only way to get rid of or reduce being anxious about doing anything in life, including socials, is to face your fear and do it. I would most definitely have been very nervous about going to a social but after attending a few I has become far easier.
However if a single lad asks for an invite and does not turn up without notifying the organizers in plenty of time so they can allow another single lad to attend then yes, it should be affect them for future invites.
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've been to a few socials and to be fair I found everyone friendly and good craic ..
I've also had to cancel a couple of times at short notice and it didn't seem to affect my getting invites afterwards..
You'll never know unless you go..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've been to a few socials and to be fair I found everyone friendly and good craic ..
I've also had to cancel a couple of times at short notice and it didn't seem to affect my getting invites afterwards..
You'll never know unless you go.. "
I don't think it's the cancelling at the last minute at least you would inform the organisers that you can't make it, it's the guys that ask for an invite and don't show up and don't inform the organisers that they can't make it |
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you're attending something that's pre organised with people you "know" online. nerves I'd imagine are a common occurrence. i have never been to one so can't comment. i see nothing wrong as long as u tell the organisers before hand |
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Been to view in the past years, they mostly were very cliquey, i ways attended with friends from the site, but it was sad to look at the guys coming alone trying to fit in to a group with little success most of the time.
Def group up before you go, it's easier to fit in as single guy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Been to view in the past years, they mostly were very cliquey, i ways attended with friends from the site, but it was sad to look at the guys coming alone trying to fit in to a group with little success most of the time.
Def group up before you go, it's easier to fit in as single guy. "
The ones I have been to in the Midlands and West are very friendly and not cliquey at all so be brave and jump in at the deep end... the kik groups before a social are great for breaking the ice and flirting lol |
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"Been to view in the past years, they mostly were very cliquey, i ways attended with friends from the site, but it was sad to look at the guys coming alone trying to fit in to a group with little success most of the time.
Def group up before you go, it's easier to fit in as single guy.
The ones I have been to in the Midlands and West are very friendly and not cliquey at all so be brave and jump in at the deep end... the kik groups before a social are great for breaking the ice and flirting lol "
Midlands seems the place to go so  but how you said yourself. Good to get in contact with people going to the same venue |
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"Travelling 2-3 hours for just a cup of tea doesn't seem like the best idea  "
Agreed. I consider socials to be a waste of time. It's hard enough to secure a meeting as it is for us single guys so unless it's for play I might as well go drinking with my mates and try to pull in town. |
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I had me name down for social in midlands but told the organiser last week i could not attend so that it gave someone else a chance at going gutted to have missed it as was looking forward to meeting a lot of people that ive been chatting with thats the way it goes . Hope they all had a great nite |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Travelling 2-3 hours for just a cup of tea doesn't seem like the best idea
Agreed. I consider socials to be a waste of time. It's hard enough to secure a meeting as it is for us single guys so unless it's for play I might as well go drinking with my mates and try to pull in town."
You're missing the point of them.
Socials help you get to meet people who could become future potential meets.
A lot of my individual meets were instigated by chatting at parties or socials |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Been to view in the past years, they mostly were very cliquey, i ways attended with friends from the site, but it was sad to look at the guys coming alone trying to fit in to a group with little success most of the time.
Def group up before you go, it's easier to fit in as single guy. "
Er, don't you think it's equally as tough for single ladies going alone?
It is - i know - having been one
And you don't hear them whining |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Single guys can be a pain for social organisers.
We normally have about 50 asking to go on the list. Message them all to confirm a week before and half never reply. Of those that confirm usuallonly a third actually attend. Those who do not cancell are then blocked The entrance for all is the same£5 per person.
We even offer to meet for a coffee before or meet them in the carpark.
As host our job is to make sure no one sits alone |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Single guys can be a pain for social organisers.
We normally have about 50 asking to go on the list. Message them all to confirm a week before and half never reply. Of those that confirm usuallonly a third actually attend. Those who do not cancell are then blocked The entrance for all is the same£5 per person.
We even offer to meet for a coffee before or meet them in the carpark.
As host our job is to make sure no one sits alone"
We hear that all the time about single men being the ones that don't turn up.
