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over a year ago
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"Get the ladies to pick who to invite, and then wildcards, thats what a certain person did for his, worked brilliantly"
And we heard it was a great success, so much so we recommend this idea to another party organiser who is planning on inviting a select amount of single guys, originally as a first in, best dressed basis.
But even he has taken this idea onboard and is allowing the single ladies and some of female halves of the couples who are attending to choose which guys should come. |
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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago
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"Get the ladies to pick who to invite, and then wildcards, thats what a certain person did for his, worked brilliantly
And we heard it was a great success, so much so we recommend this idea to another party organiser who is planning on inviting a select amount of single guys, originally as a first in, best dressed basis.
But even he has taken this idea onboard and is allowing the single ladies and some of female halves of the couples who are attending to choose which guys should come. "
Totally its a fantastic way of doing it, at least that way the ladies know there might be someone of interest to them there  |
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By *ilderMan
over a year ago
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"Get the ladies to pick who to invite, and then wildcards, thats what a certain person did for his, worked brilliantly
And we heard it was a great success, so much so we recommend this idea to another party organiser who is planning on inviting a select amount of single guys, originally as a first in, best dressed basis.
But even he has taken this idea onboard and is allowing the single ladies and some of female halves of the couples who are attending to choose which guys should come.
Totally its a fantastic way of doing it, at least that way the ladies know there might be someone of interest to them there "
and there only a small number of the 'sorry the dog ate my bicycle' types  |
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"Get the ladies to pick who to invite, and then wildcards, thats what a certain person did for his, worked brilliantly
And we heard it was a great success, so much so we recommend this idea to another party organiser who is planning on inviting a select amount of single guys, originally as a first in, best dressed basis.
But even he has taken this idea onboard and is allowing the single ladies and some of female halves of the couples who are attending to choose which guys should come. "
does that make it fair on the single guys who really wanna go and have fun they already have it tough enough on fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Get the ladies to pick who to invite, and then wildcards, thats what a certain person did for his, worked brilliantly
And we heard it was a great success, so much so we recommend this idea to another party organiser who is planning on inviting a select amount of single guys, originally as a first in, best dressed basis.
But even he has taken this idea onboard and is allowing the single ladies and some of female halves of the couples who are attending to choose which guys should come. does that make it fair on the single guys who really wanna go and have fun they already have it tough enough on fab "
It s out the timewasters
The amount of events/parties I've been to over the years where hosts have taken a chance on single guys they didn't know, only for them not to show |
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"Get the ladies to pick who to invite, and then wildcards, thats what a certain person did for his, worked brilliantly
And we heard it was a great success, so much so we recommend this idea to another party organiser who is planning on inviting a select amount of single guys, originally as a first in, best dressed basis.
But even he has taken this idea onboard and is allowing the single ladies and some of female halves of the couples who are attending to choose which guys should come.
Totally its a fantastic way of doing it, at least that way the ladies know there might be someone of interest to them there
and there only a small number of the 'sorry the dog ate my bicycle' types "
Ah Jaysus Wilder that wasn't even your bike....those blue ones belong to Dublin City Council...!!  |
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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago
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"Get the ladies to pick who to invite, and then wildcards, thats what a certain person did for his, worked brilliantly
And we heard it was a great success, so much so we recommend this idea to another party organiser who is planning on inviting a select amount of single guys, originally as a first in, best dressed basis.
But even he has taken this idea onboard and is allowing the single ladies and some of female halves of the couples who are attending to choose which guys should come. does that make it fair on the single guys who really wanna go and have fun they already have it tough enough on fab "
If some single lads put more effort into their profiles, with better descriptions and pics and actually make an effort to try and go to socials like the one that was held by a single guy only 8 weeks on the site today, maybe they wouldnt have such a problem. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Get the ladies to pick who to invite, and then wildcards, thats what a certain person did for his, worked brilliantly
And we heard it was a great success, so much so we recommend this idea to another party organiser who is planning on inviting a select amount of single guys, originally as a first in, best dressed basis.
But even he has taken this idea onboard and is allowing the single ladies and some of female halves of the couples who are attending to choose which guys should come. does that make it fair on the single guys who really wanna go and have fun they already have it tough enough on fab "
The Vanilla club only allows meet verified single guys to attend. |
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"Get the ladies to pick who to invite, and then wildcards, thats what a certain person did for his, worked brilliantly
And we heard it was a great success, so much so we recommend this idea to another party organiser who is planning on inviting a select amount of single guys, originally as a first in, best dressed basis.
