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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So my fiancée was here as a single lady before and while I'm not the jealous type I do have a little bone to pick. I don't mind her old meets mailing us here saying hello welcome back blah blah but I am getting a little annoyed at the oh I played with your missus when she was last here. We did this that and the other thing.
What's the point of it does anyone know?
King |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So my fiancée was here as a single lady before and while I'm not the jealous type I do have a little bone to pick. I don't mind her old meets mailing us here saying hello welcome back blah blah but I am getting a little annoyed at the oh I played with your missus when she was last here. We did this that and the other thing.
What's the point of it does anyone know?
King"
Fellas should have the decorum not to get involved in this type of playground stuff. They are idiots, I suspect. Like a dog pissing on a tree to mark his spot, these lads are letting you know that they have been there before. Pretty juvenile. I'd discuss it with queen and tell her how you feel. I'd be blocking these lads King! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This type of stuff gives men a bad rap on here. Would they do it in real life? I doubt it... If I'd been confronted with this scenario in the past, I have smiled and said something along the lines of 'Ah, she was young and dumb' |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So my fiancée was here as a single lady before and while I'm not the jealous type I do have a little bone to pick. I don't mind her old meets mailing us here saying hello welcome back blah blah but I am getting a little annoyed at the oh I played with your missus when she was last here. We did this that and the other thing.
What's the point of it does anyone know?
King"
Just ignore. At the end of the day she said yes to marrying you. Not them. That alone says everything you need to know.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So my fiancée was here as a single lady before and while I'm not the jealous type I do have a little bone to pick. I don't mind her old meets mailing us here saying hello welcome back blah blah but I am getting a little annoyed at the oh I played with your missus when she was last here. We did this that and the other thing.
What's the point of it does anyone know?
King"
You sound like the jealous type to me if you don't mind me saying. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So my fiancée was here as a single lady before and while I'm not the jealous type I do have a little bone to pick. I don't mind her old meets mailing us here saying hello welcome back blah blah but I am getting a little annoyed at the oh I played with your missus when she was last here. We did this that and the other thing.
What's the point of it does anyone know?
KingFellas should have the decorum not to get involved in this type of playground stuff. They are idiots, I suspect. Like a dog pissing on a tree to mark his spot, these lads are letting you know that they have been there before. Pretty juvenile. I'd discuss it with queen and tell her how you feel. I'd be blocking these lads King! "
I get what your saying and tbh its not worth the block for it. I usually say that's nice or ask them how that's relevant in the first place |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So my fiancée was here as a single lady before and while I'm not the jealous type I do have a little bone to pick. I don't mind her old meets mailing us here saying hello welcome back blah blah but I am getting a little annoyed at the oh I played with your missus when she was last here. We did this that and the other thing.
What's the point of it does anyone know?
King You sound like the jealous type to me if you don't mind me saying."
No far from it. Would say that it's more childish on their part but then again a lot of childish crap on here |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So my fiancée was here as a single lady before and while I'm not the jealous type I do have a little bone to pick. I don't mind her old meets mailing us here saying hello welcome back blah blah but I am getting a little annoyed at the oh I played with your missus when she was last here. We did this that and the other thing.
What's the point of it does anyone know?
King
Just ignore. At the end of the day she said yes to marrying you. Not them. That alone says everything you need to know. "
Oh I know. I'm in no way insecure about our relationship. I'm just trying to figure out why the hell some feel the need to tell all about it in a mail. |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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I guess its a mixture of showing off, flexing muscles, reliving good times, territory marking, sharing experiences and probably some jealousy on their side that you got the king crown. I'd say it will stop soon once all those who felt the need to do it, did it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So my fiancée was here as a single lady before and while I'm not the jealous type I do have a little bone to pick. I don't mind her old meets mailing us here saying hello welcome back blah blah but I am getting a little annoyed at the oh I played with your missus when she was last here. We did this that and the other thing.
What's the point of it does anyone know?
King You sound like the jealous type to me if you don't mind me saying.
No far from it. Would say that it's more childish on their part but then again a lot of childish crap on here If you lie down with the dogs' you get up with the fleas."
Hmmm looking for a reaction and won't get one. Pats head. Good try pussycat.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So my fiancée was here as a single lady before and while I'm not the jealous type I do have a little bone to pick. I don't mind her old meets mailing us here saying hello welcome back blah blah but I am getting a little annoyed at the oh I played with your missus when she was last here. We did this that and the other thing.
What's the point of it does anyone know?
King"
This will probably crop up in the future best dealing with it now and let it go and get on with your lives |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So my fiancée was here as a single lady before and while I'm not the jealous type I do have a little bone to pick. I don't mind her old meets mailing us here saying hello welcome back blah blah but I am getting a little annoyed at the oh I played with your missus when she was last here. We did this that and the other thing.
What's the point of it does anyone know?
King You sound like the jealous type to me if you don't mind me saying.
No far from it. Would say that it's more childish on their part but then again a lot of childish crap on here If you lie down with the dogs' you get up with the fleas.
Hmmm looking for a reaction and won't get one. Pats head. Good try pussycat.