One upcoming social sold tickets - that way if anyone doesn't turn up they're not out of pocket. |
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"Been to view in the past years, they mostly were very cliquey, i ways attended with friends from the site, but it was sad to look at the guys coming alone trying to fit in to a group with little success most of the time.
Def group up before you go, it's easier to fit in as single guy.
Er, don't you think it's equally as tough for single ladies going alone?
It is - i know - having been one
And you don't hear them whining "
I don't whine it was my observation. And I don't think a single lady will complain about lack of attention here or on a social. Is very hard to believe anything otherwise, specially that the forum is full of complaints of single ladies about the vast amount of males contacting them. 
Therefore your comment is striped from the records  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Been to view in the past years, they mostly were very cliquey, i ways attended with friends from the site, but it was sad to look at the guys coming alone trying to fit in to a group with little success most of the time.
Def group up before you go, it's easier to fit in as single guy.
Er, don't you think it's equally as tough for single ladies going alone?
It is - i know - having been one
And you don't hear them whining
I don't whine it was my observation. And I don't think a single lady will complain about lack of attention here or on a social. Is very hard to believe anything otherwise, specially that the forum is full of complaints of single ladies about the vast amount of males contacting them.
Therefore your comment is striped from the records "
Her comment is perfectly valid. Single ladies also have to 'pluck up the courage' to go to a social.
Not everyone is full of confidence |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Its hard for both sexes to go alone. Men either end up in the corner after trying to make conversation with people and not being able. Or they wind up creeping on the women who are there. One I went to with a former partner was an eye opener in ways. I smoke and she didn't. First couple times I went for a smoke I came back to find her being hassled by single guys. Safe to say she came with me to smoking area then. Queen went as a single lady and was super nervous. Also got some hassle and was practically manhandled at another. Told the host but he did fuck all about it. Apparently barred him from further socials. Funny that cause the guy in question showed up at the one after.
All in all its difficult for singles to go alone but I always think of it as with any other fab related thing. Get talking to people you know are going beforehand and hopefully you don't end up in the corner. I also agree with the poster above about making sure about people not sitting alone. That is the hosts job and not just because they want to stick their dicks in them.
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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Jayus my first social I went to I was a wreck all that day couldn't decide which jocks to wear should I shave or go au naturelle shirt and tie or jeans and t-shirt do I need a hair cut
Ended up having to work late so it was a quick shower and shave (allover)splash of deodorant and after shave I went with open necked shirt and jeans. Dashed in the road as there was a limit on how long the door would be open and got there in the nick of time to join the cue going in,funny thing was the cpl in the que in front of me were seasoned swingers and started chatting to me like normal people on a night out decent people with no hangup's or expectations other than enjoying them selves.
So guys put ur cock back in ur jocks get ur best pulling socks on and head off in the knowledge ur going for a night out with normal people who maybe more openly openminded than u think and enjoy ur selves |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"Jayus my first social I went to I was a wreck all that day couldn't decide which jocks to wear should I shave or go au naturelle shirt and tie or jeans and t-shirt do I need a hair cut
Ended up having to work late so it was a quick shower and shave (allover)splash of deodorant and after shave I went with open necked shirt and jeans. Dashed in the road as there was a limit on how long the door would be open and got there in the nick of time to join the cue going in,funny thing was the cpl in the que in front of me were seasoned swingers and started chatting to me like normal people on a night out decent people with no hangup's or expectations other than enjoying them selves.
So guys put ur cock back in ur jocks get ur best pulling socks on and head off in the knowledge ur going for a night out with normal people who maybe more openly openminded than u think and enjoy ur selves "
PS thanks naughtyduos for my first invite and subaru cpl for chatting to me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Jayus my first social I went to I was a wreck all that day couldn't decide which jocks to wear should I shave or go au naturelle shirt and tie or jeans and t-shirt do I need a hair cut
Ended up having to work late so it was a quick shower and shave (allover)splash of deodorant and after shave I went with open necked shirt and jeans. Dashed in the road as there was a limit on how long the door would be open and got there in the nick of time to join the cue going in,funny thing was the cpl in the que in front of me were seasoned swingers and started chatting to me like normal people on a night out decent people with no hangup's or expectations other than enjoying them selves.
