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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I know im new here but just wondering whats peoples problems as i get an adverage of about 10 views a day on my profile but yet not a single person apart from one actually took time to get to know me, is this the normal done thing on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The norm is for people to look without you knowing at all  hahaha sure seems that way alright. Doesnt cost anything to say hi tho"
But why get into a conversation if you don't pique their interest? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The norm is for people to look without you knowing at all hahaha sure seems that way alright. Doesnt cost anything to say hi tho
But why get into a conversation if you don't pique their interest?"
if i dont then fair enough but im pretty sure i got the same few viewers a few times and tempted to pay the extra just to see if im right |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The norm is for people to look without you knowing at all hahaha sure seems that way alright. Doesnt cost anything to say hi tho
But why get into a conversation if you don't pique their interest? if i dont then fair enough but im pretty sure i got the same few viewers a few times and tempted to pay the extra just to see if im right"
Ah that's how they lure you in, you know |
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Stop waffling then. If you're getting repeat views, at the very least, Wink them, so they know that you like the look of them too.
Or message them with a "Saw you looking" type introduction and let them know that you are flattered.
It's not rocket science! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Your profile is your opportunity to present yourself and stand out from the crowd of single guys. Ask yourself, would you message a person with your profile?
I don't mean for it to sound harsh but the onus is on you as a single guy to give people a reason to message/chat as opposed to relying on them drawing it out of you.
So give 'em a reason  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Stop waffling then. If you're getting repeat views, at the very least, Wink them, so they know that you like the look of them too.
Or message them with a "Saw you looking" type introduction and let them know that you are flattered.
It's not rocket science!"
i would if i knew who they were duh.... like i said im tempted to pay to see if my theory is right |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Your profile is your opportunity to present yourself and stand out from the crowd of single guys. Ask yourself, would you message a person with your profile?
I don't mean for it to sound harsh but the onus is on you as a single guy to give people a reason to message/chat as opposed to relying on them drawing it out of you.
So give 'em a reason "
totally right there and thats not harsh at all, i like your thinking |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know im new here but just wondering whats peoples problems as i get an adverage of about 10 views a day on my profile but yet not a single person apart from one actually took time to get to know me, is this the normal done thing on here"
You do realise it's probably other men don't you? |
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By *atr247Man
over a year ago
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On an average day the ratio of women couples : men viewing would be 1:5 so chances are it's lads that are looking. You won't know unless you sign up. It's not a case of "I joined therefore the easy ladies shall flock to me" at the end of the day it takes time and resilience and manners to get on on here. |
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