King"
Just saying what I think not looking for any reaction. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think you already know the reasons
Childish behaviour, jealousy and stupidity all together.
But I must say threads like this are a bit pointless and attention seeking in my opinion, just block and move on if you want to have a really mature attitude towards those people.
A. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Congratulations...
The important part is you and your fiancee are together and happy and I wish you every happiness for the future.
The noise from others is just that... noise it has no value and should just be ignored as the deluded ramblings of those inadequates who have no sense of concern for their fellow man or woman.
Be happy make each other happy live your dream... and wake up every morning and know you are both where you should be ...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think you already know the reasons
Childish behaviour, jealousy and stupidity all together.
But I must say threads like this are a bit pointless and attention seeking in my opinion, just block and move on if you want to have a really mature attitude towards those people.
A. "
Agree 
They got their reaction when you went to the bother of putting this on a post.
When you return messages, in a sense you are inviting conversation.
Just ignore and move on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think you already know the reasons
Childish behaviour, jealousy and stupidity all together.
But I must say threads like this are a bit pointless and attention seeking in my opinion, just block and move on if you want to have a really mature attitude towards those people.
A.
Agree
They got their reaction when you went to the bother of putting this on a post.
When you return messages, in a sense you are inviting conversation.
Just ignore and move on. "
What he said |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think you already know the reasons
Childish behaviour, jealousy and stupidity all together.
But I must say threads like this are a bit pointless and attention seeking in my opinion, just block and move on if you want to have a really mature attitude towards those people.
A. "
Just looking for peoples opinions. If it comes across as attention seeking that wasn't my aim whatsoever. Thank you for your advice
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So my fiancée was here as a single lady before and while I'm not the jealous type I do have a little bone to pick. I don't mind her old meets mailing us here saying hello welcome back blah blah but I am getting a little annoyed at the oh I played with your missus when she was last here. We did this that and the other thing.
What's the point of it does anyone know?
King"
To try and unsettle you. They want her back as she was, not in the evolved state. Be proud & know she's doing a lot more than 'this & that' with you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So my fiancée was here as a single lady before and while I'm not the jealous type I do have a little bone to pick. I don't mind her old meets mailing us here saying hello welcome back blah blah but I am getting a little annoyed at the oh I played with your missus when she was last here. We did this that and the other thing.
What's the point of it does anyone know?
King"
If its to wind you up its working.
Block them ,cut off any further contact.
And remember,they may have been with her once,it's you she is with now. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So my fiancée was here as a single lady before and while I'm not the jealous type I do have a little bone to pick. I don't mind her old meets mailing us here saying hello welcome back blah blah but I am getting a little annoyed at the oh I played with your missus when she was last here. We did this that and the other thing.
What's the point of it does anyone know?
King
If its to wind you up its working.
Block them ,cut off any further contact.
And remember,they may have been with her once,it's you she is with now."
I'm not bothered who she was with before me. I'm just trying to figure out why they feel the need to say it including the gory details lol
I would agree with above comments about marking territory and jealousy. It's pretty childish but then again site attracts childish behaviour.
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By *kmanMan
over a year ago
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"So my fiancée was here as a single lady before and while I'm not the jealous type I do have a little bone to pick. I don't mind her old meets mailing us here saying hello welcome back blah blah but I am getting a little annoyed at the oh I played with your missus when she was last here. We did this that and the other thing.
What's the point of it does anyone know?
King
If its to wind you up its working.
Block them ,cut off any further contact.
And remember,they may have been with her once,it's you she is with now.
I'm not bothered who she was with before me. I'm just trying to figure out why they feel the need to say it including the gory details lol
I would agree with above comments about marking territory and jealousy. It's pretty childish but then again site attracts childish behaviour.
King"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not sure what you are trying to achieve by creating a post about it, surely its going to add fuel to the fire now. "
Looking for opinions. Think that's allowed in the forums
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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago
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"Not sure what you are trying to achieve by creating a post about it, surely its going to add fuel to the fire now.
Looking for opinions. Think that's allowed in the forums
King"
I think i gave you one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So my fiancée was here as a single lady before and while I'm not the jealous type I do have a little bone to pick. I don't mind her old meets mailing us here saying hello welcome back blah blah but I am getting a little annoyed at the oh I played with your missus when she was last here. We did this that and the other thing.
What's the point of it does anyone know?
King
If its to wind you up its working.
Block them ,cut off any further contact.
And remember,they may have been with her once,it's you she is with now.
I'm not bothered who she was with before me. I'm just trying to figure out why they feel the need to say it including the gory details lol
I would agree with above comments about marking territory and jealousy. It's pretty childish but then again site attracts childish behaviour.
King"
Some people have no tact whatsoever...
So much for discretion, I know it doesn't bother you but seriously talk about childish...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think that because this is a swing site some guys might assume that you want to hear about your fiance as a single. I know Mr Fuddy would get excited about that but only if it was done in a respectful way, if these guys are just being dicks then not only is it rude to you but also to tour fiance as discretion and respect should play a big part in this lifestyle unless stated that you want or care for neither. We have had the unfortunate pleasure of a few disrespectful guys and girls and the best way to deal with them is to just block them.
Rebecca
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