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By *eehee161 OP Woman
over a year ago
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Quick question. Just found out that one guy I am texting caused hassle for another poor woman. Is there any way that potential meets can be privately discussed. Maybe contact last person who verifies etc. Maybe not good idea but does anybody have any suggestion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't believe all you hear many here tell you storys don't meet this one or that one and some even are so possessive they will tell you anything ... Make your own judgement when you met the guy, if it feels wrong to go meet him go by your gut not by stories you hear  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Quick question. Just found out that one guy I am texting caused hassle for another poor woman. Is there any way that potential meets can be privately discussed. Maybe contact last person who verifies etc. Maybe not good idea but does anybody have any suggestion."
I'm wondering how you found out such a thing? Do you personally know and trust the source, or is it just one person's word against another's? I agree with the advice given, meet in a safe public place, and make your own mind up about someone, rather than take someone else's word.
I'm a firm believer in gut instinct, but in this case I wonder if you already felt uneasy or if that came about after you heard a rumour? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Kind of felt unsure from day one. Always seemed to be annoyed when I didn't answer back. The person who told me has nothing to gain by telling me."
If you're going by your own gut and nothing else, then trust it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People get jealous and possessive at times on here. It's human nature. There is also rejection and the emotions that kicks up. People have agendas and the rumours sometimes serve those agendas.
I am a big believer in treating people as they treat me.
All that being said, you have to protect yourself. Always.
A social meet in a public place is a good idea and it helps build trust |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Kind of felt unsure from day one. Always seemed to be annoyed when I didn't answer back. The person who told me has nothing to gain by telling me.
If you're going by your own gut and nothing else, then trust it."
As usual sally is right trust your gut |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's three side to every story, yours, there's and somewhere in the middle is the truth. Secondly, trust your gut, it's always 100% true that if you get that iffy feeling, then get out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People here have their own agendas and there have been similar threads about people discussing prospective meets with those they thought they could trust only to discover that advice being given comes solely from that individuals own perspective and may therefore lack a level of objectivity.
The only persons judgement you should ever trust about any meet is your own.
If you feel unsure... then what is lost by waiting until you either feel confident about the meet...or not as the case may be.
Whichever you choose I wish you good luck and an outcome that works for you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Trust your gut!!! I have learned hard from this, have even given a 2nd chance and was still let down,if that niggling feeling there from the start trust it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We got a message recently from a single girl asking for a reference, for want of a better word, about a possible meet she was planning with a single guy.
We hadn't met the guy, but some of our good friends on here spoke very highly of him and would always recommend him, and that's exactly what we told her. |
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