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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Lately the process of messaging someone has gotten me down.the usual chit chat and then face pics to see if its worth carrying on.then to discover you or youre partner isnt attracted to one or both (couples).then the awkward delay in replying  its gotten to a stage where we rarely mail someone now even if we like the profile and we have quite a large hotlist.we actually dont mind being the ones thats being rejected but just hate being the bad guys so to speak who reject.partys and events are more our thing where we can meet people face to face but unfortunately like most here its difficult to get away .Any advice guys ..? |
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We ve found the same problem ,very rarely we ve come across a couple that we re both attracted to .We find parties a better playground to be honest and yes it's difficult to get away but so worth it when it works out for all involved .Dont give up tho ,we have found a sexy couple and are meeting them soon so they are out there ,just gotta keep the faith  |
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"We ve found the same problem ,very rarely we ve come across a couple that we re both attracted to .We find parties a better playground to be honest and yes it's difficult to get away but so worth it when it works out for all involved .Dont give up tho ,we have found a sexy couple and are meeting them soon so they are out there ,just gotta keep the faith "
oh not giving up lol.just have to find what works best for us.I know others prefer mailing people to meet rather that going to partys/events but we have met people at events who were wonderful and from their profile we mighty have been interested in beforehand.just have to find a balance between both. |
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"We ve found the same problem ,very rarely we ve come across a couple that we re both attracted to .We find parties a better playground to be honest and yes it's difficult to get away but so worth it when it works out for all involved .Dont give up tho ,we have found a sexy couple and are meeting them soon so they are out there ,just gotta keep the faith oh not giving up lol.just have to find what works best for us.I know others prefer mailing people to meet rather that going to partys/events but we have met people at events who were wonderful and from their profile we mighty have been interested in beforehand.just have to find a balance between both."
My observation of forums is that people seem far more relaxed to play with someone at a party. The whole process of chatting on here is 100 x harder than when sitting together at a social/party where your mind is also ready for potential play. It's not designed for natural conversation. There are many more distractions, messages, statuses, fabbed pics, hot pics and one isn't prepared to play at the time of chatting...i could go on. I usually give 2 weeks for chat and in that time if a meet isn't arranged then it usually won't happen, that's been my experience. There are exceptions when they are 3 or 4 hrs away but I'mrreferring to locals. Also a parties you'll have people there whom you'd not normally consider because of location....now they're on your lap so to speak. |
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parties are good as they a good way to meet people , but its fun we prefer , not too much into the social side as much as we use too but alot on here just want to socialise and have a few too many to drink unfortunately , even at parties , have thought about packing it in on a few occassion but we will see what happens and keep looking 