So guys put ur cock back in ur jocks get ur best pulling socks on and head off in the knowledge ur going for a night out with normal people who maybe more openly openminded than u think and enjoy ur selves
PS thanks naughtyduos for my first invite and subaru cpl for chatting to me "
And thats just it. They ARE (mostly) normal people at the socials.
You'd not worry about saying hello to someone while buying a drink in a pub - do the same at one of these. |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"Jayus my first social I went to I was a wreck all that day couldn't decide which jocks to wear should I shave or go au naturelle shirt and tie or jeans and t-shirt do I need a hair cut
Ended up having to work late so it was a quick shower and shave (allover)splash of deodorant and after shave I went with open necked shirt and jeans. Dashed in the road as there was a limit on how long the door would be open and got there in the nick of time to join the cue going in,funny thing was the cpl in the que in front of me were seasoned swingers and started chatting to me like normal people on a night out decent people with no hangup's or expectations other than enjoying them selves.
So guys put ur cock back in ur jocks get ur best pulling socks on and head off in the knowledge ur going for a night out with normal people who maybe more openly openminded than u think and enjoy ur selves
PS thanks naughtyduos for my first invite and subaru cpl for chatting to me
And thats just it. They ARE (mostly) normal people at the socials.
You'd not worry about saying hello to someone while buying a drink in a pub - do the same at one of these."
I don't know u frighten me |
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"Why oh why is it so hard for men to attend these.
So many pull out at the last minute.
Surely you see the benefit of meeting other Fabbers at these. Just sayin....
Because a lot of men join here to meet women to have sex with them...not to go on the piss. We have our own friends for that"
And guess what, single women may need to meet you socially first. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why oh why is it so hard for men to attend these.
So many pull out at the last minute.
Surely you see the benefit of meeting other Fabbers at these. Just sayin....
Because a lot of men join here to meet women to have sex with them...not to go on the piss. We have our own friends for that
And guess what, single women may need to meet you socially first."
Well I'll meet them socially on their own then. If that's not good enough for them then I'll find someone else |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Jayus my first social I went to I was a wreck all that day couldn't decide which jocks to wear should I shave or go au naturelle shirt and tie or jeans and t-shirt do I need a hair cut
Ended up having to work late so it was a quick shower and shave (allover)splash of deodorant and after shave I went with open necked shirt and jeans. Dashed in the road as there was a limit on how long the door would be open and got there in the nick of time to join the cue going in,funny thing was the cpl in the que in front of me were seasoned swingers and started chatting to me like normal people on a night out decent people with no hangup's or expectations other than enjoying them selves.
So guys put ur cock back in ur jocks get ur best pulling socks on and head off in the knowledge ur going for a night out with normal people who maybe more openly openminded than u think and enjoy ur selves
PS thanks naughtyduos for my first invite and subaru cpl for chatting to me "
They've a lot to answer for  |
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Update ...
Had a brilliant time at the Midland Social last night.
Met some great people and even had time for a little fun.
So to all those cynics out there ... your loss!
Ps. Not a cup of tea in sight. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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They can sum times but not always be a bit cliquey. When it's like that it can be a bit of a spare prick experience for single blokes, but when a party is good it's greatttt  |
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"They can sum times but not always be a bit cliquey. When it's like that it can be a bit of a spare prick experience for single blokes, but when a party is good it's greatttt "
I can honestly say everyone chatted and laughed and had great craic as always at the Midlands Mingle... so when the next one is on people should be brave and come ... it's the best way to meet like minded people and make great friends and connections if you wanna meet up in future  |
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"They can sum times but not always be a bit cliquey. When it's like that it can be a bit of a spare prick experience for single blokes, but when a party is good it's greatttt
I can honestly say everyone chatted and laughed and had great craic as always at the Midlands Mingle... so when the next one is on people should be brave and come ... it's the best way to meet like minded people and make great friends and connections if you wanna meet up in future "
It was my first social and there was noone hiding in any corners, no cliques. Was a great night and i will definitely be going again. Thank god a few months apart though not able for such mad nights |
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I've only ever attended two socials. The first I was admittedly on my own the vast majority of the evening, had I not been incredibly fortunate to have been asked to attend a second alongside a fellow Fabber I don't think I'd have gone back to one  |
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"They can sum times but not always be a bit cliquey. When it's like that it can be a bit of a spare prick experience for single blokes, but when a party is good it's greatttt
I can honestly say everyone chatted and laughed and had great craic as always at the Midlands Mingle... so when the next one is on people should be brave and come ... it's the best way to meet like minded people and make great friends and connections if you wanna meet up in future
It was my first social and there was noone hiding in any corners, no cliques. Was a great night and i will definitely be going again. Thank god a few months apart though not able for such mad nights "
it was the people who made the mingle a success...and as hostess I made an effort to push people out of their comfort zones a bit. I felt bad seeing people sit alone. I even made people dance with me (wonder will anyone come to next social after being forced to dance ?)
