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Ok.. I'm jus wondering what you ladies wear when ur meeting for a coffee.. I got some feedback from a coffee meet I had few months back.. told me I looked scruffy and made no effort.. now I was wearing a pair of jeans and a nice casual top and runners as I was driving.. didn't have any makeup on as I don't wear much of it and I don't see why I should try to pretend I'm something I'm not... Am I wrong in thinking this way?? |
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over a year ago
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Wait?!?! Hold on just a minute now - you mean you went for a coffee and weren't wearing a low cut top, a short skirt giving a flash of stockings and six inch heels.
Outrageous OP ! Don't you know that's minimum expectation for coffee meets !?   |
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"Wait?!?! Hold on just a minute now - you mean you went for a coffee and weren't wearing a low cut top, a short skirt giving a flash of stockings and six inch heels.
Outrageous OP ! Don't you know that's minimum expectation for coffee meets !? "
Seriously I think that's what he expected... And a face plastered wit make up don't forget...  |
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I'm a fairly casual dresser myself but that doesn't mean scruffy. My clothes are tidy and clean, I'm showered with brushed teeth and hair.
If he doesn't like the overall look of you, fair enough. That's what coffee meets are for.
Don't let that one person put doubt in your head about how you dress. |
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"Ok.. I'm jus wondering what you ladies wear when ur meeting for a coffee.. I got some feedback from a coffee meet I had few months back.. told me I looked scruffy and made no effort.. now I was wearing a pair of jeans and a nice casual top and runners as I was driving.. didn't have any makeup on as I don't wear much of it and I don't see why I should try to pretend I'm something I'm not... Am I wrong in thinking this way??"
Exactly as you described, that's what I'd wear. Smart/casual. I don't see the need to go ott.
That meet, he sounds like an ass  |
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"Ok.. I'm jus wondering what you ladies wear when ur meeting for a coffee.. I got some feedback from a coffee meet I had few months back.. told me I looked scruffy and made no effort.. now I was wearing a pair of jeans and a nice casual top and runners as I was driving.. didn't have any makeup on as I don't wear much of it and I don't see why I should try to pretend I'm something I'm not... Am I wrong in thinking this way??"
Jes a woman could come for a coffee meet dressed in silage bale wrapping for all i'd care and I would be happy enough. If she's good craic on a coffee meet and you can chat away to her then what more would any Man want? |
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Well, how you said the most important thing it's be yourself and feel comfortable with what you wearing.
About your question? I don't do much coffee meets, I like socials and parties, but when I decide to go for a coffee meet or just a meet I usually go how I feel that day can be casual, neat, or sometimes I feel like bit like sexy dress depending the time and place of the meet . But again I pay a lot a attention to details and how I look from head to toe... That's just me. 
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"Casually dressed
Sometimes jeans
Sometimes a dress
Sorry the suspenders and sexy outfit is for the meet only "
Shush, you'll ruin the delusions of those who think women dress like that every day. |
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"Speedos 
A smaller size please "
Ah they're fairly skimpy. They're more like a thong than speedos. Sometimes my ballsack pops out. It's something of a conversation starter though so I don't really mind.  |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"Speedos
A smaller size please
Ah they're fairly skimpy. They're more like a thong than speedos. Sometimes my ballsack pops out. It's something of a conversation starter though so I don't really mind. "
Do you shave your gear for a coffee meet? |
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"Speedos
A smaller size please
Ah they're fairly skimpy. They're more like a thong than speedos. Sometimes my ballsack pops out. It's something of a conversation starter though so I don't really mind.
Do you shave your gear for a coffee meet? "
Only on one side. I like to mix it up a little..keep the element of surprise! |
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"Casually dressed
Sometimes jeans
Sometimes a dress
Sorry the suspenders and sexy outfit is for the meet only
Shush, you'll ruin the delusions of those who think women dress like that every day."
Did i mention the dresses are short  |
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I wear jeans and a top but maybe loose the runnners . Id have another pair shoes in my car so that sorts that. But yes sum expect short dresses at 11 in the morning. Sum guys tend to forget we have real lifes school drop offs work etc so no the dresses are left for night time only !! |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"Smaller than speedos! Surely not!
Sometimes I just put them on and stand in front of the mirror for an hour marvelling at how big my cock looks in them. They hate me in Marks and Spencer.
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Like u shop in marks and Spencer |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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I think I'd go and do a little effort even for a coffee meet. That doesn't mean short dress and stilettos but I'd make sure I look nice with some sexy touch to it. By the end of the day you want to make some sort of impression. No?