But even he has taken this idea onboard and is allowing the single ladies and some of female halves of the couples who are attending to choose which guys should come. does that make it fair on the single guys who really wanna go and have fun they already have it tough enough on fab
The Vanilla club only allows meet verified single guys to attend. "
i never ment non verified |
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"Get the ladies to pick who to invite, and then wildcards, thats what a certain person did for his, worked brilliantly
And we heard it was a great success, so much so we recommend this idea to another party organiser who is planning on inviting a select amount of single guys, originally as a first in, best dressed basis.
But even he has taken this idea onboard and is allowing the single ladies and some of female halves of the couples who are attending to choose which guys should come. does that make it fair on the single guys who really wanna go and have fun they already have it tough enough on fab If some single lads put more effort into their profiles, with better descriptions and pics and actually make an effort to try and go to socials like the one that was held by a single guy only 8 weeks on the site today, maybe they wouldnt have such a problem."
im been picked up wrong here i agree totally with what u say. i ment was they dont have the same level playing field as women and cpls do.. i think vanilla should decide rather than the single women choosing just have one nite when its 50/50 if u get my meaning |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's a good idea to have less restrictive rules for verified singles to attend. Decent lads understand playtime is not guaranteed although implied. It also gives more opportunities for ladies to meet good gents without the pressure of a small gathering meeting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Get the ladies to pick who to invite, and then wildcards, thats what a certain person did for his, worked brilliantly
And we heard it was a great success, so much so we recommend this idea to another party organiser who is planning on inviting a select amount of single guys, originally as a first in, best dressed basis.
But even he has taken this idea onboard and is allowing the single ladies and some of female halves of the couples who are attending to choose which guys should come. does that make it fair on the single guys who really wanna go and have fun they already have it tough enough on fab If some single lads put more effort into their profiles, with better descriptions and pics and actually make an effort to try and go to socials like the one that was held by a single guy only 8 weeks on the site today, maybe they wouldnt have such a problem.
im been picked up wrong here i agree totally with what u say. i ment was they dont have the same level playing field as women and cpls do.. i think vanilla should decide rather than the single women choosing just have one nite when its 50/50 if u get my meaning"
I beg to differ on one point, "level playing field" I (WB) was a single guy on here, and have met many, many good single guys, who like me and every other single guy on here and every other swingers site, started in the exact same place. I fondly believe you get out of fab exactly what you put in. I hope I'm not coming across as harsh or having a go.
And I know I've no real right to have say anything on a thread that's aimed at singles, and I could be wrong but I presume it will be 50/50 in number of guys to girls. In my experience it probably should be closer 75/25 or even 2/1 in favour of single guys. If our experience is anything to go by 
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the point i am trying to make here is if women choose who they want to bring isnt that just the same as a cpls nite with some genuine decent single guys on the sideline.. dont it defeat the purpose of a singles nite.
it wouldnt be fair either if men got to choose the women they want.. or am i the only person that thinks this way |
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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago
South Dublin Area |
"the point i am trying to make here is if women choose who they want to bring isnt that just the same as a cpls nite with some genuine decent single guys on the sideline.. dont it defeat the purpose of a singles nite.
it wouldnt be fair either if men got to choose the women they want.. or am i the only person that thinks this way "
I am not sure what you mean by couples, I am only going on what I saw and it worked perfectly, each single girl that wants to go, picks a single guy that they want and basically have to vouch for him to make sure hes reliable. Then, the rest of the single lads that have put them forward go into the wildcards and get picked at random. For this to work, you need people who will show up. |
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I'm seeing posts here saying quotas of 75/25 and 2-1 of guys to girls, I think it should be 50/50 or 1-1, I wouldn't have much interest in a singles party thats 75% guys.
I hope my maths makes sense lol.
Only allow well party verified people to attend to reduce the number of no shows.
Also as its a singles night, the entry fee for guys and ladies should be the same, guys shouldn't have to pay more.
Just some points I think ye should consider if ye do run a singles night  |
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"I'm seeing posts here saying quotas of 75/25 and 2-1 of guys to girls, I think it should be 50/50 or 1-1, I wouldn't have much interest in a singles party thats 75% guys.
I hope my maths makes sense lol.
Only allow well party verified people to attend to reduce the number of no shows.
