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How long do you leave it?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So, you meet a girl you like at a party, naturally you had a great time.
How long do you leave it before you make contact?
Obviously you want to show interest but not overly eager. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't play games.
If you like someone, tell them. A lot of people, myself included, at one time or another have let a person go that way.
Don't worry about playing it cool or being too eager because some unwritten 'rule' preaches it; just be yourself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Agree. Just text her to say hello & little chit chat to get things moving. The lady wouldn't have given you her number in first place if she wasn't interested in seeking you or hearing from you again. Good luck with it & don't go in all guns blazing  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely echo the above.
A message the following day. Nothing too heavy. No discussing having children or moving in but definitely say hello. Mention how you had a great night and enjoyed their company and would love to see her again soon. Suggest lunch to cure the sore heads or something if you were drinking together.
Definitely let it be known you didn't take the number for the sake of it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's an easy mistake to make. Just like accidental proposals.
You're from Cavan, drop a €2 coin and instantly you kneel down to pick it up. In the haze of alcohol and chatter chatter in the low light she mistakes the silver of the coin for a ring with no diamond in it (remember, the Cavan part)
And starts texting S.O.S. to her wing woman to come save her. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It's an easy mistake to make. Just like accidental proposals.
You're from Cavan, drop a €2 coin and instantly you kneel down to pick it up. In the haze of alcohol and chatter chatter in the low light she mistakes the silver of the coin for a ring with no diamond in it (remember, the Cavan part)
And starts texting S.O.S. to her wing woman to come save her. "
Would she still say yes knowing your a tight git from Cavan?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Definitely echo the above.
A message the following day. Nothing too heavy. No discussing having children or moving in but definitely say hello. Mention how you had a great night and enjoyed their company and would love to see her again soon. Suggest lunch to cure the sore heads or something if you were drinking together.
Definitely let it be known you didn't take the number for the sake of it. "
So I shouldn't talk about the wedding arrangements you mean !!   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Life's too short and precious for games. Forget all the rubbish you hear and read ...
If you want her don't play games...
Go get her...
Love conquers all... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wait 3 days
Bollucks lol
grow a pair... call her...
Love conquers all
# One love
Shhhh "
Who me 
Tonight my home town shows the world that love conquers all...
# One love |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wait 3 days
Bollucks lol
grow a pair... call her...
Love conquers all
# One love
Shhhh
Who me
Tonight my home town shows the world that love conquers all...
# One love"
One love |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't play games.
If you like someone, tell them. A lot of people, myself included, at one time or another have let a person go that way.
Don't worry about playing it cool or being too eager
because some unwritten 'rule' preaches it; just be yourself."
Totally agree  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So, you meet a girl you like at a party, naturally you had a great time.
How long do you leave it before you make contact?
Obviously you want to show interest but not overly eager. "
Of course you do why not !never hold back your loss if you you do  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I really hope that she is not on fab and sees your verification from the shemale lol "
Suppose it would be better having my last verification 3 years ago.
When you're in the glasshouse don't throw stones.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So?? Did you contact her
We're all waiting for the next instalment!!
It's like listening to my kids discussing their love lives "
I long ago stopped listening to that lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So?? Did you contact her
We're all waiting for the next instalment!!
It's like listening to my kids discussing their love lives "
I just hope he is taking my advice.. Is better to wait |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So?? Did you contact her
We're all waiting for the next instalment!!
It's like listening to my kids discussing their love lives
I just hope he is taking my advice.. Is better to wait "
But then we won't know til Wednesday.....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So?? Did you contact her
We're all waiting for the next instalment!!
It's like listening to my kids discussing their love lives
I just hope he is taking my advice.. Is better to wait
But then we won't know til Wednesday..... "
Meanwhile we can discuss what he should say or not.. It's important, after all it's the first message
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So?? Did you contact her
We're all waiting for the next instalment!!
It's like listening to my kids discussing their love lives
I just hope he is taking my advice.. Is better to wait
But then we won't know til Wednesday.....
Meanwhile we can discuss what he should say or not.. It's important, after all it's the first message
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So I shouldn't talk about where I do the weekly shopping? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ah here now, have ya not text that woman yet 
How did you get on with your latest verification? "
We dont care about his last verification - he didn't start a thread about it
Did you message your woman? ? ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ah here now, have ya not text that woman yet
How did you get on with your latest verification?
We dont care about his last verification - he didn't start a thread about it
Did you message your woman? ? ? "
We just concentrate on your story for now |
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