But then what would I know, I don't do coffee meets.... |
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"Smaller than speedos! Surely not!
Sometimes I just put them on and stand in front of the mirror for an hour marvelling at how big my cock looks in them. They hate me in Marks and Spencer.
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Show me Mick |
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"I think I'd go and do a little effort even for a coffee meet. That doesn't mean short dress and stilettos but I'd make sure I look nice with some sexy touch to it. By the end of the day you want to make some sort of impression. No?
But then what would I know, I don't do coffee meets...."
Have to agree with DH, some effort would be made to look nice, probably the same as if I was off out shopping. Which is what I usually do when meeting for a coffee. |
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"Smaller than speedos! Surely not!
Sometimes I just put them on and stand in front of the mirror for an hour marvelling at how big my cock looks in them. They hate me in Marks and Spencer.
Show me Mick "
Woohoo! Cock pic on the way! |
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"Smaller than speedos! Surely not!
Sometimes I just put them on and stand in front of the mirror for an hour marvelling at how big my cock looks in them. They hate me in Marks and Spencer.
Like u shop in marks and Spencer "
Stop hassling me, peasant! |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"Smaller than speedos! Surely not!
Sometimes I just put them on and stand in front of the mirror for an hour marvelling at how big my cock looks in them. They hate me in Marks and Spencer.
Like u shop in marks and Spencer
Stop hassling me, peasant! "
Jeese they let anyone in to M&S these days |
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I'm usually meeting from work so on my bike and difficult to dress up anyway.
To be honest I never notice what the guy is wearing (until he leaves ad I'm watching his ass)
But anyway my thoughts on coffee meets are about chemistry and hygiene. So 'scruffy' to me would be greasy hair, greasy skin, bad teeth, bad breath, dirty fingernails, smelly clothes - one or more of them.
I'm never any of them btw
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"Smaller than speedos! Surely not!
Sometimes I just put them on and stand in front of the mirror for an hour marvelling at how big my cock looks in them. They hate me in Marks and Spencer.
Like u shop in marks and Spencer
Stop hassling me, peasant!
Jeese they let anyone in to M&S these days "
M&S = Mick & Speedos? |
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"I wear jeans and a top but maybe loose the runnners . Id have another pair shoes in my car so that sorts that. But yes sum expect short dresses at 11 in the morning. Sum guys tend to forget we have real lifes school drop offs work etc so no the dresses are left for night time only !!"
I've worn my work boots to coffee meets in the past as they were during my working day. If that's a problem for someone it doesn't really bother me. I meet people because of who they are, not what they're wearing. I really don't care once they're not wearing a bozo the clown outfit unless they are actually bozo the clown. |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"I'm usually meeting from work so on my bike and difficult to dress up anyway.
To be honest I never notice what the guy is wearing (until he leaves ad I'm watching his ass)
But anyway my thoughts on coffee meets are about chemistry and hygiene. So 'scruffy' to me would be greasy hair, greasy skin, bad teeth, bad breath, dirty fingernails, smelly clothes - one or more of them.
I'm never any of them btw
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Ffs u got wear a skirt on a bike |
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"Smaller than speedos! Surely not!
Sometimes I just put them on and stand in front of the mirror for an hour marvelling at how big my cock looks in them. They hate me in Marks and Spencer.
Like u shop in marks and Spencer
Stop hassling me, peasant!
Jeese they let anyone in to M&S these days "
Jealousy is so ugly in an old man! |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"Smaller than speedos! Surely not!
Sometimes I just put them on and stand in front of the mirror for an hour marvelling at how big my cock looks in them. They hate me in Marks and Spencer.
Like u shop in marks and Spencer
Stop hassling me, peasant!
Jeese they let anyone in to M&S these days
M&S = Mick & Speedos? "
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"I'm usually meeting from work so on my bike and difficult to dress up anyway.
To be honest I never notice what the guy is wearing (until he leaves ad I'm watching his ass)
But anyway my thoughts on coffee meets are about chemistry and hygiene. So 'scruffy' to me would be greasy hair, greasy skin, bad teeth, bad breath, dirty fingernails, smelly clothes - one or more of them.
I'm never any of them btw
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I've met you in your work/bike gear and you're certainly not scruffy |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"Smaller than speedos! Surely not!
Sometimes I just put them on and stand in front of the mirror for an hour marvelling at how big my cock looks in them. They hate me in Marks and Spencer.