I don't think anyone "creeped" on anyone...all in all a fun night down the pub xxx |
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"They can sum times but not always be a bit cliquey. When it's like that it can be a bit of a spare prick experience for single blokes, but when a party is good it's greatttt
I can honestly say everyone chatted and laughed and had great craic as always at the Midlands Mingle... so when the next one is on people should be brave and come ... it's the best way to meet like minded people and make great friends and connections if you wanna meet up in future
It was my first social and there was noone hiding in any corners, no cliques. Was a great night and i will definitely be going again. Thank god a few months apart though not able for such mad nights
it was the people who made the mingle a success...and as hostess I made an effort to push people out of their comfort zones a bit. I felt bad seeing people sit alone. I even made people dance with me (wonder will anyone come to next social after being forced to dance ?)
I don't think anyone "creeped" on anyone...all in all a fun night down the pub xxx"
Yes deffo the best hosts ever. I enjoyed dancing with you both lol |
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"They can sum times but not always be a bit cliquey. When it's like that it can be a bit of a spare prick experience for single blokes, but when a party is good it's greatttt
I can honestly say everyone chatted and laughed and had great craic as always at the Midlands Mingle... so when the next one is on people should be brave and come ... it's the best way to meet like minded people and make great friends and connections if you wanna meet up in future
It was my first social and there was noone hiding in any corners, no cliques. Was a great night and i will definitely be going again. Thank god a few months apart though not able for such mad nights
it was the people who made the mingle a success...and as hostess I made an effort to push people out of their comfort zones a bit. I felt bad seeing people sit alone. I even made people dance with me (wonder will anyone come to next social after being forced to dance ?)
I don't think anyone "creeped" on anyone...all in all a fun night down the pub xxx
Yes deffo the best hosts ever. I enjoyed dancing with you both lol"
you are such a sweetheart xxx |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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i think a lot of men initially thing that "social" is some code word for orgy..... so when they are are actually told that social means socialising... the thought of actually putting in some effort and actually talking to people is just too much for some....
saying that i love them.... i am an equal oppotunity gobshite so i will natter and chatter with anyone.... |
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"They can sum times but not always be a bit cliquey. When it's like that it can be a bit of a spare prick experience for single blokes, but when a party is good it's greatttt
I can honestly say everyone chatted and laughed and had great craic as always at the Midlands Mingle... so when the next one is on people should be brave and come ... it's the best way to meet like minded people and make great friends and connections if you wanna meet up in future
It was my first social and there was noone hiding in any corners, no cliques. Was a great night and i will definitely be going again. Thank god a few months apart though not able for such mad nights
it was the people who made the mingle a success...and as hostess I made an effort to push people out of their comfort zones a bit. I felt bad seeing people sit alone. I even made people dance with me (wonder will anyone come to next social after being forced to dance ?)
I don't think anyone "creeped" on anyone...all in all a fun night down the pub xxx"
I escaped the dancing nah nahhhh so yep I'll definitely come again... only if I'm invited of course
It was a brilliant night with some lovely people so when is the next one?????