Also as its a singles night, the entry fee for guys and ladies should be the same, guys shouldn't have to pay more.
Just some points I think ye should consider if ye do run a singles night "
Totally agree with you should be an even night ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm seeing posts here saying quotas of 75/25 and 2-1 of guys to girls, I think it should be 50/50 or 1-1, I wouldn't have much interest in a singles party thats 75% guys.
I hope my maths makes sense lol.
Only allow well party verified people to attend to reduce the number of no shows.
Also as its a singles night, the entry fee for guys and ladies should be the same, guys shouldn't have to pay more.
Just some points I think ye should consider if ye do run a singles night
Totally agree with you should be an even night !"
Agreed! |
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"I'm seeing posts here saying quotas of 75/25 and 2-1 of guys to girls, I think it should be 50/50 or 1-1, I wouldn't have much interest in a singles party thats 75% guys.
I hope my maths makes sense lol.
Only allow well party verified people to attend to reduce the number of no shows.
Also as its a singles night, the entry fee for guys and ladies should be the same, guys shouldn't have to pay more.
Just some points I think ye should consider if ye do run a singles night "
totally agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks to everyone for ur comments.we will take them on board and have a think but we will defo be running one in the very near future.
Xxxx"
Guys ye are experienced enough to know exactly how ye want to run this night..ye should choose the guest list..ye would have a list of previous no shows..others choosing might not have the same taste as each other... Best of luck with this though fair play |
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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago
South Dublin Area |
"I'm seeing posts here saying quotas of 75/25 and 2-1 of guys to girls, I think it should be 50/50 or 1-1, I wouldn't have much interest in a singles party thats 75% guys.
I hope my maths makes sense lol.
Only allow well party verified people to attend to reduce the number of no shows.
Also as its a singles night, the entry fee for guys and ladies should be the same, guys shouldn't have to pay more.
Just some points I think ye should consider if ye do run a singles night "
A good looking lad like you should have nothing to fear in a little more competition, 2/1 is the ideal ratio personally you wont get the single lady numbers up |
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"I'm seeing posts here saying quotas of 75/25 and 2-1 of guys to girls, I think it should be 50/50 or 1-1, I wouldn't have much interest in a singles party thats 75% guys.
I hope my maths makes sense lol.
Only allow well party verified people to attend to reduce the number of no shows.
Also as its a singles night, the entry fee for guys and ladies should be the same, guys shouldn't have to pay more.
Just some points I think ye should consider if ye do run a singles night
A good looking lad like you should have nothing to fear in a little more competition, 2/1 is the ideal ratio personally you wont get the single lady numbers up "
Lol thanks gemma  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If it's an actual proper singles Night than couples shouldn't get a say in who goes. Couples are couples it's different. It would be great to see a proper SINGLES NIGHT there's plenty of single guys and gals out there!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If it's an actual proper singles Night than couples shouldn't get a say in who goes. Couples are couples it's different. It would be great to see a proper SINGLES NIGHT there's plenty of single guys and gals out there!! "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If it's an actual proper singles Night than couples shouldn't get a say in who goes. Couples are couples it's different. It would be great to see a proper SINGLES NIGHT there's plenty of single guys and gals out there!! "
never said anything about couples having a say ..I was referring to the hosts they are a couple ..and hosted plenty of nights .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If it's an actual proper singles Night than couples shouldn't get a say in who goes. Couples are couples it's different. It would be great to see a proper SINGLES NIGHT there's plenty of single guys and gals out there!! never said anything about couples having a say ..I was referring to the hosts they are a couple ..and hosted plenty of nights .."
I never said you did. I was just stating my opinion on a SINGLES night as a single here myself.
Going forward if there was one being organised I'd love to go to it with genuine singles and not halves of couples. There's loads of singles on here. And it would be great if a night was just for singles it would be fun. |
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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago
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"If it's an actual proper singles Night than couples shouldn't get a say in who goes. Couples are couples it's different. It would be great to see a proper SINGLES NIGHT there's plenty of single guys and gals out there!! "
that sounds a little defensive |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If it's an actual proper singles Night than couples shouldn't get a say in who goes. Couples are couples it's different. It would be great to see a proper SINGLES NIGHT there's plenty of single guys and gals out there!! that sounds a little defensive "
Lol hardly hun it's all just harmless fun at the end of the day. No harm at all with a load of genuine sexy peeps getting together and getting dirty. That's what sexy singles nights are for |
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