Like u shop in marks and Spencer
Stop hassling me, peasant!
Jeese they let anyone in to M&S these days
Jealousy is so ugly in an old man! "
And speedos aren't  |
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"I'm usually meeting from work so on my bike and difficult to dress up anyway.
To be honest I never notice what the guy is wearing (until he leaves ad I'm watching his ass)
But anyway my thoughts on coffee meets are about chemistry and hygiene. So 'scruffy' to me would be greasy hair, greasy skin, bad teeth, bad breath, dirty fingernails, smelly clothes - one or more of them.
I'm never any of them btw
Ffs u got wear a skirt on a bike "
Leathers do cj??  |
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"Smaller than speedos! Surely not!
Sometimes I just put them on and stand in front of the mirror for an hour marvelling at how big my cock looks in them. They hate me in Marks and Spencer.
Like u shop in marks and Spencer
Stop hassling me, peasant!
Jeese they let anyone in to M&S these days
Jealousy is so ugly in an old man!
And speedos aren't "
Lol, see... There's that jealousy again! You're just pissed off that you didn't think of it first! |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"I'm usually meeting from work so on my bike and difficult to dress up anyway.
To be honest I never notice what the guy is wearing (until he leaves ad I'm watching his ass)
But anyway my thoughts on coffee meets are about chemistry and hygiene. So 'scruffy' to me would be greasy hair, greasy skin, bad teeth, bad breath, dirty fingernails, smelly clothes - one or more of them.
I'm never any of them btw
Ffs u got wear a skirt on a bike
Leathers do cj?? "
Oh sweet devine tight ones with zippers |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"Smaller than speedos! Surely not!
Sometimes I just put them on and stand in front of the mirror for an hour marvelling at how big my cock looks in them. They hate me in Marks and Spencer.
Like u shop in marks and Spencer
Stop hassling me, peasant!
Jeese they let anyone in to M&S these days
Jealousy is so ugly in an old man!
And speedos aren't
Lol, see... There's that jealousy again! You're just pissed off that you didn't think of it first! "
Gutted I am  |
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"I'm usually meeting from work so on my bike and difficult to dress up anyway.
To be honest I never notice what the guy is wearing (until he leaves ad I'm watching his ass)
But anyway my thoughts on coffee meets are about chemistry and hygiene. So 'scruffy' to me would be greasy hair, greasy skin, bad teeth, bad breath, dirty fingernails, smelly clothes - one or more of them.
I'm never any of them btw
Ffs u got wear a skirt on a bike
Leathers do cj?? "
Are you like the Zovirax girl who shakes perfect hair out of her helmet?  I hate helmet hair. |
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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago
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I have rocked up in a suit and have often rocked up in the snickers. Both looks have their fans.
But im always clean, tidy, and well kept.
Its a coffee, so once she comfortable and happy to be there i dont care what she is wearing.
Some people are really clueless. |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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I've worn my work boots to coffee meets in the past as they were during my working day. If that's a problem for someone it doesn't really bother me. I meet people because of who they are, not what they're wearing. I really don't care once they're not wearing a bozo the clown outfit unless they are actually bozo the clown. "
Oh sweet divine.... boots and speedos.... Could you by any chance take a pic of yourself when looking into the mirror at M&S and send it to me? |
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"Smaller than speedos! Surely not!
Sometimes I just put them on and stand in front of the mirror for an hour marvelling at how big my cock looks in them. They hate me in Marks and Spencer.
Like u shop in marks and Spencer
Stop hassling me, peasant!
Jeese they let anyone in to M&S these days
Jealousy is so ugly in an old man!
And speedos aren't
Lol, see... There's that jealousy again! You're just pissed off that you didn't think of it first!
Gutted I am "
Don't worry, I'll let you borrow mine. You might need to rinse them off before wearing them outside the house though |
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I've worn my work boots to coffee meets in the past as they were during my working day. If that's a problem for someone it doesn't really bother me. I meet people because of who they are, not what they're wearing. I really don't care once they're not wearing a bozo the clown outfit unless they are actually bozo the clown.
Oh sweet divine.... boots and speedos.... Could you by any chance take a pic of yourself when looking into the mirror at M&S and send it to me? "
I'm on the way to Liffey Valley as we speak |
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"Ok.. I'm jus wondering what you ladies wear when ur meeting for a coffee.. I got some feedback from a coffee meet I had few months back.. told me I looked scruffy and made no effort.. now I was wearing a pair of jeans and a nice casual top and runners as I was driving.. didn't have any makeup on as I don't wear much of it and I don't see why I should try to pretend I'm something I'm not... Am I wrong in thinking this way??"