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"i think a lot of men initially thing that "social" is some code word for orgy..... so when they are are actually told that social means socialising... the thought of actually putting in some effort and actually talking to people is just too much for some....
saying that i love them.... i am an equal oppotunity gobshite so i will natter and chatter with anyone.... "
I think you hit the nail on the head there... |
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"They can sum times but not always be a bit cliquey. When it's like that it can be a bit of a spare prick experience for single blokes, but when a party is good it's greatttt
I can honestly say everyone chatted and laughed and had great craic as always at the Midlands Mingle... so when the next one is on people should be brave and come ... it's the best way to meet like minded people and make great friends and connections if you wanna meet up in future
It was my first social and there was noone hiding in any corners, no cliques. Was a great night and i will definitely be going again. Thank god a few months apart though not able for such mad nights
it was the people who made the mingle a success...and as hostess I made an effort to push people out of their comfort zones a bit. I felt bad seeing people sit alone. I even made people dance with me (wonder will anyone come to next social after being forced to dance ?)
I don't think anyone "creeped" on anyone...all in all a fun night down the pub xxx
I escaped the dancing nah nahhhh so yep I'll definitely come again... only if I'm invited of course
It was a brilliant night with some lovely people so when is the next one?????
Xxxxxx"
top of the list form the next one, you escaped my dancing as you are a stubborn babe xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Good for you do the next one over this neck of the woods lol "
Ahah well, why not ! It would give me the opportunity to know a bit more about this beautiful country that is Ireland at the same time
I'm gonna think about it, but since i don't know about your "neck of the woods" (thanks by the way, i've learned a new saying!) i'll need some help to organize it, mostly about the place. But yeah could be fun (; |
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because most of them are not actually single, and they cant be honest about it here, and then they are chancing it... and frequently it doesnt play out for them... |
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over a year ago
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This was my first social , i had no expectations and from the first chat I had with the hosts I knew it was going to be a epic night , for all that I chatted with there were all very welcoming and it was like musical chairs the Midlands mingle was in full mingle , what day is today ..oo ya Monday ..well I'm only coming around now , for the few I didn't chat there will definitely a next , MIDLANDS MINGLE ROCKED !! |
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Putting yourself into a single guys shoes at a social... probably feels similar to going into a nightclb all by yourself to a single man.
Yes, you might know a few people from online but your real friends won't be there... and no guy wants to be "that guy" in the corner or at the bar all on his own 
Have gone to socials in a couple or group so do like to make effort & generally chat to as many people as I can, male or female... So, maybe a good group activity to get everyone more cozy at the next social (was thinking a pub quiz or something you perv!! )
"There are no strangers here only friends who have not yet met!" |
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"This was my first social , i had no expectations and from the first chat I had with the hosts I knew it was going to be a epic night , for all that I chatted with there were all very welcoming and it was like musical chairs the Midlands mingle was in full mingle , what day is today ..oo ya Monday ..well I'm only coming around now , for the few I didn't chat there will definitely a next , MIDLANDS MINGLE ROCKED !!"
Thanks xxx glad you had a good night of mingling...next one will be even better!
Midlands mingle even has its own profile now !! Go friend us (I know you have already ) |
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By *onedbodMan
over a year ago
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Personally wouldn't be my thing! Prefer private meet with a female rather than a group meet as would be too much distractions! Plus think people have different personalities some are quiet or shy and others more out going! |
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"Putting yourself into a single guys shoes at a social... probably feels similar to going into a nightclb all by yourself to a single man.
Yes, you might know a few people from online but your real friends won't be there... and no guy wants to be "that guy" in the corner or at the bar all on his own
Have gone to socials in a couple or group so do like to make effort & generally chat to as many people as I can, male or female... So, maybe a good group activity to get everyone more cozy at the next social (was thinking a pub quiz or something you perv!! )
"There are no strangers here only friends who have not yet met!""
karaoke....you need a karaoke social |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why oh why is it so hard for men to attend these.
So many pull out at the last minute.
Surely you see the benefit of meeting other Fabbers at these. Just sayin....
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In large part I personally think it's that a lot of 'single' fab men are not actually single...
Its that or something Irish maybe, because when Dutch men commit to something we follow through... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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True probally not a long single here .once the married and attached are honest from the start about their current status and let that other person make up their own mind yay or na.
Dont think its just a irsh thing
Thinks it happens in most countrys |
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