Sounds a bit like he expected more than coffee and didn't get it. He should of had a fancy flavoured coffee instead of a straight no bullsh*t american....
Sounds like you were dressed appropriately OP. If he doesn't like it that's his choice but to be rude is disrespectful. |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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I've worn my work boots to coffee meets in the past as they were during my working day. If that's a problem for someone it doesn't really bother me. I meet people because of who they are, not what they're wearing. I really don't care once they're not wearing a bozo the clown outfit unless they are actually bozo the clown.
Oh sweet divine.... boots and speedos.... Could you by any chance take a pic of yourself when looking into the mirror at M&S and send it to me?
I'm on the way to Liffey Valley as we speak "
Bsssss right now I wished I were one of those busy women wearing business deux pieces and buying their long out of vitamins lunch lettuce at M&S....
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By *ohn400Man
over a year ago
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I dont think any man worries what a girl has on for a coffee meet up...a good shower before you meet is more important than clothes / the clothes will probally be thrown one side anyway !! |
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It's too much like hard work pretending to be something your not.
Be yourself it's who you are meant to be and if others can't see your true worth it's their loss and probably your lucky break.
As for dress codes...dont try to fit into what you think you should wear. If your meeting someone who can't see past the clothes to who you are then it's their problem not yours....
I hope future meets go better for you
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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago
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"I dont think any man worries what a girl has on for a coffee meet up...a good shower before you meet is more important than clothes / the clothes will probally be thrown one side anyway !!"
dont you get thrown out of the coffee shop for taking your clothes off ?? |
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I always make a effort for a coffee meet, I expect the same not often get it though...
Some women can rock up in jeans and runners and look stunning!
I'm not a fan of work wear tho..unless your a fireman |
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I don't mind what the person has on, it's usually whatever they wear for work as I'm a daytimer.
I've met in uniform, jeans, dress.,
Just depends.
Once they're clean I'm happy. It's not the clothes I'm meeting, it's the person. |
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"Smaller than speedos! Surely not!
Sometimes I just put them on and stand in front of the mirror for an hour marvelling at how big my cock looks in them. They hate me in Marks and Spencer.
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Your a scream this made me laugh
I'm surprised you don't be naked thou |
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I do agree casual dressy smart or sexy wear to coffee meets whatever your comfy in but I'm sorry OP I'd never wear trainers to anything swing associated a nice pair of pumps would have been handy to slip on with your jeans ...just my take on it |
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"Ok.. I'm jus wondering what you ladies wear when ur meeting for a coffee.. I got some feedback from a coffee meet I had few months back.. told me I looked scruffy and made no effort.. now I was wearing a pair of jeans and a nice casual top and runners as I was driving.. didn't have any makeup on as I don't wear much of it and I don't see why I should try to pretend I'm something I'm not... Am I wrong in thinking this way??"
Nope, sounds perfect to me. Coffee IS casual and should be treated as such - the point is to see if you have a spark with someone and this should be obvious when you are chatting. Just my take anyway. |
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"I do agree casual dressy smart or sexy wear to coffee meets whatever your comfy in but I'm sorry OP I'd never wear trainers to anything swing associated a nice pair of pumps would have been handy to slip on with your jeans ...just my take on it "
Jilly u can wear what u want. When am i buying you coffee |
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"I do agree casual dressy smart or sexy wear to coffee meets whatever your comfy in but I'm sorry OP I'd never wear trainers to anything swing associated a nice pair of pumps would have been handy to slip on with your jeans ...just my take on it
Jilly u can wear what u want. When am i buying you coffee "
Normally just a smile hope you can keep eye contact |
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"I do agree casual dressy smart or sexy wear to coffee meets whatever your comfy in but I'm sorry OP I'd never wear trainers to anything swing associated a nice pair of pumps would have been handy to slip on with your jeans ...just my take on it
Jilly u can wear what u want. When am i buying you coffee
Normally just a smile hope you can keep eye contact "
Thats impossible i am afraid my eyes tend to wander an awful lot. |
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Last social meet I had I wore a hoody, jeans and Vans. No make up as I rarely wear it. I was comfortable so was able to be myself.
I was clean and presentable.
I'm sure to some I look scruffy and too casual, but that's just me |
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Sounded like he definitely wanted a little more...apart from the runner's every thing sounded like i would wear, i have some converse that i like with jeans but for a coffee id have probaly worn even a little pump, i dont do heels in the day lol |
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"Ok.. I'm jus wondering what you ladies wear when ur meeting for a coffee.. I got some feedback from a coffee meet I had few months back.. told me I looked scruffy and made no effort.. now I was wearing a pair of jeans and a nice casual top and runners as I was driving.. didn't have any makeup on as I don't wear much of it and I don't see why I should try to pretend I'm something I'm not... Am I wrong in thinking this way??"
Last meet I had I was wearing a rugby shirt and jeans and she was dressed casual also which I prefer. I would never call anyone scruffy for casual dress |
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"Last social meet I had I wore a hoody, jeans and Vans. No make up as I rarely wear it. I was comfortable so was able to be myself.
I was clean and presentable.
I'm sure to some I look scruffy and too casual, but that's just me "
Well ya that's the way I was thinking... Plus I need to wear runners as my ankles are very weak due to a car accident and I have trouble wit my bk so can't wear heels.. again from d accident.. I was clean and presentable.. guess he doesn't like the casual look.. but I am who I am and ain't gonna change that for nobody |
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"Ok.. I'm jus wondering what you ladies wear when ur meeting for a coffee.. I got some feedback from a coffee meet I had few months back.. told me I looked scruffy and made no effort.. now I was wearing a pair of jeans and a nice casual top and runners as I was driving.. didn't have any makeup on as I don't wear much of it and I don't see why I should try to pretend I'm something I'm not... Am I wrong in thinking this way??
Last meet I had I was wearing a rugby shirt and jeans and she was dressed casual also which I prefer. I would never call anyone scruffy for casual dress "
At d end of d day it's all about being urself isn't it.. dats who there goin to see.. you for who u are... |
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I met my fiancée from here. First time we met for coffee I was in snickers and a hoody due to only finishing work. Herself wore jeans a vest and cardigan. Still found her hot as fuck. I couldnt stop saying sorry for the state i was in. Clothes don't make the woman in my opinion
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By (user no longer on site)
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OP you are right of course because there is no right or wrong way to dress. Everyone dresses differently in life in general so we will not all dress the same for meets. I could be in work attire, gym wear, or casual wear, whatever suits the time of day and weather. Though, I will be wearing something sexy underneath though but that just to make me feel sexy. I dress for myself, so if I feel sexy and confident it won't matter what I am wearing. Never had any complaints. Dress how you want OP, that my opinion  |
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"Last social meet I had I wore a hoody, jeans and Vans. No make up as I rarely wear it. I was comfortable so was able to be myself.
I was clean and presentable.
I'm sure to some I look scruffy and too casual, but that's just me
Well ya that's the way I was thinking... Plus I need to wear runners as my ankles are very weak due to a car accident and I have trouble wit my bk so can't wear heels.. again from d accident.. I was clean and presentable.. guess he doesn't like the casual look.. but I am who I am and ain't gonna change that for nobody "
I can't wear heels cos I look like a d*unk toddler walking in them, it's a skill I've never mastered and have no desire too.
I'm sure if a guy saw me in heels, he'd wish I was wearing my cons lol |
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"Ok.. I'm jus wondering what you ladies wear when ur meeting for a coffee.. I got some feedback from a coffee meet I had few months back.. told me I looked scruffy and made no effort.. now I was wearing a pair of jeans and a nice casual top and runners as I was driving.. didn't have any makeup on as I don't wear much of it and I don't see why I should try to pretend I'm something I'm not... Am I wrong in thinking this way??"
Did he make much of an effort? Would you have taken it further?
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Personally as a coffee meet is usually a first time meeting someone, I would rather both of us felt comfortable as it can be daunting enough meeting someone new.
I see no problem with what you were wearing, I'd normally dress smart casual for a coffee meet (smart jeans and either a shirt or jumper.
I like to see people how they normally would be, the sexy clothing is for nights out and meets |
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"Ok.. I'm jus wondering what you ladies wear when ur meeting for a coffee.. I got some feedback from a coffee meet I had few months back.. told me I looked scruffy and made no effort.. now I was wearing a pair of jeans and a nice casual top and runners as I was driving.. didn't have any makeup on as I don't wear much of it and I don't see why I should try to pretend I'm something I'm not... Am I wrong in thinking this way??"
What a dick..I suppose he had his tits out and all |
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